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*jNinja
writes:Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need.I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board and think about this. I have a feeling that she either likes me as a friend or more then just friends. You tell me. Here's the clues I found, she touch my face, always smiles and gives proper eye contact, loves following me around since I had nothing to do and just dance. XD Also, I know this might be weird for meeting someone new but I asked her to slow dance with me and she said yes. I was really surprised. Thanks to me because I was confident. So we slow dance, and talk. Like I was complimenting her, and everything but not overboard. Btw, we thought it was awkward but it wasn't really really awkward. In the end, I was able to get her number, and I got a lot of hugs from her and pictures of us taken. I wanna hang out with her but the problem is she has a boyfriend. She told me via text message she has a boyfriend and I don't wanna make the boyfriend jealous or make their relationship really hard. She's really beautiful and everything it's not even funny. Is their a way for the both of us to hang out and/or she is really interested in me as more as friends for love at first sight? Thanks guys and girls for helping me. As always, happy holidays and God Bless.P.S I hope you people can understand what I said. And don't worry I was being myself.
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (29 December 2011):
 Hiyaaaaa,
Yhhh you definitely hang around with her but you need to be careful.
Don't fall into the trap which what usually happens that you end up falling for her and she too and you guys secretly date or have weird confusion and then a just one gust of mistake ruins everything! Not saying that it would happen but it could.
You can hang around with her as friends, treat her right, listen to her stories but keep it minimal don't go overboard which you're really good at, and try not to give her the wrong signal. Even though you like her don't provoke her and even if she provoke you try to remember she has a boyfriend.
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck and have a great new year!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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reader, SOShelp +, writes (29 December 2011):
 Ok...sounds like this girl may have been a bit of a player or she enjoys leading men on.
Don't get involved with the boyfriend. If you're going to see her, see her in the company of others so it is less awkward as there is less one-to-one contact. You never know, you might become really good friends with her bf!
However if it does look like she wants to be more than friends, push her away unless she breaks up with her bf. It is not fair for her to lead you on because all three of you will end up hurt and it could turn ugly. Just take it slowly and see what she wants to do. Just be careful and don't fall head over heels for her
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (29 December 2011):
Well some boy friends can be really possessive, try hanging out with both of them and see how he reacts, if he gets jealous he will show it, back off her and she does soun interested in you other ways to tell if a girl like you are:
- She laughs at your jokes, even if they aren't funny
- If you somehow both take a sip of the same drink (initiated by her) this is pretty much the same as a less direct kiss
- She asks if you have a girlfirend and/or pries for information
- She smiles whenever she sees you
Try a little test
As you’re talking to a woman, and she says something you like, give her a high five.
The key is that as you slap her hand sort of grip her fingers for a split second. Her reaction to this indicates her comfort level around you.
If she pulls her hand immediately away, or leaves her fingers limp, she probably still does not feel comfortable around you.
On the other hand, if she hold her hand there for a second, grips your fingers back, or sort of lets her hand slide against yours … it’s a pretty good indicator that you’ve developed a nice level of rapport with her.
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