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female
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30-35,
*ooki__11
writes:So I met this guy who I thought had a little crush on me for almost a year. I ignored it because in the beginning I didn't feel that way. But he did little things that eventually caused me to fall for him. Anyway he was distant for a while which I thought was due to the fact that he was shy/upset at me for not returning his feelings. So I was a bit more forward. He ended up kissing me at a party, but due to where we were we didn't get a chance to talk about it. I left and expected him to msg me straight away. He didnt, but after a few days he did but we just talked inane things, he msged again a week later saying he missed me and I replied the same. Three days later and he hadn't replied. Then I found out he tried to kiss my friend the same night but she rejected him. How could I be so wrong about someone? I feel very stupid. I confronted him about it and he said he liked both me and my friend, enjoyed kissing me but when I left he wanted more? He couldn't have liked me at all to have done that right? Did he like me at all? Or was he just using me and did he like my friend instead? He asked for us both to forgive him, but I feel so silly, at least my friend had the pleasure of rejecting him, I actually fell for him and I just feel hurt. I want to hate him but something in me keeps feeling like (all your instincts told you he was good) he must be good - even though now I guess he cant be. Should I forgive him and be his friend again because he is a good network for work and it might be good to try to get that back? Or should I just ignore him. Then again I just feel very silly right now. Please help decipher my feelings and find some kind of peace and direction.
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