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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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I'm baffled why he didn't want to have sex with me...
Q. Okay, I'm looking for a male perspective really, but women feel free to answer too. I'm 21 and out clubbing every weekend, my eldest brother too does exactly the same and we regularly end the night together. He always brings his best mate out wi...
A. 29 September 2010: What Cerberus said.
And if you like this guy, think there might be something more, please slow down, relax and just enjoy getting to know him. No pressure for sex or anything, okay? Chill, girl!... (read in full...)
Horny for my brother in law!
Q. Hi I am a 31 year old married guy. Successful carreer, beautiful loving wife and gorgeous 2 kids - whatever I do circles around them. I have known my wife since we were 15 - we were each other's first love and no one ever got between us. However, I ...
A. 28 September 2010: So you're bored with your life? You want to shake things up and create some drama? Sounds like a brilliant waste of a perfectly good marriage to me.
I think you might want to see your doctor and see if you have any hidden medical conditions. I am n... (read in full...)
Everything has gone downhill since we got married!
Q. I need advice on communicating. I'm married for the 2nd time. To me I didn't think there where problems with talking about anything. But, ever since we got married I feel like it has just gone downhill. I have depression its been better before ...
A. 28 September 2010: Ouch. This is a tough question to answer because we have no idea what is going on in his head. Maybe he's tired of listening to you. Maybe he's a jerk. Maybe he's so exhausted and depressed himself, he can't be there for you like you need and want ... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend's behaviour appropriate?
Q. my boyfriend is in real estate. He went to a closing with his female agent. even though she lives closer to the closing site, she drove back to the office to meet y boyfriend so they can go together. I had no problem with that but after the ...
A. 28 September 2010: Let me ask our OP and my fellow aunts this: if the accompanying agent was male, would this have been a problem? And would a male agent have driven around with her boyfriend doing errands for three hours? I'm genuinely curious about the answers ... (read in full...)
We seem to be fighting every day.....
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half. He's 5 years older then me and works full time while I go to college. We used to never fight but lately it seems everyday he starts a fight with me because if I don't answer his text ...
A. 28 September 2010: You have no friends? You have a boyfriend who fights with you every day all day and you cry every day? He threatens to leave you and breaks up with you every day? Sweetheart, this is NOT a healthy situation. This is very, very bad.
Where is your... (read in full...)
If a guy does not ejaculate inside you does that mean you are free from any chance of getting pregnant?
Q. Can I ask, if a guy penetrates in a girl but did not ejaculate inside the vagina. Does that means that the girl will be free from chances of getting herself pregnant?...
A. 28 September 2010: What you are describing is called the 'withdrawal method' or the 'pull-out method.' This method of preventing pregnancy has these statistics associated with it:
"Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 4 will become pregnant each year if t... (read in full...)
I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?
Q. hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids ...
A. 27 September 2010: You didn't actually read any of my threads did you? The ones where the women married to gay men who had hid it expressed the devastation in their lives--that they had been ruined, wasted years of their life with a man who could not fully and truly ... (read in full...)
Trouble having anal sex
Q. My boyfriend really really wants anal sex from me, but every time we try, I can't follow through because it hurts SO much. He hasn't even gotten his cock all the way in yet. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to make this better? He's done it ...
A. 27 September 2010: My suggestioni is for him to experience anal penetration himself, with a dildo, so he can understand what the process feels like. It sounds to me that he is rushing you and doesn't really know what he's doing.
Remember the anus isn't designed for ... (read in full...)
I watch porn so I'll be ready for sex
Q. I am a girl teen virgian and i like to watch porn so when i do have sex ill be ready is that weird and is in normal to masturbate?...
A. 27 September 2010: It's normal to masturbate! But remember there is a huge difference between being ready physically for sex and ready emotionally for sex. Word to the wise: porn is designed to be sold, it's not designed as a teaching tool. Don't believe everything ... (read in full...)
Is it realistic for me to hold out for the day that he isn't selfish?
Q. My boyfriend has always been quite selfish. Not in a terrible way. But he does continue to put himself first. Even when I really really need him. I asked him to come over the other day as I had had an awful day and just needed comforting. He had ...
A. 27 September 2010: Alas, you are not being realistic hoping he'll change. He knows that you'll tolerate this and will stick around. He has no reason to change, really, if you think about it. You'll accept this, just because he acknowledges he's selfish.
P... (read in full...)
My boyfriend playfully slapped me?
Q. We have been together eight months. I am 22, and he is 21. We were at a party last night. Parties are not my thing at all, but I went so that we could spend time together, as we are both very busy with school during the week. I thought we were both ...
A. 26 September 2010: I'd put it on hold for a bit, personally. Obviously, beer and he don't make a good combination, if he's willing to slap you twice and basically humiliate you in front of people. If he can't remember doing it, that's actually really bad, this ... (read in full...)
Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!
Q. First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guy...
A. 26 September 2010: Look, I understand your frustration, having gone through a similar thing myself. I was dating my boyfriend too, and had reached the point where it was time to make a commitment to me. I know lots of people don't get married yet stay together, but ... (read in full...)
Sex in a pool?
Q. If l have sex in a pool will water enter into my girlfriend and if it does can it affect her vagina....
A. 24 September 2010: Actually, it might be a problem. If there are bacteria present in the pool, if the pool is not clean, they could get in her vagina. Also if your girlfriend is sensitive to the pool chemicals, they could harm her sensitive vaginal tissue.
Check it o... (read in full...)
Convincing a shy girl to wear a bikini?
Q. how can I convince to wear a bikini. she is a shy type....
A. 23 September 2010: Don't try to convince her. That is manipulative and selfish of you to try. The only reason you want her to do this is because of your desires. It's not meant to help her and will make her feel very uncomfortable and unhappy. Unless you are a mean ... (read in full...)
Are women satisfied with average size penis or do they fantasize about bigger penises?
Q. hello everybody, thanks for the time i would spend in order to answer my question :D mu question is mostly for women who are married to men with average penis size, i just wanna know are the women in this situation really satisfied with their hu...
A. 21 September 2010: No fantasies about larger penises. We women don't tend to focus on body parts. It's more about the entire man, and how he makes us feel all over and in our heads.
Now, Brad Pitt pre-beard... well. Maybe a few teeny fantasies.
The penis size wor... (read in full...)
I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?
Q. hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids ...
A. 21 September 2010: I think you are being forced into an arranged marriage, is that right? My advice is to NOT get married, if you cannot function as a true spouse to a woman. You will ruin her life as well as yours, and that is not honorable.
Here are some reso... (read in full...)
I have small breasts--should I get surgery?
Q. I have small breasts, and I feel very insecure. Should I get surgery? Men have teased me about it, even an ex said big breasts were better. Even hear on DC I've read guys post that guys do tend to prefer big breasts (even though they don't hate ...
A. 20 September 2010: Annie Lennox. Slender, toned with wide hips and smaller breasts. She's amazing.
Okay, you are being extremely sexist if you think all men think alike. That sounds more like your own insecurities blaming the men for how you feel about your body. I kn... (read in full...)
How to get my girl to put her nipples out on display?
Q. I love it whe women dress so you can see their nipples. Thin tight material, etc. It seems that women love to show their cleavage. It's on display constantly. Why won't more women they their nipples be visible or just prominent under tight clothes ? ...
A. 20 September 2010: Because culturally, cleavage is okay, up to a point, but showing nipples is considered too revealing.
Think about all the kids out there who would get eyefuls of what our culture has collectively determined to be too sexual imagery. There's enou... (read in full...)
How can I convince my wife that an occasional non emotional sex night is not cheating or a threat to her?
Q. I am happily married. I love my wife very much, and would never contemplate having an affair. No interest. However, I really miss seeing and touching other womens naked bodies. The newness the excitement. It's just more exciting than the same old ...
A. 20 September 2010: Rank these in priority order please:
Your sexual desires, Your wife's emotional health and happiness, Your own emotional health and happiness, Your wife's physical health and well-being, Your own physical health and well-being
As that famous s... (read in full...)
Question for the ladies
Q. How many years after becoming sexually active did it take you to achieve an unassisted orgasm, i.e. an orgasm where the only stimulation is an erect penis, nobody's hands are being used.... I'm trying to find out how normal I am to have taken me 6.5 ...
A. 17 September 2010: What does other women's sexual response matter to your sex life? Answer a: "Oooh I've been orgasmic since day one!!" Answer b: A mans penis by itself has never made me orgasm, just as my clitoris by itself has never made him orgasm....." Answer c: ... (read in full...)
Can a straight man turn gay and then turn straight again? I think were in love!
Q. Hello. I do not know who to turn to about this and am hoping someone out there can give me some advice. My best friend is a gay man. We are very close. We spend a lot of time together and we both truly love each other and have said so numerous ...
A. 17 September 2010: What made him say that he wants to be straight again?... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how I can tell my ex to quit contacting me!
Q. On saturday, my ex boyfriend is getting married to a girl he has been going out with for two years. When I found out in January I was elated, mainly because it ended badly and we were arguing a lot, and because we had many mutual friends, it came to ...
A. 17 September 2010: Personally, I would just stop all contact. Channel indifference and don't bother with explanations or rationalizations or anything. Just stop reacting or paying any attention.
You already have told him to go away. He didn't listen then. He's not ... (read in full...)
Lost and might be pregnant.
Q. im a nineteen year old girl n im worried that i mite be pregnant. I did nt get my monthly which i suppose to get at the end of last mnth/begining of this month. It is the 9th of the month already n still nothing. Im studying 4my b.com in business ...
A. 11 September 2010: You can take that test now, you could have as soon as you missed your period. Go to http://www.plannedparenthood.org for a referral or see your doctor if you need more medical guidance! Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do women deal with former lovers who were better?
Q. How hard, or dissapointing is it for you women to go from a guy who is very well hung and mind blowing in bed to a guy who is just average in both the size and skill departments. Let's say that the well hung guy was great in bed, and you were only ...
A. 10 September 2010: I believe a gorilla would indulge in what you call 'raw sexuality.' Does that make a gorilla an attractive sexual and life partner? Um, no. 'Nuff said.... (read in full...)
If this were your partner's past, would you be as upset as I am?
Q. I met my girlfriend on a popular on-line dating website. Her story was this - she had been doing on-line dating for 5 years, but had never been out on more than 2 dates with anyone she met on the internet. She is a divorced mother of one child, and ...
A. 10 September 2010: She had sexual desires/needs that she chose to fulfill with friends of hers. It sounds like nothing more than that, basically friends with benefits, as they seem to be called nowadays. Technically, they were not her boyfriends.
I suppose it depen... (read in full...)
Might be pregnant, scared, what should I do?
Q. Hi I'm thirteen and on July 31,2010 we had unprotected sex after three days I started bleeding I had bad cramps and it didn't last as long as it usually does and it was extremely heavy.I'm seeing the signs of being pregnant but I haven't taken a ...
A. 10 September 2010: It's time to talk to your parents. Buy a pregnancy test and confirm whether or not you truly are pregnant. Then get the help you need to cope with this situation, as it is clearly not something you are able to handle just yet, due to your age.
P... (read in full...)
Lost and might be pregnant.
Q. im a nineteen year old girl n im worried that i mite be pregnant. I did nt get my monthly which i suppose to get at the end of last mnth/begining of this month. It is the 9th of the month already n still nothing. Im studying 4my b.com in business ...
A. 10 September 2010: Before you try to figure out the answers to all those questions, I think it would be sensible to make sure you ARE pregnant. Get a pregnancy test and see. Or make an appointment with your gynecologist.
Once you know if you are pregnant, then you ... (read in full...)
Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!
Q. I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...
A. 10 September 2010: Ah. Now at least you know what is upsetting him. He's had a chance to tell you and from what you wrote, you handled yourself very well. You reiterated that you cared about his daughter and that you wanted nothing but her happiness. He should be ... (read in full...)
Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!
Q. I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...
A. 9 September 2010: Off the top of my head:
Her dad saw you checking out some other girls.
He saw you talking too closely with another girl and it looked like you could be a cheater.
He overheard something you said to a friend about having sex with your girlfriend. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 9 September 2010: This sounds remarkably like the other half of this story: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-think-its-worth-breaking-up-over.html
You know, maybe the timing is off, as well as the compability. She's got that ex lurking that she uses as some... (read in full...)
Should I just give up on her and be lonely?
Q. I'm in love with a girl in college. We're both in our freshmen years and same class. Anyway, I was trying to come closer her but it looks like she can't see me as anything other than a possible friend... Either way, this is not the main thing,...
A. 9 September 2010: I guess the thing to think about is that since you can't have her as a girlfriend at this time, that you take this time now to start to develop friendships with girls, so you have some help if she is ever free to date. In other words, practice. ... (read in full...)
Should I just give up on her and be lonely?
Q. I'm in love with a girl in college. We're both in our freshmen years and same class. Anyway, I was trying to come closer her but it looks like she can't see me as anything other than a possible friend... Either way, this is not the main thing,...
A. 9 September 2010: Is she the only girl in the entire school? The only girl you will ever know for the rest of your life? If she is, then don't give up.
However, my guess is that there are many girls out there that you are overlooking. My other observation of girl... (read in full...)
Do I get this massage from my teacher or not?
Q. Hey need some advice, my teacher has recently passed his masseuse course. And he gave out these 50% off vouchers to work mates. I was helping out in his class as I often do and I don’t know if it was in absent mindedness or not, but he gave me one. ...
A. 9 September 2010: I agree with Q, give the voucher to your mother so she can have a nice treat and you don't have any worries about whether or not this is an appropriate student/teacher contact. You've spent so long trying to explain it, it's pretty clear that it ... (read in full...)
Husband says I must accept that he has a small penis but I never have an orgasm during sex!
Q. hi every1.i have a problem with my husband when we make love he doesnt want to do foreplay unless i complain and if i do so he says i complain too much.for the past seven years of my marriage never had an orgasm the last time i had it it was with ...
A. 9 September 2010: I think I'd probably be looking for a new husband about now. If he thinks it's his way or the highway, I'll be on my way.
Your man is a control freak with some sexual hangups. Unless he's willing to change, I think it may be time to end it. Try marr... (read in full...)
Cursing...
Q. Would you allow your boyfriend to curse at you and call you a bitch during an argument? ...
A. 8 September 2010: No. He'd now be my ex-boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Could I pregnant or is something seriously wrong?
Q. please help! today is september 1, 2010... my last period was on july 5, 2010 and my next expect period was suppose to come on august 2 but didnt.. me and my fiance are ttc. i spotted a small amount of brownish/pinkish discharge on august 8 through ...
A. 2 September 2010: See your doctor! Something's not right and you need to be examined and diagnosed by a medical professional. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Want to be on time for our flight
Q. My girlfriend and I have a 2 year old son and we do not live together. We are leaving for vacation in 2 days and I mentioned to her that I would like to leave for the airport at 2:30 so that we are not rushing, and that I will wait until 2:45 and ...
A. 1 September 2010: You take the child so she has plenty of time to get herself ready. You do the packing for the child and feed and dress and basically do all the travel prep work. Problem solved! All your girlfriend would have to do is get herself ready, and then you ... (read in full...)
How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help
Q. How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel i...
A. 1 September 2010: So he knows you cannot tolerate him being in contact with the women he has had sexual/emotional intimacy with, but he keeps doing it anyway, behind your back?
You've been engaged for nearly 2 years, do you actually have a wedding date? If you don'... (read in full...)
My husband's family hates me but he can't see it!
Q. I have a very disturbing dilemma in my marriage.I feel,it might ruins it eventually. Hard to describe, but I try. My husbands family is giving me cold treatment. I mean,they dont swear at me or tell me what they think, but from all the comments, and ...
A. 31 August 2010: You are welcome. I would encourage you to try some yoga and meditation, just to find that inner peace and tranquility that will help you rise above them and their pettiness. I have pretty good in-laws actually, I just have found that it's easier to ... (read in full...)
My husband's family hates me but he can't see it!
Q. I have a very disturbing dilemma in my marriage.I feel,it might ruins it eventually. Hard to describe, but I try. My husbands family is giving me cold treatment. I mean,they dont swear at me or tell me what they think, but from all the comments, and ...
A. 31 August 2010: Practice false smiles, lots of patience and tape record your mother-in-law so he can hear exactly what she says.
More false smiles, distance and just plan your days so you are not part of their daily life. Remove yourself from the hurt and upse... (read in full...)
We are both 14, had a miscarriage. Should we try again to have a baby?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both 14 and are madly in love. weve been together for about a year now and had protected sex a few months ago. she ended up having a miscarriage and that made us both completely sad. :( We love eachother alot and wanna have ...
A. 31 August 2010: What did the doctor say after the miscarriage? Was it a good idea to try again? Is her body ready for it? What kind of risks does the baby face being born to a high-risk category mother?
What did your parents say, as they are still responsible for ... (read in full...)
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