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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!
Q. I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...
A. 1 April 2010: Sorry, I got carried away. There's a reason that they say women reach their sexual peak at 40, and men at 19. That's because for women, it's mostly mental and learning to relax and trust and just go for it takes a long time. Remember, that's 40, not ... (read in full...)
I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!
Q. I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...
A. 1 April 2010: I just saw that you answered this, I didn't get a follow up message letting me know.
First of all, when did he get in bed with you? She was having sex with YOU, okay, not him. She was pretending, for pete's sake.
Lordy lordy lordy, you are going to... (read in full...)
She said she would stop talking to him late at night, but now I have found that she is still taking his calls at 3am! How should I take this?
Q. Okay here I go again... This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back togethe...
A. 31 March 2010: Big follow up, aunts, in a new thread! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-is-begging-to-not-lose-me-i.html
Hot off the presses!
I'll answer later when I have more time.
OP, post here to let everyone of the new development, please! ... (read in full...)
She's getting attracted to girls again, and is bugging me to let do something with them! I think it's cheating. Help!
Q. Me and my girlfriend 'W' have been together for almost a year and a half. We met at school and liked each other straight away. I was shocked to learn recently that she used to only like girls, and has in the past had girlfriends, but she says it ...
A. 31 March 2010: You know what? You're both too young to be tied down in full commitment right now, even moreso as she is questioning her sexuality again. It's possible that this urgent demand for you to allow her this experimentation is a sign not only of her ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend's cousin, what should I do?
Q. I've been divorced for three years now, and about 3 months ago met a wonderful guy, at the beginning i thought it will work out for us. He drinks a lot and is very jealous, I can't even say a well known singer is hot or he'll blow a gasket. I met ...
A. 31 March 2010: Definitely break up with the drunken control freak. That's a relationship that sounds doomed and frankly, not good for your health. I think the cousin has some idea that you like him by this point, I'm sure you've let him know through words and ... (read in full...)
Should I make this gigantic life change for the woman I love?
Q. So I impregnated a woman with 4 kids who is in a verbally and physically abusive marriage. I did not know most of the facts at the time and it was sort of a woops moment, but yea. We always went to my place, etc.. Plus she wanted it. Kept...
A. 31 March 2010: First, I would recognize that she is married and while your gesture sounds like a chivalrous and romantic thing to do, it's not clear to me that she really wants to be with you.
She sounds like she's a bit of a mess, I know her husband sounds awfu... (read in full...)
She said she would stop talking to him late at night, but now I have found that she is still taking his calls at 3am! How should I take this?
Q. Okay here I go again... This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back togethe...
A. 31 March 2010: Oh, and part of this is to stop checking up on her talk time with this guy. You have to be strong and really distance yourself from her. She may get the message, but I wouldn't hold my breath for her.... (read in full...)
She said she would stop talking to him late at night, but now I have found that she is still taking his calls at 3am! How should I take this?
Q. Okay here I go again... This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back togethe...
A. 31 March 2010: I'd step waaaay back from this girl. She has something going on with this guy and cannot keep this promise to you. It sounds as though you are not in a relationship, officially, so I would stop behaving as a boyfriend does. Get yourself out there, ... (read in full...)
I'm worried by his behaviour, am I just over-reacting?
Q. my ex and i have been talking for a few months...he needs time to get his head together before getting back into things with me. Noone did anything bad, I think he just needs time...not ready to be in a relationship again. The times we talk it seems ...
A. 31 March 2010: Okay, this kind of 'checking up' on him is not healthy on your part. You two are apart, he's doing his own thing, he is not accountable to you at this point in time. You are only making yourself crazy and if you two do get back together, you are ... (read in full...)
He proposed but doesn't want to be seen with me in public or introduce me to his parents.
Q. me and my boyfriend studied together during our graduation programme and soon we bcame best of friends. he proposed me last yr and we had a perfect relationship for the first few months. then we had to return back to our respective cities after ...
A. 31 March 2010: If I were you, I'd give up the pretense that he's my boyfriend. He's not behaving in anyway like a proper boyfriend and I think the situation is against this working out. You are frustrated and unhappy because you have handed over control of the ... (read in full...)
My "friends with benefits" girl has fallen for me, and I'm torn between losing her for good or being in a relationship when I'm not sure I want it
Q. Hi all, Im in a right mess here :( This is rather long winded so i hope at least someone can be patient enough to read and respond. I have had what can only be described as a friend with benefits for the last 11 months. We're like best frie...
A. 31 March 2010: This is a tricky one. Unfortunately I don't see any way out that will make you both happy. She took a risk when she agreed to FWB with you. Whose idea was it, anyway? Or did you just kind of fall into it one night after a bit too much to drink?
A... (read in full...)
"Wide ride and fat ass!"
Q. I am a just turned 31 year old, divorced, but engaged mom of a 7 year old. While I am not overweight, I have a figure that is a little wide and flares a bit at the hips. In other words, I am not fat, but I've got a butt. My fiance has a sof...
A. 31 March 2010: Ask your new man to say something really sweet or sexy each time he touches you like that. Eventually, the new, loving words should erase that horrible man's stupid recorded voice in your head.
Or change up the words. "Wild child and great ass!... (read in full...)
I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!
Q. I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...
A. 31 March 2010: Look, women are told to be hot but you can't be a slut. Be great looking, show your boobs but don't ever let anyone touch them because then you'd be a wh*re. We get all kinds of mixed messages.
Now you have just given your girlfriend free rein in f... (read in full...)
Hearing problem!
Q. Hey well im 15. And i have really sensitive hearing so it really bugs me when i cant hear. Well my left ear feels clogged and i can barely hear out of it. :( it kinda scares me. I'm pretty sure its not water cuz i havent been swiming and i clean me ...
A. 31 March 2010: So let's talk about that. You're scared to go to the doctor because he might find something really bad, right?
So what's so bad that you can't possibly stand to hear it from the doctor?... (read in full...)
How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?
Q. Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...
A. 30 March 2010: Why ask us these questions? The man who is your husband is the one whose opinion you should be seeking. I cannot comment on every marriage, as each individual one has its own priorities. If you are sleeping with men behind his back, I do know tha... (read in full...)
Does he sound interested from his text message?
Q. Me and my ex split up about a month ago due to lots of arguing and personal issues - we needed space. Two weeks into the break up after no contact between us he tried to reach out to me by texting me asking how I was doing, and I politely told hi...
A. 30 March 2010: It's hard to tell from the text he sent what he feels. Texts don't have the tone and emotion you get when you actually talk with someone.
I think if I were you, and I wanted him back, I'd let him know I was ready to talk, in person, or on the phon... (read in full...)
What do these symptoms mean?
Q. Hi, I had my last period on 4th of march. Me and my husband are having regular sex. On 21st I started having pain in my abdomen which lasted for 3 days. I thought I may get early period. But I didn't. On 25th while having sex I started bleeding from ...
A. 30 March 2010: It sounds like a urinary tract infection but I'm not a doctor. You should go see one to make sure you are okay.... (read in full...)
Hearing problem!
Q. Hey well im 15. And i have really sensitive hearing so it really bugs me when i cant hear. Well my left ear feels clogged and i can barely hear out of it. :( it kinda scares me. I'm pretty sure its not water cuz i havent been swiming and i clean me ...
A. 30 March 2010: Why would you be scared to go the doctor?... (read in full...)
I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!
Q. Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I start...
A. 30 March 2010: I've been reading the old threads on your situation. Man, are you STUCK! You have made no headway, have you? I'm so sorry. You never did tell me about the relationship between your mother and your father. Care to try now?... (read in full...)
I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!
Q. Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I start...
A. 30 March 2010: I missed this one, in which your husband wanted to see a counselor. And you declined! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/can-anyone-help-me-with-my-doubts-about.html
I don't think you need a marriage counselor per se, I truly believe you need a high... (read in full...)
I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!
Q. Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I start...
A. 30 March 2010: You can't see through the turmoil in your brain to consider how a counselor could help you. I think you secretly don't want to have the turmoil removed. I think you get some sort of awful satisfaction out of being hurt, so deeply hurt and betrayed ... (read in full...)
I had no blood or pain when I had sex for the first time, has anyone else been the same as me?
Q. This is something very personal that's been bugging me for years so I'm just going to ask it. When I first had sex at 18 I was looking forward to the "traditional experience" - blood, a little pain, you know. However, I was quite let down. There ...
A. 30 March 2010: Thank you for your follow up! I'm sorry to hear that you think there's some sort of universal normal involving blood and pain. Everyone is individual, their bodies are individual and no one is going to have an identical experience to another. Your ... (read in full...)
I had no blood or pain when I had sex for the first time, has anyone else been the same as me?
Q. This is something very personal that's been bugging me for years so I'm just going to ask it. When I first had sex at 18 I was looking forward to the "traditional experience" - blood, a little pain, you know. However, I was quite let down. There ...
A. 30 March 2010: So you think that "deflowering" necessarily should involve blood and pain? And that your boyfriend was somehow disappointed that you didn't feel terrible pain and bleed all over him? Really?
If you really want to know what happened to your hyme... (read in full...)
I feel like I am raising a daughter rather than loving someone I hope to marry.
Q. She is 18 and I am 24. Right now I feel like I am raising a daughter rather than loving someone I hope to marry. She even said herself see feels like we are room mates than a couple. That being said I really don't know what to do. I have to teach ...
A. 29 March 2010: She's a teenager, still. There's a lot of growing up that happens between 18 and 24. Did you spring fully adult and mature from your mother's womb, knowing how to cook, clean and balance your checkbood? I don't think so. You learned all these things ... (read in full...)
Why is he telling me he's still in London when I know for a FACT he's not???
Q. Ok whats with this guy I do kinda like him but hes driving me mad met this guy 3 months ago he likes he drink and sometimes smokes weed. Anyway started talking after a period of not then past couple of days hes being really quiet again well ...
A. 29 March 2010: Honestly, he doesn't sound all that interested in you. He's lying to you because he doesn't want to see you and perhaps doesn't know how to tell you that bluntly. If I were you, I'd try to preserve the bit of dignity I had and stop texting or ... (read in full...)
Anyone have experience with Venlefaxine?
Q. Hi there, On my gf's recommendation I went to see a doctor about depression and anxiety as i have suffered for so many years and it became unbearable. I've tried a few things but now have been given Venlefaxine to use. I have been on it foe a couple...
A. 29 March 2010: My advice on this to take your concerns to the doctor. Do NOT stop taking it suddenly, as there might be side effects from an abrupt withdrawal. I think you are probably doing yourself a bit of a disservice by reading all the negative side effects, ... (read in full...)
Been together with a girl for over 3 years now we're broken up. She has no intention of getting back with me. Please help!
Q. *OP's own title* Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. For that length of time it felt as if we were the happiest couple alive. She always told me how I'm the most wonderful guy in the world and even better than the man of h...
A. 29 March 2010: First, you have to abide by the no-contact rule. If you don't, you're going to seem obsessive and creepy and I can pretty much guarantee you that she will not find it attractive. Begging and pleading do not make you look desirable or sexy.
She was ... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 28 March 2010: One final thing, I ran your symptoms through the symptom checker tool on webmd.com. I got the following list, some of which are potentially life-threatening. Go see your doctor, ASAP, strangers on the internet cannot diagnose or offer treatment for ... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers saying I'm anorexic??
Q. Hi again, I know I have already put a question up about teachers and boyfriends! But can someone help me.... All my teachers (and I really do mean ALL my teachers) are telling me I'm anorexic! Ok I may not be helping this situation by calling mys...
A. 28 March 2010: This question is beyond the scope of our volunteer, non-medical aunts. Good luck to you, Mish Mash, as you seek proper help from qualified professionals. Take care.... (read in full...)
I'm worried my ex will date my best friend and hurt him.
Q. So, almost a year ago I dated my now ex for about two months. It doesn't sound like very long, but we were friends for a very long time before we started dating and I guess that's why the break up had more of an impact than most two month break ...
A. 16 March 2010: Sorry to hear that. The problem is that you're too into the situation and need to step back and do your best to stop watching it. You also have to try to stop managing his reactions to her. You can't win here. I guess what I'm struck by is your ... (read in full...)
I'm worried my ex will date my best friend and hurt him.
Q. So, almost a year ago I dated my now ex for about two months. It doesn't sound like very long, but we were friends for a very long time before we started dating and I guess that's why the break up had more of an impact than most two month break ...
A. 12 March 2010: The truth of the matter is that you ARE "that guy." You lied to Jesse about it not bothering you. It does, or you wouldn't be here. Jesse can look after his own heart, and he does know about her history with you, he's a big boy now. Let him make his ... (read in full...)
To call or not to call?
Q. Hi all, I have a friend who is in some financial difficulty. she called me telling me that she has finally gotten a job but needs some money to buy the uniform or she could lose the job. She told me how much it would cost. I transferred the ...
A. 13 February 2010: I would think she would have wanted to thank you right away for getting the job. Why wouldn't she ask this mutual friend for money before you, or other people who have known her longer than 3 months? It's a bit bizarre to me, but it is your money, ... (read in full...)
Do women not like men to touch their breasts in intimacy?
Q. Hi, I'm really confused and I know this will sound weird to many people but I need some help. My boyfriend and I have wonderful intimacy. I love my breasts being touched as much as I love kissing and intercourse. I am also a very giving lover. M...
A. 12 February 2010: The thing he has to understand is that what other women like or don't like doesn't matter at all. It's not THEM he's making love to, it's YOU, and he should be listening to your desires, just as you do to his.
Lots and lots of women like breast stim... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have blood in your pre cum?
Q. hi, a medical issue that i would like to share with you all and need some advice. ok as my girlfriend needs me to take a blood test, she came with me and i gave a blood sample for test for normal blood sugar, urine sugar, jaundice and also she insi...
A. 12 February 2010: Blood in your precum is NOT normal; it is a sign of something not right. Go to the doctor and tell them. Second, blood in your urine is also NOT normal; it can be a sign of something very wrong. Again, go to the doctor! Infection, cancer, we can't ... (read in full...)
To call or not to call?
Q. Hi all, I have a friend who is in some financial difficulty. she called me telling me that she has finally gotten a job but needs some money to buy the uniform or she could lose the job. She told me how much it would cost. I transferred the ...
A. 12 February 2010: This sounds possibly like a love scammer; they befriend you on line and then start asking for money. Please look at your bank account to make sure it has not had any odd activity; protect your accounts and your financial details right away.
P... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 10 February 2010: If you're miserable in your marriage, either fix it or get out of it. It sounds like you're already mentally separated from your husband, so why are you hanging on to the marriage? Complacency, laziness, fear of the unknown, finances, what?
If you ... (read in full...)
Men have a natural hatred for me!
Q. (Mod Note - Op's own title. Text edited for clarity) can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like ...
A. 9 February 2010: Is this one guy in particular that has rejected you?... (read in full...)
My vagina just does not look right.
Q. heey. ive been wondering lately if my vagina lips are saggy or loose, they do seem different to others i have seen even though i havent seen many. mine just doesnt look rite and i need to know how to get rid of the saggyness, do you think excercis...
A. 9 February 2010: Women have various sizes of their vaginal lips, also called the labia majora and labia minora. Don't panic, I'm sure you are perfectly normal. Exercises are unlikely to help the lips, as they are not made with muscle tissue. There's nothing wrong ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to sleep with my Uncle?
Q. Is it illegal to sleep with my muums brother who has a different mum and hes the same age as me?...
A. 9 February 2010: I think you're asking the wrong question. I think the question should be, is it a good idea?
I have a few more questions for you. How old are you and he?
What would your mum feel if she found out?
Do you have brothers and sisters?
What is the p... (read in full...)
Are we heading back to rekindling our affair? I want it back but I don't want to look foolish if he is no longer interested
Q. I think he started flirting with me again. I am married and developed a flirtation/friendship with a single guy who happened to be my daughter's teacher last year. We moved to the next level and had sex a few times throughout the summer. He broke ...
A. 9 February 2010: I'm sorry, it's a bit of a peculiar question. You don't want to look foolish or desperate to a man you've already slept with? One you had to talk into having a fling? But then you developed feelings for him, despite promising there would be 'no ... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 9 February 2010: The thing is, your semen is comprised of stuff that will be attractive to insects and flies and other critters. I remember Georgia having some really big beetles called palmetto bugs. So eventually, at twice a day, that tree will have enough gunk in ... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 9 February 2010: You said you 'cannot seem to stop'. Are we reaching obsessional status with this tree? Is it this particular tree? Or is it that you have discovered the joys of masturbation?... (read in full...)
Should I organize my birthday plans around his access visit with his daughter?
Q. Its my birthday today, i had planned a bbq at my house, when it started to rain i told my bf i was going to change to dinner with friends at a restaurant, he said no i cant come (because he has to drop his daughter off to her mums house at 8pm) just ...
A. 8 February 2010: Don't TRY to end the relationship. End the relationship. You've done all the trying you need with him and honestly it sounds as though his issues run pretty deep if he's that paranoid about you. It's sad, to see someone fall apart like he has, but ... (read in full...)
I found condoms in his jacket but they're NOT ours!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend been together for 3 year we have a real rocky past but for the last 4 months I feel like we have really connected. Until I found condoms in is jackets. They're not ours so I confronted him about it and he gave me stupid ...
A. 8 February 2010: What are you afraid of?... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 6 February 2010: This is definitely in the manual, miamine and it is a memorable entry!
Poster, you see the issue with what you've written. You are going to get no end of grief when you get found out, and believe me, someone is going to spot this. It may wind up a... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 6 February 2010: It was a mistreemeanor, not a felmony.... (read in full...)
Am I sick for doing what I'm doing?
Q. My friends and me were goofing around one day near some trees in a backyard. We noticed a hole in a bend of the tree trunk and joked how it looked like a butt hole. My friend put his finger in the hole and said it felt gooey. We all did and it f...
A. 6 February 2010: If you can't stop, well, yeah, you might be sick.
What's in charge of your life, your brain, or your penis? Think about it. If you answer wrong, you might be sentenced to answering questions here at DearCupid for the next five to ten years.... (read in full...)
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