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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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I'm about to get caught out for lying to my girlfriend.
Q. I'm going to make this short, Recently I told my girlfriend I've been going to Painting class when I have really been drinking with my friends and just doing guy stuff, Anyhow She wants too see some of my work, Well I cant paint at all, I See this ...
A. 9 April 2010: What should you do? Tell the truth. ... (read in full...)
Agony aunts forever!
Q. I was wondering how I can get paid to become an agony aunt, I love helping others and answering questions, its one of my passions. thankyhuu x...
A. 8 April 2010: Look into life coaching. I think that is a growing field and there are lots of avenues to explore there. Good answer, bitterblue!... (read in full...)
My problem is my husband's family!
Q. My problem is my husband's family! We unfortunately moved on to property 10 years ago that his dad gave HIM and we placed our home there. The remaining acerage is to go to HIM when his dad dies. The one acre our home is on is ours together due to ...
A. 8 April 2010: I think you know that your husband is completely tied to his family, and is not going to stand up for you.
If you don't like being watched in your yard, take up nude yoga out there. Get all new agey. I'm serious. His mother will not tolerate his ... (read in full...)
I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!
Q. How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...
A. 8 April 2010: I think this is semantics. If a guy gives head to another guy, he wouldn't be considered 100% heterosexual, so you couldn't really call him straight straight. If that makes any sense.... (read in full...)
I'm struggling to trust her, but she's still flirty with the ex
Q. Hi! Im a guy who is currently struggling to trust his gf. She talks to guys from her past which i know alot of because we were really close friends before we started dating. we've been together for about 5 months now. So she use to tell me ...
A. 8 April 2010: This is a tough situation to be in. It's very difficult to regain trust after it's been broken and I think you know her pretty well, as you were friends first.
I think the only thing you can do is explain to her how you feel about this, that you ... (read in full...)
Agony aunts forever!
Q. I was wondering how I can get paid to become an agony aunt, I love helping others and answering questions, its one of my passions. thankyhuu x...
A. 8 April 2010: Me too, me too! (My husband would dearly love for me to be paid for the time I spend here.)
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To dress or not to dress?
Q. *OP's own title* I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Rece...
A. 8 April 2010: What if the answer was 'no', no married woman ever ever would do this?... (read in full...)
I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!
Q. How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...
A. 8 April 2010: I'd like to add that you should have discussed your definitions of 'cheating' with your romantic partner, so no one is being misled or lied to. Oh, and please practice safe sex.
h... (read in full...)
Serious question about sex!
Q. I am kinda scared i might have came inside my girlfriend today. we were having sex without a condom and then i felt i was gunna cum so i pulled out quick and came on her but it wasnt a lot but i know i didnt cum in her, well im pretty sure i didnt ...
A. 8 April 2010: Sigh. People. There is this thing called emergency contraception. You can get it from the pharmacist or your doctor.
If she is really concerned about this, and wants to take steps to make sure she doesn't get pregnant, she can go to the phar... (read in full...)
To dress or not to dress?
Q. *OP's own title* I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Rece...
A. 8 April 2010: What does it matter what other people do or think? They're not in your bedroom, this is between you and your wife. I'm confident that you can figure out a way to let her know you are interested, as she obviously feels comfortable talking with you ... (read in full...)
Why was my butt wet after sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were having sex unprotected. However, he always pulls out and then proceeds to ejaculate in his hand. We just started having sex not to long ago and this was maybe the 6th time we have? Anyways, after he pulled out and done came ...
A. 7 April 2010: It was possible that he ejaculated and didn't want to tell you. It could also be a combination of your vaginal fluids and his pre-cum (which the penis produces as part of its natural functioning).
If you are using the pull-out method I should tell... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will grow out of this, right?
Q. My bf and I are in a long distance relationship, and after a year of talking/chatting/e-mailing we decided to meet up. Things went great, so I took a seasonal job where he lived and moved in with him for a few months, just to see how it would go. ...
A. 7 April 2010: I see your boyfriend is addicted to DearCupid. No, seriously, I understand your concern.
To answer your question, I'm not convinced that this is an immature phase of his. This might be the way he approaches the world. You met him online, corr... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to a brutal type of pornography drawings. How will my girlfriend react?
Q. If I have an addiction to pornography involving drawings of young girls being killed, then...when should I tell my girlfriend, and what response might she have? ...
A. 7 April 2010: Hi, I think I just answered another question of yours and I think you may want to read that first. Do you even have a girlfriend at this point in time, or is this more a hypothetical question?
Because I can tell you, a real life girlfriend woul... (read in full...)
How can I shut myself off to other people and still have a productive life?
Q. I'm in college, and I've probably had depression, social anxiety, and aspergers for most of my life. I want to know how to live alone without wasting time feeling bad. What methods do you use when you don't have or want contact with anyone? How can ...
A. 7 April 2010: I think you are probably asking the wrong group for help here. We're not trained health care or mental health professionals. I would suggest that you locate an Asperger's support group near you. I have found a website that seems to have a search ... (read in full...)
I cant afford to visit a dentist, does anyone have any home remedies for toothache?
Q. hi i have been in agony over the last 2 days now with a toothache, it comes and goes but it always comes back. last night i took two asprins and put salt water in my mouth, it did help then i slept, now i have woken up to an even painful toothach...
A. 7 April 2010: http://www.nhs.uk/Pages/HomePage.aspx
There's a search tool for NHS dentists on that page. I was under the impression that your dental was covered by the NHS.
You may have a nasty infection, and you might as well get it properly treated rather t... (read in full...)
Dreams of pregnancy!
Q. Hello. A few nights ago I had a dream that I'd taken a pregnancy test and found that I was in fact pregnant and 2 weeks and 2 days along. The dream seems to focus on how far along. The thing is, I'm not planning for a baby, not as of yet, and have...
A. 7 April 2010: "To dream that you are pregnant, symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or act on it. This may also represent the birth of a new idea, direction, ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 7 April 2010: May I just say, as I rejoin this thread, ahem, Not My Name, that was AWESOME.
OP (that's original poster, in case you were wondering why you're expected to answer to a name from The Andy Griffith Show), I applaud you for having the cojones to come... (read in full...)
Will the abortion be safe so soon after the HPV vaccine?
Q. I'm pregnant but having an abortion, but I'm having the HPV jab before the abortion at school, can I still have it? ...
A. 7 April 2010: Ring the clinic and tell them about the jab. They are the ons who will know. Take care.... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 7 April 2010: There is a solution to your problem. It's called integrity. Live with it. And now, I have done what I can here, so now I say goodnight, Gracie. ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with my ex boyfriend's new girlfriend!
Q. Help! My ex boyfriend left me for another woman while he was in rehab for drugs and alcohol and she in there for a nervous breakdown and an eating disorder! They fell in love in two days in rehab? It has been almost two years and they are still ...
A. 7 April 2010: Lynn, this is not normal behavior for anyone. Are you sober? Are you clean yourself?
I think she friended you on FB to keep an eye on you. You sound as though you are capable of some very vengeful and erratic behavior and I think you need to back... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 7 April 2010: Sorry, ha! You've just described them as 34C and 36C and you think you're treating them with respect! Ha! Oh dear, you really are disconnected from anyone's feelings but your own, aren't you?
You're lying to them, aren't you? You may think you trea... (read in full...)
Boyfriend makes fun of my boobs
Q. My boyfriend has this obsession with boobs. He is constantly grabbing mine. In the beginning, when we were first dating.. he grabbed mine and said "These are D cups". He claimed to be an "expert" in boobs. The last woman he was with before me ...
A. 7 April 2010: The answer to your question at the end is this: there's no way for you to feel confident in this guy due to his boobsession.
I am going to try to put this as diplomatically as possible, but honey, don't you think you should be dating a man with some... (read in full...)
Is it fair to ask my handyman boyfriend to paint for free?
Q. My boyfiend of 5 years is a handy man on the side I have asked him to paint my kitchen and he said he would give me an estimate Is it unfair to ask him to do it for free or what is a reasonable labor cost? I dont mind paying but.... ...
A. 7 April 2010: Is he talking about the labor or the paint?... (read in full...)
I want a relationship, but he wants no-strings sex!
Q. I have met this nice lookin guy he says his single but just got out of relationship like 3months ago. We wanted to see each other so I invited him to my house to chill and watch TV. Why did I do that ? He was tryna touch me all over kissing me on ...
A. 7 April 2010: I think you two want different things right now, and unfortunately, there is no magic potion that will make him yours in love, just as there is no magic potion that will make you sleep with him, no strings attached.
He may be handsome and cool and ... (read in full...)
She's talking to other men online...
Q. I caught my gf back on a dating website communicating with a guy living in the same city as us. I told her to stop using the website because I feel uncomfortable about her using it (who wouldn't?). The sad thing is that I sacrificed a lot...
A. 6 April 2010: Sorry, but using a DATING site when you are living with her as her boyfriend? You moved to be with her? Dealbreaker. That's ridiculous, she's got some strange idea about what constitutes fidelity and what is acceptable behavior.
I'd be looking for ... (read in full...)
A woman says she was with my husband, but he denies it
Q. I think im going to leave my husband because I can't take it anymore. About this women that keeps sending me messages about him. I think he was with her last year when he went on a trip to florida. And we had just moved into our house. She keeps ...
A. 6 April 2010: Hi cookiemon, it appears you've had trust issues with your husband (then fiancee) in the past, based on your previous posts.
I guess I'm wondering if this is part of a pattern on his part and that you deep down know the truth but keep trying to veri... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 6 April 2010: I agree that there is a deeper psychological complex or syndrome or disorder here, if this is what happens to him.
OP, I think it's time you have a discussion with your parents, at least one of your parents and tell them you have some issues you ... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 6 April 2010: Psst. Guys. This question was written nearly 5 years ago. Whatever has happened, happened a long time ago. Okay, Tisha out.... (read in full...)
What do you think, could I be pregnant?
Q. Okay,so I have a BIG problem. On March 23rd,2010, I had unprotected sex. We're both disease free and I know this for sure, so we both agreed that it would be okay to go unprotected and do the pull out method (not the smartest idea, i know). ...
A. 6 April 2010: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/pregnancy/pregnancy-test-21227.htm
The person who is "educated in the field of pregnancy" would be your health care professional. Call your GYN for an appointment and you can talk with the nurse over... (read in full...)
I don't want to go to Cancun! Why does my family keep trying to get me to go?
Q. I am 25 years old. Every year for the past four years, my family and my sister-in-law's family went to Cancun, Mexico. My problem is they (both families) keep trying to get me to go again. Why would I want to go when I did once and hated it. ...
A. 6 April 2010: "Thank you for thinking of me and it's so flattering and special that you want my company; but alas, Cancun and I do not get along. I get physically ill when I'm there and I simply do not enjoy myself as much as I'm sure you are hoping. I know you ... (read in full...)
Help with the universal contour wrap
Q. Help! Last year I purchaed a universal contour wrap to do at home. Now I have lost the instructins and don't know how long I'm supposed to keep the wrap on for! I have searched the Internet but no info! Anyone got any idea??? Thanks....
A. 6 April 2010: http://www.universalcontourwrap.com/CA/contact/default.aspx?id=7017
Send them an email. Hope this helps!... (read in full...)
Is being on top less like to get a girl pregnant?
Q. Hey my friend told me if a girl is on top during sex its less likely to get pregnit with out a condom is that true?...
A. 6 April 2010: http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
One of my favorite videos which explains how pregnancy happens quite nicely. You'll be surprised at a couple of things.... (read in full...)
Is being on top less like to get a girl pregnant?
Q. Hey my friend told me if a girl is on top during sex its less likely to get pregnit with out a condom is that true?...
A. 6 April 2010: That's untrue. Sperm can swim uphill just as well as downhill.... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 6 April 2010: And thank you for using condoms. Your responsibility in that area now may save some girls from future cervical cancer or chronic pelvic inflammatory disease or impaired fertility. That is a responsible thing to do, and I applaud you for recognizing ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 6 April 2010: Clearly, I'm not getting my point across. You are fine with sex, you have no problem having it (once) with the girl. The girls who have no expectations beyond having sex with you once will have no problem with you.
You're the one who has a girl... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 6 April 2010: You would like us to show compassion, I understand that. Can you show compassion to these girls?
Condoms?
Do you get that if you are honest up front about this issue you won't be tagged as a user?
Do you want to fix this issue or are you just irr... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex, part of me wants to, but I've got some questions!
Q. ok im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have sex and part of me wants to but then im always scared about getting pregnant also he wont use a condom because he likes the feeling of one off im on the shot but please help me and give me options ...
A. 6 April 2010: So he's only having sex with girls without a condom? Pregnancy is a concern, but right now, I'll bet this guy has been exposed to several STIs. Chlamydia and HPV (the virus that causes genital warts and has been linked with cervical cancer) are very ... (read in full...)
Do I ignore my boyfriends anger?
Q. I have written previously about my boyfriends anger problem...which I think is hereditary. He is Italian and hot tempered. I wonder if my only recourse is to ignore it if I want the relationship to work. He gets upset all the time. If something ...
A. 6 April 2010: Once or twice, fine. But a life of upset, flung bottles and irrational fighting? Nope, not for me. Bless you for your patience and calmness, but I would be so outta there! ... (read in full...)
Do I ignore my boyfriends anger?
Q. I have written previously about my boyfriends anger problem...which I think is hereditary. He is Italian and hot tempered. I wonder if my only recourse is to ignore it if I want the relationship to work. He gets upset all the time. If something ...
A. 6 April 2010: Miamine, may I point out a fatal flaw in your reasoning? The problem with your approach is that you reward the undesirable behavior. You would know this if you had a dog. People think they should give a barking dog a biscuit to make him quiet down. ... (read in full...)
Do I ignore my boyfriends anger?
Q. I have written previously about my boyfriends anger problem...which I think is hereditary. He is Italian and hot tempered. I wonder if my only recourse is to ignore it if I want the relationship to work. He gets upset all the time. If something ...
A. 6 April 2010: I personally could't live with a person who was so childish he couldn't manage his temper. It's disruptive, selfish and unnecessary. Every day, a little stress. How old is this guy? He's not going to improve, I think.
I can't speak for you but I wo... (read in full...)
My wife thinks I drink too much, do I?
Q. I am married and 47 years old and have owned my own professional business for 16 years. For years I managed the stress and anxiety of running my own business by relaxing with a few drinks at the end of each busy day. Over the years my drinking ...
A. 6 April 2010: What if the word was "problem drinker" instead? Would that make you feel better? I think it's semantics now, and I expect the argument centers around whether or not you can start to enjoy that glass of wine again. Just to cut the stress.
I'm real... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 5 April 2010: Q, you are absolutely right. There is a little of this guy in all the men we know. We know you THINK like this, but you've been smartened up and some of you can actually look at things from the side of the person who has the breasts growing from the ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 5 April 2010: "Why is she so pissed? I don't try to deceive anyone."
Actually, you do. You don't tell them that you never "do" anyone twice. Lie of omission. Big lie. Big fat lie. So don't pretend you're not lying or deceiving them. You are.
So then, you ARE ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 5 April 2010: Condoms?
Empathy?... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 5 April 2010: I'm sure the one with the big nipples would be thrilled that her private details are being shared with us here on DC. I think the problem you have is that you're so afraid of maybe having someone rely on you or come to have expectations of you in a ... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 5 April 2010: It's pretty clear what he thinks about the girls. He calls them not by name but by bra size.... (read in full...)
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