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writes:my boyfriend and i broke up like 3 days ago.and i was panning to move on so i asked him if that was okay since i am having his kid.he said that he didnt wont me to move on because i have his kid. he said he didnt wont me to give his kid a step dad...should me having his kid give him a reason to not wont me to move on?what should i do?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 Let him know that you and your child come as a package, you can't stay around just because he wants to see his kid, you have your life to sort out. 3 days isnt very long to know the relationship is over especially now he knows your pregnant. You both need to seriously talk about the childs future and how you both intend to conduct yourselves when the child comes along. Also what financial input will he give you to support the child. Children are extremely expensive to maintain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): If you are alone and a new boyfriend would make you happy then go for it. This is your choice not his. But maybe wait a bit longer as this might be to soon. Don't let him tell you what to do. If you want to move on then that's your choice to make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): you can move on , its not up to him hes not with you no more , if he really doesnt want his child to have a step kid then he should stay with you but its not fair telling you that you cant be with someone.
i say move on but not too much coz its not fair your child experiencing change alot . RED LIPZ XX :)
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