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Can I get pregnant if he came but I didn't?

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Question - (29 January 2011) 12 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is it possible that I can get pregnant if my boyfriend came in me but I never came? And I start around the 5th of every month?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011):

girl...yes you can get pregnant even if you didn't have an orgasm. I know for sure that you can because i have two children and didn't have an orgasm with any of them. the best thing for you do is to use abstinence, birth control, or wrap it up.

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A female reader, Molly9945 United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

Haha Dirtball

But I agree with Tennisstar. I'm 15 and I know that you can get pregnant regardless if you orgasm or not. Seriously read up or take a class on sex

Ed before you have sex again, and use at least two forms of birth control, because in my opinion you're not ready to have a baby if you don't even know that much about sex :/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011):

Oh, dear. If that is a serious question OP you really shouldn't be having sex at all.

Yes, whether you came or not there is a very big chance you will get pregnant if you don't use protection.

I suggest getting a pregnancy test and looking into sex education.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntYou can only get pregnant if you don't have an orgasm on nights where there is a full moon. Those nights the moon's gravitational pull will help his little men swim harder and get there to make you pregnant.

Of course, your baby might be a warewolf then too, but some risks are worth it.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntAre you sure you're 22-25?

At that age you should be fully sex educated.

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A female reader, PatientlyWaiting1 United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

You having an orgasm has nothing to do with you getting pregnant. You should keep track of when you ovulate because those are your most fertile days.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011):

Unfortunately, yes you can get pregnant regardless of whether or not you orgasm. The only way to 100% prevent pregnancy is abstinence! Otherwise, use birth control and condoms =) I suggest you go down to a sexual health clinic, they can be very helpful to ensure that you are having a safe sex life! Good luck

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (29 January 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntYour orgasm has zero to do with the process. Absolutely zero. All that matters at all his orgasm (or precum, as CaringGuy pointed out). Pregnancy can happen to you anytime during your cycle - some parts of your cycle make it more likely to get pregnant than others, but if you are having un-protected sex, pregnancy is ALWAYS a possibility. Perhaps it is time for a little sex ed review to keep yourself educated and safe. Good luck!

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (29 January 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntYep. Absolutely, As sad as it is, your orgasm has barely anything to do with the fertilizing progress.

Would be wise to get a pregnancy test, or if it's soon enough, a plan B if you don't want a baby.

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2011):

Blonde68 agony auntOf course you can! How many days ago did this happen? You have up to 72 hours to take the morning after pill, but it obviously isn't 100% success.

I suggest, if you aren't trying for a baby to either go on the pill or use condems, and to be honest, I think unless you have been in a long term relationship and trust each other you should be using condoms anyway! I am also alarmed at the fact a girl of your age doesn't realise that the female doesn't need to come to become pregnant!!!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2011):

Oh yes you can get pregnant. Your eggs will be around whether you come or not. And, in fact, his sperm will be in pre-cum, so he doesn't need to come either really. It's only the sperm that needs to turn up for the party.

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2011):

Sweety Pie agony auntUm... if this were the case I doubt many woman would get pregnant ;D

Seriously though, if you dont know this you probs you read up on sex ed before you have sex again.

But basically, yes of course you can get pregnant. All it takes is one sperm (supplied by the guy) and one egg, already inside you waiting for said sperm.

I can't really get over this question, come on girl, your older than me, you should be telling me this! :P

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