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I thought he liked me the way I liked him, but I guess not.Now I don't know what to do.

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Question - (22 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

Why did he behave that way? Guys please help me understand this.

So there's this personal trainer at my gym who has been staring at me whenever he sees me he even watched me through the doors throughout my work out.

Anyway, because he has been watching me I thought id take his spin class.

There were only me and 3other girls and he paid attention to the other 3 and totally ignored me like I wasn't even there!!:( the only time he looked at me was when I was sprinting and he'd come to me just to put my gear up but not the other girls. What was that about?

One of them was flirting with him and he was flirting back.

He told us hes giving out free personal training sessions and asked me and the other girls to sign up.

I thought he liked me like I liked him. But I guess not.

Should I go to this personal session or not? It'd be jut me and him.

Thanks.x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012):

You have posted this question last week and I remember you had some excellent answers/advice. I suspect that they were not want you wanted to hear (ie forget him) so you are asking again until you get one that you do like, that says 'go for it'. He is playing games..he was last time I read this and this time I read it. He is not interested - flirts probably for business. Take the advice, it was good.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012):

Men are stupid and so are women. You may have thought that he was in to you but really he is not....or maybe he is. He works at a gym so he is supposed to be friendly, nice, chatty and flirty. Believe it or not, that is part of his job.

Talk to him if you think he seems interesting but if you are going to get your feeling hurt already and you have never even talked to him then you are coo coo.

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