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*eboo2011
writes:Hi my name is Kianna and i have a question can you please help me im 20. I had sex twice and none of the times i had my hymen broken. I want to have sex but i am to afraid for him to brake my hymen. My freinds tell me that i sould get drunk or take something to make me pass out so i wont feel no pain. I can not take pain if it would save my life speacially when it is in that area. My question is can you give me ways we can use to break my hyem with no pain??? or can you give me some pointers on what i should do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): When i had sex, it just hurt for a few seconds.. it doesnt last. But it will feel kinda uncomfortable later on after sex.
Its endurable pain.
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reader, lalasoo  +, writes (26 August 2008):
well i had never had sex b4 but my friend did she said it hurts but not that much
the most important thing is that u should b comfortable and u shouldnt worry when its gonna break u should enjoy the sex and its not gonna hurt that much if u r really injoying the sex
just tell ur guy to go slowely in the begining
if u worry about it, it might hurt bcz u r gonna be really terrified, but if u just enjoy the sex its gonna be easy peasy
goood luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): i am 17 and never had sex but fingered myself and saw little blood but checking for my hymen believe me it was still there.it is a bumpy circle
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): 16 year-old, female.
i cant deal with pain at all!!
im totaly freaking out about this whole hymen thing!!
i have been using tampons for ages and it still hurts me when i put them in, and take them out!
My boyfriend wants to finger me, and im really scared he is gona break it.
I think i agree with your friends idea of just getting wasted so you can feel it!!!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Tampons don't usually break the hymen, it's all a matter of where the tissue is located. It is different for each woman, some are higher in the vaginal canal than another's and some are located lower. There can be differences in thickness of the membrane as well. The only way to know for sure, barring intercourse is to have your doctor give you a pelvic exam.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): hi,
I'm a 17 years old female. I have never had sex before but have been using tampons for the last year. I play a very high level of soccer, and basketball. How would i know if my hymen is broken without having sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): hey there=]
well believe me
i feel the same way as you do!
im soo scared its gonna hurt me and also
like you said i CANNOT stand pain. but actually
a couple days ago i stated using tampons more frequently
and i actually broke it=] i was soo relieved.. so my advice to you is "keep using those tampons girl!" and by the way it didnt hurt at ALL.. thank god! haha well i hope i helped you out and take care!
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 i lost mine through using tampons. dont be worried, if it didnt hurt having sex 'twice' then u have likely lost yours wiithout even realising it. anonymous girl has hit the nail on the head with this one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Um, if you had a hymen to begin with, rest assured that after having sex twice it's been broken.
In actuality, if you commonly use tampons during your period, or have ridden horseback, or played contact sports, in all likelihood your hymen is long gone. Not only can it be broken without pain, it quite often goes without even being noticed during something completely unrelated to sex.
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