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I feel I can help others with my advice as I have sweated blood and guts to pull through all of the problems I have had in my life. I am the true voice of experience. lol
Been there, done that, T-shirt is in the wash because of the blood and guts.
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I have been dared to have a gang bang at 13!
Q. hi am a jade and i am quite young still i am 13 years and 11 months and i am quite average i like to wear girly clothes and do social thigns but yesterday i went bowling with 5 of my guy mates that i get along with really well. i enjoyed it and we ...
A. 11 June 2006: Well done babe, you made the right choice. You walked away from peer pressure, you are much stronger than you ever realised. Best of luck for the future x... (read in full...)
She doesn't feel the same as I do about her....what can I do?
Q. i'm a 23 years old male i fell in love with my best friend,i told her about it and she didnt feel the same way with me,i love her so much,what should i do?...
A. 10 June 2006: No problem. As I said, just try to continue being a good friend, otherwise she may feel that you are turning your back on her. As was also said, try to get some more hobbies to occupy yourself and help take your mind off things. I realise that th... (read in full...)
The breakup was a total surprise, and I was his soulmate. Now he says he might be bi...
Q. I'll try keep this brief, I'm so so confused. Please help again. I'm trying to be strong thru my surprise breakup, and it was 3weeks ago. My ex said that he didn't want to be with anyone else and that he needed to sort out where his life was goi...
A. 9 June 2006: I think you need to just try to get on with your life.
I understand why you want to hurt him, but the best way is to get on with things.
It will hurt him if he thinks that you are not bothered about the break up.
Sometimes people just seem... (read in full...)
Just a caring friend, or is he actually interested in me?
Q. I like this guy who is just fantastic. Really nice and smart and funny and sweet. Anyway, I'm not really sure if he likes me but in the past few weeks he has made a lot of effort to see me and speak to me. He is a mate but recently he has been ...
A. 9 June 2006: It seems like he is trying to find excuses to contact you, which indicates to me that he is interested in you.
If he did have an early start, then it is a genuine reason not to go for a few drinks.
How many opportunities has he had to go out with... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him I'm scared about getting pregnant, what should I do?
Q. i'm 15yrs old and my boyfriend is 23 he's already got a daughter, and i've been pregnant before but miscarried. when we have sex he doesn't use condoms and i don't want to get pregnant again, he says he wants me to have his kids but only when i'm ...
A. 9 June 2006: If this guy really loves you, he would not have sex with you anyway, at least not until you are old enough.
Sure, he loves you but it does not seem like there is any respect here.
if you must have sex, then use protection.
If he genuinely lo... (read in full...)
Should I seek counselling for my problem?
Q. I really need some advice, I'm really down at the moment. I think I've suffered from depression on and off for about 5 years now. I've always been a thoughtful person, even when I was a child but I think it's turning into something more and I ...
A. 8 June 2006: Hang in there.
I have suffered with severe depression since the age of 10, yet my family would never understand.
People do not seem to realise that is is a chemical imbalance and tell you to lighten up.
I tried to explain to my mum that it is l... (read in full...)
Want some help making our conversations less one-sided!
Q. I am really starting to like this girl and I do talk to her quite a lot, but the thing is it is always me that has to bring something up to talk about. How can I get this girl I like to be more open with me?...
A. 8 June 2006: As was previously said, engage in conversation which include her interests.
She may be just shy and there is probably lots of things she wants to say.
Just give her time and allow her to become more comfortable around you. Soon she will start to... (read in full...)
I'm not quite sure if I'm reading too much into going out with him since he has a girlfriend...
Q. I have a slight issue-arranged to go out with this guy (as friends!) next week. The other day I was out with my friends and spotted him from a far and sent him a message telling him I was also there, he sent me one back saying he couldnt meet me ...
A. 8 June 2006: It seems to me like he is looking for a casual relationship.
I think you should ask him what his intentions are and find out what he is hoping to gain.
This guy seems to be looking to cheat, i could be wrong.
Best to have a word with him and ask ... (read in full...)
I think I caught something from the boy that I had sex with...what can I do?
Q. hiya, im 15 and iv had sex with 4 boys! i last had sex with a boy about a month ago, in the last 2weeks iv been having realy bad discharge. the boy i had sex with is not my boyfriend and i know that hes had oral sex many times but never had sex i ...
A. 8 June 2006: Firstly, get yourself checked by a doctor.
As pointed out, it could be pretty normal, but better to be safe and sure.... (read in full...)
My ex and I aren't in good terms, but should I send the picutre of my pregnancy scan anyways?
Q. hi i just wanted some opinions.i am 13weeks pregnant and have recently had my scan although me and my ex fell out over the fact i am pregnant and have not spoken since do u think it would be a good or bad idea to send him the picture of my scan...
A. 8 June 2006: I think you should send him a picture, it is his child afterall.
What were reasons for fall out?
What is the main reason for him not wanting pregnancy?
he may feel trapped, or too young maybe.... (read in full...)
Gave this boy the impression that I'm 'loose' but I'm not! Should I talk to him about this before party?
Q. hay guys, okay, this is a wee bit mixed up! Ive been chattin with my male mates big brother over msn and txting. It's got really flirty and pretty sexy over msn. The thing is, I think I've given him the wrong impression - like im quite "loose", ...
A. 8 June 2006: Tell this guy the truth as soon as you can.
The longer you leave it, the harder it will be.
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She doesn't feel the same as I do about her....what can I do?
Q. i'm a 23 years old male i fell in love with my best friend,i told her about it and she didnt feel the same way with me,i love her so much,what should i do?...
A. 7 June 2006: Well, what was her response when you told how you felt?
Just be as supportive as you can be as a friend, maybe feelings will develop over time.... (read in full...)
Revenge the best medicine?
Q. I got dumped, and now I want revenge, problem is he is in another part of town and I cant go and flaunt my stuff, I want him to hurt real bad and I want him to feel guilty for hurting me. I wish he could come back and say he wants me so I can play ...
A. 7 June 2006: The only person you are going to hurt is yourself. The thing that will hurt him most is when he can see that you dont care and are moving on with your life without him. Forget about revenge, it is never sweet.... (read in full...)
How do I ride my boyfriend, without actually having sex?
Q. Hi there, I'm a little unsure of something. Me and my b/f have not have sex but have come very close to it. We have decided to as soon as we get some time alone, but until then I just want to know how to ride/straddle him without inserting his peni...
A. 7 June 2006: You can still do this naked, just dont use penetration.
You say you will have sex when you get time alone.
I am not really understanding this. How would you straddle him if you were not alone?
Just be careful, you sound young.... (read in full...)
I have been dared to have a gang bang at 13!
Q. hi am a jade and i am quite young still i am 13 years and 11 months and i am quite average i like to wear girly clothes and do social thigns but yesterday i went bowling with 5 of my guy mates that i get along with really well. i enjoyed it and we ...
A. 7 June 2006: Hey, these are NOT the kind of friends you want.
If they see you as this sexual object, they obviously are not interested in friendship.
Walk away from them!... (read in full...)
All I want to do is make someone happy - how do I get a relationship?
Q. I'm having trouble getting a relationship. At school i was always a bit unpopular with women. I'm 20 in November yet I've had one 10 month relationship. It seems that every girl i like, even if they like me back, seems to change their mind and ...
A. 7 June 2006: I think you may be trying too hard.
Maybe you should just try to let natural charm work its magic, the results may surprise you.
It is like when you are single and nobody seems to want you, but then you become popular when you are in a relation... (read in full...)
Wait for boyfriend in prison or move onto a younger man...
Q. ok so here goes... I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months.. he is 20 and i am 17 we live together and get on pretty well most of the time..he has been violent towards me in the past which made me quite insecure. Hes recently been rem...
A. 7 June 2006: Well, the first thing I would suggest is to get out of your current relationship.
If this guy is violent towards you, then he does not deserve you and you will do much better.
Give this other guy a chance, it might be the best decision you ever mad... (read in full...)
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