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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How can I stop being in love with a straight guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

30 September 2012 (?) - I’m a young gay guy and I feel like a crap right now. I’m in love with my straight classmate. It’s so hard for me that I’m literary breaking down. Of course, he doesn’t love me back. He has a girlfriend, and seems that he’s happy with her. I know I ...

He isn't ready for a relationship, but I really like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I need help or advice .There's this guy in my English class that i really like .he already knows that i like him and he told me that he just wasn't ready for a relationship just yet due to past ones ,and that he just wanted to be friends. we are ...

I like my best friend's brother, but should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Okay so my best friends brother is amazingly cute and I sadly like him alot and he works down the street from my job and with out fail he comes and visits me at least to 4 times a week with out fail . He doesn't even work.on saturdays and he'll ...

Could my comforting her have started something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - So there's this girl on my Cross Country team I really like. She's pretty quiet and never really initiates conversation, but she's really nice when you get her started. A couple weeks ago, she fell apart after a race (took a wrong turn, and she's ...

I'm in love with a guy, who loves someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I have this best friend and I am head over heels in love with him. He makes me so happy and i just want to be with him. He was upset today and I asked him why. I finally got through to him and he told me. He said that he has been in this long ...

Help for a shy girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I hope this doesn't come out too long, i still feel like i left things out. If there's mistakes sorry this was written on my phone! So last year this guy had a crush on me. He came up to my table one day saying that there were hot girls here a...

I have very very strong feelings for a guy at work, but he's my manager.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I have very very strong feelings for a guy at work. But he's my manager. For the past 3 years I have been crazy about him. I have tried my best to hide it. After all, it's not fair for someone to feel that kind of pressure. After the first year of ...

I'm a Scorpio, she's a Taurus. I want her ans she isn't at all interested, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - for those who don't believe in astology don't even come a-knockin'... it seems there is nothing i can do to get her interest. she's a taurus, april 27, and i'm a scorpio guy, october 29, and whenever i've tried to get her to chat with me, she seem...

I'm seeing my crush after years what if my feelings return for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I need a bit of advice and second opinion in a situation that's come up in my life. First, a bit of back story. I am a gay woman in a serious relationship. I have been with my partner for two years. We have a flat together and are planning in ...

We were getting close after she broke up with her boyfriend but now she's said she isnt sure if she can love anyone else. What is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - So here am I in a new dilemma... The situation is like this, she isn't with her bf anymore because he betrayed her.. She had a 5yr relationship with him.. But now she ended up with him! Its been 5months we have been with each other.. (not in ...

Sweet comment from this cutie! What did it mean, though?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - I have a general inquiry about something this cutie told me. She's in her Mid-40's, slim, and is very cute. At any rate, yesterday, she told me that she enjoys having discussions with me about her stewardess job. I wonder if she’s slipped a...

I've decided not to speak to this guy anymore after he said when he's with me he feels like he's talking to a baboon. Am I right in deciding to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Before I go into details as to why I'm asking this question. Let me first ask the question aha, exactly how right am I for deciding this? You see, I am a sixteen year old girl, you know I'm young but a lot of people, well, grown ups say I'm matu...

Am I wasting my time hoping he will change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met this man almost five years ago. At the time I was 20 and in between relationships. We went on a couple dates and agreed to keep it "low key and simple". Then I met someone that I wanted a relationship with and cut it off with him. That r...

Should I go and see him or write him off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met a guy one night that I really liked and we arranged to meet up again. The date went well until he said that he wasn't looking for a relationship and he came on a little strong so I rejected him as I didn't feel ready to take such a step. I ...

We're both attracted to one another but I'm concerned I may be rushing her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - There's a lovely girl I am interested in, and she in me (she has said so before). Problem is that her last boyfriend cheated on her. Things haven't been going well between us lately, and I realise that I might be pushing her, when she isn't r...

Is my boyfriend keeping his options open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I am not sure what to think. My boyfriend of six months is flirting with one of his clients, whom he also considers a friend. I have asked him if he finds her attractive and he has answered she is beautiful. They laugh a lot together from what I ...

Suddenly he doesn't seem as interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy i like for around 2 months, we've met and things were going well but all of a sudden he's stopped texting me as much and his texts don't sound like he actually wants to talk to me. What does this mean?...

I miss my crush but he's going out with girl who doesn't like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - i have an crush on this boy but he has a girlfriend who is in my class and I've known her since we were like three and for some reason she dosent like me. Anyway i was friends with her boyfriend and had a crush on him(they were not going out then) ...

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4233 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the...

How do I start talking to him and giving him signals that I like him?

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23 September 2012 (F) - please read this sorry it's long :( im in year 9 and i'v likes this guy from my primary school since year 7. we used to have the greatest conection ever, though i was to young to understand what love was in primary school (he really liked me in ye...

How can I tell my crush that I'm still angry with him? Or is it best to leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - After two years of not talking to my crush, I have been seated next to him. He used me to get rid of another girl, and pretended to have feelings for me. He is now pretending nothing ever happened. How can I tell him that I am still angry with hi...

Is he like this around me because he might feel something for me, or because he's not interested in the least?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I used to have a crush on one of my brothers friends, J. At one point he showed signs of liking me (I caught him looking at me all the time, he'd be talking to a group of people but looking at me, jump on me to wake me up, ask my parents about me, ...

Have I missed my chance with my high school crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, There is a girl that I like in high school. Ill name her "E". E likes me too, I know because we would often stare at each other for more than 30 seconds back in high school. she is so pretty and nice, but I am not sure if she hate...

Is she trying to get my attention? Does she have a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - I'm 30. She's 20. We work at the same office block, but not in the same office. For many months, she's walked past me and just said hiya. But if I'm ever near her she's very shy and quiet, almost to the point where I feel like I am making her aw...

Torn between 2 men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - My sister has opened a shop 15 minutes away from her house so i help her to sell. I met a guy who wants to date me and i thought he was just a player and i didn't take it seriously but i gave him my number. Two days after that i met another guy whom ...

Caught feelings for a guy but things seem different after the night we finally spent together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hello everyone, this might be long but please help me out. Around august of last year some guy friend requested me on facebook. He wasnt just a random because we had about 45 mutual friends and he lives a few towns(15 minutes) away from me. An...

I'm so confused about my feelings. Is there a chance it could work with him? What are your thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - So here's some background: I'm 15, a sophomore in high school. And there's this guy..lets call him D. So i have known D for about a year. We met in one of my classes last year, but we didn't exactly hit it off. He sat directly across from...

Do you think he is playing me? My friend says he is. But if he's playing me, would he go to so much trouble for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I guy I have been seeing for the past month and I have been dating. We havent gone very far and I heard that he kissed another girl on a night he got drunk. A few days ago I asked him what we were, and he said he hadn't thought about it. Two days...

Possiblities? Is he worth pursuing? Is it possible that he may like me as well as I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - The preliminary details: I am an open gay man and I have no problem with my social life, but my curiosity in meeting interesting people all around the world led me to a social networking site that connects strangers from every part of the world. ...

I want him to really miss me and forgive me for what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi its abit long but Basically I really liked a guy who's in the army we used to speak everyday and always kept in touch and got on really well we could talk about everything. He asked to take me out 2years ago and went on a date, I dint sleep wi...

I think I've fallen in love with my teacher!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I've had feelings for my teacher for over three years and they've only gotten stronger. I think I'm in love with him and I know I can't do anything about it (I'm clever enough to figure that out). But it's become harder and harder to keep it in, ...

How do I know if he likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 17 and I have been talking to an 18 year old guy. I got talking to him through a friend who originally was trying to set us up, but at the time I didn't want a relationship. As we've been texting I've started to like him, but I dont think he ...

I am in crush with a straight guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

20 September 2012 (M) - hello there. i am a student from china who is now exchanging in france. i met a guy who is from another school at the public canteen and he is very very handsome. that day he approached me and say he was new in town and do not know anyone. we had a ...

How can I figure out if he would be interested in getting into a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy (he's 25, and i'm 20) that i've hung out with a few times and have talked to nearly every single day since i met him a little over a month ago (only one day has gone by without us at least saying hii and asking w...

Is he very shy or just not interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hello, all. Ok so....I basically, well, I'm a dork aha. Really I am, because apparantly I'm the type of girl that writes letters to the boy she likes. I even did the little check box thing....yes. But here's the thing, I had already told the...

What if she doesn't call? Should I still attempt to talk to her if she does not call, or leave her alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

19 September 2012 (M) - Hi, sorry this is so long. I met this girl. We started talking recently, since we started talking she offered to buy me lunch once and gave me her e-mail address. She is extremely nice to me and she always smiles at me. Recently she mentioned sh...

Are we allowing this to move forward too quickly? My 42 year old school teacher from the past and I have just started dating. Is this a good idea or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hey everybody my name is katie and i am 24 years old. And i am currently dating my former high school science teacher. You see 3 weeks ago i bumped into him waiting in line for coffee at starbucks. And we exchanged number as a way to catch up. And...

He's a good friend, but he wants more. Am I leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I've been texting my male friend very often these days. He is my classmate, class project group mate, and two years younger than me. From our chats I learned that he has never had a girlfriend and from our friendship I know he is very genuine and ...

Is this a crush or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I've had a crush on him for going on 4 years now. Even though he has admitted past feelings for me, it's probably never going to happen, but my crush doesn't show any signs of clearing up. I've never had any feelings for anyone else. (Just to clear...

Should I make it obvious I have a crush on him or play it cool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I have recently started college and I met a guy, by met I mean we are in the same homeroom and I've had a couple of conversations with him. We're not in any of the same classes but when we've spoken it's been great, we have the exact same opini...

I'm concerned about my 45 year old boyfriend's friendship with a 22 year old French woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend who is 45 has a female friend who is 22, who is French, who he met 4 years ago when she was visiting England. She visits every year and they hang out, also he has been to stay with her and her parents in France. The thing is, I...

I've fallen for my friend who was my friends with benefits !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I need your help. I met this guy a couple of months ago, we went on a first date, got to know each other really well. Then we carried on talking everyday for a couple more weeks. Because we had both come out of serious relationships , we decided to ...

Did I push him away? 9 year age difference. How do I get things back on track? Please help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I think I pushed my "guy friend" away. About a week ago this guy that I have been friends with for 6 months finally admitted he was attracted to me. Since I've known him I have always been attracted to him and wanted to take it to the next level. A...

Uncles: I need your thoughts please? He told me he didn't want a Gf but did want to hang out. Then an insulting offer. Now what? Do I accept him apology and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I met a single man(in this 30's) last year from Canada and we have been in contact for 1 year now. We only met once and had a great time and chemistry and everything(did not do anything with him at all, I'm more respectable). So, now he emails me t...

Told him I had a crush on him. But then remarks from a so called friend tried to ruin things.Could there be a chance he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I ask this because my friends kind of kept bothering me XD and I am also nervous. You see, I finally told this guy I had a crush on him. He's very shy and quiet, rarely talks, always sleeping and yet he maintains a 4.0 ....he's very intelligent and ...

I gave him my phone number on Saturday but he hasn't called or texted. Is this a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - I went out on saturday night with some friends and the guy I like and am currently flirting with wasn't there. But just before we left he turned up, saying he was just passing. He gave me a hug and asked what I was doing now. I said a few of us were ...

I am moving in with my female friend who I have deep feelings for. What can I expect to happen in this arrangement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I just got invited to move in with a good female friend of mine of 4 years (Which I have accepted). The thing is that I have had deep feelings for her a long time but she has said many times that nothing would ever happen between u...

I like a girl but she ignores me completely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4240 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - I met this girl while attending 2 weeks program,and i really liked her.We used to talk sometimes in class.She asked me to draw her a portrait when she came to know i draw good.Then i asked i wanted something in return like going out for cafe or ...

He never talks to me. Yet I think my crush likes me. So why does he never talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - So here is the thing, I think my crush likes me too because he skips all his lessons last week when i have free lessons just to watch me. He tries to get close to me and i think he even told his mates that he likes me because i feel like everyone...

How do I get guys to talk to me and the guy not to be intimidated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi about a year ago through a common friend I met this guy,the three of us went for lunch..we had a good time,I enjoyed talking to this guy let's call him A and my friend Z So I really thought A would take my number from Z to get in touch with me b...