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Should I make it obvious I have a crush on him or play it cool?

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Question - (18 September 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have recently started college and I met a guy, by met I mean we are in the same homeroom and I've had a couple of conversations with him.

We're not in any of the same classes but when we've spoken it's been great, we have the exact same opinions it's scary and I don't feel like I have to pretend to be something I'm not. He asked how many boyfriends I've had but I haven't had any, he did seem slightly ucomfortable about this.

The problem is I'm not great with talking to new people and when I see him I just freeze, it's alright if he isn't with his friends but I don't want his friends to start teasing him if they see him talking to me. I sort of have a crush on him but I don't know how to go about it subtly, do I make it obvious? do I play it cool? We're going to the same event next week and joked about meeting up but I'm not sure whether to bring it up again or take it seriously. Are there anyways I can talk/ flirt with him without coming on too strong and looking obvious?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (19 September 2012):

Honeypie agony auntBe subtle. And sometimes a smile and eye contact can mean more then words.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2012):

I think you should play it cool and let him come to YOU if he is interested. Men should pursue and when they are interested in a woman, they do just that.

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