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writes:So a few days ago I asked what I should do about the guy I have had a crush on for 2 years. I am at a point where I feel pathetic for barely saying anything to him and embarrassing myself through a facebook message when we were both drunk. I figured he was drunk and the truth comes out when alcohol is around but he never capitalized on that and just apologized for the conversation and said it was inappropriate. He is the sweetest gentlemen and always says hi to me and makes small conversation but I still don't know if it is worth asking him out. I am extremely fearful of rejection, I feel a bit hypocritical because i live by the quote "Carpe Diem" and have it tattooed but I am too scared to talk to the love of my life. I like him a lot and I think if he rejects me i might just feel heartbroken..I might see him at a party this saturday and I've told myself im going to chug a beer and straight tell him I like him and ask him out to lunch or something...is that too straightforward? Will that maybe scare him? I dont have his number at all, he gave it to me over a year ago but I lost it. I really want him to like me and give me a chance but I'm so goofy and clam up around him I might make a fool of myself...I guess I know I should just do it but I am really bad at talking to guys, any advice on what exactly to say on asking a guy out to not creep them out and maybe get a yes?? lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): If you ask him out at a party your increasing the chances of exactly what you don't want. That is the influence of alcohol, along with a crowd, equals possible embarrassing foolishness.
Just have a quick chat if he has a moment, you don't have to say you like him. Just ask if he'd like to hangout sometime and give him your number. He may have been interested before but being you lost his number he probably felt you weren't interested being you didn't contact him. Return the favor to him this time, and doing this like this will save your dignity over a possible drunken and crying, embarrassing fiasco. He if doesn't contact you don't worry, you'll be just fine and life moves on, lives too short dear.
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