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*s.help with anything13
writes:ok i,ve known this boy (X) since last august we met in school and we've been slight friends ever since.well in april i went to this concert with my mom and my 2 friends well when we were there my mom said my name and i was ma'am and she was like X is here i said like now? and she said yeah. i mean i figured i would see someone from school just not him well i turn around in my seat and guess who i see i see? X! I waved, he was like me? i nodded yes. so then the dj called everyone to the front of the stage and well he has major swag so him being him - he was leaning up against a pole and he decided to walk up beside me.He was like since when do you go here? i said i dont [turns out that it was for the church he goes to concert] well we were their having fun and talking and hanging out.well we had been doing that all night the concert started at 7:30 we didnt leave till 12:00 so that was hours together. we were together longest time we ever spent together.I had noticed he tried to grab my hand but then the guy on stage look at us smiled look at our hands so we let go .but ever since then i've had like the most huge crush ever on him we text every now and then he has big curly bushy hair hes taller than me and im 5'6 .but how do i build up the courage to talk to him at school because after that night we havent talked in person since. how do i build up the courage to ask him out?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 August 2012):
 You need to show him you are interested though, try and flirt back with him, that shows him that you are interested and sets you aside from the rest of the girls.
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reader, Ms.help with anything13 +, writes (24 August 2012):
Ms.help with anything13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell ive talked to him a little but i cant tell cuz the guys at school r constently hitting on us girls so him hitting on me im not counting
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 August 2012):
Courage has to come from yourself. Okay so everyone talks to people daily, it is part of life right. He is no different to anybody else you talk to through the day, the only thing that is making it harder for you at the moment is because you have a crush on him, so you are probably over thinking everything and this is making you nervous so you don't pluck up the courage to speak to him. When you see him at school show him you are interested in him, or else he may just think that you don't want anything to do with him. Smile when you see him, make a point of going up to him and asking him how he is and talking to him. Tell him how much you enjoyed the concert and maybe suggest that you both head to one together sometime for a laugh. Just take it step by step and build the friendship with him, the more you do this the more confident you will become.
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (23 August 2012):
 It appears if you don't ask out you may miss out. I personally don't make any first moves. Once I have the person was involved but that was too bold on my part. If he has shown interest then you should be bold and find out the next move. They can only say yes or no or maybe so.
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