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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!
Q. Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...
A. 13 November 2009: I expect that wearing a condom diminishes sensations for the wearer. However, you might point out that slightly lessened sensation with sex is better than ZERO sensation with no sex at all, which is what he's going to get if he doesn't wear one.
I... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything if the man doesn't wear his wedding ring?
Q. For all the married men out there... Does it mean anything if a man doesn't wear his wedding ring? ...
A. 13 November 2009: Della, you're not going to believe me I know, it's just going to take time, but someday, you will look back on the amount of time you spent obsessing about this teacher and realize that you wasted a lot of energy and time on him. Perhaps this is ... (read in full...)
Is a school guidance counsellor obliged to tell my parents I might be pregnant?
Q. if i tell a school guidance counselor that i think i might be pregnant will she tell my parents? does she HAVE to tell them is what i mean. is this a situation in which she is obligated to inform them or can we jus talk and keep it to herself? t...
A. 13 November 2009: If you are concerned that you are pregnant, you need to have a pregnancy test. Just think, if you aren't pregnant, and you talk to the guidance counselor, and the state requires parental notification, your parents will be told.
I think you coul... (read in full...)
Is a school guidance counsellor obliged to tell my parents I might be pregnant?
Q. if i tell a school guidance counselor that i think i might be pregnant will she tell my parents? does she HAVE to tell them is what i mean. is this a situation in which she is obligated to inform them or can we jus talk and keep it to herself? t...
A. 13 November 2009: What do you expect the guidance counselor to be able to do for you?... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 12 November 2009: Thank you for that followup, Della, that was a good one. It helps us understand a little better what you're going through.
I had a thought about what you wrote and I want to share it with you. You're going to think it's a bit odd sounding, but I'll... (read in full...)
My teacher just got tooooo close!
Q. Im 14 and My teacher touched me today and I don't know what to do. She is 34 and a woman, she is pastoral care and i really like her, I don't want her to get in trouble but she hurt me and kind of took it a bit far, i have found myself falling f...
A. 12 November 2009: Tell your parents. You have the reporting information there to use. That's all the advice that can be given to you. Take care.... (read in full...)
My teacher just got tooooo close!
Q. Im 14 and My teacher touched me today and I don't know what to do. She is 34 and a woman, she is pastoral care and i really like her, I don't want her to get in trouble but she hurt me and kind of took it a bit far, i have found myself falling f...
A. 12 November 2009: Please tell your parents. This is serious and you need some help in reporting it. If for some reason, you can't tell them, go to this website: http://www.childline.org.uk/Explore/AbuseSafety/Pages/Sexual.aspx
or call this number (it is a free call... (read in full...)
What is the best vibrator for a G-Spot orgasm?
Q. I have never had a g-spot orgasm. Is there any certain vibrators you would recommend to achieve this?...
A. 12 November 2009: I wouldn't worry too much about it if you haven't. By all means, keep trying, but read this and relax a bit: http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction?page=2
Have fun finding out!... (read in full...)
Sex after an abortion...
Q. After abortion how many weeks must I stay before I can have sex, I mean sex without a condom....
A. 12 November 2009: Are you using another form of birth control? Did you have a medical or a surgical or an emergency abortion? Were there any complications? (These are rhetorical questions, I am not actually expecting you to answer.)
This is all down to your indi... (read in full...)
Is my teacher interested?
Q. should i tell my teacher i love him? he always flirts with me and hes not the flirting type at allll hes alil nerdy he makes comments like 1 day i was whislting in class and he said theres a bird in the class and someone said its hunting season a...
A. 12 November 2009: Timing. It's all about timing. He is married and has children, all the other stuff is you desperately wanting him to want you back. He is off the market, something that a mature person would understand means he is off-limits, he has made his love ... (read in full...)
How is the best way to handle her text messages?
Q. Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a ...
A. 12 November 2009: Sorry for the situation turning out as it did. You just couldn't resist, could you? (the facebook message, I mean) I'm not really blaming you, it sounds as though the two of you would have been incompatible anyway. She had one expectation and you ... (read in full...)
I can't have children due to PCOS. Please advise!
Q. Hi, I'm a 21 year old married female that can't have kids due to pcos... I have looked into adoption agencies but they are all so expensive. I really wanted to have children and now I am really beginning to become depressed because I can't have ...
A. 12 November 2009: Have you looked into foster care adoptions? Where you foster a child until the adoption legalities get sorted out? I have no idea if it's cheaper than straight adoption, but it's worth looking into.
http://www.davethomasfoundation.org/
http:... (read in full...)
How can I persuade her to have sex with me?
Q. hi. i am 15 year old male from india. we have a maid servant in our house, about 25 years of age. she is very plump and has well developed breasts and hips.she lives in our house itself in a separate room. i have had sexual feelings for near...
A. 12 November 2009: Which is the real story? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-continue-my-flirtation-with-my-maid.html Is there even a thread of truth in either one? Or is this just a fantasy?
Let's say its real. This girl works for your family. She reli... (read in full...)
How is the best way to handle her text messages?
Q. Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a ...
A. 11 November 2009: That sounds like a good plan for now. The hard part is controlling your urge to contact her. You can do it, I know, so just be patient. And by all means, go out on dates with other women, don't stay home!
And Q, yes, in ink.... (read in full...)
Does a man NEED sex to be healthy?
Q. Want to know if a man can do without sex and be healthy?...
A. 11 November 2009: If you read this question again, it's possible our poster is asking if a man who isn't interested in sex is healthy. Maybe there's a man with an issue like diabetes, low testosterone, medications that cause erectile dysfunction, alcoholism and he's ... (read in full...)
How is the best way to handle her text messages?
Q. Quick question, I have been having issues with a new girl I met after a really romantic weekend, and when I tried to talk to her, I get these phrases when we tried to talk on Monday (the day after). I'd sent her a few messages on Facebook, sent a ...
A. 11 November 2009: A few facebook messages, a text or two (twelve?), phone call and email to you is not enough contact. For her, right now, right at this point in her life and in this developing relationship, this is too much. And she's telling you.
I have a feel... (read in full...)
If a man "bucks" during sex, what does it mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy bucks durning sex? Probbly a stupied question and one I should know but i'm just curious....
A. 11 November 2009: The image that came to mind was 'bucking bronco'... who knows? There's a long list of potential definitions for 'buck' at urbandictionary.com: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=buck
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I still see something beautiful in our relationship but he just is not committed to me!
Q. He is the One.I knew it right when I met him the first time. He was trying to forget his first real important Love that HE decided to end because bored and unsatisfied (too young to just stay settled with just one girl). He wanted to move o...
A. 11 November 2009: Hi, I'm happy to hear that you're getting help for yourself. This is no way to live, right? I found a link for you to a similar question and in particular, I want you to read the advice from baby_duck. She has such good advice for people in your ... (read in full...)
What would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it?
Q. what would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it? any at all? its about 4 days before im supposed to get my period and my nipples are sore, pains in my sides and lower abdomen and insideeee my vagina and im crying all the time sometimes ...
A. 11 November 2009: Sweetie. The only way to know if you're pregnant or not is to take a pregnancy test or to get your period. If you are panicking this much, go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test kit, follow the instructions and then you will know.
E... (read in full...)
After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he ...
A. 11 November 2009: When you say you're afraid to move on, has he threatened you? Do you need to get the police involved?... (read in full...)
After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he ...
A. 11 November 2009: Is this a for-real question? You've been dating a guy for 8 years and you don't know where he lives? For 8 years you've resisted the temptation to look in his wallet and read the address on his driver's license? Never decided to follow him home? Not ... (read in full...)
Should I remain married if I am still in love with my first love?
Q. I am married to my wife of 13 years. I recently found out that my first fiance was forced to break up with me by our mothers because she'd gotten pregnant. They forced her to hide this and she lost the baby 5 months later. She hid this from me for ...
A. 11 November 2009: Life was not fair to you and your ex. It was terrible what happened then. There's no way to go back and do it over again. There, that is the past.
Here we are, in the present, looking at the future. You chose to get married and have chidren. You ... (read in full...)
My friend has changed since being abroad. Should I just give her time?
Q. My friend just got home from living in another country for 2 years and it seems like she doesn't really want to see me. I admit, things haven't been easy since our circle of friends are being petty with one another and my friend is caught in the m...
A. 11 November 2009: Having moved more times than I care to count, and having lived in 7 countries (9 if you count coming to stay in another country with your parents after you've moved out), I have a little perspective on this.
Your girlfriend's perspective on life... (read in full...)
Should I ask him if he wants to get back or wait for him to speak?
Q. Just to repost this for more replies from our aunts: My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, hav...
A. 11 November 2009: Is he a mentally healthy guy? I ask because of this description: "Other times, he becomes emotional and he pours out how is life is miserable. When I don't reply he panics." What are you, his crying blanket? He's laying pain and hurt and the ... (read in full...)
Should I remain married if I am still in love with my first love?
Q. I am married to my wife of 13 years. I recently found out that my first fiance was forced to break up with me by our mothers because she'd gotten pregnant. They forced her to hide this and she lost the baby 5 months later. She hid this from me for ...
A. 11 November 2009: If your wife is okay with this, then why are you worried about losing the children?... (read in full...)
Why does my wife eat egg shells and tiny rocks?
Q. my wife craves and eats tiny rocks and egg shells. any ideas why? ...
A. 10 November 2009: Sounds like Pica: http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/mental-health-pica
http://www.webmd.com/baby/features/pregnancy-food-cravings
I'd say she needs a medical and psychiatric work up.
Time for the doctor's appointment!
Good luck.... (read in full...)
We fell in love on the internet and want to meet. Any advice?
Q. i've known this guy for 3/4 months and we are in love with each other and would do anything for each other. But there is only one problem. we met on the internet and we live so far away. were in the same country but about 10 hours away from ...
A. 10 November 2009: I agree with HonningKanin and you do have to provide some followup information for us. How old you are and how old he is, because that does indeed matter.
I think a guy who is sincere about getting to know you and wanting a future with you woul... (read in full...)
Disagreement with girlfriend. Is now a good time to send flowers?
Q. I'd been going out with a girl for a little while but we ran into a rough patch. We're both in our mid-30's. We both have said we care for each other and hope to work it out. She was just about to go on vacation for a couple of weeks and we ...
A. 10 November 2009: You're welcome. I do understand what you're trying to do, and if she knows you well enough, she should figure it out too. The note would help with explain that.
I hope you get things all sorted out when she comes back. Keep us posted!... (read in full...)
Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?
Q. I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...
A. 10 November 2009: She went to Hawaii without a bathing suit? I don't think so. She brought one, you just don't remember the one she packed. It would be abnormal for a woman who is going to a tropical island NOT to groom herself. You've got some suspicion on this. Di... (read in full...)
How can I find out whether we are actually a couple without scaring him away?
Q. Hi, I've known T since beginning of Sep. He first asked me out on a group date beginning of Oct, and since then our dates become more and more frequent. He invited me to his company's dinner and dance as his plus one where he kissed me. Since then, ...
A. 10 November 2009: "T, I love spending time with you! You are a special man. I'm feeling like I need to ask you what the next phase might be and if we are reaching it. I eventually want an exclusive relationship and I think 'eventually' seems to be arriving for me, ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him if he wants to get back or wait for him to speak?
Q. Just to repost this for more replies from our aunts: My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, hav...
A. 10 November 2009: The way you know if he wants you back is if he start pursuing you with intent. A few random messages are probabably a genuine desire to say 'hello' and wish you well. From the way you've presented your question, I assume he knows you'd still be ... (read in full...)
I still see something beautiful in our relationship but he just is not committed to me!
Q. He is the One.I knew it right when I met him the first time. He was trying to forget his first real important Love that HE decided to end because bored and unsatisfied (too young to just stay settled with just one girl). He wanted to move o...
A. 10 November 2009: Wow. Wowee wow wow. You've clung to hope he's going to change for seven years. He's been troubled, hung up on his ex, doesn't live in the same country even and has made no moves to make you anything more than what you are now, but you can't let ... (read in full...)
If he was the one interested in me, wasn't he supposed to be more passionate?
Q. About a week ago a friend told me a friend of him, who I worked with 6 months ago, was interested in me. I did not like him in the first place but I was flattered and now I like him and I want to know more about him. So he added me facebook, an...
A. 10 November 2009: My guess is that he was interested in you, but you gave him no reason to think you like him back, so he moved on. Why would he think you liked him after these items: "I did have coffee with him but did not show much interest when he hinted on ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 10 November 2009: You're welcome, I'm sorry the meeting was a bust for you. It was a helpful experience for me. I hope the online chat room works out for you!
Take care.... (read in full...)
Disagreement with girlfriend. Is now a good time to send flowers?
Q. I'd been going out with a girl for a little while but we ran into a rough patch. We're both in our mid-30's. We both have said we care for each other and hope to work it out. She was just about to go on vacation for a couple of weeks and we ...
A. 10 November 2009: I think your sentiment is good, you're trying to interject a positive note in a negative atmosphere. I think flowers would be okay if you add a note like, "I know we still need to talk - I just want you to know that I'm ready when you are. You are ... (read in full...)
Please give me some lunch gift ideas!
Q. Hi, I need some quick suggestions. Me and my husband has been invited by one of my colleagues and wife for lunch tomorrow at his residence. I have no idea what I should bring with me as a gift. Specially since it is a lunch and because i don't know ...
A. 10 November 2009: I think a bottle of wine is okay to bring; you could try bringing something that isn't expected, like a dessert wine such as a Tokaji or a port.
Artisanal chocolates. Get a really fine bottle of olive oil and an aged balsamic vinegar.
An orchid, ... (read in full...)
Who do I invite to the wedding? Restraing order is getting in the way.
Q. My fiance and I are now planning our wedding... things are still tense between me and his father but a new issue has come up and that is the family fued... My fiance is the youngest of 4 children and recently his parents got divorced. There ...
A. 9 November 2009: Mettle? (I'm too lazy to look it up. ;D)
I'd probably lay it on them. Assuming the restraining order expires or is lifted, and everyone can be in the presence of everyone else, then they get to decide that they get along with everyone else, or they... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when women moan during sex?
Q. Do guys like it when girls moan during sex?...
A. 9 November 2009: Only if you do it with them; they get irritated if you moan with another guy.
Seriously, I think they would like to know what makes you feel good. If it's a moan of pleasure, I'm sure it's music to their ears. If it's more of an "ow ow owww... (read in full...)
Can anal sex get you pregnant?
Q. Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?...
A. 9 November 2009: Ah, I see where you got the number from. Here are the statistics on getting pregnant when using condoms, correctly and incorrectly:
"Each year, 2 out of 100 women whose partners use condoms will become pregnant if they always use condoms corr... (read in full...)
My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex
Q. Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone ...
A. 9 November 2009: And another one. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/body-mind/teens-menstrual-periods/help-missed-my-period-25241.htm
... (read in full...)
My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex
Q. Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone ...
A. 9 November 2009: And here's the link. (DOH!)
http://www.webmd.com/infertility-and-reproduction/guide/absence-periods... (read in full...)
My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex
Q. Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone ...
A. 9 November 2009: So no semen has been anywhere near your vulva or vagina, correct? Here's a link that has a list of potential causes. 'ffogalilly' pretty well listed them out for you. Anything sound familiar?... (read in full...)
Can anal sex get you pregnant?
Q. Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?...
A. 9 November 2009: Where did the one in a million come from? Did you conduct a study?... (read in full...)
Can anal sex get you pregnant?
Q. Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?...
A. 9 November 2009: Found some more information:
"MYTH: A girl can’t get pregnant if you have anal sex unprotected because it's the “wrong hole”
"FACT: While it’s true that pregnancy cannot occur from the act of anal sex by itself, an that the risk of pregnanc... (read in full...)
Can anal sex get you pregnant?
Q. Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?...
A. 9 November 2009: "It is also possible — but less likely — for women to become pregnant through any kind of sex play in which semen, or ejaculate, comes in contact with the vulva. The sperm can travel through the moisture on the vulva into the vagina."
From
http:... (read in full...)
Can anal sex get you pregnant?
Q. Can you get pregnant if you have sex from the back?...
A. 9 November 2009: If sperm get near the vagina, there's a chance of pregnancy. Sorry, but they do kinda know where to swim. If you're going to make statements about birth control, be sure you're correct, or what you write here could wind up with someone pregnant ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 7 November 2009: You know how they say an alcoholic will finally ask for help when he hits rock bottom? You will finally reach for help when you hit your own rock bottom.
I wish you well.
xxx... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 6 November 2009: It sounds like it is truly heartbreaking and frustrating for you. There's no way to fix this without his willingness to get professional help, I think. Until he does, you are stuck in the rollercoaster.
The reason I think you should go to Al-A... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to keep quiet while he works on his substance abuse issues
Q. hereee it goes again, my husband andd i have been arguing and i feel powerless. i cant get him to understan how i feel. he expects me to be silent aboutt my feeling, and endure whatever mistreatment he inflicts with no hard feelings while works on ...
A. 6 November 2009: Have you gone to an Al-Anon meeting? I think you need the support and there are people there who have "been there/done that" with what you are facing right now. That would be my recommendation. Alcoholics who do not want to get help--you can't fi... (read in full...)
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