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writes: after years of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant. i due next month. he said at the time he was to young(25) and wanted to enjoy life but he didn't want a serious realtionship. in october 2010 i talk to him over an our asking him to give us another go because he now lives only 40 mins away. he said he think about it we fought at the start of november and stopped talking, 2 weeks later he was in a relationship with a girl 5 years his junior and they went off together on hols for a week in jan. not once has he got in contact with me to see how i doing or how the baby is doing. even after all this i want him back and i want to know, how do i go about doing it. do i get him to come to hos to see his child. do i leave it alone i don't want to give up on us just yet and i know he has a new gf but i hoping she grow bored of him because of the speed of thier realstionship is moving to quickly.. or should i just try to move on.
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reader, eddie85  +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Sadly, I think the writing is on the wall for you and this guy. It's a shame that you are now expecting a baby and he doesn't want any part in raising it. He sounds like quite a character.
At this point, I think you need to ask yourself why you want him back. He knocks you up, tells you he doesn't want to have anything to do with you and your child, and is now galvanting around with another girl. What do you see in him? Is this the honorable guy you envisioned yourself marrying and raising a family with?
In short, it's probably time to talk to a lawyer about getting child support payments in line so that you and your child are well cared for.
Good luck.
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