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writes:i am 18 and my boyfriend is 16. we have been together for 5 years, we think we are ready to have sex but i don't want to get in trouble. should we just wait or wat? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to those of you that replied. I have not decided what to do yet,we have talked about it and we both understand that there is always a risk when deciding to take the next step. we are both prepared and have been for a while so there is no issue there. i'm still not sure what we are going to do yet but i'll let you know wen i do. thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Yes! You should wait until he is mature enough to marry you. Wait for 7 more years maybe.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Hi babe, it depends on the laws, if u get into trouble or not. 5 years is a long time, and u still seem happy. as long as u both want it, go ahead, as long as its legal ;) mail me if u wanna talk x x xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Legally I don't think there are any problems. However if either of you have doubts then wait. Many people regret having sex before they are completely ready but I've never heard of regretting waiting.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (29 June 2007):
 The anons did answer about what o do if you did have sex but didnt say if you could get in troouble. Which you can as you live in the states. Sex laws may differ depending what state you live in, but i would wait until he is 18 just to be sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Think about it before you do it then regret later, to lose you virginty is a big deal and you don't wanna rush into it. but if you are ready then you should be careful and protect yourself Hope you make te right choice
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): I can tell you are a smart young woman. Weighing out your options and then doing a pro and con list might help you guys figure out if this is something you are ready for. Next, if the answer is no then you can keeping moving forward in your relationship with a understanding about the sex issue. If you feel you are ready for sex, then (I'm sure you already know) go see your doctor or Planned Parenthood and make sure both of you are covered!
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