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How can I tell whether this girl likes me without directly asking her?

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Question - (18 September 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2013)
A male United States age 30-35, *ammer69 writes:

I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now and we are very open with each other and we get along great. But I don't know if she likes me or not and I asked her once but it was when we had just started talking. Is there any way of know that she likes me with out asking her? Are there any clues in her speech I should look for?

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A male reader, mammer69 United States +, writes (26 September 2013):

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thank you that last one was very helpful. now just got to get some friends together. don't have many left

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (20 September 2013):

Asking a girl if she likes you is for guys in high school. Asking a girl out is for men. I'm saying this because you just have to do it. I knew you weren't successful with women because you asked this question. All you have to do to change that is stop being intimidated by asking them out.

"Hey, I enjoy talking with you online, so I thought it'd be fun to meet in person. Some friends and I are *****, you should come along."

That's a good way to not feel to much pressure when you are just starting to get used to asking a girl out. Make sure whatever you ask her to do is appropriate and allows you two to get to know each other a little.

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A male reader, mammer69 United States +, writes (19 September 2013):

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I'm not success full with women that's why I'm asking.I've also been talking to here on the internet. haven't met her yet but I know she is real. I asked her when we first started talking because that is just where the conversation led. I don't want to ask her again because I don't want to scare her off because she has also been a very good friend. she told me I was funny,smart, interesting and kind of cute. that is a good sign correct?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2013):

I always was told that if you look at her eyes, and don't look away until she does, you'll be able to tell. I also heard, that for guys, if they make eye contact with you at least twice out of nowhere, or in a crowd and for no reason, he likes you. I don't know how true these are though :)

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (18 September 2013):

There's plenty of clues, but it's something you're going to have to just have some intuition about. There is so much variation among women and some people will appear to like you even when they're just friendly.

So, do what all guys who are successful with women do and ask her out. If she says yes, there's your answer!

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