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Should I let go of this person I have grown an emotional attachment to online?

Q.   I am 18, I started talking to him when I was 17, I have been talking to him for one year, I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable, I sent him 100s of pics of me, to keep him interested, I felt like he was...

A.   16 April 2011: I've been in the same position and feel for you, its not nice at all. He may have realised its unrealistic for you to be together, and is trying to move on even if thats not what he really wants. Online long distance relationships are always a ... (read in full...)

Caught her in contact, again. Should I give her another chance? I miss her and her little girl a lot.

Q.   Ill try keep this short. Ive caught my Gf of almost 3 years, in contact with another guy. This is the 2nd time. The 1st time was just over a year ago. Both of them work colleagues. Nothing physical happened in both instances. I had been watching her ...

A.   15 April 2011: i understand it must be really hard for you if you have a fatherly sort of bond with her little girl, but we all have to make sacrifices sometimes; you were pretty certain that your girlfriend was up to something suspicious and now that you're ... (read in full...)

I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you...

Q.   I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or ...

A.   15 April 2011: I'm pretty sure he likes you. Ask him :)... (read in full...)

I’ve asked this guy out on facebook a week ago but he claims not to have read it...

Q.   Friday I asked out this shy guy over facebook only to find that he didn’t read it till Wednesday the next week because he wrote a comment on facebook but didn’t reply to my email. On that Thursday (on the collage bus) all of is friends on the bus ...

A.   15 April 2011: hmm, that is awkward. i think he did read it, but the fact he hasnt acted doesnt mean he doesnt like you. maybe hes saying he didnt read it so that he can have time to think it over. either way, i wouldnt go out of your way to make it happen, youve ... (read in full...)

Should I remove this girl from my friend list on facebook? She broke my heart...

Q.   Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad. At t...

A.   15 April 2011: no. facebook is not important, you will realise this as you get older. if you want to remove her from your life and never speak or think of her again, then delete her. otherwise you are playing mind games, trying to make her feel hurt.... (read in full...)

I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...

A.   6 April 2011: one of the most common things; you will probably give oral to one guy while having sex with the other.... (read in full...)

I am worried about wearing a revealing swimsuit. I need some advice.

Q.   I'm going to be going on a trip with my school year (about 200) and im going to have to wear a swimming costume, very tight diving suits and lots of revealing clothing that comes with the activities. my problem is that i'm about 12 stone, 5'5, and i ...

A.   6 April 2011: if you don't like shaving, go and get a bikini wax before you leave, it will last a few weeks or so.... (read in full...)

I know he's just using me for sex but I can't break things off!

Q.   I like a guy but i know he's just using me for sex. I know the longer this goes on the worse it's going to be but i don't know how to stop seeing him. I've told him that i couldn't be "friends" anymore but everytime he makes me feel guilty and i ...

A.   17 August 2010: Urgh what a creep. From my point of view obviously its easy for me to say you need to get rid of him now, but I've been in your position before and I know its hard. You've acknowledged that its going to get worse and you know you need to end it but ... (read in full...)

Am I being selfish for at least wanting him to talk to me occasionally? He has a lot going on with his family but his inability to balance things in his life is getting annoying!

Q.   I'm frustrated cos the guy I'm dating doesnt know how to balance career, fam etc. He told me hes either 0 - 100 % about things and once hes 100 - thats all he focuses on..which usually applies to work.Recently hes been tryin to get a job, a car ...

A.   21 May 2010: no I definitely don't think you're being selfish, he's just neglecting you and your relationship. Fair enough if hes had a family member pass away recently, but he definitely should prioritize you over work. tell him how you feel?... (read in full...)

Sensitive new age guy vs Cocky and Arrogant

Q.   Do women like men who are a bit cocky and arrogant? Or do they prefer snesitive new age guys? Some women, I've heard, like men who exude confidence. Is this a dumb question? Help me out here. I want to get women on side, so they stop pulling faces ...

A.   14 May 2010: completely depends on the woman. personally i love a man to be overly confident. arrogance is sexy to me. i have friends however who hate it and love shy guys. :)... (read in full...)

The guy I fancy told my friend he thinks I am unattractive! How can I get over him?

Q.   help! I like my semi-friend (he's a guy) but he doesn't like me back. in fact, he told one of my friends he finds me unattractive! how can I get over him?...

A.   14 May 2010: Give it time, we've all been there, I promise you will get over him :)... (read in full...)

Should I give her time on the trip to cool down? Or is this the end?

Q.   Things have come to a head recently with my gf. For a long time we have fought over what I think are small things like what time to come to bed, how to hang the washing etc etc. Just last night I informed her that I was going out with my mate and...

A.   14 May 2010: To be honest, if shes going away on tour, then being away from you and the relationship is indefinitely going to give her time to cool down. But it might not be a good thing, the time away from you might just make her miss you and then she'll come ... (read in full...)

Can anyone help me to figure out my feelings for my teacher?

Q.   Hey, I will try and keep this short. I don't know how to describe my feelings about this teacher (married with 2 kids, late 30s/early 40s). I have known him for about 5 years and he has taught me for 2 of those years. He always smiles at me and ...

A.   11 May 2010: You pretty much described them yourself :) I don't think you like him in a romantic way either. As you said he is a good teacher, plus he makes you feel like he's a friend so its natural to feel slightly attached. I would just say you look up to ... (read in full...)

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