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I am never approached by men

Q.   I am about to turn 23 in a year and I have never ever been approached by any guy anywhere before in my life nor have I ever dated anyone. I know it is not due to my weight because I am thin and petite (some people tell me that I even look as young ...

A.   22 December 2017:  The question is...What kind person are the men approaching? Are they approaching and insecure and low self-esteem woman? Or a confident, happy go lucky, and bubbly woman? You will not be approached by many men if we can sense your negativit... (read in full...)

How can I slow a guy down when he's getting physical too soon?

Q.   There's this guy I went on a date with. On the first date, he kissed me, and I wasn't expecting him to use tongue, but he did. I usually don't kiss guys on the first date, but I kind of wanted to kiss him. Later on in the date, he managed to ge...

A.   12 December 2017:  Sorry...There is no graceful way about it. He already has one thing on his mind, and he is push for it. Want to find out what kind guy he is??? Tell him straight up you are not ready for sex. Then sit back and watch...He really likes you, he... (read in full...)

First time sex was this normal?

Q.   I had sex for the first time and I noticed it wasn't that comfortable. As it was my first, I assumed it was just a matter of getting used to it. However at one point, it really hurt and was uncomfortable around my bum which I wasn't sure about. L...

A.   12 December 2017:  Yes...first time sex hurts...Normal. Hurts more if the guy has no patience, and no clue. You need to relax...or try going on top so that you control how fast.... (read in full...)

I am lonely and get depressed and can't seem to make friends. What can I do?

Q.   Hello everyone in dearcupid. I have a situation I would like some advice. I am due to be married soon me and my fiance have been together 5 years and we have been living together only for 2 years I love my husband so much I call him my husband ...

A.   12 December 2017:  I get where you are coming from...hard to deal with...yes...but not impossible. You let your mind wonder off to areas of depression, loneliness, and boredom... why? You could be thinking of some fun (hint hint) stuff to do to your hubby whe... (read in full...)

Religion may be the stumbling block for us

Q.   I'm an atheist (born to Christian parents) and my fiancé is Christian. We both want kids. She recently asked me if I was willing to give them a Christian upbringing when they arrive. I want them to make the decision about a deity when they can think ...

A.   12 December 2017:  If you truly understood what Christianity wants from us, then you would gladly bring you kids up with as much of it as possible. Christianity has a LOT of false teaches, and GOD already warned us about them. But true Christianity is this... (read in full...)

My sons are using the house for dating. What should I tell them?

Q.   I’m a single dad of two teenage boys, one is 17 (almost 18) the other is 15. My oldest has a girlfriend and recently I found out they have been using my house after school for their hook up spot. I came home from work last week and found an empt...

A.   8 December 2017:  Who is the parent in the house? Your kids pay rent to live there? To use your house like a love shack hotel? Does your kids pay any bills, or pay for the right to live there? So why asking what you should do? Are you not the one that sho... (read in full...)

I’m worried commitment means forfeiting sexual fulfillment, any advice?

Q.   I’m in my mid-twenties and have been in a loving relationship six years, but I’m frustrated by my attraction to others. Whilst my partner has a colourful sexual history, I’ve only ever been with them and I feel by staying, I’m losing opportunities ...

A.   8 December 2017:  " I feel by staying, I’m losing opportunities for experiences that won’t always be there" I would like to hear ONE opportunity you would miss...Just one. Find one other woman in the world who has more body parts that are different than your ... (read in full...)

I'm unhappily married but in love with a man who's engaged but hesitant to leave his fiance

Q.   Please could I ask for some advice on my situation... I have been married for 3 years but for the last year the marriage has been very difficult and we both feel that we have grown too far apart to fix things, although haven’t yet said we will div...

A.   8 December 2017: You ever notice how all of a sudden a man or woman shows up when your marriage is at it's worst??? When you were first get married and in love...not one comes by. But as soon as things gets rough...oh look...Mr. Right. WRONG!!!! ... (read in full...)

On dating site for six years. Should this be a worry?

Q.   I've been seeing a guy for a month and a half now. We text everyday, talk on the phone and we have been on multiple dates. Each time he is initiating it. So far things are looking spectacular! However, when I asked him how long he has been on the d...

A.   8 December 2017:  Your warning bells are already going off. I am not even in your shoes, and my warning bells are going off. Very slowly, oh so slowly, with this one.... (read in full...)

Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair?

Q.   Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair? I know many would use harsh and negative remarks on such question. I did no Contact and he reached out and I caved in. I am thinking of telling his wife so that I can move on for good forever...

A.   28 November 2017: WOW!!! Cheating and heartless. Did you tell his wife before you started sleeping with her husband? But you are willing to do it now because thinks are not going your way. ... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid about why he doesn't make eye contact during sex?

Q.   Eye contact during sex? My husband usually turns his head away from me or closes his eyes. I dont remember having a problem with it years ago... but recently he holds me close with my head buried in his neck and almost forcibly stops me from bei...

A.   27 November 2017: I would ask him about it...because it is weird to me...even as a guy. I would want to see if you are enjoying yourself. Ask before you create a worse case scenario in your head.... (read in full...)

Mum kept hitting me with a shoe

Q.   I can't talk to my mum and I think she's being abusive. So this is the thing right. My mum just loses it all the time. It's like there's a war going on in my house. It always happens when I come home from school. We just yell at each other. She ...

A.   14 November 2017: Do you plan to have a boyfriend some day? Maybe get married, have a house of your own? Maybe your husband wants to have a family of his own. How on this planet do you think you can handle any of that of you cannot deal with it now??? How are... (read in full...)

Is $3000 too cheap for an engagement ring for a high maintenance girlfriend given my income and background?

Q.   Hi, I would appreciate if you can help me with my question. If a guy is a university professor, in his mid 40s with some debt from divorce, planning to propose to his high maintenance girlfriend who is beautiful and highly educated do you think ...

A.   13 November 2017: First of all...Rings are actually useless when it comes to marriage. A ring is a like a police badge. It lets other people know you are married. Your vows is what makes you married. Rings are just for show and tell. Love is not how much you spe... (read in full...)

What does his taste in porn say about what he's actually fantasizing about?

Q.   Would love some male opinions on a porn question.... My husband watches "cheating wife" porn. The "subject" confuses me. Is it a fantasy about cheating with another married woman, or a fantasy about his wife (me) cheating with someone, ie: cuc...

A.   13 November 2017: "It's NOT power at all wheh women are viewed as purely physical and strippers and porn stars are seen as something desirable ." Mr dear...I am sorry that some guy has hurt you so bad. Really...and Honestly...men are not what you think they a... (read in full...)

What does his taste in porn say about what he's actually fantasizing about?

Q.   Would love some male opinions on a porn question.... My husband watches "cheating wife" porn. The "subject" confuses me. Is it a fantasy about cheating with another married woman, or a fantasy about his wife (me) cheating with someone, ie: cuc...

A.   11 November 2017: "Brown wolf, then why should women bother with men if all they are going to do is fantasies about being with someone else anyway ? Sounds like a total lose lose for women." Response... How is it a lose lose for women?? He is not fantasizing ... (read in full...)

My best friend is faking he is straight even though we had sex.

Q.   I'm a bi man and in the last year I've had intimate moments with my best friend, for whom I have always had doubts regarding his orientation. It's true that we have both enjoyed it but recently he seems to distance himself from situations where ...

A.   11 November 2017:  I have not been in the same situation as you, but have known a lot of people like your friend. They were not gay or Bi. Just because some engages in something that they would not normally do, does not label them as such. I myself if been in a th... (read in full...)

I'm fed up with my boyfriend! How much longer do I give him and how far does “for better or worse” really go?

Q.   I’ve been in a relationship for 7 years, engaged for 6. I’m at the end of my rope and I know what I need to do but lack the ability to do it. I’m 28, a recent college grad, and have a job working at a hospital which supports me completely. He’s 34, ...

A.   10 November 2017:  So he cannot look after you now, or be your support now..after more than 7 years. So if you marry him...POOF!!! Magic happens and he will all of a sudden be successful, have clothes, and be the kind of man you always wanted. Lots of marriages... (read in full...)

What does his taste in porn say about what he's actually fantasizing about?

Q.   Would love some male opinions on a porn question.... My husband watches "cheating wife" porn. The "subject" confuses me. Is it a fantasy about cheating with another married woman, or a fantasy about his wife (me) cheating with someone, ie: cuc...

A.   10 November 2017:  This is mostly due to the excitement or adrenaline rush that comes with cheating. He may not want to cheat, but he may be feeding the rush of getting caught. All men...Yes...ALL MEN... love and live for the thrill of the chase. To somehow fina... (read in full...)

Why did my LDR boyfriend block me after I made a comment on one of his photos?

Q.   ok this is short but I just can't understand it.. my bf blocked me from his facebook as soon I commented one of his recent pictures, (i said: how long is this pic?) and he blocked me after it. I am from the USA he is from Iraq, we have been together ...

A.   10 November 2017: Because you are not the only female looking at his pictures. Guys normally do that to avoid other girls asking who is she that is commenting on your photo. I would block him out of your life permanently. ... (read in full...)

He never wants to spend time with me!

Q.   Hi everyone I've been with my fiance now for 4 years we have 2 children I already had my daughter when we met then we had a baby girl who is now 2 the problem is he never wants to spend anytime with us he goes to work on a morning comes home at 4.15 ...

A.   9 November 2017: If he is like this now...what happens when you marry him? Marriage will not make it any better. Take this as your warning.... (read in full...)

I'm growing uncomfortable with his questions! Should I go meet him for coffee?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I met a 41 year old guy who describes himself as sophisticated, also wants a sophisticated lady, online.He writes he is ready for a new relationship. He writes he has never been married, has no children and lives alone. He has a ...

A.   9 November 2017: Hi OP, Do you not see the warning sign??? Let's flip this around and use yourself. Do you see yourself a sophisticated woman, with a bachelor's degree, and not having a chance to be married, have kids, and surrounded by good things?? If y... (read in full...)

Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?

Q.   I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...

A.   6 November 2017: Hi OP, First of all...GOD would never send you an ex boyfriend to marry. He has already shown you that he is the wrong guy, by making him your ex. However, you know who will send the wrong person back into your life. Do not be fooled. If you w... (read in full...)

Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?

Q.   I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...

A.   6 November 2017: Hi OP, First of all...GOD would never send you an ex boyfriend to marry. He has already shown you that he is the wrong guy, by making him your ex. However, you know who will send the wrong person back into your life. Do not be fooled. If you w... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with the father of my children

Q.   Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...

A.   16 October 2017:  How will you know if the right man for you is out there, if you keep the wrong man in your life?? There is man out who could rock your world like never before. But you will never know unless you let go. The fact that you are horny should dri... (read in full...)

Men don't see me as dating material - why?

Q.   Hi, you know how people like to use the term "friendzone" in situations when girls only see guys as friends? Well, i'm the opposite. I'm a 25 yo girl and find that most guys see me as a buddy or undateable. I've gone on dates with guys but nothing ...

A.   16 October 2017:  Hi Op, Men will see you as YOU see yourself. If you believe you are a buddy rather than a babe...that is what you will project outward, and that is what we see...a buddy. You have what we need...but if you don't give us something to chase a... (read in full...)

Should I let my wife have a young lover since I can't perform as I once did?

Q.   My wife (aged 55)and very attractive, and I have been married for 24 years and over the last 3 years I (aged 57) have had trouble maintaining an erection during sex, I have tried all the usual medications but I get side effects from them, so I have ...

A.   12 October 2017:  The penis is NOT the only means in which to satisfy a woman. You have two hands, a tongue, lips, and teeth. I am sure you also have a credit card, which leads to a good sex...that YOU can use on her. Let her fantasise all she wants...but ... (read in full...)

My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again

Q.   At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...

A.   12 October 2017: Let me put it this way... My dog tore my arm off...should I keep playing with it??? What do you think??... (read in full...)

We broke up because he was obsessed with women

Q.   Looking for some feedback, especially the guys out there, interested in your take on this. My relationship has very recently ended and was a long time coming,This man made me feel uncomfortable, disrespected, less than and so much more. The worst ...

A.   11 October 2017:  Over reacting...You didn't react fast enough over his stupidity. Surprise you didn't shove his head through the TV. Let him go make sweet love to the TV. You cannot have the right guy in your life, while keeping the wrong one around. Happy... (read in full...)

Why doesn't my boyfriend want to delete his exes from facebook?

Q.   Why doesnt my boyfriend want to delete his exes from fb? Hes sayin that they r just friends and their break up were amicable but i notice a constant interest of them on his posts and messenger and also hints and subliminal comments One of them ...

A.   11 October 2017:  Let me ask you a simple question, that I am sure you did not ask yourself... Why are dating a man that still has interest in his EXes?? You come in, and see something you do not like, and raises concerns of his commitment to you. So what d... (read in full...)

My son's father is in jail. My 6 year old is starting to ask questions. What should I tell him?

Q.   Aunties and uncles here is my question.. I have a son who is fixing to be 6. His father has been in jail since he was 2. He doesn't get out until 2020. He is in fir a 2nd sex charge. My question is pretty vague I guess.. I'm jist not sure what to ...

A.   11 October 2017:  The truth...it hurts, but it never fails. Also, use this as a learning lesson for your son. As in...Do not follow in your father's footstep.... (read in full...)

I haven't had any luck dating. Should I give up on love?

Q.   Is love not in the cards for me? I have tried online dating and after a couple of dates I realized the men in the sites aren't exactly the type of men that I want. I admit I have taken a year and a half to work on myself after a string of two bad ...

A.   11 October 2017:  Hi OP, Well you have not dated every man in the world to say you have no luck. Plus if you give up on love, how are you going to find it? You are most likely looking in the wrong place for that special someone. Here is site that would b... (read in full...)

The man I am dating doesn't believe in kissing and affection

Q.   I am seeing a guy who when I asked says he doesn’t do kissing and affection. I was widowed 9 years ago and this is the first since. I really like this guy but not sure about not kissing although the sex is great. I told him I kind of fell ...

A.   11 October 2017:  This should be your first warning sign... "He was married and divorced 2 x" Obviously he has not learned or have enough respect for women. Do you really think it is normal for a man to treat you this way, just for good sex? If all you ... (read in full...)

How to move on after a bad relationship?

Q.   Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

A.   10 October 2017: Hello Danielle, First off...No one needs therapy for doing the right thing. Which you did. People need therapy when they keep doing the wrongs things, but expect a good outcome, and cannot understand why things are not getting better. Some pe... (read in full...)

My wife is another man's slave

Q.   My wife is deeply into S and M and I am not. I discovered that she has become the slave of another man, but still professes she loves me. I have allowed her to spend 2 or 3 nights a week with her dom. I don't think I can find any way to give her...

A.   6 October 2017:  I have been doing things the wrong way all this time. So love is when you let your wife spend 2 or 3 nights with another man as his slave. No wonder I cannot understand love. The rest of the World calls this cheating, adultery, and Oh H... (read in full...)

Engaged to be married and have a crush on another woman

Q.   So to start off I have been with my fiancé for 11 years since we were both 18. In that time we have both been through a lot, however I have never in the last 11 years had a crush on another woman. She has always been the only women who i had any ...

A.   6 October 2017: "My current fiancé has cheated on me twice in the past" WOW...I do not know if this is brave, or foolish. If my partner cheated on me twice, I will not be around to give her a third chance, much less marry her. But to each their own. Life ... (read in full...)

Is my married boss hoping I will ask her out. ?

Q.   Hi this only happens at work lm a guy and really like 2 women 1 is married and find it hard to ask her out for a coffee and chat l feel she's still interested but she wants me to approach her and ask her out l don't think it will happen also cause ...

A.   6 October 2017:  Oh I really hope you get married, or get a girlfriend,that you love deeply. So that some guy can come along takes her away from. In fact I hope you do not ever get a girlfriend, because you are VERY SELFISH. All you are thinking is about your n... (read in full...)

He doesn't want marriage. Is there anything I can do?

Q.   My problem is this, I love my Bf. I'm sure He loves me too. We have lots of things in common. But the saying is also true. No relationship is perfect. Thing is, he have this thing that we are totally opposite about. I am a kind of woman who ...

A.   5 October 2017: "We have lots of things in common." No you don't. Be careful why you are in so called love. Loving the idea of having a boyfriend is one thing. Being a love with a man who wants the same future as you, is a totally different thing. One lo... (read in full...)

Is life passing me by?

Q.   Hello everyone, Next month I am turning 30. Every birthday usually leads to some analysis and evaluation but this one at the end decade is feeling like an assessment of whole life. Right now I have MBA degree from one of the best schools around,...

A.   5 October 2017:  You make it sound the 30 years is nothing....You do realize that you had 30 years to die right?? 30 years for some incident to leave you in a wheelchair. 30 years for you to develop some major sickness...cancer, or something else. Yet you a... (read in full...)

I keep comparing myself and feel like a loser!

Q.   How can I stop comparing myself and feeling like a looser - I am 31 and I feel like I haven't accomplished much in life nor have I enjoyed anybting . I come from a broken home - nothing I did was ever good enough - I have two degrees a corporate job ...

A.   5 October 2017:  What are you comparing to? Tell me...Who in this world looks like you, has your body, thinks like you...heck, who else is like you?? So what exactly do you have to compare yourself with? I love to please people who appreciate it. I do not ca... (read in full...)

Is this a positive sign or is she just being nice?

Q.   My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I had been working on the things she didnt like about me and I sent her an email updating her on how I have been changing i.e getting better and that I love her and hopefully in future we might cross ...

A.   5 October 2017: NEVER GOOD BACKWARDS!!! Going back to an ex is like throwing up, and going back to eat it. The right woman for you, is never in your past...always in the future. If you hold on to your ex, then that leaves no room for the right woman. Your e... (read in full...)

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