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writes:Merry Christmas all!I met a girl on the train the other day and, although incredibly unlike me, I started talking to her and asked for her number and if she wanted to go for a drink. She gave it to me and then immediately started texting me when off the train. After about three texts she stopped texting and I assumed I'd said something wrong. I gave one more text the next evening to see if she had had a good weekend and she replied with x's at the end etc asking how mine was. I then asked about the drink and heard nothing back once more. A week later I send a generic christmas message to my phone address book and get a message back saying 'heya how's it going? x'. What do I make of this?Hope you all had a good Christmas!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): sounds like she doesn't want to go any farther sry dude
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 Hey,
I think you should not take this too seriously. No longer is sharing your number or address a sure thing that someone is interested in your. With the genesis of facebook and twitter, it just means that I had a great convo or something. Stop texting her and carry on buddy. Honest, do you really want a girl who gives her number away so freely as a girlfriend?
Ana
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (27 December 2011):
I think she's playing games or has something going on on the side. She started texting you after exchanging humbers--that shows some interest. Set a date to have a drink, "Hey do you want to go get a drink on Thursday?" or whatever day you want. If you get no response or she brushes you off, time to move on and ask someone else.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (27 December 2011):
 I think you have to back off a bit and not take this too seriously.You are a casual aquaintance only here... she texts you when she feels like it and if you meet her on the train she will say hello. I do not think that she is interested in anything more.She didnt reply to the text about the drink, so I think you need to assume that she doesn't want to take this further.Move on, find a girl who does want to text you and spend time with you!Tiger x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): She may be playing it cool, she may be not. But one thing is certain, women are crazy and love to be chased and adored. Text her something abrupt like "I can't stop thinking about our meeting, is that crazy?" not some generic response like "hiya, yeh fyn. Xmas was a gudden, howz yurz" (I'm exaggerating lol) keep her on her toes!
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 Try calling to let her know how you feel and to keep your mind from wondering all these things. If she picks up and you talk then all is well, if not then move on.
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reader, Crazykatee +, writes (26 December 2011):
That's just friend's text, she's texting like she's friends with you. nothing more, that's why she doesn't always reply, she leaves it days before texting!!
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