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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I'm 22, a virgin and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I really need some help. Im 22 and ive never had a proper bf. Ive been on dates and ive kissed a guy before. Last week i went out wiv this guy who was really nice, he was clingy though and i ran a mile. now he thinks ive messed him around and...

I'm a virgin and want a relationship, but I fret about the size of my penis..any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 494 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - Hi iam 17 and still a virgin i would love to have a relationship with a girl but iam very insecure about the size of my penis as it is only 6 and a half inches when erect should i be woried or am i fretin about nothing ...

I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm still a virgin. What's it like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - can someone please help me with sex, i am a virgin and i am with a guy im 15 and he is 16. we really want to have sex, im scared of letting him go down there because i find it embarrasing although i realli like him. we want to have sex but can ...

I'm a virgin and he's very well endowed. Will it hurt to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I'm wondering... I am a virgin and I have a partner which is really big in size, he's well above average. Will it hurt me more than if he was smaller ? I'm kinda scared....

Is it healthy to be that sexually active?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i just started having sex 4 days ago. We were both virgins. Now we have sex 2 times a day. Is that heathy? We're madly in love and we cant seem 2 find any other better way 2 express our love 2 one another. Hes 20 and im 21. He ...

What tips can you give me about making sex better for my boyfriend and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six months and we have started to try and have sex. I can make him come by blow jobs but so far he has only given me handjobs. These used to be very intense for me but recently I just haven't got ...

My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Hi. My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24. We had been together for about 5 years before having sex for the first time, she had expained she wanted to wait until she was married before having sex. I had ...

First time sex with my bf hurt real bad! Was this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I am a 20 year old girl and me and my boyfriend tried to have sex yesterday for the first time (I was a virgin, he wasn't) and it really hurt and I had to tell him to stop. Now I feel bad that I had to stop him and I'm scared something is wrong with ...

My BF was sexually abused when he was 6, he is now 17 and we want to have sex but I'm scared he will panic and those feelings will come back again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

24 May 2007 (?) - Hi i am 15 in 2 weeks, i live in the uk and have been going out with my boyfriend now for 17 months and he is 17. i love him. i never felt like this before and i reali want to settle with him and be with him forever. i really want to have sex with ...

I'm 18, virgin, and furious!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm quite a pathetic case really. I'm 18 and still a virgin. Being a bloke its not something that i've admitted - I even spun my best mates off with bullshit stories about how i got layed. I hate myself for it. I don't understand why t...

I am still a virgin but have tried to have sex, but I tense up so bad! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a 20 year old virgin girl(yeah that's bad I know) and I have a boyfriend and we tried having sex yesterday but we couldn't because he felt I was too tensed. And I know I was and he could see I was worried and scared. I am like reall...

I want to find a partner who is a virgin like me! This is important to me...any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

19 May 2007 (M) - I am a 22 year old single, virgin guy. I have been in fairly long term relationships which have broken down largely because I have not been able to handle the fact that the girl I was with in each case was not a virgin. I am not religious, and appr...

Worried I'm going to lose my erection when it comes to the crunch!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

18 May 2007 (M) - ok. im really scared to lose my virginity. im 16 and have done other things with quite a few girls. in fact ive been naked and doing things with them on many occasions. however im scared of having sex. for some reason i think i will lose my erection ...

What else can we do to enjoy sex without loosing our virginities?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 550 days ago

16 May 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend now for 3years. We are now both 17 and feel it is the right time to lose our virginity to each other. We have done all the bj thing, but i feel that we needed to go further. So last night she came over to ...

Is a month too soon into a relationship to start having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

15 May 2007 (F) - Im a 25 year old virgin who has recently started seeing a guy. he is coming to my town on saturday night and has asked me to stay in a hotel with him. can i read into this as him expecting sex? ive been seeing him for a month, i trust him but being ...

My boyfriend is worried I'll become an alcoholic like my dad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 557 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - MY dad is an alcoholic. He used to be aggressive but he's not anymore just narky. he can drink from 5 gasses - 3 bottles a night of red wine. He's an ok guy when he's sober. he cant say 'i love you' because of problems with his parents. My ...

Sex doesn't feel like I think it's supposed to feel. I like it, but mostly because I love feeling close to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend (who I am very much in love with) about 2 months ago. I obviously didn't know what to expect, but I know that something is lacking. Sex doesn't feel like I think it's supposed to feel. I like it, but mostly ...

Did I loose my virginity the second time I had sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - The first time I had sex, I didn't bleed, and it sort of hurt, not that much really. I waited a while, (almost a year) and with a new guy I had sex again, only this time i bleed and it was way more painful... why would this happen, it's like I lost ...

My BF is a virgin how can I help him along sexually by giving him a Blow Job ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - Hiya all well i really do need help here the last time me and my bf tried to have sex (he still a v so it would have been his first time but am not) he was up and everything but he couldn't keep up as he was so nervous well here my question i wanna ...

How can I make sure my bf enjoys his first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - i really like my boyfriend and know that he fells the same way, he is a virgin and im not. he is 22 and im 24. we did some foreplay and even a bit more and i realized that he wasn't very confident. it already happened to me before that the first ti...

Can you tell when having sex if a girl is sexually inexperienced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - guys can you tell when having sex if a girl is sexually inexperienced, obviously u can tell if they are a virgin but i mean say someone who has only sex a few times?...

am I ready for sex? All my friends tell me to do it.

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - Right... im 15 and i've been going out with this boy for nearly 2 weeks now. He flattered me so much and dumped his nine month GF to be with me... i love him so much and he loves me to. He's fingered me, licked me out and i tossed him off. Next ...

I lost my virginity, should I have waited?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

10 May 2007 (M) - hi .. im 15 and i lost my virginity a few weeks a go with a girl who i love A LOT and i don't regret it at all .. but i was wondering if i rushed into it and should have waited .. thanks ...

We have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on March 10th. It was painful but as time went on it got easier. Since then, we have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful. Most times he can't even get half way in ...

I'm 15, and ready to have sex! I'm looking for fun...so should I lose my virginity to this guy who would do it with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 559 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm 15, and I'm ready for sex. I've not got a boyfriend, would it really matter if I lost my virginity to a guy I know would do it with me? There's nothing else to do in this town. I'm just looking for a little fun. I just wanted to know if I should ...

I stopped him before he penetrated me, but Im still worried Im pregnant!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I was fooling about with a boy 9 days ago he was touching me and we were both naked i was pretty drunk but i stopped him when i cud feel his penis around my vagina so he didnt penetrate me.i took a pregnancy test today and it was negative. but im ...

Is it possible to fake my sex experience with this guy who is way ahead of me in that area?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - Okay so I'm officially dating this guy, it's a secret though. We are crazy about each other, and we've been hanging out everyday afterschool, it's really hard though cause he lives on the otherside of town, were thinking about having sex, he's way ...

What should I expect when I'm with a boy and he wants to 'get off' with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - hi just a quick question! im kinda confused please can u tell me excactly what a boy expects when you get off with them? I haven't been put in this situation before and i want to know excactly what to do when it comes to it... please help i need to ...

I'm 16, just lost my virginity and now my BF wants me to shave down there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - hey am 16 and and i just lost it to my b/f who i have been with for about 2 years now and he said he would like me to shave all my hair on my pussy... would it make a diffrence if i did or not?...

I'm 13 and think I masterbate too much! How can I stop?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - Im 17 and like most guys, i masterbate. I started when i was 13 and have dun it at least once a day, sumtimes up to 4 times a day. All i can say is that i have lost all feeling for it and now i do it because i am either bored or just been watchi...

My GF was hurt in a past relationship so won't have sex with me! How do I convince her I'm not 'that guy' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

7 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out for over 7 months now. We have done a lot of things but never actually had sex. I am still a virgin, but she had sex once a couple years ago. She says the guy used her and really hurt her and she doesn't ...

I'm asexual - I have no desire to have sex - what woman will be okay with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

6 May 2007 (M) - What woman would date a guy who’s asexual? Hi, I’m a guy who’s 25 years old still a virgin and asexual. For those of you who don’t know what an asexual is, it’s someone who has, never had, or desired the need to have sex. The thing is, althou...

I told my bf he could take my virginity but now I'm scared! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

6 May 2007 (F) - Im only 14 And im still a virgin. i told my boyfriend he could take my virginity but now im a little scared to let him take after all i am only 14. i really do like him and wuld do anything for him and i do want him to take my virginity but im not ...

Should I lose my virginity to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

4 May 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and all my mates have lost their virginity to their long term boyfriends. I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over three years. I love and i know that he loves me back. We haven't gone any further than kissing. Should i lose my ...

I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my ...

How can I ask her without offending her in case I am wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

3 May 2007 (M) - I am a virgin and want to lose my virginity. I think a girl I know wants to do the same but i am not sure. How can I ask her without offending her in case I am wrong? ...