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anonymous
writes:I recently broke up with an ex but I remained friends with his friends.I lost my virginity to my ex and he's been bragging to every person who will listen about it and it makes me so embarrassed!His friends tell me intimate details that he has said about me which makes me so paranoid. He said my vagina was small. Is this a bad thing?Im so embarrassed.what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): I agree with DV1. Tell people that he had a really small penis, it will really teach him a lesson.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): Firstly, you're a bit young to be having sex in the first place. I'm not chastising you or anything, but PLEASE think again in future about having a physical relationship until you're old enough to deal with all the psychological issues that come with it.
Which is why your ex is probably bragging about it. He's immature and can't deal so he's bragging about it instead. You could turn the tables and tell his mates about HIS anatomy mentioning the "small" word which no doubt would get back to him and may shut him up. But then you'd just be going down to his level.
Just be dignified. If your friends want to tell you what he's been saying, refuse to listen. Tell them you'd rather not hear anything because it's pathetic, that HE'S pathetic and you want nothing more to do with it. This guy means for his bragging to come back to you, if you won't listen to it he'll realise it's not working and go away.
And by the way, vaginas come in all shapes and sizes and nothing is bad. I've never heard a man say "her vagina was too small/wide/thin/large" etc. A man should be more into who you are, rather than just parts of your body.
Best of luck :-)
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Dont worry yourself about it babe, it will be forgotten by all the friends in no time because they will just find someone else to tourcher, and do you know what he is going to be the one that suffers from this in the long run what girl is seriously going to want to go near him now they would all be to frightened in case he said something about them.
Now i don't want to lecture you but you are a little young for all of this as well so just enjoy yourself and wait then no one will remember anything anyway.
Take care.xx.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Ask him to stop. If he doesn't, all you can do is ignore it, or spread rumors about how small he is...
DV1
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