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30-35,
*issmasso
writes:im stuck between 3 boys i have like one from ages and been on and off with him for 3 yrs but its not going nowhere but i feel like i actually love this boy. the other one is very nice hes good lookin the lot but the thing is i havent lost my virginity yet and i no hes gunna want that off of me and im worried that hes going to force me to do it . and then the other one hes older than me hes everything i could ask for BUT hes much older and hes only came out of a 5 yr relationship and im worried hes just using me as a rebound girl please help me i really dont no who to go for thanx everyone
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 I agree with the rest! you're 16 -17! You're young! have some fun!! Stay single for a while. You don't have to decide who you spend the rest of your life with right now!
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reader, stina  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Hi there Miss,
Okay, so here's how it is:
Boy #1 -- on/off relationship; you love him
Boy #2 -- may force you to have sex (a potential rapist)
Boy #3 -- just out of a relationship; may use you
I think the choice is obvious if you HAVE to choose one of these guys. But like Ms Iwal said "Hhave you tried being single..." Why do you have to choose one of these guys? Surely there could be someone else out there who would actually treat you right and not want to use you. Why are you even considering boy 2 and 3? You're worth more than that.
My advice is to keep your options open and just see what happens and what develops - but not with boy 2 and 3.
Take care.
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reader, Ms_Iwal  +, writes (5 June 2007):
Have you ever tried being single and letting them chase you! Your heart and brain can always give you two choices the only decision you have to make is Do you listen to your heart or your Brain! I dont think anyone can give you an answer into telling you which boy to go for only you know the true answer. Your Frist time has a persona of being special and im sure you agree, so decide where you think each relationship is going to go and what you want out of them and if youll get them and the answer will reveal itself
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