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writes:My best friend made a move on me a while back and i sort of freaked out at the time and pushed him away. I regret my actions at the time but he did sort of scare me. We have been friends for years but since that incident he avoids me. I still want to be friends with him, i love him to bits but not as he would like. We still talk but i want to be friends again, mainly i miss him not being around as much. Think maybe i should just bring this whole situation up with him and basically argue like only true friends could untill it is sorted. We could end up never speaking again but i think it will be better then our current situation were we are conscious of saying the wrong thing.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (29 December 2011):
 truthfully you're better having a discussion and getting it over with. all i can say is i had a friend who i was in love with for years and finally he said he wasn't interested but it had built up a wasted investment of feelings. now we dont talk but truthfully i think it does both of us good. i'm free to move on, he's got his own life and that wierd flirty behaviour between us isn't covering up the gaps were our needs are not being met anymore. sometimes people flirt without meaning and this can be misinterpreted. also if you dont relaise someone fancies you, you can be friendly and it can be misinterpreted bit time.
good luck
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