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Mum kept hitting me with a shoe

Q.   I can't talk to my mum and I think she's being abusive. So this is the thing right. My mum just loses it all the time. It's like there's a war going on in my house. It always happens when I come home from school. We just yell at each other. She ...

A.   14 November 2017: Do you plan to have a boyfriend some day? Maybe get married, have a house of your own? Maybe your husband wants to have a family of his own. How on this planet do you think you can handle any of that of you cannot deal with it now??? How are... (read in full...)

Is $3000 too cheap for an engagement ring for a high maintenance girlfriend given my income and background?

Q.   Hi, I would appreciate if you can help me with my question. If a guy is a university professor, in his mid 40s with some debt from divorce, planning to propose to his high maintenance girlfriend who is beautiful and highly educated do you think ...

A.   13 November 2017: First of all...Rings are actually useless when it comes to marriage. A ring is a like a police badge. It lets other people know you are married. Your vows is what makes you married. Rings are just for show and tell. Love is not how much you spe... (read in full...)

What does his taste in porn say about what he's actually fantasizing about?

Q.   Would love some male opinions on a porn question.... My husband watches "cheating wife" porn. The "subject" confuses me. Is it a fantasy about cheating with another married woman, or a fantasy about his wife (me) cheating with someone, ie: cuc...

A.   13 November 2017: "It's NOT power at all wheh women are viewed as purely physical and strippers and porn stars are seen as something desirable ." Mr dear...I am sorry that some guy has hurt you so bad. Really...and Honestly...men are not what you think they a... (read in full...)

What does his taste in porn say about what he's actually fantasizing about?

Q.   Would love some male opinions on a porn question.... My husband watches "cheating wife" porn. The "subject" confuses me. Is it a fantasy about cheating with another married woman, or a fantasy about his wife (me) cheating with someone, ie: cuc...

A.   11 November 2017: "Brown wolf, then why should women bother with men if all they are going to do is fantasies about being with someone else anyway ? Sounds like a total lose lose for women." Response... How is it a lose lose for women?? He is not fantasizing ... (read in full...)

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

Q.   I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

A.   11 November 2017:  I have not been in the same situation as you, but have known a lot of people like your friend. They were not gay or Bi. Just because some engages in something that they would not normally do, does not label them as such. I myself if been in a th... (read in full...)

I'm fed up with my boyfriend! How much longer do I give him and how far does “for better or worse” really go?

Q.   I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years, engaged for 6. I’m at the end of my rope and I know what I need to do but lack the ability to do it. I’m 28, a recent college grad, and have a job working at a hospital which supports me completely. He’s 34, ...

A.   10 November 2017:  So he cannot look after you now, or be your support now..after more than 7 years. So if you marry him...POOF!!! Magic happens and he will all of a sudden be successful, have clothes, and be the kind of man you always wanted. Lots of marriages... (read in full...)

What does his taste in porn say about what he's actually fantasizing about?

Q.   Would love some male opinions on a porn question.... My husband watches "cheating wife" porn. The "subject" confuses me. Is it a fantasy about cheating with another married woman, or a fantasy about his wife (me) cheating with someone, ie: cuc...

A.   10 November 2017:  This is mostly due to the excitement or adrenaline rush that comes with cheating. He may not want to cheat, but he may be feeding the rush of getting caught. All men...Yes...ALL MEN... love and live for the thrill of the chase. To somehow fina... (read in full...)

Why did my LDR boyfriend block me after I made a comment on one of his photos?

Q.   ok this is short but I just can't understand it.. my bf blocked me from his facebook as soon I commented one of his recent pictures, (i said: how long is this pic?) and he blocked me after it. I am from the USA he is from Iraq, we have been together ...

A.   10 November 2017: Because you are not the only female looking at his pictures. Guys normally do that to avoid other girls asking who is she that is commenting on your photo. I would block him out of your life permanently. ... (read in full...)

He never wants to spend time with me!

Q.   Hi everyone I've been with my fiance now for 4 years we have 2 children I already had my daughter when we met then we had a baby girl who is now 2 the problem is he never wants to spend anytime with us he goes to work on a morning comes home at 4.15 ...

A.   9 November 2017: If he is like this now...what happens when you marry him? Marriage will not make it any better. Take this as your warning.... (read in full...)

I'm growing uncomfortable with his questions! Should I go meet him for coffee?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I met a 41 year old guy who describes himself as sophisticated, also wants a sophisticated lady, online.He writes he is ready for a new relationship. He writes he has never been married, has no children and lives alone. He has a ...

A.   9 November 2017: Hi OP, Do you not see the warning sign??? Let's flip this around and use yourself. Do you see yourself a sophisticated woman, with a bachelor's degree, and not having a chance to be married, have kids, and surrounded by good things?? If y... (read in full...)

Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?

Q.   I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...

A.   6 November 2017: Hi OP, First of all...GOD would never send you an ex boyfriend to marry. He has already shown you that he is the wrong guy, by making him your ex. However, you know who will send the wrong person back into your life. Do not be fooled. If you w... (read in full...)

Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?

Q.   I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...

A.   6 November 2017: Hi OP, First of all...GOD would never send you an ex boyfriend to marry. He has already shown you that he is the wrong guy, by making him your ex. However, you know who will send the wrong person back into your life. Do not be fooled. If you w... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with the father of my children

Q.   Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...

A.   16 October 2017:  How will you know if the right man for you is out there, if you keep the wrong man in your life?? There is man out who could rock your world like never before. But you will never know unless you let go. The fact that you are horny should dri... (read in full...)

Men don't see me as dating material - why?

Q.   Hi, you know how people like to use the term "friendzone" in situations when girls only see guys as friends? Well, i'm the opposite. I'm a 25 yo girl and find that most guys see me as a buddy or undateable. I've gone on dates with guys but nothing ...

A.   16 October 2017:  Hi Op, Men will see you as YOU see yourself. If you believe you are a buddy rather than a babe...that is what you will project outward, and that is what we see...a buddy. You have what we need...but if you don't give us something to chase a... (read in full...)

Should I let my wife have a young lover since I can't perform as I once did?

Q.   My wife (aged 55)and very attractive, and I have been married for 24 years and over the last 3 years I (aged 57) have had trouble maintaining an erection during sex, I have tried all the usual medications but I get side effects from them, so I have ...

A.   12 October 2017:  The penis is NOT the only means in which to satisfy a woman. You have two hands, a tongue, lips, and teeth. I am sure you also have a credit card, which leads to a good sex...that YOU can use on her. Let her fantasise all she wants...but ... (read in full...)

My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again

Q.   At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...

A.   12 October 2017: Let me put it this way... My dog tore my arm off...should I keep playing with it??? What do you think??... (read in full...)

We broke up because he was obsessed with women

Q.   Looking for some feedback, especially the guys out there, interested in your take on this. My relationship has very recently ended and was a long time coming,This man made me feel uncomfortable, disrespected, less than and so much more. The worst ...

A.   11 October 2017:  Over reacting...You didn't react fast enough over his stupidity. Surprise you didn't shove his head through the TV. Let him go make sweet love to the TV. You cannot have the right guy in your life, while keeping the wrong one around. Happy... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to delete his exes from facebook?

Q.   Why doesnt my boyfriend want to delete his exes from fb? Hes sayin that they r just friends and their break up were amicable but i notice a constant interest of them on his posts and messenger and also hints and subliminal comments One of them ...

A.   11 October 2017:  Let me ask you a simple question, that I am sure you did not ask yourself... Why are dating a man that still has interest in his EXes?? You come in, and see something you do not like, and raises concerns of his commitment to you. So what d... (read in full...)

My son's father is in jail. My 6 year old is starting to ask questions. What should I tell him?

Q.   Aunties and uncles here is my question.. I have a son who is fixing to be 6. His father has been in jail since he was 2. He doesn't get out until 2020. He is in fir a 2nd sex charge. My question is pretty vague I guess.. I'm jist not sure what to ...

A.   11 October 2017:  The truth...it hurts, but it never fails. Also, use this as a learning lesson for your son. As in...Do not follow in your father's footstep.... (read in full...)

I haven't had any luck dating. Should I give up on love?

Q.   Is love not in the cards for me? I have tried online dating and after a couple of dates I realized the men in the sites aren't exactly the type of men that I want. I admit I have taken a year and a half to work on myself after a string of two bad ...

A.   11 October 2017:  Hi OP, Well you have not dated every man in the world to say you have no luck. Plus if you give up on love, how are you going to find it? You are most likely looking in the wrong place for that special someone. Here is site that would b... (read in full...)

The man I am dating doesn't believe in kissing and affection

Q.   I am seeing a guy who when I asked says he doesn’t do kissing and affection. I was widowed 9 years ago and this is the first since. I really like this guy but not sure about not kissing although the sex is great. I told him I kind of fell ...

A.   11 October 2017:  This should be your first warning sign... "He was married and divorced 2 x" Obviously he has not learned or have enough respect for women. Do you really think it is normal for a man to treat you this way, just for good sex? If all you ... (read in full...)

How to move on after a bad relationship?

Q.   Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

A.   10 October 2017: Hello Danielle, First off...No one needs therapy for doing the right thing. Which you did. People need therapy when they keep doing the wrongs things, but expect a good outcome, and cannot understand why things are not getting better. Some pe... (read in full...)

My wife is another man's slave

Q.   My wife is deeply into S and M and I am not. I discovered that she has become the slave of another man, but still professes she loves me. I have allowed her to spend 2 or 3 nights a week with her dom. I don't think I can find any way to give her...

A.   6 October 2017:  I have been doing things the wrong way all this time. So love is when you let your wife spend 2 or 3 nights with another man as his slave. No wonder I cannot understand love. The rest of the World calls this cheating, adultery, and Oh H... (read in full...)

Engaged to be married and have a crush on another woman

Q.   So to start off I have been with my fiancé for 11 years since we were both 18. In that time we have both been through a lot, however I have never in the last 11 years had a crush on another woman. She has always been the only women who i had any ...

A.   6 October 2017: "My current fiancé has cheated on me twice in the past" WOW...I do not know if this is brave, or foolish. If my partner cheated on me twice, I will not be around to give her a third chance, much less marry her. But to each their own. Life ... (read in full...)

Is my married boss hoping I will ask her out. ?

Q.   Hi this only happens at work lm a guy and really like 2 women 1 is married and find it hard to ask her out for a coffee and chat l feel she's still interested but she wants me to approach her and ask her out l don't think it will happen also cause ...

A.   6 October 2017:  Oh I really hope you get married, or get a girlfriend,that you love deeply. So that some guy can come along takes her away from. In fact I hope you do not ever get a girlfriend, because you are VERY SELFISH. All you are thinking is about your n... (read in full...)

He doesn't want marriage. Is there anything I can do?

Q.   My problem is this, I love my Bf. I'm sure He loves me too. We have lots of things in common. But the saying is also true. No relationship is perfect. Thing is, he have this thing that we are totally opposite about. I am a kind of woman who ...

A.   5 October 2017: "We have lots of things in common." No you don't. Be careful why you are in so called love. Loving the idea of having a boyfriend is one thing. Being a love with a man who wants the same future as you, is a totally different thing. One lo... (read in full...)

Is life passing me by?

Q.   Hello everyone, Next month I am turning 30. Every birthday usually leads to some analysis and evaluation but this one at the end decade is feeling like an assessment of whole life. Right now I have MBA degree from one of the best schools around,...

A.   5 October 2017:  You make it sound the 30 years is nothing....You do realize that you had 30 years to die right?? 30 years for some incident to leave you in a wheelchair. 30 years for you to develop some major sickness...cancer, or something else. Yet you a... (read in full...)

I keep comparing myself and feel like a loser!

Q.   How can I stop comparing myself and feeling like a looser - I am 31 and I feel like I haven't accomplished much in life nor have I enjoyed anybting . I come from a broken home - nothing I did was ever good enough - I have two degrees a corporate job ...

A.   5 October 2017:  What are you comparing to? Tell me...Who in this world looks like you, has your body, thinks like you...heck, who else is like you?? So what exactly do you have to compare yourself with? I love to please people who appreciate it. I do not ca... (read in full...)

Is this a positive sign or is she just being nice?

Q.   My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I had been working on the things she didnt like about me and I sent her an email updating her on how I have been changing i.e getting better and that I love her and hopefully in future we might cross ...

A.   5 October 2017: NEVER GOOD BACKWARDS!!! Going back to an ex is like throwing up, and going back to eat it. The right woman for you, is never in your past...always in the future. If you hold on to your ex, then that leaves no room for the right woman. Your e... (read in full...)

Does looking at nudes lead to objectifying women?

Q.   I understand how wrong it is to regard people as objects. That's why I never stare at hot girls on the street, talk about their bodies or "hit on" them. But privately, I am curious about the female shape (being very inexperienced and never had a ...

A.   5 October 2017: Good sir...YES and NO!!! Let's start with the NO...Looking at porn or naked women is normal, based on the fact that men were design to chase women. The yes part...Especially because you say you are inexperienced...DO NOT SPEND YOUR TIME IN YOU... (read in full...)

I think guys just want me for sex

Q.   It feels like guys only want me for sex. Every guy to ever show interest in me has somehow indicated that he wants something mainly if not entirely physical. It's made me really conscious and insecure because when a guy asks for my number or flirts ...

A.   5 October 2017:  My Dear, Every man you meet will want sex with you, if you offer it up. Is this a bad thing? NO!!! WHY?? What if they did not want to have sex with you? Then you would feel like a complete outcast. The fact that men are after you means, you... (read in full...)

I think it's degrading to give oral if it's not reciprocated and he thinks I owe it to him because I gave it to other lovers!

Q.   An Oral Sex Dilemma My boyfriend and I have been discussing about oral sex for a few weeks now. We have very different opinions and want the opinion of outside individuals. I think that it is degrading to give oral when if it is not reciproca...

A.   4 October 2017:  Well...You should be HEADING out to the next man who will not be a jackass about pleasing his woman. You can wait and waste your time, seeing if he will change. Or...You can change the man, and get what you want. You should be happy you ... (read in full...)

How to come to terms with my academic failure?

Q.   So basically, I've spent the past two years working towards my masters degree as well as working full time. Up until this summer I've been doing really well (average grade 75, on track for a distinction), only to choke in my last few months and ...

A.   4 October 2017: "I'm a perfectionist" You can try to be as perfect as you want...But you have no control over where life wants to take you. Many make plans for the rest of their lives. But LIFE itself has no master...It is our master. People believe they h... (read in full...)

I am not a masturbatory toy!

Q.   My fiancé has suffered from delayed ejaculation ever since we met. For over a year he could never reach orgasm with me unless he uses his hand, closed his eyes and tuned me out. Literally I could not speak. I confronted him and it turned out he was ...

A.   4 October 2017:  Life always gives us warnings before we make big decisions. Problem is...we don't listen. We feel if we stick around long enough, yell, scream, get angry, build up resentment, that some how things will change. Your partner has already dest... (read in full...)

Any tips for choosing Mr Right?

Q.   I've never had a relationship longer then two years and those were pretty rocky for a good portion. I've been known to pick the wrong guys and so I'm trying to do things different lately. Marriage is a big goal in life for me and I would like t...

A.   4 October 2017:  Let me give you the secret of find a good man...most of the times. RULE 1...Check the way he treats his mother. If he loves her and respects her, he will do the same to you. Warning...Do not date a mama's boy. If his mother has to approv... (read in full...)

How do I address my poor self-image problem?

Q.   Hey guys, Sorry for being such a drag with this post, but I'm really down these last 2-3 days and tomorrow is my birthday. Thank you for reading this. To get to the point... I don't think I'm really beautiful, especially to my bf and eternal lov...

A.   4 October 2017: "You should not use outward aids to make yourselves beautiful, such as the way you fix your hair, or the jewelry you put on, or the dresses you wear. Instead, your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and ... (read in full...)

I badly want children but my partner does not

Q.   I hope there are some people on this site who can tell me what does male broodiness feel like? Recently my fiancée and i had an abortion (i know mixed feelings and all that). Also my mother had a new baby. The combination of these two things...

A.   4 October 2017: If you are dying of thirst, and in need of a glass water. But someone gave you a glass of Vodka. Should you just accept it, gulp it down, and hope for the best??? Here is what I do not understand. People know how to make simple decisions on what ... (read in full...)

How do I handle his mood swings?

Q.   Hello Aunts, I am struggling with an issue that I have with my husband whom i love very much. This is not a new issue but sometimes it gets so ridiculous i stop and think why is this happening? Hubby and i have a pretty good life, we've had ou...

A.   3 October 2017:  Hi OP, Sorry to say...It matters not what ANYONE is suffering from...Respect, self discipline, kindness to others, is still due. In fact, the more you are suffering, the kinder, and more respectful you should be....Why?? The very people you ... (read in full...)

I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...

A.   2 October 2017:  Hello Moviegurl, Hate to say it...But you are caught up a web of pain you cannot win. Simple reasons... 1) There is a lot of history of resentment in that family mix. Since they resent the father, they will also resent anyone he is wit... (read in full...)

What are the best ways to make new friends?

Q.   Recently people have been complaining to me that it is difficult to make friends in the city I currently live in and that most people are either superficial or out for themselves. I agree that busy people with busy lives just dont have time for new ...

A.   2 October 2017:  Smile...Say hello to complete strangers. Look people in the eyes and acknowledge their existence. You do realise that 20 years ago we did not have this problem. Our phones have cause us to stop talking...more texting to express yourself. Al... (read in full...)

How do I handle his mood swings?

Q.   Hello Aunts, I am struggling with an issue that I have with my husband whom i love very much. This is not a new issue but sometimes it gets so ridiculous i stop and think why is this happening? Hubby and i have a pretty good life, we've had ou...

A.   2 October 2017:  Hi OP, Simple... Say nothing...Just stare at him...every time. When he ask you what you are looking at, you say..." I don't know. I thought I married a good man. A respectable man. But I have not idea who you are." Then get up and walk away. ... (read in full...)

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