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Q. I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...
A. 5 November 2009: Hi hun, he's cheating on you or has been with this guy. It's obvious really. Men don't mess around when it comes to sex either so i doubt very much that it's just been emotional. There's no way i'd go near him again without wearing a cond... (read in full...)
Should I trust my husband or my gut feeling?
Q. Hi People i really need some help!!! Please let me know what you think I am a 24 year old mum of an adorable 21 month old girl, and have been married to her father for 2 years this December. since we got married my husband has been lying to me...
A. 5 November 2009: Hi, can't say i blame you for feeling like you do, cos i wouldn't trust him either.
Men always want to put everything under the carpet when they've been busted about something,while the woman is left to fume silently by herself or risk having h... (read in full...)
Help!! Did I do the right thing?
Q. I thought this guy liked me and he wouldnt tell me so i took the bull by the horns and told him, he hasnt been sure about how he feels about me for months and has told me he will give me an answer soon, i'm so scared... did i do the right thing? and ...
A. 2 November 2009: The point is you took assertive action. Good for you! Hope it works out x... (read in full...)
Do my actions warrent a breakup?
Q. I hope I didn't destroy my relationship with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!! He has epilepsy, brought on by a blow to the head when he was in high school. He is on medication for it and as long as he takes it, he is fine. I hadn't...
A. 2 November 2009:
Brilliant advice from R&B2 in my opinion.
My father died of a huge epileptic seizure, probably due to the fact he stubbornly refused to take his meds if it meant interfering in what he wanted to do.
He was stubborn and pig headed as R&B2 d... (read in full...)
Why wont he make love to me?
Q. why wont he make love to me? my partner of 3 months wont or cant make love to me. he is 36, im 23 and without sounding pig headed im a good looking slim girl. I never turn him away. when we first met it was every night and day, now when i try to ...
A. 30 October 2009: This is just weird! Guys don't do this if their not seriously messed up. Stop trying to work him out and tell him to service you properly or get lost!!
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They're on a break, I'm really taken by her, but I'm worried he'll say "no more other people"!
Q. I am a 29 tear old male, who's been pretty damaged by love. yet, somehow remain consistently open to the prospect. i work 3rd shift 6 nights a week which makes meeting women difficult on top of that most realize off the bat that ill almost never be ...
A. 26 October 2009: Hi there, you say you've been emotionally damaged before, so why are you setting yourself up for heartache again?
Make her choose now before you get really hurt.
I feel you and him are both being played.
Hope it works out for you... (read in full...)
Will he try to contact me again, out of the blue?
Q. I have just ended a affair with a guy of 4 years and its over. I am ok with it wish him dead just joking.. What do I do if this sob decides to try and play me again and contacts me out of the blue. It has happened before and I wonder if it will ...
A. 26 October 2009: Don't take any of his calls EVER!!!! He'll get bored in the end... (read in full...)
Is a woman's worth tied to her breast size?
Q. I have many issues with my body. I hate having small breasts, because men may accept small ones, but secretly they all want big! My boyfriend masturbates to big chested women. Also I don't have all the time in the world to exercise, sure I...
A. 26 October 2009: Hi, hope you're ok. Do you live on Venice beach or somewhere? Where i live women come in every shape and size imaginable. Most of these women have sex its reasonable to assume and they don't look like glamour models to me.
When i read you... (read in full...)
How do I have sex if I'm not comfortable in my own skin?
Q. hey guys. its a bit long, but heres the issue. its quite personal so please be serious and give some good advice. im 17, i have never had any sexual experience, mainly because iv never had a serious boyfriend. obviously iv kissed guys, but nothing ...
A. 21 October 2009: Hi there, theres no reason to go on a diet when your a size 14 anyway, so that's not the answer. I reckon the best way to feel better about your body is to pamper it. Lovely body lotions and scrubs,get a great haircut a new wardrobe. Take ... (read in full...)
Crossdressing husband worries.
Q. Several years ago my husband/bf said to me he liked to crossdress and at first I was okay with it because I thought it was like some sort of sex game between us until I discovered he started secretly taking some of the clothing to his apartment and ...
A. 20 October 2009: Hi there, You've both had so much to deal with lately that i think you're doing a great job in handling everything as well as you have.
I think the least he could have done was fess up about the top and took you shopping for a new one, lol. He... (read in full...)
How can I resurrect my marriage when I don't feel the same about my wife?
Q. I have not had sex with my wife for over 6 years. I have been unfaithful over the past three years. I had been meaning to talk to my wife for a long time about all the problems in my marriage e.g. Lack of sex, differences of opinions about how to ...
A. 19 October 2009: Hi Mike, I really like the sound of Gerty, i can imagine your head must be in bits!!
Sounds like a wildly romantic story, and you know you've got 2 choices. Stay with your wife or follow your heart.
good luck x... (read in full...)
Is my husband's deception entirely unfair?
Q. Hi! I am so much in trouble that i don't know what to do. I am 26 years old woman married to a man who has now broke my heart.We have been married for 3 and half years and have 2 kids together.Everything has been ok for us, he has always been a g...
A. 19 October 2009: Hi there, hope you're ok hun, The reason he didn't tell you is cos he thought if he did you wouldn't marry him. He acted in a cowardly and selfish way.
The families have all been deceiving you as well. I'd feel sick in your shoes, and i think ... (read in full...)
Is he really interested, or just playing me?
Q. This guy is confusing me. We have worked together for two years, we have always got on and swapped mobile numbers, we text now and then not all the time, we have kissed quite intense, he has never asked me out although I have dropped hints a few ...
A. 19 October 2009: Hi. You really need to find out what this guys situation is, whether he's with someone or not, then take it from there.
He seems to me from what you've written distracted by something or somebody. This would explain the hot and cold behaviou... (read in full...)
So in love, must we part?
Q. I love my guy very much. He loves me very much. After three years he is not even ready to live with me and I am ready to get married. Today I am crying at my house and he is crying at his. because how can two people break up who are so right for...
A. 18 October 2009: Hi What are his reasons for not wanting to live with you? If he's at home crying i'd like to know whats stopping him ... (read in full...)
Turns out I'm not the submissive sex bitch he thought I was. Now he wants to end things?
Q. I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy over the internet since January of this year. We have been sharing pics etc and msn. The last month he suggested that we go on Skype. We have exposed ourselves over Skype as he has a major ...
A. 16 October 2009: He can do it cos he just thinks your a piece of meat. I cannot believe you would do this to yourself hun.
His only reason for having any kind of contact with you is the hope that you'll perform anal sex on the internet so him and his mates ca... (read in full...)
I'm in love with her so should I tell her how I feel?
Q. I need some help! I'm a 37 year old man who has only had one relationship which only lasted about a year about 10 years ago. This is due to low self confidence, also as I got older, it was harder to start a relationship. Last year, I met thi...
A. 15 October 2009: Ok then, thats great. Feel free to send me a private message with an update x... (read in full...)
My husband had an emotional affair and I can't get past it! Please help!
Q. Please help. My husband had a non sexual (I think I believe this} 'affair' with a work colleague during which time they got very emotionally close (I was being very unloving to him at the time although he never stopped showing he loved and fancied ...
A. 14 October 2009: Hi again, i don't think you can believe he didn't cheat cos you don't believe in yourself enough. He can't make you believe him, it's something that can only come from you.
You sound like you have poor self image or low confidence.
He's marr... (read in full...)
I'm in love with her so should I tell her how I feel?
Q. I need some help! I'm a 37 year old man who has only had one relationship which only lasted about a year about 10 years ago. This is due to low self confidence, also as I got older, it was harder to start a relationship. Last year, I met thi...
A. 14 October 2009: Please go to the concert!!!!! Go and see her and talk to her.
You only regret the things in life you DONT do. You'll be kicking yourself for ages if you don't.
Shes probably thinking you only like her as a friend or something. I be... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin my marriage but I love his company! Am I wrong?
Q. I'm married with 2 kids. My marriage is a mess. To makes matters worse, I was at a family get together and started talking to my cousin’s husband’s brother. He respects my situation and claims to want to rescue me. We live in different states which ...
A. 13 October 2009: Hi, if you leave your husband for this " free spirit " it'll be the worst mistake you ever made.
For free spirit please interperit that as irresponsible loser with no future, who'll dump you the moment the novelty wears off.
Its just a fa... (read in full...)
Why can't I meet a guy who likes small breasts?
Q. I have small breasts, and as it is known, *most* guys like big breasts better. Some like small, but I have yet to meet one of those! Most guys just settle for small chested women. Like Salma Hayek is hot because of her big boobs, but Kate Hudson is ...
A. 12 October 2009: Hi, my friends got an A cup and she's had more guys than most women i know lol
Being sexy isn't about tits!! Its about your attitude,and my friend says she loves her two fried eggs and she wouldn't change anything. I believe her.
Men jus... (read in full...)
My husband had an emotional affair and I can't get past it! Please help!
Q. Please help. My husband had a non sexual (I think I believe this} 'affair' with a work colleague during which time they got very emotionally close (I was being very unloving to him at the time although he never stopped showing he loved and fancied ...
A. 12 October 2009: Hi, i think you cant get past it and the mistrust you have of him is getting worse because you don't get enough reassurance from your husband. Has he said something along the lines of he's apologised enough now and wants it all put under the ... (read in full...)
He's nasty to me - why?
Q. Please help, I am in a 3 month relationship with a guy younger than me by 8 years.When we first dated he lied about his age and I found his ID Doc. but he doesn't know that I know his real age. I found out that he was cheating just a month after we ...
A. 11 October 2009: Hi, your question should be, My boyfriend lies and cheats on me, so why do i stay with him?
All this and you've only been together 3 months. He's a stupid little boy with absolutely no repect for you or himself.
Dump him immediately plea... (read in full...)
I'm not in love with him, but I feel a chemistry and would like to try things out.
Q. My good friend and I met around 7 years ago in college. He's liked me since day one and we dated briefly about 4 years ago and again 2 years ago, but things never worked out between us because of our vastly different personalities and values, and I ...
A. 11 October 2009: Hi, this is a tricky one indeed. It must be quite frustrating for you if you see him a lot.
He told you straight out that " he is not the one you're looking for " Please take heed of what he's saying. For some reason only known to himself ... (read in full...)
We are talking about marriage, but he can't tell me he loves me more than his best friend!
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. His best friend is a girl. They have been friends since they were 13 and now are 27. They have hooked up a few times during their friendship, even cheating on one of his girlfriends which he ...
A. 11 October 2009: Hi there, hope you're ok. In my opinion they are not friends, they are ex lovers. Friends don't have sex with each other, end of story. I've had a very close male friend in my life for 25 years now, and he's had a girlfriend for 20 of those. In... (read in full...)
Why do I attract pieces of shit?
Q. WHY DO I ATTRACT PIECES OF SHIT? I'm having a total break-down! I've been reflection on stuff and I want to scream...........is it me? what am i doing wrong? here's the story: I was with my ex for 13 years!!!(hs bf). He did NOTHING! I went ...
A. 11 October 2009: Everyone makes mistakes and thats what they were. Your problem seems to stem from the fact that you stay in the relationship way past its sell by date.
Damage limitation is the key here. Don't stick around with guys hoping they or somethin... (read in full...)
What should I believe? I'm disgusted and don't know if he's cheated...
Q. I recently found an email conversation between my boyfriend and another Guy that was very sexual. He told this Guy where we live and told him to meet him in the 24hr gym to have sex. My boyfriend says he never went but a follow up email from the ...
A. 10 October 2009: Hi there, hope you're ok. He is cheating on you. I'm 100% positive about that. It's not as uncommon as may think. I have a few gay male friends who regularly have sex with straight men who are married with kids or in a relationship with a ... (read in full...)
I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts.
Q. Hi. I have a dilemma. I've been in a relationship for over 3 years now and I'm starting to have doubts. He's really sweet, kind, generous, loves me for me, I can be completely myself around him, he's dependable, smart and hard working with a ...
A. 10 October 2009: you dont say if you were really into him sexually in the beginning. I think not. One thing i know for sure is, if you don't have that sexual chemistry, then you're just good friends. Which is great, but not what will give you a happy mariage. ... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels in love! How do I muster up the courage to ask her out?
Q. I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she w...
A. 10 October 2009: Hi. Its so awkward when you REALLY like someone isn't it?!
It's so hard to be natural and things seem to conspire against you so you never get the opportunity to get her on her own away from her mates.
I really believe in asking the universe for... (read in full...)
I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?
Q. Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...
A. 10 October 2009: Not enough info to tell unfortunately. Had you done something to apologise for and haven't? If thats the case then the dreams are your higher self if you like, telling you what you already know inside.
If thats the case then these dreams a... (read in full...)
Cant cope with the images of my wife with another man
Q. Please can anyone out there help me. After twenty years of marrage my wife had an affair and it has destroyed our marrage.I absolutely adored the woman and this has devastated me . I am only a shell of the man i used to be.I am now smoking heavly ...
A. 8 October 2009: Hi, hope you're ok. On one level my heart goes out to 100%. If i were in your shoes i'd be devastated.
On the other hand torturing yourself endlessly mentally with these hideous thoughts, coupled with the boozing and the hash smacks of too much... (read in full...)
Where do I go now? He wont commit
Q. I am 32 years old, divorced with three children. I start dating a divorced man with one child over a year age. For the most part the relationship is great except I have always wanted more of a commitment than him. We are faithful to each other ...
A. 8 October 2009: Hi there, reading your post really saddens me. Stop being this desperate man pleaser and get a life!!
Men who've just come out of a divorce rarely want to go there again in a hurry. Why did you give him an ultimatum, when you had no intentio... (read in full...)
Is he really going to leave his wife for me? Or is he just saying the things I want to hear?
Q. Hi, I really need some advice on my situation. Have been seeing a married man for 2 and half years and both in love with each other and see each other lots, had few holidays and weekends away etc. He has 2 children under 18 but not babies a...
A. 8 October 2009: Hi there, I began to read your post with an open mind cos sometimes the guy does leave his wife for the mistress. This happened to a friend of mine who had been dating a married guy for around seven years.
They are now married, much to my utter am... (read in full...)
I want him so badly
Q. My best friend has a girlfriend but I sometimes feel that he's sick of her and he's flirting with me. Sometimes he tells me that he loves her alot, anyway I love him so much and I can't get over him. I don't know what i'm going do but all I know is ...
A. 6 October 2009: Hi, you'll just have to wait it out till they split up and then you can persue it with him. Patience my friend! good luck... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends. How do I bridge that gap?
Q. I've known this girl for almost a year. We use to hang out all the time and she had a boyfriend.There would be signs that she liked me. Like one time I was going away for a week and she hugged me goodbye, and I said I'll call you when I get back, ...
A. 6 October 2009: Hi there, i think you two should go out, have fun together. Then muster up the courage and ask her out. You'll be glad you did either way. If she says yes, then fantastic! If the answers no, then at the very least you will have put yourself out... (read in full...)
I just can't be with him anymore. How can I get him out of my head?
Q. I need to move on and I know that. The man I was seeing (fallen in love with) was separated and going through a divorce. He asked me out and I accepted and we had the most fantastic 5 months together. His ex started threatening to move away with ...
A. 6 October 2009: Hi there, I was in a relationship almost exactly like yours about a year ago. It's only been 3 months so give yourself a break. Having reminders like his sister updating you on him won't help either. Congrats on having the good sense to le... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a boy who is my "soul mate"? Everyone thinks we need to!
Q. we were out for the day me an my mates and we ran into this boy who is my soul mate hes exactly like me we have the same personalty and everyone says we need to go out and he really likes me but im really not attracted to him but sometimes i think i ...
A. 5 October 2009: Hi, don't make the mistake of going out with people cos your mates think its a good idea. I've done it and their wrong! Only you can decide if your attracted to someone or not. If you're not then you're just great friends and thats fantastic,... (read in full...)
When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop?
Q. When will the awkward flirting/crush period stop? or well I mean, I'm just waiting for him to ask me out but he hasn't yet... I am pretty sure he has a huge crush on me because he is always doing these things: We were sitting at dinner yester...
A. 5 October 2009: Hi ask him to help you with something or other. You'll know whats best to ask him. That way you'll be able to spend some time together, have a proper chat and get the ball rolling, which is what you need. good luck x... (read in full...)
I've always just 'felt' like she's gay despite her claiming she's straight
Q. I guess I'm just wanting advice on whether this girl i'm mad about is gay. I fell in love with her over a year ago and it was the first time i've ever liked a girl so its taken me a pretty long time to accept it. But now i'm confident with the fact ...
A. 5 October 2009: Hi, I hope she's straight and she falls in love with you tomorrow. Now back in the real world, i think your intuition is probably right. Trust your instincts in life, they're usually more reliable than anything else. Good luck x... (read in full...)
Lies caused my mum to dissaprove, I want my ex back how do I approach her?
Q. Iv been with a boy before and hes 16 years old, but my uncle says to my mam he was 18 when he wasnt but my uncle has never bothered with me ever in my life until now, but why now? the boy i was with was the best boy i ever dreamed of but i broke up ...
A. 5 October 2009: Hi, just tell your mam that your uncle was mistaken, Everyone gets things like this wrong all the time. It's no big deal. Show your mum his id if you have to. That should sort it. good luck... (read in full...)
This married man has really got me confused big time.
Q. No moral judgements please it's to late for that. 30yrs ago i met a married man we had a 3yr affair,i moved away that ended it. now 6yrs ago we catch up again and we have started this all over again,he is still married i am not,the thing is i have a...
A. 5 October 2009: Hi, hope you're ok. This situation is typical of alot i've heard about over the years. He's in control of this relationship and knows he doesn't have to do too much to win you back each time. The getting you back each time back probably adds a ... (read in full...)
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