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male
age
41-50,
*arrybaggs
writes:I'm 30. She's 20. We work at the same office block, but not in the same office. For many months, she's walked past me and just said hiya. But if I'm ever near her she's very shy and quiet, almost to the point where I feel like I am making her awkward by talking to her. She kind of doesn't make eye contact. But this past week, she's been hanging around me a lot - On Friday, she saw me head to the printer, then came up and waited behind me even though originally she was headed another direction until she saw me head that way. On Saturday, she came up and stood next to me as I was getting lunch at the canteen, but I didn't notice it was her just until she walked away. Then later that afternoon, she called up our office and called me by my name (don't know how she learned it) and asked if I could bring stuff over to her office. I headed down and she was busy elsewhere, and when i began to talk to her boss about something, she interrupted to ask him something really obvious and non-important.She's also kind of laughed at silly comments I've made, but still seems shy when I'm around her. She did once say she needed a drink after work, and I asked where she was going and she gigggled and said she didn't know yet. Is she trying to get my attention? Does she have a crush? Or am I reading too much into this? I'm really self-conscious about my looks as I don't think I'm that good-looking, so my confidence in approaching her is down. Can any girls around her age or any a little older and wiser help me out here?Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2012): She does like you, but she's afraid of rejection, just like you are. That's why she is going back and forth on talking to you. She's trying to see if you like her back. You mentioned you don't think you are very good looking, but is she? Maybe she doesn't think so.
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reader, Muaysha  +, writes (23 September 2012):
Its obvious shes had a crush on you. Its actually natural that all ladies never wanna approach a guy and reveal their feeling but they still can follow various ways to draw his attention. This is exctly what shes doing. So you are a man, just develop that much courage and approach her. I bet thats what she'd been waiting for. Thanks!
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