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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I'm just looking for some advice on this girl I pulled in town, Im not the most confident guy in the world so last year I decided to join a gym got in good shape and recently started going in town, even though I get anxious and dread going in, the last time I went in (a week ago) I got talking to a mates girlfriends best friend and eventually got off with her a few times and exchanged numbers she text me the same night as soon as she got in, she is absolutely beautiful wich my best mate seems a bit envious of as i pulled the fittest girl that night, as my mate has his head so far his own arse it was a proud moment for me . Anyway she has been In Spain on holiday with her mate and she has not stopped texting and snap chatting me for the week she has been away, until last night and today, now I know she's on holiday and I've told her to stop texting and have a laugh , now I'm just wondering how I should approach asking her to meet up when she is back, because we aren't talking (yes she may text me tomorow) I don't want it to end up her being just a contact on my phone , I want to put some graft and see where it could possible lead to. Basically how should I go about it? Should I wait till she's back of Holliday (Sunday) to text her knowing she might text me first as she has done for the past week? Or wait until she's back ? And what should I say ? Thank you :) ps on my phone sorry for errors and rambling on :)
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (5 October 2013):
Wait until she’s back. You stopped the texting so she could get on with enjoying herself. When she comes back, text that you hoped she had a good time and, as she’s obviously keen on you, ask her if she’d like to meet and when she’s free. And say you hoped she had a good holiday.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2013): If you keep on letting her take all the initiative, she might think that you don't care. You need to start texting her first also. I was dating a guy who I saw once a week o ly for weekends as he lived one hour away from me. I was always the one who was initiating emails or texting. He always replied but not right away, it always took him a couple days for emails, and few hours for texting. Eventually I stopped initiating anything, and I wouldn't heard from him for days, but then he would show up for the weekend. I told him that I don't really like this moment, he needs to show that he wants to connect too. I think also that you need to keep on touch with her while she travels . Don't leave a girl without attention for a long time, she might find someone else who pays attention. Just ask her out, and don't delay too much, she might loose interest if you delay. Women of all ages like proactive guys. Hesitant and not sure guys loose. Shyness is not very attractive for women in guys.
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