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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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Teachers: Have you ever had feelings for one of your students?
Q. I would Just like to know how many teachers actually fall a little bit for their students, this question is for male teachers only. Have you ever had a crush/fell for/had thoughts that your student was ever attractive? and has you student ever told ...
A. 17 May 2010: I expect teachers deal with student crushes every day. I found some old links that might help you in your research
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-sent-a-love-letter-to-my-teacher.html
http://ww... (read in full...)
Weird crust on my eyes...
Q. does anyone know an instant cure for really crusty eyes, I think its meant to be like scaley sleep on eyelids or something. It makes me so self concious! ...
A. 17 May 2010: See a doctor ASAP. You may wind up with longterm damage to your eyes or tear ducts and lose part or all of your sight. This is not something to try home remedies to fix. See a doctor ASAP. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I turn him on without being too up front?
Q. My boyfriend works really hard and it makes him tired so his sex drive is lower than mine. We have sex once or twice a week, and normally it just happens. It's really easy to get me in the mood but not quite so much with him. Sometimes I'm horny ...
A. 16 May 2010: I'd start giving him massages after work, very slow and sensual ones, to soothe his muscles and stimulate his nervous system. Offer up backrubs and neck rubs, also hand and foot massages are wonderful. You can kiss each finger after carefully and ... (read in full...)
He wants pictures of my body!
Q. Okay so I know some people will think this is a bit of a stupid question, but basically a guy I've been getting quite flirty with online has asked for a few pics of my body. But the problem is he hasn't really specified much and I haven't done this ...
A. 16 May 2010: You think he doesn't already think of you as slutty? He does, otherwise he wouldn't have asked for those pictures. So trying not to be slutty will be a moot point.
Just google 'naked girlfriends' or other similar phrases and I'm sure you'll get ... (read in full...)
Is my friend using me?
Q. im worried im being used. my male friend had a lot of personal trauma last year and i helped him through it. whenever we have breaks at work im always paying. its costing 25 pounds a day as he always wants to go in coffee shops like starbucks etc. ...
A. 16 May 2010: "Sorry, I'm tapped out, my bank account is overdrawn and I simply don't have the money for Starbuck, or any money to loan you."
Why does he take it? Because you seem to be giving it to him. Perhaps he is a user, an energy and financial vampire disg... (read in full...)
He wants pictures of my body!
Q. Okay so I know some people will think this is a bit of a stupid question, but basically a guy I've been getting quite flirty with online has asked for a few pics of my body. But the problem is he hasn't really specified much and I haven't done this ...
A. 16 May 2010: I like the mother test on these kinds of things. Imagine you had to explain to your mother what you were planning to do, including the details, the rationale for doing this, and basically convince her that this is a good idea.
What do YOU think coul... (read in full...)
My wife is afraid to swallow. What can I do to help her get rid of this little fear?
Q. I have a great relationship with my wife and we love each other very much. She and I give each other oral sex. The thing is that I have asked her if she will swalow and she has said yes but she just can't bring herself to do it. What can I do ...
A. 15 May 2010: Offer to share it with her. When it comes time, you take half of it in your mouth, and you can then both swallow together. That might help her conquer this fear.... (read in full...)
The best friend and the boyfriend......
Q. Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. We really love each other and I know his meant for me. His best friend some what set us up. We are really good friends, we talk and laugh. But now I think I might be falling for the ...
A. 15 May 2010: Okay, I hope this doesn't sound mean. But you've only been dating your current boyfriend for 4 months--you can't possibly know yet if he is 'the one,' and this fact is underscored by your flirty attraction to the best friend.
I think you are more... (read in full...)
Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?
Q. Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he...
A. 15 May 2010: I think you made the right decision. The fantasy he described is perfectly ordinary and I'm sure most men have it. It's not bad to have the fantasy or to have a 9" penis; it's just the timing of when those things are shared. For you, as you said, ... (read in full...)
Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?
Q. Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he...
A. 15 May 2010: You haven't told us what his sexual fantasies were. Are they within your tolerance limit?... (read in full...)
WHAT can I do to get my baby's father to show me some more affection?
Q. OK so ive been dating this guy, not just any guy, my babys father, for a yrs and some days now, idk why but since a few weeks before i had the baby he has been acting so differant! like we used to hold each other and i mean just hold each other,we ...
A. 15 May 2010: How old is this guy? It sounds like you are working very hard to get his attention, for heaven's sake, you got pregnant by him and it didn't solve anything, right?
So my guess is that he is young and immature and not really ready to be a father just... (read in full...)
The best friend and the boyfriend......
Q. Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months now. We really love each other and I know his meant for me. His best friend some what set us up. We are really good friends, we talk and laugh. But now I think I might be falling for the ...
A. 15 May 2010: Do you really want advice on this? It sounds as though you're not really ready to be in an exclusive relationship just yet. I can give you my thoughts on this, but I'm pretty sure you're not going to like them.... (read in full...)
How can I say "no" to my neighbors without becoming the building bitch?
Q. this isn't about a romantic relationship, but moreso a neighborly one. I just moved into a new building. I live on the first floor and these kidsare ALWAYS out by my patio. They ask for food, gum, something to drink, etc. At first I would an...
A. 15 May 2010: Here's another one for the kiddos. Play it loud and listen like you love it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYRZOEzoOgQ... (read in full...)
How can I say "no" to my neighbors without becoming the building bitch?
Q. this isn't about a romantic relationship, but moreso a neighborly one. I just moved into a new building. I live on the first floor and these kidsare ALWAYS out by my patio. They ask for food, gum, something to drink, etc. At first I would an...
A. 15 May 2010: Oh, this is so easy. Classical music playing on your patio as soon as the kids show up. Preferably something really old-fashioned and BORING. As soon as the kids show up every day on the patio, wave and say, "I've got some WONDERFUL music for you to ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a time warp. Is anything ever going to change?
Q. Every time someone tries to help me, I throw it back in their face because I am disappointed with everything that's happened to me in the past. The worst years of my life was from the ages of 14 to 19. The years 1994 to 1998 were bloody terrible....
A. 15 May 2010: You don't know what the book is about. You haven't read it.
I gave you the first page and you decided that you knew it all. You don't.
I think it would help you. But you've chosen not to even read it. That means you have a fixed idea and aren't r... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a time warp. Is anything ever going to change?
Q. Every time someone tries to help me, I throw it back in their face because I am disappointed with everything that's happened to me in the past. The worst years of my life was from the ages of 14 to 19. The years 1994 to 1998 were bloody terrible....
A. 14 May 2010: If you're stuck in the past, you need to work through the traumas you experienced--a psychologist should be able to help.
If you are into trying self-help ideas, there is a classic book that I highly recommend for you: The Road Less Traveled by M. S... (read in full...)
I am struggling to trust my boyfriend because of my past, and he is only making things worse by not comforting me at all!
Q. im 18 and my Boyfriend is 24. We have been together for over a year now and he is everything to me. we have fun, get along well, and im his First Love. i have been hurt badly in the past and have serious trust issues because all boys use to do was ...
A. 14 May 2010: You sound desperately unhappy and it may well be that your fear and insecurities, accusations and comments are driving him away from you. It's impossible to comfort someone who doesn't believe you, he may just be worn out by trying. You don't sound ... (read in full...)
Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?
Q. Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he...
A. 14 May 2010: Okay, I'm going to be all prissy-like and say that it's kind of ooky that this guy starts sharing sexual fantasies and tells you the size of his penis within a week of "meeting" him. Um, ew. This guy is all about his penis and sex. I'd say it's a ... (read in full...)
A very complicated mess with my wife, the girl I lost my virginity to, my best friend and now the boy I have found out is my son......
Q. When I was in school I was on the swim team. We had an away meet which was the regional meet so the school put us up in a hotel. This wasn't chapperoned very well and I went to the room of some girls from a school that was from a rival school in ...
A. 14 May 2010: The kid in this question is now over 20, based on the poster's age. So support is no longer at issue.
I'm a bit surprised the poster hasn't followed up.... (read in full...)
I'm worried that this might end up being a sexless marriage! Help!
Q. I got married four months ago to a man I badly knew intimately. I have come to realise that he is impotent. He's older than me by 14 years, I am in my mid-30s. He's not opened up to me about his condition, but I notice he hardly sustains an erection ...
A. 14 May 2010: You married a man you "badly knew intimately"? Could you please clarify that, it's a bit confusing. I think if he hasn't come clean about any erectile dysfunction prior to your agreeing to marry him, you deserve to rethink this marriage. Sorry, but ... (read in full...)
I am a virgin, should I forget this non-virgin girl?
Q. Hello, I'm 22 and from a Greek Orthodox Christian background. I'm still a virgin, not because it has been drummed into me that it is a sin to sleep around but because I choose to respect women and the fact that I only want to make love to a woman ...
A. 14 May 2010: What do you mean, one of her 'associated groups'? And how did she reveal she likes 'spooning'? That sounds a bit strange.
I think the only way to find out if she is the girl for you is to spend time with her and have deep discussions about your phil... (read in full...)
I need him to grow up!!!
Q. hi, I am 20 years old and my bf is 23, we meet usually twice a week, for sex most of the time, he only text me, no calls! I'm the one who rarely calls.. we had a great romance a long time ago, he is my first real bf and I still love him like I did ...
A. 14 May 2010: I think you need to let him feel the risk of losing you. He knows he can treat you badly because you will tolerate it. I am afraid for you that he has relegated you to the status of a convenient sex partner, and little else. You have allowed him to ... (read in full...)
Help!! Where did I go wrong???
Q. Hi, I've always known that a close female friend of mine has had a thing for me. I've always had a soft spot for her, but never really acted upon it. Until recently where I realised I've liked her, and always have done. We've always been text...
A. 14 May 2010: She hasn't lost interest. She's waiting for you to show actual interest, rather than "pussying" out again. By withdrawing from her, you've given her the idea that you're not really into her, that you've been basically pushed into dating her.
So if y... (read in full...)
Hes went through my friends but won't go out with me!
Q. Ok. Sorry its long, but its very complicated. So there is a guy i have liked for about 4 years now (since i first met him), lets call him a. He is really nice, kind, considerate, funny, all of that. Firstly he went out with one me my friends. ...
A. 13 May 2010: It's hard to see when someone close to you is toxic. This is one of those cases. You feel deeply for the person but they suck the life and energy and joy right out of you. They use you to make themselves feel better, they use you as a prop, they ... (read in full...)
A very complicated mess with my wife, the girl I lost my virginity to, my best friend and now the boy I have found out is my son......
Q. When I was in school I was on the swim team. We had an away meet which was the regional meet so the school put us up in a hotel. This wasn't chapperoned very well and I went to the room of some girls from a school that was from a rival school in ...
A. 13 May 2010: The other thing that sounds odd is that she claims she wanted sex--she had her boyfriend to have sex with. This isn't adding up for me.
... (read in full...)
A very complicated mess with my wife, the girl I lost my virginity to, my best friend and now the boy I have found out is my son......
Q. When I was in school I was on the swim team. We had an away meet which was the regional meet so the school put us up in a hotel. This wasn't chapperoned very well and I went to the room of some girls from a school that was from a rival school in ...
A. 13 May 2010: I'm a little confused. So she sleeps with you in the dark in a hotel room, gets pregnant. Misses her period, sleeps with BIL-to-be, convinces him he's the father.
THEN they break up. For how long? I mean, how long between the baby and when they... (read in full...)
"The guy I like doesn't want to take me to the prom!"
Q. Ok. Sorry its long, but its very complicated. So there is a guy i have liked for about 4 years now (since i first met him), lets call him a. He is really nice, kind, considerate, funny, all of that. Firstly he went out with one me my friends. ...
A. 13 May 2010: This is a duplicate question and is being closed. We ask that you submit your answers here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-went-through-my-friends-but-wont-go.html
Thank you! It seems the poster has asked the question several times--we norm... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for her but she says I get on her nerves
Q. Hey all. What does it mean wen the girl who said we should 6e friends says I get on her nerves. She doesn't knw why she says. I jux try 2 talk with her because she doesn't really talk 6acc. Jux reacts to what I say. I don't try to purposely piss her ...
A. 13 May 2010: She doesn't talk "6acc"??? What does that mean?
It sounds as though you like her but frankly, she's not interested. It sounds to me as though she is merely putting up with you but has no desire for anything further.
I think if you are serious ... (read in full...)
Does he want me or are we just good friends?
Q. Hi, I have a problem with a 'friend' of mine. We are both 24, college educated. We have been friends since we were 15, in July 2008 things began to get very intense. When I say intense I mean we had more contact, we have never kissed or had sex. We ...
A. 13 May 2010: Oh, tricky. This could go either way. I had a friend like this once--he turned out to be gay, alas. A dear, wonderful friend who had strong feelings for me but it never would have worked out because he fundamentally wasn't attracted to women. We ... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: I generally approach things from a scientific perspective. First, I rule out any obvious ways she could be keeping tabs on you. Then, I can entertain the notion of some form of cosmic energy emanating from you that she somehow picks up on. But my ... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: Did she ever get access to your credit cards?... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: Could you tell us if she has your phone and/or email passwords?... (read in full...)
The Ever-So Taboo "Student to Teacher" Crush.
Q. It’s 3rd period Science class, when all of a sudden your teacher walks in the room. Your heart races and his perfect smile, a smile you just have to return. His laugh fills the room, joking with students around him, par usual. You don’t just see him ...
A. 12 May 2010: You said you aren't having an issue? I'm sorry, I must have misread this question, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/getting-a-teacher-i-love-a-gift.html in which you state you have a major crush, a mega crush, that you love this teacher. You're ... (read in full...)
Why would she tell her friends and our family?
Q. About 2 months ago I told my 1st cousin how I have wanted to have sex with her for a long time now and actually gave me a rush when I told her that I do in fact jack off thinking about her. Then I heard myself bluntly ask her if she would have sex ...
A. 12 May 2010: Because you were rude, thoughtless, making unwanted sexual advances and frankly a bit disgusting. That's why. She didn't need to say, 'ew you're my cousin' because she was so shocked that you'd just propositioned her in a very crude way. After the ... (read in full...)
The Ever-So Taboo "Student to Teacher" Crush.
Q. It’s 3rd period Science class, when all of a sudden your teacher walks in the room. Your heart races and his perfect smile, a smile you just have to return. His laugh fills the room, joking with students around him, par usual. You don’t just see him ...
A. 12 May 2010: There's no doubt teens feel deeply and intensely. There's no doubt that some develop feelings for their teachers.
The thing to try to grasp is that we who were once teenagers do have some understanding of those feelings, because we too expe... (read in full...)
How can I eject everyone out of my life?
Q. Hi guys. I have a really difficult question and I hope you can help me. I have the opposite problem to most people. Most people try to attract plenty of friends into their life. But I want to get almost everyone out of my life. I am anti-social a...
A. 12 May 2010: Bruce, your questions all indicate that you need professional help. Seriously, we are not going to be able to treat you or guide you into a happy mental state. You have to be seen, evaluated and treatment options discussed by a professional, ... (read in full...)
Pain and bleeding whilst urinating (female)
Q. i am experiencing pain and bleeding during urination. i have researched it to see what could be wrong, as i know that pain is a common symptom of chlamidia. however, i didn't find anything that mentioned bleeding aswell, and i cant think of any pos...
A. 11 May 2010: I hope that appointment is very soon! My dad had blood in his urine as well and it turned out to be bladder cancer. Now he is a lot older and had a major risk factor in his past: smoking. (He quit in the 70s but still got it in the 80s.) I really ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I'd like some pleasure sometimes too?
Q. Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for just over a month now and we're at second base. Neither of us are that experienced sexually, and so we're just taking things slowly. I'll be blunt with my language and say that I've fingered h...
A. 7 May 2010: Shortly after she stops, with a gentle voice and calm face, ask her, "Honey, that feels so good when you are touching me. I just have been wondering something. Why do you stop?"
Then listen to what she has to say. Calm, gentle, loving; that is your... (read in full...)
My father makes creepy jokes and I would like them to stop!
Q. Sometimes my dad talks about having anal intercourse with the family dog. This creeps me out and my mother never says anything about it. I'm pretty sure he's joking, but still... How can I make him stop? Thanks, Marty Z....
A. 7 May 2010: "Dad, that is creeping me out. Please stop making that joke when I'm around."
If he does it again, leave the room and ignore him for a while.... (read in full...)
Comment I made has turned into a family argument and I'm expected to apologize!
Q. Hi guys, Back in march I wrote a post in here " back and forth online argument and I don't think I should apologise" Basically it was an argument between me and my cousin after I wrote on my facebook about children being messier than dogs...
A. 6 May 2010: In rereading my note, I want to emphasize that I do NOT think you are stroppy, nasty or selfish--it is that the family may perceive you that way right now, depending on how Maybelline has played this.
I too am childless and I have to admit I pref... (read in full...)
Comment I made has turned into a family argument and I'm expected to apologize!
Q. Hi guys, Back in march I wrote a post in here " back and forth online argument and I don't think I should apologise" Basically it was an argument between me and my cousin after I wrote on my facebook about children being messier than dogs...
A. 6 May 2010: I realized I could just put the title you gave into the search bar, doh!
This thing has escalated to a family feud level now, hasn't it? And you posted nasty things on her wall? Oh brother.
Okay, look, if it were just the two of you having a... (read in full...)
Comment I made has turned into a family argument and I'm expected to apologize!
Q. Hi guys, Back in march I wrote a post in here " back and forth online argument and I don't think I should apologise" Basically it was an argument between me and my cousin after I wrote on my facebook about children being messier than dogs...
A. 6 May 2010: I have an opinion forming on this one but I'd like the link to the other question before I write it. Thanks!... (read in full...)
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