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My "best friend" is in a relationship with my ex

Q.   So I broke up with my boyfriend because I caught him and my bestfriend making out. My bestfriend knew that me and him were dating and I confronted her about it she apologized and it seemed like she was sorry about it and whatever I broke up with my ...

A.   23 November 2010: first off thats not your friend a friend wouldnt go behind your back and cheat with the person you loved it will take some time for you to get over this but you will but the thing with that is he is going to do the same thing to ur old friend so she ... (read in full...)

Should I give him another chance or stay broken up?

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years almost a year ago. About 4 months into our relationship he went on holiday with his friends and when he came back he told me he had slept with someone. He was in tears when he told me and begged me to forgive ...

A.   20 November 2010: Ithink you should go get your man back nobody is perfect havent you made mistakes.They always say once a cheat always a cheat thats not true i dont know why he cheated or what was going on with you two but i think you should give him another chance ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I are not connected sexually I need serious help!

Q.   I fear that my boyfriend and I are not connected sexually, ie, there is no intimacy between us. We have sex the same position every time, and i rarely have an orgasm. Also, he does not give me oral sex and does not kiss me. I perform oral sex on ...

A.   20 November 2010: it sounds to me your boyfriend is selfish and is all about pleasing his self and it shouldnt be that way you need to sit down and talk to him about that issue or your relationship is going to go downhill because you not going nto be happy i know you ... (read in full...)

My insecurities keep slapping me in the face!

Q.   I can't get over my insecurity. I've always been a bit insecure because I'm not pretty enough and ever since I was in like 6th grade, when other girls started getting some attention from boys, I was left out. The thing is, I recently broke up with ...

A.   20 November 2010: girl i wouldnt even worry about that what somebody else dont like someone does you should be happy with yourself with flaws or no flaws just because those other girls seem pretty on the outside they may be awful on the inside and thats what counts ... (read in full...)

I found a letter from his ex-girlfriend what should I do?

Q.   ok me and my bf have been together for six months and we have liked each other for five years i cleaned his room today and found a letter in his dresser from his ex gf it was in the open so he must know its there what should i do? ...

A.   20 November 2010: it sounds like he wanted you to see it. I would ask him why he has a it. there is a reason its in there ask him why you deserve to know... (read in full...)

He knows just what to say to get me to stay!

Q.   why do i allow this to happen?Me and my boyfriend were home cuddling on the couch watching tv all of a sudden he leaves and picks his uncle up. He brings him back to the house they drink beer and vodka. Then after a while his uncle whispers ...

A.   18 November 2010: thank you so much for your answers... (read in full...)

He tells me I'm running from a relationship yet we have been dating for the past month and a half!

Q.   I am more of the type of person to go from one guy to another and just have fun. Recently though I met this guy and he is really sweet and everything but I just am not used to steady relationships. He tells me I am running from a damn relationship ...

A.   18 November 2010: I dont think your running like you said you not use to being in a steady relationship i think you guys just need to move slow and take your time cause its going to take you time anyway to get use to being in a steady relationship so take your time ... (read in full...)

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