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writes:okay now i am 18 and i am seein this guy that go to my school but the problem is he has a baby and he still talks to the baby momma every day but he is telling me he aint dating the baby momma but every time i turn around she is there. i know he still loves her but is there any way he can love me too cause i'm pregnant with his baby too but i havent told him cause i need to know whether he loves me or not. Reply to this Question
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reader, Fabulosa +, writes (16 January 2011):
 I would tell him asap. But I think if I was in your spot I would confront him about his feelings for her. Deside if those feelins are something you can handle and if you can try to see if you can make it work. And im sorry if I sounded judgemental i'm my last comment... also depending on your relationship with his babys mama I might also ask her about there relationship. Because he may lie. But don't start drama cause your going to know her forever. Even if your not with your bf. Your kid and her kid will always be siblings.
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reader, tori1993 +, writes (16 January 2011):
tori1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i hear of contraception but i cant take bith control cause i am allegic to them and i am not tryin to trap him with this baby i just want to know since he says he love me do he mean it and when can i tell him i am 1 month pregnant with his baby
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reader, Fabulosa +, writes (16 January 2011):
His love for you doesn't have anything to do with your pregnancy. What if he doesn't love you? Then what are you going to do? Deny your baby a father? Deny him the right to know about his baby? And if he loves you not that doesn't mean he's going to love you forever. Clearly he doesn't love his " baby mama" if he's not making it work with her and getting someone else prenant. This does not sound like a good situation.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 She is the mother of his child, there is no way she is not going to be there.
If your idea is to separate them so he will spend more time with you and his second child, I really cannot see that happening.
Whether he loves you or not isn't the important thing, you are pregnant and the fact that he loves you or not isn't going to make the situation dissapear.
You need to tell him about it and decide what you are going to do. Have you told your parents? How far along are you?
Have you kids not heard of contraception?
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