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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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When a guy calls you at three in the morning...?
Q. I like this guy and he's called me at three in the morning, twice. I tell him everything, and he knows that I like him, and he tells me everything too, but we're not best friends. When he calls, he doesn't talk about anything sexual, and we just ...
A. 24 June 2010: Outstanding! Good for you. Now he knows you don't appreciate being considered a booty call. I like it.... (read in full...)
Dating, Age, Time, and Celibacy...Recipe for being Alone Forever?
Q. I have been alone- without being on a single date- since 1997. When I was younger, out of college I worked 8 years, 7 days a week, year round, 10-24 hours a day. The only time I had off was extremely rare and I was normally mentally exhaust...
A. 22 June 2010: Thanks again for that followup.
I want you to run yourself through this website: http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
I think you've got some warpy thoughts going on there.... (read in full...)
Dating, Age, Time, and Celibacy...Recipe for being Alone Forever?
Q. I have been alone- without being on a single date- since 1997. When I was younger, out of college I worked 8 years, 7 days a week, year round, 10-24 hours a day. The only time I had off was extremely rare and I was normally mentally exhaust...
A. 22 June 2010: Thank you for the followup. Wow, you certainly are analyzing this thoroughly. I have a simple question in reply: What are you doing to meet people and make friends? Ignore the dating stuff for now. ... (read in full...)
Do women keep it honest or do they have grey areas like men do?
Q. I am really curious and need women to be honest here. I've been dating this girl for about 4 weeks and we are starting to talk about making it exclusive. She's amazing, and I am pretty sure she thinks the same about me. So she asked me the ...
A. 22 June 2010: So you're assuming she's lying and you want the delta guesstimate from us? Um, it doesn't work that way.
So I say, she's lying, and double it. Or she's lying, and triple it. Or quadruple! Or quintuple! Where do I get my data from? Thin air. I don'... (read in full...)
What should I do to make her notice me again?
Q. I live in Singapore, it's different from the U.S where I think most of the users are. We are just, not so open.. I'm 17 and I really like this girl. It's my first time liking a girl so much. I met her in school. She said I was different and ...
A. 22 June 2010: Hi there, I think I have read your question correctly. You have an interest in a girl, you dated once, and the relationship since then has consisted of texts and phone calls? She goes out with other boys and makes sure you know this? And now she ... (read in full...)
Forgot to take my tampon out before sex, now it smells realy bad!
Q. i have this problem well you see i had intercourse while there where a tampon inside me and it went really rought so i did manage to get it out but somehow it still feels like something is in there, it hurts very bad now everytime i want to have ...
A. 22 June 2010: You're in Canada, right? http://www.cfsh.ca/Members/Find_a_member/default.aspx
You have to be your own health care advocate. No one else is going to be as diligent in finding health care for yourself.
You did NOT see a "lady doctor" in Canada, ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong not to tell someone you plan to sleep with?
Q. how wrong is it to not tell someone you're going to sleep with that you have genital warts? i mean is it that big of a deal?...
A. 22 June 2010: Hi there! You just gave 36 women cervical cancer!
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Shocking, isn't it? How did that answer strike you? Well, consider this: you have sex with someone, don't tell them you have HPV (Human Papilloma Virus, some associ... (read in full...)
Dating, Age, Time, and Celibacy...Recipe for being Alone Forever?
Q. I have been alone- without being on a single date- since 1997. When I was younger, out of college I worked 8 years, 7 days a week, year round, 10-24 hours a day. The only time I had off was extremely rare and I was normally mentally exhaust...
A. 22 June 2010: The other aunts have done such a good job answering this that I only have one or two thoughts to add here.
What do you mean, you can't volunteer? You can't stuff envelopes? You can't deliver newsletters? You just don't want to take the time to find... (read in full...)
Am I being too fussy?
Q. I could never date a non vegan, it doesn't matter how nice they are I just never could! Am I being ridiculous? Also why do people resent vegitarians and vegans? I have a few ideas why but would just like to know what you guys think!...
A. 22 June 2010: I don't resent vegans or vegetarians at all. In fact, a couple we're friendly with are vegetarian, and we get together for dinner quite often. We don't order meat when we're with them, and we don't mind. They tell us to order what we'd like, they ... (read in full...)
How can he do that at his age?
Q. How is my lover of 62 able to keep an erection for up to three hours?...
A. 22 June 2010: Is it a problem?... (read in full...)
His ex has a new and improved face!!
Q. Guys, here's a question for you. My boyfriend's ex, with whom he was in a 4 year relationship with, has had major plastic surgery on her face since they broke up nearly 3 years ago. She has a new chin, and most recently, a new nose, a la Micha...
A. 22 June 2010: Ah, okay. This is asked out of curiousity, not because you are feeling as though you may lose him to her, although you did verbalize some worry as to whether or not he would find renewed interest in her.
Did you ever notice when you got to know some... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and a virgin, I don't want to abandon my morals but I'm feeling so frustrated!
Q. I'm 25 and still a virgin I'm so fed up really feel like i'm going to die this way. I don't go out much so I find it really difficult to meet someone. I've chatted online to some guys and some I really like but they seem to be after just one t...
A. 22 June 2010: This is going to sound really dorky but did you ever consider trying to boost your self-confidence through public speaking? I mean Toastmasters. Go to a meeting and try it! It may change the way you approach people and can't hurt at work or school ... (read in full...)
When a guy calls you at three in the morning...?
Q. I like this guy and he's called me at three in the morning, twice. I tell him everything, and he knows that I like him, and he tells me everything too, but we're not best friends. When he calls, he doesn't talk about anything sexual, and we just ...
A. 21 June 2010: I think DrPsych nailed this answer.
You're giving too much away. There's nothing mysterious about you if you lay it all out. Guys like a bit of a challenge, a bit of a chase. You're taking his calls at 3 am, that tells him you'd drop ever... (read in full...)
His ex has a new and improved face!!
Q. Guys, here's a question for you. My boyfriend's ex, with whom he was in a 4 year relationship with, has had major plastic surgery on her face since they broke up nearly 3 years ago. She has a new chin, and most recently, a new nose, a la Micha...
A. 21 June 2010: I'm not a guy but I know a few... I'd say most don't care so much if someone has had plastic surgery unless it is painfully obvious or it's turned that person into a freak show. As long as the outcome is acceptable and she looks good, my guess is ... (read in full...)
Should I meet this 43 year old online friend?
Q. On wednesday I'm supposed to meet up with a 43 year old man off this chat room, I'm just not sure if I want to. We first started talking when I was 16 and he really wanted to meet me and we would talk fir hours on the phone an skype etc, i dec...
A. 21 June 2010: Hey, take care of yourself! I've found life is a lot easier when you don't have to lie to people. Drama is highly overrated!
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Abortion or single mum?
Q. i found out i was pregnant 3 weeks after my boy friend and i broke up. but is decided to call him and let him know about the pregnancy and he told me to abort it.i dont feel like aborting this child and i dont want to be a single mum please help ...
A. 21 June 2010: I know one mother who gave birth to a baby with some severe issues; she was in a stable marriage and she found she just couldn't cope with it. It was killing her. She wound up giving that child up for adoption; it was an open adoption, so she knows ... (read in full...)
Abortion or single mum?
Q. i found out i was pregnant 3 weeks after my boy friend and i broke up. but is decided to call him and let him know about the pregnancy and he told me to abort it.i dont feel like aborting this child and i dont want to be a single mum please help ...
A. 21 June 2010: You left out one choice that might be the best for the baby. Adoption.
So with three options open to you, you have to decide what is the one you'll be most content and at peace with in 20 years time.
No one can tell you what is right for you; you... (read in full...)
How can he do that at his age?
Q. How is my lover of 62 able to keep an erection for up to three hours?...
A. 21 June 2010: I think they're supposed to call the doctor with Cialis if the erection lasts more than 4 hours. That's what the ad says, anyway.... (read in full...)
Should I meet this 43 year old online friend?
Q. On wednesday I'm supposed to meet up with a 43 year old man off this chat room, I'm just not sure if I want to. We first started talking when I was 16 and he really wanted to meet me and we would talk fir hours on the phone an skype etc, i dec...
A. 21 June 2010: This is sounding more and more like a bad idea. If this is a hidden relationship, then there's a reason you can't be upfront and open about this with your parents and friends. And that reason generally means that someone is up to something that they ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to want other men to find you attractive if you are in a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I are best friends and we are very open with each other. He has told me on a few occasions that his friends think im beautiful. I am very flattered by this. The truth is although I love my boyfriend very much and would never ...
A. 21 June 2010: You might want to look in the mirror to make sure you look okay, but that sounds innocuous enough. Keep in mind that making that face and making long eye contact with someone could be misconstrued.
Personally, I prefer smiles and natural rela... (read in full...)
Should I meet this 43 year old online friend?
Q. On wednesday I'm supposed to meet up with a 43 year old man off this chat room, I'm just not sure if I want to. We first started talking when I was 16 and he really wanted to meet me and we would talk fir hours on the phone an skype etc, i dec...
A. 21 June 2010: What did your parents say?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to want other men to find you attractive if you are in a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I are best friends and we are very open with each other. He has told me on a few occasions that his friends think im beautiful. I am very flattered by this. The truth is although I love my boyfriend very much and would never ...
A. 21 June 2010: Are you talking about making that duck-face like Victoria Beckham with the 'pout a little bit'? Perhaps you could be clearer about that. I personally think the duck-face is bizarre looking, but then I'm not a young man, who might find contorted lips ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to skip the condom while on the pill?
Q. I'm taking birth control, I've been on it for about 3 months now, never missed a day. I haven't been active, but I'm curious that if I have sex, is my boyfriend able to finish in me, without the chance of getting pregnant. We don't want to use a ...
A. 20 June 2010: Nothing but abstinence is 100% effective. The pill's pretty good though, IF you take it as directed ALL the time. You have to decide if the slight risk is worth it for you; discuss it with your doctor for more information. I found this information ... (read in full...)
Farewell from an aunt
Q. After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the ...
A. 20 June 2010: Wait! What about the Manual???!?... (read in full...)
Farewell from an aunt
Q. After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the ...
A. 20 June 2010: Oh Eyes, you have no idea how much I'll miss you. You are one of my all-time faves here. I hope you leave your legacy for others to read and just let the account sit idle, rather than take away that avatar.
I'm going to miss you, you big galo... (read in full...)
Are double standards ever fair?
Q. Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. Y...
A. 18 June 2010: Well, there's calling him out on it, and then there's calling him out on it. It's all in how you do it. ... (read in full...)
Are double standards ever fair?
Q. Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. Y...
A. 18 June 2010: I'd start asking him why he lacked trust in you. You might unravel that strand and find that he's been feeling like straying himself and is projecting his feelings onto you. Tread very very carefully with this one, as you don't want to accuse him of ... (read in full...)
Are double standards ever fair?
Q. Here's one I think people might actually have strong opinions on.... Recently an old friend came back into my life. My boyfriend was thrilled for me when I told him, and was just as excited for me as I was since I REALLY enjoy their company. Y...
A. 18 June 2010: Good grief, this one looks like a 'gimme' for you. Why are you afraid to call him on his nonsense?... (read in full...)
Why does she essentially require that I have an erection during oral sex?
Q. My fiance and I have a pretty good sex life but it's not without some quirks. I've always enjoyed giving her oral sex. She claims that I'm the first who has been able to bring her to orgasm this way. The problem is that she essentially requ...
A. 18 June 2010: One more thought on this. Women are trained through the years to be the givers, not the takers. For some women, it can be very uncomfortable to be purely selfish in bed, because it goes against those years of conditioning. By making sure that you ... (read in full...)
Why does she essentially require that I have an erection during oral sex?
Q. My fiance and I have a pretty good sex life but it's not without some quirks. I've always enjoyed giving her oral sex. She claims that I'm the first who has been able to bring her to orgasm this way. The problem is that she essentially requ...
A. 18 June 2010: Wait. She expects you to stay hard without any stimulation whatsoever? She's being unreasonable, sorry, but that's just being selfish. If she "allowed" you to use your hand to keep yourself erect, that's one thing, but to expect you to stay erect ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me with his ex, but says he didn't come!
Q. hello. my partner of 3 years had just recently cheated on me with his ex gf. they never had sex but did other foreplay type things. he reakons he didnt come when she gave him head could this happen? and also i need advice on what i should do... t...
A. 18 June 2010: He must have a very low opinion of your intelligence if he thinks that lack of orgasm excuses the cheating. His stuff would be out on the front lawn if he were my partner. He can work on the relationship from a distance--the next few weeks will ... (read in full...)
How can I prevent my mother from finding out I have a boyfriend?
Q. My phone bill has come and my mu has applied for the call list!I've been calling up my guy!I don want mum to know that I'm in a relationship!How do i save myself?...
A. 17 June 2010: Are you the one with the "really possessive" boyfriend? You certainly have a lot of secrets for one so young. It seems to me that you'd probably find life a lot less complicated if you aren't hiding things from people who should know them. Your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I was intimate with another man after we'd broken up?
Q. I've grown intimate with a guy when i'd broken up with my ex.the guy happened to be my best friend.Now i don wanna tell this to my ex since we're back in a relationship.But he knows that i had a best friend and we were good friends.Now he's really ...
A. 17 June 2010: Tell us what "really possessive" means.... (read in full...)
I told him I'd wait for him... but I'm already married!
Q. I have been with my husband for 24 years, he is very controlling with me. to make a very long story short this guy started talking to me at work, we got to really enjoy each others company. the only problem is that for one he's only 27 im 41, but he ...
A. 17 June 2010: This can be divided into two parts. One, if you are unhappy in your marriage, either work to fix it, or leave him. If he's abusive--"controlling" is a code word for that--then it's time to get out.
Second, a guy who's married and has a child is a ma... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble urinating!
Q. hi dear aunts i have a problem since 2 days, i could not urinate normally,it drips 5 drops and then 5 drops it goes on, i have pain while urinating,like someone is pricking with a pin, i consulted the doctor,he says precum has blocked my urethera...
A. 16 June 2010: Oh, and as for clearing pre-cum, you just urinate regularly. If urination is painful, you have an infection. Or possibly other more serious things. Like bladder cancer. That can kill you in a few years, after they remove your bladder and have you ... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 16 June 2010: Did you ever get this treated? This was six months ago, what did the doctor say about this?... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble urinating!
Q. hi dear aunts i have a problem since 2 days, i could not urinate normally,it drips 5 drops and then 5 drops it goes on, i have pain while urinating,like someone is pricking with a pin, i consulted the doctor,he says precum has blocked my urethera...
A. 16 June 2010: You very clearly need to see a doctor and stop trying home remedies. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/blood-drops-in-my-urine-what-could-this.html
You are taking idiotic risks with your health and you could wind up losing more than you could imag... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble urinating!
Q. hi dear aunts i have a problem since 2 days, i could not urinate normally,it drips 5 drops and then 5 drops it goes on, i have pain while urinating,like someone is pricking with a pin, i consulted the doctor,he says precum has blocked my urethera...
A. 16 June 2010: You need to find a better doctor, and actually have the guy examine you. This sounds like an infection.... (read in full...)
How do you understand mixed messages?
Q. Ok, I need some advice. What is it about guys? Can you not just say what you want?! How do you interpret and understand all the mixed messages and tell if a guy really likes you or not. Are we just friends, do you want more? Why cant guys jus...
A. 16 June 2010: I think his actions say that for whatever reason, he's not prepared to date you at this time. I think in light of this, if I were you, I wouldn't let myself get set up for disappointment by him. I think it would be better for you to go do some ... (read in full...)
Splitting the bill on a first date?
Q. I was on a first date with this guy and we went to see a movie, then had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. We're both students. He is a year older than me. So, he bought the movie tickets online, then announced the price out loud - "so it's 22.50 f...
A. 16 June 2010: It certainly doesn't sound like he's wooing you. It sounded more like a couple of friends going out and splitting the bill. Maybe he decided he wasn't going to spend any money on a lost cause?
I cannot resist commenting on this: ..."hmm, I wond... (read in full...)
My brother in law wont stop pursuing me.
Q. My brother in law won't quit calling me texting me and facebooking me. We almost had sex one time and my sister walked in, no I don't want anything to do with him, but he woint leave me alone. I haven't answered anything from him, because I wouldn't ...
A. 16 June 2010: Better yet, give your phone to your sister and let her handle the next text. I like that idea better.... (read in full...)
My brother in law wont stop pursuing me.
Q. My brother in law won't quit calling me texting me and facebooking me. We almost had sex one time and my sister walked in, no I don't want anything to do with him, but he woint leave me alone. I haven't answered anything from him, because I wouldn't ...
A. 16 June 2010: Are you serious? Is it that difficult for you to figure out?
Block him on FB, block his number on your phone. Or change your number if that's too hard for you to figure out, and delete your FB account if you can't figure that out either. So easy... (read in full...)
How do you understand mixed messages?
Q. Ok, I need some advice. What is it about guys? Can you not just say what you want?! How do you interpret and understand all the mixed messages and tell if a guy really likes you or not. Are we just friends, do you want more? Why cant guys jus...
A. 10 June 2010: Now, hold on there missy. Let's get the male brains engaged in this before we hoist the white flag. Please tell us what he says/does and how you have responded, before we totally give this up.
He's said he cares for you? Actually said those word... (read in full...)
How do you understand mixed messages?
Q. Ok, I need some advice. What is it about guys? Can you not just say what you want?! How do you interpret and understand all the mixed messages and tell if a guy really likes you or not. Are we just friends, do you want more? Why cant guys jus...
A. 10 June 2010: I think a 'mixed message' is pretty much a message that he's not into you enough to be clear about liking you. Ergo, he doesn't like you enough to make it clear he likes you, ergo he doesn't like you. Is that clear?
One of the other aunts used this... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 3 December 2009: Here's a partial list of what it could be from the webmd.com symptom checker tool: hemophilia, urinary tract infection, kidney infection, bladder cancer, hydronephrosis, polycystic kidney disease, bladder stones, chlamydia, interstitial cystitis, ... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 3 December 2009: I completely second what marriedlady said. This is one of those symptoms that should NEVER be ignored. Your life is too important to waste on being embarassed to go to the doctor. Don't mess around with this--THIS IS SERIOUS!!!!
CALL THE DOCTOR TODA... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 3 December 2009: My dad had blood in his urine and it turned out to be bladder cancer. Blood in your urine is not normal and should be checked out ASAP. His particular kind of bladder cancer at the time had about a 10 year survival rate of 30 percent. Thank goodness ... (read in full...)
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