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I've fallen for him now but it seems he is no interested in me or not wanting to be my friend. Please help me

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Question - (12 September 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

A guy blocked me because he said i wasn't in love with him which was true i called him several times but to no respond, i then sent him an sms he called later saying "lets be real, i was faking, so were u, lets just be friends'. We were friends, i wrote to him when i went to school but he didnt reply, he hasnt still unblocked me, i used my cousin's fb account to send him a request, he noticed the surname and didnt accept. The problem is i've fallen for him now but it seems he's not interested in me. Help me

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A female reader, PeachCobbler03 United States +, writes (12 September 2013):

PeachCobbler03 agony auntHis actions are indicating that he's not interested in you. He won't take your calls, has blocked you on fb, and won't answer your texts. Is this really the type of guy you want?

You can't make someone love you and you are better than this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2013):

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Thanks guys, i'll just leave him alone but it seems difficult, everything i do just reminds me of him and those times he pretended loving me

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (12 September 2013):

Denise32 agony auntI'm sorry, but if he isn't interested - and he evidently isn't - there is nothing you can do except to give it up as a bad job.

You'll only succeed in annoying him if you keep trying to contact him - by messaging, email, phone call, or even asking a friend to talk to him.

The sooner you give up on him, the sooner you'll get over this "I've fallen for him" and can move on.\

Finally: why would you even WANT someone who doesn't want you? Where's your sense of pride and self-respect?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (12 September 2013):

Honeypie agony auntStop stalking him and trying to push him into something he doesn't want.

You two can't have been that great friend if he is acting like this.

My advice leave him alone.

Why waste you time chasing a guy who 1. isn't interested ans 2. who treats you this way?

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