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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?
Q. Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at wo...
A. 29 November 2009: I think she is going to feel upset almost no matter what you do because you are changing the status quo here. You are no longer fulfilling the role you had settled on with her, because you have changed and shaken off the doldrums.
And of cour... (read in full...)
How do I get back my 9 inch penis?
Q. When i was a youmg man i was blessed with being well endowed with a 9 inch penis. I had no complaints and lots of complements on its size. A couple weeks ago i overheard my wife over the phone to her phone say that she missed my 9 and thinks it had ...
A. 24 November 2009: http://men.webmd.com/features/life-cycle-of-a-penis
http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction
My suggestion to you is to ask your wife how you can better please her in bed. Eagerness to please is probably the biggest turn-on in bed for most peo... (read in full...)
How do I get sex from him?
Q. I initiated the sexual fun and for 4 months things were on then off then back on. now we are just friends no benefits. how do i get him to want me again? i have tried everything from: talking dirty to saying i want sex all the time, how horny i am, ...
A. 24 November 2009: It sounds like you've tried everything. You sound a bit desperate and my guess is that you're coming across as a bit of a sex-crazed stalker. He's turned off at this point, if he's not reacting to your come-ons. He might notice your absence and take ... (read in full...)
Should I give my virginity to my best friend?
Q. basic question is whether or not i should give my virginity to my best friend? hes liked me a lot in the past, and i have liked him at points, but i am the non-commital one. he wants a relationship and i dont. hes never asked me to give it ...
A. 24 November 2009: If you think virginity is something to be disposed of quickly and with as little emotion as possible, by all means, your friend sounds like a good candidate for the job.
I think it sounds a little sad that you'll have this as a memory to last for ... (read in full...)
Will sex the second time be as bad as the first time?
Q. I have posted below post before and now going to have my 2nd time sex. Is it high chance for him to stretch my vagina wall as painful as my first time? Most of my friend said that very high chance to hurt like that again since he is so big and he ...
A. 24 November 2009: My suggestion is to go see your gynecologist for an exam if you are still bleeding. If you feel "split" then there may indeed be some damage to your tissues and you should have that looked at. Pain is our body's way of telling us there is something ... (read in full...)
Any tips for learning to drive a car?
Q. I didn't know wether to write on this website or not but I don't know any other, and i'm on here quite a lot and have had some great advice in the past. But anyway I have my first driving lesson tomorrow.. and as i'm not exactly a car whizz, i...
A. 23 November 2009: I learned to drive on the right with automatic transmission in my teens, then I learned the standard (stick shift) transmission in my 20s, and then I learned to drive on the left in my 40s. It didn't matter how old I was or how long I had been ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: You know, the more I think about it, the more I think he's cutting off the sex on the side bit. He just is doing it in a roundabout way. When was the last time you got together or talked about this?
My bet is he has gone into his foxhole and hope... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: Another one I thought of: he's actually ending it but doesn't have the courtesy of saying it's over, so he's said "be more discreet" and then when you want to hook up, he won't be available any more. A coward's way out of a messy relationship, ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: Wait, I thought of a few reason why he couldn't tell you what he meant. I'm just guessing here, of course.
One is that he doesn't want to spend any more money on you, because his wife is suspicious of his expenditures. He doesn't feel the need to s... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'you have to be more discreet'?
Q. I am married but I also have a guy friend at work who is also married. We both aren't happy in our marriage but neither of us is willing to give up on it yet. We have been exchanging favors if you know what I mean. But it's just what I said it is ...
A. 20 November 2009: Why didn't you just ask him that question? He's the one who said it, so he'll know exactly what he meant.... (read in full...)
Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.
Q. Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...
A. 20 November 2009: Just out of curiousity, how much money do you have?
You've had lots of excellent advice and I second all those who advise waiting. I was just curious as to what you think is enough money to raise a child.... (read in full...)
My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?
Q. Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at wo...
A. 19 November 2009: Oh dear, I am sorry to hear that. She's gone off her anti-depressants? Perhaps that accounts for her behavior.
First of all, you need to throw off that mantle of guilt you've acquired.
The following advice is what I think I would do in a situatio... (read in full...)
My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!
Q. My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...
A. 18 November 2009: Oh dear. I'm very sorry to report this: love does not conquer all. Your love of him will not save him from his disease. I know this from bitter firsthand experience.
I lost my best friend to this disease a little over 3 years ago. She would have... (read in full...)
I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!
Q. Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was...
A. 18 November 2009: Thanks for the followup! I'm happy to hear you have good friends doing their best to support you; I think this will be key for you.
It sounds like you're working through the details as calmly as possible--what a nightmare to have to split up your... (read in full...)
Overly jealous fiance???
Q. Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...
A. 18 November 2009: Yes, you should be worried. This guy is irrational about this jealousy. You've told him everything and he still doesn't believe you. This isn't something you can fix; this is a problem inside his head. This isn't healthy, he has issues with ... (read in full...)
My husband is useless in bed...is he gay, masterbating or what?
Q. I need more help with this ongoing no sex at all with my husband of 9 years it's been over 2 years since he has even tryed, and when he did it was only because he knew we were in serious marriage trouble becasue i had him go wityh me to a ...
A. 18 November 2009: He was about to tell you? But he stopped. It's something he just can't get out, so obviously it's not good. I think you're already on your way out that door, and I don't blame you one bit for that. You sound amazingly patient and I think you've been ... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 17 November 2009: You sound like you have a good attitude and a good handle on what you need to do. Let me just add one thing, I want you to understand that at your age, there's a lot of growing up still to do. She may be immature and just not want to be in a ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have lost everything and this new girl is getting everything I worked so hard for!
Q. Hi, this isn't really a question of sorts but I just really need some help getting over my ex. Basically we were together for four years, he's a year and a half older than me and we got together just before my 19th birthday. Our relationship was...
A. 17 November 2009: Sorry for your break up--it sounds particularly tough for you. I don't blame you for being upset and feeling as though she's getting the better end of the bargain.
For what it's worth, I read your question and thought that perhaps this guy want... (read in full...)
How long will my boyfriend stay in jail for assaulting me?
Q. am 17 years old and i was dateing this guy who is 19 years old. we currently brok on saturday. because the police arrested him for hitting me on the street i guess people saw him hit me so they called the cops so they arrested him becasue i am a ...
A. 17 November 2009: Are you afraid he'll get out and harm you? Please go speak to the District Attorney to let him or her know that you are fearful for yourself and that he has done this before. You might consider going to the police and giving them all the information ... (read in full...)
Men: Is your wife's depression a bigger concern than getting laid?
Q. Men: If your girlfriend or wife was suffering from severe depression, would you be more concerned with her state of mind, or getting laid? Furthermore: If the depression was supposedly because your words and actions towards her during the durat...
A. 17 November 2009: You do realize that you will get different answers from guys who are mentally healthy, balanced and stable as opposed to guys who are misogynistic, selfish, jealous and abusive, right? The problem is that the latter group isn't particularly ... (read in full...)
How can I gently break the news to my mother-in-law that I am pregnant?
Q. Ok then. This is the first time i've used this site, so be nice! (And excuse the punctuation, my CTRL button is tempermental today) So I was wondering how to break the news that im pregnant to my mother-in-law. She is a wonderful woman, and has a...
A. 17 November 2009: You can't control your MIL's reaction to this news. You can only deliver the news and manage any comments that come back your way.
"Mom, we are so happy and ecstatic to have some wonderful news. We are going to have a baby! We're thrilled for many... (read in full...)
My b/f and his friends make really sexist jokes, should I worry?
Q. My bf and his friends (who are in their mid 20's) make jokes really sexist jokes. They also find it funny and entertaining talking about women being bashed up and abused by their bf's as well as women being raped and sexually assaulted. How can they...
A. 17 November 2009: And you love this man because....?????
Try to articulate what it is that attracted you to this man in the first place. Have these people always been his friends? Who a man chooses to hang out with tells you a lot about what he values (or does... (read in full...)
How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?
Q. heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...
A. 16 November 2009: One more thing, the way he speaks to you and the way you seem to tolerate it go to my previous point about victimhood. You like to play helpless and this someday may get you really hurt. Try to remember that, okay? Take care now.... (read in full...)
How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?
Q. heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...
A. 16 November 2009: So I guess you're not pregnant then? Good to know. What a relief, thank goodness, now you're not going to sleep with this guy again, right? Now that you've figured out how to get his attention?
There are far more mature ways of interacting with peop... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?
Q. Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...
A. 16 November 2009: It's not normal nor is it acceptable for him to do those things.
It's not normal for her to stick around and be subjected to that type of abuse. She needs help seeing the pattern of abuse he's displaying. She can't fix him. She'll never be able to f... (read in full...)
How will my ex react if I wore another guy's jersey?
Q. heyy guys :) i need fast answers for this one please! so this guy tht i flirt with all the time wants me to wear his football jersey to school 2moro. we both jus flirt, he has a gf tht goes to a different school, we will never be in a real ...
A. 16 November 2009: Hi Lacey,
Since you never followed up on your pregnancy scare, I was just wondering if you've found out if you were or not.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/twice-i-had-unprotected-sex-am-i-pregnant.html
http://ww... (read in full...)
She ended it out of the blue. How do I get her back?
Q. So I dated this girl for about 2 months and we both liked each other a lot. After getting back from a trip she calls me and breaks up with me. She didn't say why. We've been separated for about 3 or 4 months now and I've realized that I really w...
A. 16 November 2009: This kind of relationship fracture is really difficult to put back together again. She's basically decided that she didn't want to be in a relationship with you and seems fine with that.
It's difficult to know what's going on inside her head to see ... (read in full...)
Is he wanting to end things and doesn't want to tell me to my face?
Q. I desprately need your advice. I am engaged to the guy of my dreams but I'm seventeen. we have been together for a while now, eleven months and our love is deep. just recently his mom grounded him and he emailed me on the 16th of last month saying ...
A. 15 November 2009: It has to do with his emotional maturity. He's 15. There's a whole lot of growing up to do for him still. It doesn't help that this is a long distance relationship and that he is still a minor. Have you ever met in real life?
There are too many stri... (read in full...)
Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...
A. 14 November 2009: You have a point, duce. I hate to admit it, but you have a point. The poster should use whichever medium he prefers. If it's lifelike silicone doll, more power to him. It's just that I had this story pop into my head when I read the question... (read in full...)
Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...
A. 14 November 2009: "I'm rubber and you're glue" takes on a fresh feel... you know, the "I'm rubber and you're glue, anything you say bounces off me and sticks to you!"
For some reason, I seem to have sunk to middle-school humor here.... *ponders*
I know. It's Bir... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 14 November 2009: You're a good egg. You crack me up. Not afraid to come out of your shell at all. See you lay-tah! Ha!... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 14 November 2009: Sorry, you were gettin' all high-falutin' an' all...
Poot = flatus. :^P
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Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...
A. 14 November 2009: Rather than do a silicone model of her--which sounds a bit like an inflatable doll or sex toy--why don't you sculpt her image in clay? Make a bronze sculpture if you can afford it?
I think that would result in something that is truly a work of art,... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 14 November 2009: Dear heavens, duce, cacophony? You don't mean to say that you're a pooter? ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to make a silicone doll of my girlfriend?
Q. Hi Agony Aunts! I have an interesting question that I want to ask. Well I love my girlfriend so much that I would want to do something grand. I am planning on making a life-size doll version of my girlfriend in silicone like the ones I have seen ...
A. 14 November 2009: I think this is more about you than her. Intriguing, but basically it would distract your attention from her. I'm with Birdy. This could backfire in a big way.... (read in full...)
Mad crush!
Q. I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....
A. 14 November 2009: Is it too late to post on this thread? I just saw Duce's comment: "We are men!!! HEAR US ROAR!!!!" and it made me laugh. To accurately reflect the male half of our strange species, it should say: "We are men!!! HEAR US SNORE!!!!"
That would be far ... (read in full...)
My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?
Q. Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at wo...
A. 13 November 2009: I had one more thought for you. When she starts pressing for details, you could say something along the lines of, "Oh, it's a bit rude to talk about oneself all the time, and I'm feeling as though that's all we talk about, me. Let's find other, more ... (read in full...)
My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?
Q. Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at wo...
A. 13 November 2009: That's a tough position to be in, I have some inkling of what you've managed to do with your life. I would say that you have to regard her as a friend with problems now, and treat her in that way.
I would smile at her a lot, not try to phys... (read in full...)
How do I stop him from going away (after he slept with Thai girls the last time?)
Q. How do I stop him from going away? Hi all, Me and my partner have been together for three years now and have just had a baby together, recently my boyfriend went to Thailand for a nice holiday after coming home from deployment (he's in the ...
A. 13 November 2009: "I don't know how to make him realise I am serious this time and i'm thinking of leaving him....I need some advice pleae!!!"
I think the way to show him you are serious about this is to leave him. If you have had this discussion about his chea... (read in full...)
How can I please her to the point of orgasm?
Q. So my question is, i've only had sex with one girl, so i'm not "experienced" like that. How can I please a woman to the point where she could have an orgasm? I heard something about an inch into the vagina, if you put your finger in there and touch ...
A. 13 November 2009: Also, I would recommend that you read some of the posts by "DoubleM". Type his name and the word "cunnilingus" into the search box on the upper right hand side of the page.... (read in full...)
How can I please her to the point of orgasm?
Q. So my question is, i've only had sex with one girl, so i'm not "experienced" like that. How can I please a woman to the point where she could have an orgasm? I heard something about an inch into the vagina, if you put your finger in there and touch ...
A. 13 November 2009: Think of her clitoris as a very tiny and sensitive penis; her vagina has some nerve ending inside the first third, including the somewhat controversial "G-spot", which most researcher would consider as the "root" of the clitoral structure. It's not ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!
Q. Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...
A. 13 November 2009: I expect that wearing a condom diminishes sensations for the wearer. However, you might point out that slightly lessened sensation with sex is better than ZERO sensation with no sex at all, which is what he's going to get if he doesn't wear one.
I... (read in full...)
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