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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 1 December 2011: I'm sorry you didn't reach the conclusion you wanted with your wife but at least you are on the road to your own happiness. It sounds like you're doing fine and will come out of this a bit wiser. I hope you find someone who will make you happy! Good ... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 26 July 2010: So did you actually talk to someone about the 'ducks'? Or was your comment more meant to keep me from asking more? What concrete steps have you taken to protect your interests, financially?... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 13 July 2010: Thank you for the update. How are those ducks?... (read in full...)
Is there REALLY an age limit on love???
Q. Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...
A. 8 July 2010: My experience with "mature" teenagers is that they never actually do come back and address the valid questions that adults ask of them.
OP, keep in mind that we were all teenagers once too. I think we are all pretty much in agreement that we all ... (read in full...)
Headache during pregnancy
Q. I am 25 year old. I am pregnant by 4 months. I am having headache since last night. i thought it is because of pregnancy. but today morning it started paining more. is it because of pregnancy. if not, then shall i take any medicine...
A. 8 July 2010: Please ask your obstetrician this question. Medications taken during pregnancy may affect the fetus, so it's important you receive competent medical advice from your own physician. Best wishes.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my friends over this guy... what should I do?
Q. My friends and family don't like my boyfriend, they think hes a thief and we did catch him once with a cell phone but he did have a good excuse for how he had it. he had a phone that looked just like the one that was stolen/lost and they both ended ...
A. 8 July 2010: I don't know. He sounds a bit fishy to me too. What is it that you see in him?... (read in full...)
Is it selfish of me to keep waiting...?
Q. Hi, I am currently in a LDR (long distance relationship) after dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He came to Asia, where I currently reside, to study on a one year exchange and we happened to fall in love. We had plans to move to London together...
A. 8 July 2010: If I were you, I'd probably make the difficult decision to let him go and date other people. You can always revisit that if neither of you find someone new and circumstances change and you can be in the same location.
I did the LDR for a while, but ... (read in full...)
I lied to my friends!
Q. i lied to some of my friends and told them i lost my virginity... idk what to do... i trust my friends but i feel like they think im a hoe.. i dont wanna tell them i lied to them, but i dont know what to do.....
A. 8 July 2010: Why did you lie in the first place?
So you have a choice of being considered promiscuous or being a liar. Possibly both. Not good.
I guess I think I'd figure why I lied and then tell someone the truth.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Is there REALLY an age limit on love???
Q. Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...
A. 8 July 2010: It sounds as though you two are a very nice couple. As you are so mature for your age, let me ask you this. Why do you think society sets age limits for sexual activity? Do you think it's some sort of evil plot to keep teenagers down and subjugated ... (read in full...)
Is my vagina normal?
Q. Ok i have a question, um idk if my vagina looks alright. is it normal for your vagina to hang stuff out, its like hangs or something. something in it just hangs, idk if its supposed to be in or out..i need advice help...
A. 8 July 2010: I'm willing to bet you are perfectly normal. Vaginas, or more properly, vulvas (the external genitalia) are in all shapes and configurations.
I have a website that may help you get an idea of what constitutes "normal": http... (read in full...)
He loves his religion more than his son and me!
Q. My husband told me that he loves his religion more than my son and I .. what should I do he's a good father and a good husband and we loves him so much????????????...
A. 8 July 2010: This husband?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/religious-conflicts.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband--says-i-do-not-plese.html
So it's a brand new religion for him and he's been abusive to you in the past? Yet you call him a g... (read in full...)
Why all the weird stuff?
Q. I've been with my this guy for two weeks so very new relationship. In the two weeks we've slept together every day and I've gone down on him but he hasn't done the same for me. In fact tonight I was going down on him even though I didn't really feel ...
A. 8 July 2010: His problem is HIM, and he's going to suck you into his little nightmare if you stay. You're two weeks into this relationship, this should be a honeymoon period. Instead, he walks away, acts like a 2 year old and pouts.
Seriously, run run run RUN ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I know I need to walk away but how do I find closure?
Q. Hello there, Im in love with a man and I know he loves me too. Its not good and i wish I didnt love him. He was going through the process of getting a divorce when i met him over a year ago. He has massive issues about the fact he broke ...
A. 8 July 2010: What do you mean by "closure"?
I ask because I think people who are faced with the end of relationships often expect some sort of neat and tidy end to the situation. Many times, there isn't going to be a neatly sewn up and satisfying ending.
Think... (read in full...)
Why do women always lie about there sexual past???
Q. Hello everyone, Today im here too really find out why women always under sell their sexual past. I found out two of my good friends and including me, That are wives have liad too us about there sexual past. Ive been married for 13 years and come too ...
A. 8 July 2010: You need to seek professional help if you are calling and threatening women. Your wife had no business telling you anything and you have no call to take upon yourself the job of judge, jury and confessor.
I'm sorry you are so hurt, but you are goin... (read in full...)
Is there a nice way of saying no???
Q. A man that I work with has had a crush on me for the last year. I am not interested in him, and he is more than ten years older than me. I have been trying to ignore him and pretend i haven't noticed, but he still hasn't taken the hint, and keeps ...
A. 8 July 2010: "Hal, thank you for the book/invitation/whatever, but I have something I need to tell you. I worry that you have some sort of crush on me. I hope you know that I enjoy being your coworker at work, but this is making me uncomfortable. You're a nice ... (read in full...)
How would you feel if your boyfriend was wanking behind your back?
Q. hi im hoping you can give me your views as im a little confussed and to be honest feel a bit cheated, can anyone give me there views how would you feel and what would you do and say if you found out your boyfriend was wanking behind your back whilst ...
A. 8 July 2010: Whatever my man chooses to do with himself (solo) within the privacy of our home is entirely his business. I don't "own" his body, his sexuality or his fantasies. He's a grown man, who is entitled to his privacy. Just as I'm entitled to mine.
... (read in full...)
How the heck do I last longer?
Q. Hi, this is quite an embaressing question but I see no other way than to ask. When I have sex with my girlfriend... I tend to come really fast, every time, im talking about 30 seconds tops. When I masturbate I try to make it last longer since I h...
A. 7 July 2010: http://www.health.arizona.edu/health_topics/sexual_health/usingtwocondoms.htm
I forgot to add some supporting info, so there's the link. Try the extrastrength condoms. And as another aunt said, try having an orgasm first, then try again.
I think th... (read in full...)
How the heck do I last longer?
Q. Hi, this is quite an embaressing question but I see no other way than to ask. When I have sex with my girlfriend... I tend to come really fast, every time, im talking about 30 seconds tops. When I masturbate I try to make it last longer since I h...
A. 7 July 2010: No! Don't wear two condoms! This causes bad friction and will tear both condoms. Find an extra thick one instead.... (read in full...)
How much does size matter to women?
Q. I have an ordinary size dick and I spoke to a Doctor about it once. He said that there wasn't really anything that can be done about it. His exact words were... "you are what you are and there's nothing we can do to change that." I want an hone...
A. 7 July 2010: I've written on this topic here before. I've got a couple of links for you to read:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-she-lying-about-her-size-preferences.html
http:... (read in full...)
What should I do? I've lost the spark for my partner, and developed feelings for another man!
Q. i have been with my partner for almost 3 years now and were engaged but recently i started losing the spark for him , and ive also stared talking to this other guy i have devoloped feelings for but i dont want to hurt my other half but this other ...
A. 7 July 2010: Are you 16 or 17? I'd say you may not be ready to be married or fully committed to one guy just yet. If you're feeling interested in another guy, this may be your subconscious telling you that you aren't fully happy in the situation. Also, getting ... (read in full...)
Are birth-signs a factor in starting a relationship?
Q. 1. I loved a girl (two long years ago and she was not very impressed with me and didn't want me to contact her again !). She is a gemini and I'm a virgo. I read a lot about the matching thing in the net etc and all say its the worst match possible ...
A. 7 July 2010: Pre-judging someone on the basis of a horoscope seems to me to be a bad idea. You may imagine that you see traits that aren't there or ignore things that are. Why can't you simply get to know someone for who they are, without having to label or ... (read in full...)
I think I'm pregnant, and I have no idea how to tell my parents or what they'll say. Help!
Q. Hi, my naame is Alexandra. im 15 yrs old. and i think im pregnant ive been pregnant before. but i lost the baby one month into the pregnancy. But now since im pregnant again.. i just dont know what to do. im goingg to thee gynocologis...
A. 7 July 2010: Did you take a pregnancy test from the store?
I think part of doing mature, grown up things like sex, is being grown up and mature enough to tell your parents. Tell them that you have something important to tell them, and then sit them down and tell... (read in full...)
I want to know how my best friend's husband feels about me. What should I do?
Q. I am currently married, and only have been for six months. My husband is loving and supportive, and we treat each other very well. Although we have a strong emotional relationship, I have never been interested in him sexually [we have sex, it's ...
A. 7 July 2010: Does your husband know you aren't sexually attracted to him?... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating now for 3 years, its always been really hard for us because I’m dealing with depression and anxiety which I am seeking professional help for. My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago with a prostitute after getting ...
A. 7 July 2010: Sorry, I didn't get a notification that you'd followed up. I go back from time to time and see if there are these hidden follow ups.
Okay, I can only guess that he has his own issues. Maybe he's reacting against monogamy and is going about it in a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied about EVERYTHING... but I miss him.
Q. So... I am 18 years old and I was dating a guy for about 3 years... in the last year of the relationship things started to go downhill. My parents started to not like him and neither did my friends... I felt amazing when I was with him... like his ...
A. 7 July 2010: What was the "whole bunch of drama"?... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 7 July 2010: It occurred to me that she might be keeping tabs on you through other people and knows more about your state of mind than you think. If you've been open about your feelings of desperation, then she knows you're still off balance from this.
I want... (read in full...)
No affection in the relationship -- was I right to call for a break?
Q. i have been with a girl for 4 year and love her very much my mates and family have been telling me to get rid of her for ages but i lover so much its my first serious relationship any ways it came to her 21st birthday i took her on a suprise mini ...
A. 7 July 2010: Why have your friends and family been telling you to get rid of her?
I think you were brave and right to call for a break, by the way.... (read in full...)
Could she get pregnant from this?
Q. My girlfriend gave me a handjob and after I came I immediatly began to rub her vagina. I didn't actualy put a finger in but I'm worried she might be pregnant. Is there any chance of this?...
A. 7 July 2010: I have a video for you to watch. Low budget artwork and cheesy dialogue but very enlightening: http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html... (read in full...)
Could she get pregnant from this?
Q. My girlfriend gave me a handjob and after I came I immediatly began to rub her vagina. I didn't actualy put a finger in but I'm worried she might be pregnant. Is there any chance of this?...
A. 7 July 2010: If you got semen on her vulva or vagina, yes, there's a chance sperm could fertilize one of her eggs.
... (read in full...)
Nothing Below the Belt: Is He Gay?
Q. I have been seeing a guy off and on for almost six years. He has NEVER touched me below the waist. He seems to really like my breasts and loves me to touch him and kiss him all over, of course. I guess the main reason I continue to see him ...
A. 7 July 2010: I know a few gay men, and I have to say that some of them LOVE breasts. (Think of drag queens!) They just don't want the rest of the package.
Whatever it is, this guy finds female genitalia and the secretions thereof revolting. I'll give him mens... (read in full...)
I want to know how my best friend's husband feels about me. What should I do?
Q. I am currently married, and only have been for six months. My husband is loving and supportive, and we treat each other very well. Although we have a strong emotional relationship, I have never been interested in him sexually [we have sex, it's ...
A. 7 July 2010: I think your subconscious is doing its best to get you out of the mistake of your marriage, by creating a physical desire for another man--physical desire which is lacking in your marriage--and with it, then, chaos and drama. That little inner you ... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 7 July 2010: My husband says I'm a lateral thinker. Whatever that means. But I just started wondering about mutual friends. Who were her friends here in the US, are you talking to them and are they in contact with her?
I'm sorry, the fact that she's gone home... (read in full...)
Scared I'm no longer a virgin!
Q. well i need help. i am so scared that i am not a virgin, because my boyfriend and i decided to play around and i want to know if am still a virgin if he fingered me...
A. 7 July 2010: The pop quiz was meant to be interactive, thank you for pointing out the correct answer, but I had hoped the OP would have had a chance to read it and respond. She has a lot of learning to do and encouraging active thought and learning, reasoning ... (read in full...)
Relationship with a married man who doesn't leave his wife
Q. I met a man online. He is still married, but she has moved out of the home. They run a business together and to date they still draw from the same money pot. I have told him from the beginning that my values want a legal separation and/or divorce, ...
A. 7 July 2010: Go. Start dating other men. Either this guy will figure out what needs to be done or not. You'll have your final answer soon enough if you deliver and carry out the ultimatum. If he doesn't come through, then you'll be that much further along ... (read in full...)
Is if fair that my sister would invite new roommates without consulting me?
Q. This is a sibling relationship I have a problem about. I live with my sister overseas, she is a single mom with 2 kids from different men, I am single. Well, we agreed to live together with all household expenses cut into half. Even for the house ...
A. 6 July 2010: Time to move out, for sure. She only needs to find one more friend to take your spot. Don't discuss or negotiate or justify your decision--just tell her it's not working out for you, you need more privacy and that's that.
Give her some time to find... (read in full...)
I left my husband, but now the guy I had feelings for won't see me.
Q. I'm married (now separated). While still with my husband, I met a guy online who I knew years ago. We flirted with each other off and on for months. We didn't meet up because of my marriage. We still flirted and fantasized about being together. I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Are you sure he's single? He may be married or involved and it was just curiosity that got him to see you in the first place. Maybe he didn't really like you as well as he pretended, he decided you're not really his type, and rather than coming out ... (read in full...)
Scared I'm no longer a virgin!
Q. well i need help. i am so scared that i am not a virgin, because my boyfriend and i decided to play around and i want to know if am still a virgin if he fingered me...
A. 6 July 2010: Pop quiz:
Pick out the true statements below:
You can't get pregnant if
•It's your first time;
•If you're both virgins;
•When the girl is having her period;
•If the guy pulls out before he ejaculates or if he doesn't go all the way in;
•If you... (read in full...)
How can I get my life back? His strange behavior still worries me!
Q. I can't get over the love of my life. It may sound weird but we never actually went out together but hes been my life for the past 2 and a half years! I have wrote up before asking for your advice about his behaviour, i wont write it out all again ...
A. 6 July 2010: I have to agree with Ask Oldersister. You've pushed on this guy long enough and it's pretty clear to me that he is NOT interested and never was. It's been built up in your head to be more than it was.
If this has been going on for the last 2 year... (read in full...)
Are birth-signs a factor in starting a relationship?
Q. 1. I loved a girl (two long years ago and she was not very impressed with me and didn't want me to contact her again !). She is a gemini and I'm a virgo. I read a lot about the matching thing in the net etc and all say its the worst match possible ...
A. 6 July 2010: If she asked you to leave her alone, leave her alone. You're spending a great deal of time trying to fix something that she has no interest in doing. Why is that? Why wouldn't you be figuring out how to conquer your low self-esteem and build up your ... (read in full...)
Can I get in trouble at work for what I post on FB?
Q. Need some advice and have been on internet but can't find any info. I basically need to know if your manager is on maternity leave can she get you in trouble? I have acess to my facebook and usually update my status on breaks etc.. Now I ...
A. 6 July 2010: Delete those posts ASAP and don't post anything like that again. My rule of thumb is don't post anything I wouldn't want my mother to read.
It's amazing how naive people are about facebook. My husband's company does a search on anyone who is bein... (read in full...)
How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!
Q. My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...
A. 6 July 2010: I know I'm late to this discussion, but have you seen a divorce lawyer yet?There's a lot of things that could sneak up and surprise you financially. I'd go just to develop a strategy to maintain the best financial outcome for you. Plan for the ... (read in full...)
Do "fat girls" ever get a chance?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and been single my entire life. The only excuse that I have is that I am the "fat girl." I have tons of friends I work in a environment where I have to be outgoing and am. I go out almost every weekend. The guy...
A. 6 July 2010: Has it ever occurred to you that there are males who feel the same way as you, maybe not about being overweight, but about feeling overlooked? That the girls go for the obviously attractive guys but ignore the guy who isn't as handsome/fit/hot as ... (read in full...)
Am I just wasting my time with him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating now for 3 years, its always been really hard for us because I’m dealing with depression and anxiety which I am seeking professional help for. My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago with a prostitute after getting ...
A. 6 July 2010: He's certainly doing everything possible to drive you away. Trying to hire a prostitute and then actually TELLING you about that??? Oh, my god. Then he can't comprehend how that might make you mistrust him???? Are you serious? This is some very bad ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend likes me to do things I don't really want to do
Q. My boyfriend likes me to do somethings during our alone time that sometimes I just don't particularly like but it's hard for me to say no, especially because I have done it a few times before when he had asked. I love him and don't want to hurt his ...
A. 6 July 2010: How old are you and how old is he, and how long have you been intimate? What are those things that are troubling you?
It's good for couples to be able to talk frankly about things that go on betweent them. "Honey, I have something that's diff... (read in full...)
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