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writes:I am currently 19 years old and i am single. i am very attractive as i often attract all kinds of men. i 'put myself on pause'as a result of hurt from the past. i am afraid to love and to trust my male companions. I still talk to males but whenever i am close to them i get scared of what might happen and how it was in my past. i am currently talking to a guy as close friends but because of my physical appearance i think he only wants to make love. am i being too cold about males or should i be free and wild? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2013): Additionally, take things slow so that it gives you time to ascertain the guy's true intentions, that he is interested in the whole of you, not just the looks.
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reader, GentleGiant  +, writes (18 September 2013):
You have the whole package and indeed you are a lucky woman. If you are constant 10 you are always going to have the attention of males. Our society is so fixated on youth, beauty and success. There are always going to be should say vultures hovering over and around you. You have been hurt in the past and I have experienced the same pain. But I do believe that Love is something unique and worth the pain you might have to go through. Nothing wrong with being free and wild but because you are drop dead gorgeous what ever you do will i hate to say bring notions either preconceived or not. If you decide to become the town bicycle then you're going to get a certain reputation and I know its not fair but things like that can happen. You know what men are like unfortunately through bad experiences but that doesn't mean the rest are that way. I think you decide what you want to get out of a relationship right now. And then proceed. You have many fringe benefits for being beautiful and yes do enjoy them. But let me give you one last piece of advice. Its a fact if both man and woman in a relationship and they are both a number ten that the relationship will last longer and be more fulfilling and happy. If both you and your boyfriend are a number ten you will always be liked,popular and people will always want you around. That is a documented fact. Just brush aside the opportunists and focus on what you want now out of a relationship with a man. Like a good business man or women they always cherish and protect their assets and you should do the same with yours. Good luck, please reply to what i said i am interested to know how things work out for you. Good-luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2013): You should just be careful. I think falling in love is the most amazing thing in the world. It's one of those best free things that money can't buy. You should not be scared of it.
However, since your a pretty girl, most times men will be attracted to you, in a very shallow reason. What you should do, just be careful who you fall in love with.
You can date whoever you want to date. Yes you can be wild and free. Just don't fall in love, so quickly. cuz once you do, its the time you lose the game.
In making a decision, always use your head. Not your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2013): Listen I don't judge people who sleep around but I wouldn't want my daughter to.. There are too many sexually diseases going around that people sometimes tend to push under the carpet ..On top of that girls tend to get a name attached to them, as someone who is good only for one thing even if their gorgeous ..So I would say there nothing wrong in wanting or expecting more than just sex from a man .. Let him chase you get it confirmed your steady take him home to meet your parents and then when there an engagement on the cards but that time you should both know this is long term then okey sleep with him but until he's willing to give more than I would keep my hand firmly over my prize ..Take care x
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