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Hello all, Ms. Tanya here, heres some information on me. Call me Tanya please.

I've been in a few sticky relationships and I think I have enough experiance to talk to people about there problems, I've never done a official collum like this, I'm very excited about it, I have however had many friends talk to me and put my advice to use and it seems to be good advice so I think I should continue talking to people.

I live in the USA I dislike getting more specific then that on a public site.

I helped out in my neighborhood I had a un official advice program set up, word by mouth news got around I was helping relationships out, it was amazing because I was seeing a simple chat with a girlfriend who was having troubles with her boyfriend resulted in her going and putting this talk to use and her reationship getting stronger. I liked to see how I made a differance and I like to watch these couples around me and I like to think, "Wow, if I hadn't talked to them, they'd have split up and look at what they'd be missing."

So I want to expand my borders and help people online as well.

So start the problems and questions and I will make with the answers! :)

I'm 14 years old and no girl has ever said she likes me!

Q.   Hi, im 14 years old now and just frustrated now. In all my life i have never had a girlfriend and no girl has ever said she liked me. people say oh it doesnt matter when your young but it does, I know from experience. I admit im shy but i do talk ...

A.   8 September 2006: Well, girls do get asked out earlier then boys generally, since they mature faster. So you probably need to wait until 15 or 16 before expecting a date, because girls are going to want they're boyfriends to be a year or two older then them to balnce ... (read in full...)

I s sex on the first night wrong?

Q.   i just wanted to know everyones opinion... do you think sex on the first night is wrong?? ive been talking to alot of people about this and everyone has mixed views, I'm not sure what exactly guys look for? do they all look for a quick shag on the ...

A.   8 September 2006: My veiws are that you don't want to seem to easy for him you want to challenge him, but don't be cold to him, or else he'll think your to much work, so you have to strike a balance between taking it slow and playing hard to catch and satisfieing him ... (read in full...)

Is he shy, is he gay or just given up on the relationship front?

Q.   There's this bloke I really fancy. Seems to know everything about music, and everything else, but talks to me as if I've a brain in my head, he's sweet and the least sexist bloke I've ever met. I've dropped alsorts of hints and I'm sure he fanc...

A.   7 September 2006: 8 Years? Naw, he isn't to old for you. A couple I know, Shes 40 and hes 65, and they are some of the happiest people I know, raised 2 kids as well. then is he Gay? Well if he's got 2 kids I'd say most likely not... but he could be! You really can't ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin at 38 years old...do I tell this to my new guy?

Q.   I have just met the man of my dreams, but i dont know whether i should tell him i am a virgin at 38 as he might think i am some sort of weirdo or something or will he work it out for himself, also as he is thin i am over weight he has not mentioned ...

A.   5 September 2006: If you love and trust him enough for you to give him your ultimate gift, you should love and trust him enough to tell him your giving him your ultimate gift. If he asks why you've never had sex before tell him you never found the right guy. He'll ... (read in full...)

Im 21 and a virgin, can you give me some tips with the ladies please

Q.   Hi, im a 21 almost 22 yr old guy who is a virgin, i have only ever kissed two girls. i dont know that many girls. i have recently started using an online dating service to try and get to know more girls. i was wondering if you could give me some ...

A.   5 September 2006: Don't get down about being a 21 year old Virgin! That actually means your a sensitive, sweet, smart guy. You havn't found the right girl yet, and you're going to wait for her, and she'll appriciate it so much when you find her. Now, getting ... (read in full...)

We had love in the past - Is there hope for the future?

Q.   Ill try to keep this short but want to give the full story in hopes of the best answer. I met my X almost 3 years ago and feel madly in love, we dated for 2 and a half years and had some problems (fights about me wanting to go out and her sayin no ...

A.   5 September 2006: Whew. Man. Well, this girl your currently with, our you "Happy" with her? IF you are then I suggest you stay with her and try your best to forget your X. However if the girl you are currently with isn't working I say go for your X again. It sounds ... (read in full...)

I've just lost our baby, now he dumps me by e-mail!

Q.   I have been in my current relationship since January this year. I've known my boyfriend for almost 8 years as we were best friends at college. I just miscarried his baby. He sends me an email telling me he doesn't want to continue anymore...

A.   5 September 2006: Oh! Gosh hon, that bites. Even if he just wants it to be a temporary thing, I would make it permanant. He needed space, o.k. but he takes a little space not a break off for awhile, and definatly not when you've just lost your baby, thats a big de... (read in full...)

In a relationship with a 1yr old child!

Q.   Im in a relashonship with a 1year old child, I do love my partner and were not married yet. He is a wonderful man and were just buying a house togeather. there is amn at work who is younger than me and well we have alot in commen and im worried ...

A.   5 September 2006: Being in love with 2 people is a tough one. You have 2 choices, Pick one and Chest on him (However thats wicked and I strongly dis agree with it) Or pick one and forget about the other. From the info I have I would say stick with the man you've been ... (read in full...)

Could writing a letter help this guy (that i'm sleeping with)?

Q.   Hi Please help im 22years old and have been sleeping with a guy for about 3years. We have been though alot together but have never actually dated. He has had a very hard life and things have happened that he cant get over. A few days ago he said...

A.   5 September 2006: First off I'm sorry that he's so depressed, it must be enormously difficult for you to stand by and watch him struggle with his past life. Writeing him a letter is a good thing. Also, try this give him a message and talk to him just tell him how ... (read in full...)

We Kissed - Does my brother's friend like me - or not?

Q.   There is a man 3yrs younger than me that has told me that I am a fetish to him and that he could never think of anyone better to be with. We've been through the same old thing him telling me he really likes me etc, etc. He's my brothers mate and ...

A.   4 September 2006: Oh, he likes you, alot to. However it sounds like he likes you only for your body. Talk to your brother, ask him what he thinks about it. And the thing about him liking you for your body is that he very well may grow to love you for your mind as ... (read in full...)

My guy doesn't seem to want to get over the past. What do I do?

Q.   I am seeing a guy for the last 12 months. Recently we have started argueing alot. He is a very jealous person, He keeps bringing up my past, of people who I have been with. He said I'm not the person he thought I was. He keeps going on and on about ...

A.   4 September 2006: As a matter of fact, this is exactly what my most recent ex boyfriend did to me, constant name calling and accusing me of cheating. Now my best advice is to do what I did sit down with him and in calm tones ask him if he expects you to keep taking ... (read in full...)

He wants to take it further-I want it to stop! - Can we still be friends?

Q.   at the end of last term while in a very drunken state i kissed someone who was a bit older than me. he wanted to go further but i put my foot down and although respected that i know he still thinks theres a chance to go further. the problem is that ...

A.   4 September 2006: Very possible. Tell him how you feel tell him you don't feel that way about him and you still want to see him as friends, but not intimatly. He may sulk for a bit but he'll realise it's just stupid to try and hold a grudge against a smart young girl ... (read in full...)

Different sex drives are becoming a problem!

Q.   I need help. I'm 19 and my fiance is 36, we've been together for 4 years. I love him so much but the age gap is beginning to show. How is it showing? His sex drive is really low. Mine is so high! Its not his fault and I'd never cheat on him but what ...

A.   4 September 2006: Well, I agree it is not his fault, his sex drive is just lower then yours. Try this to get his attention, pack him lunch, take a picture of yourself topless or something and slip it into his lunchbox, (in a small envelope with "For your eyes only" ... (read in full...)

Getting together with a friend of my Dad's?

Q.   Hi,I like this 35 year old man and I am 18 years old.I know he likes me too,but I am not sure it is right for me to like him.I mean there is a 17 year age difference and he is good friends with my dad.I want to get togather with him but I don't know ...

A.   4 September 2006: Well, that's a big deal, but if your in love with this man and your sure he likes you to, I think you should tell him. It's up to you to talk to your Dad before hand or not.. I don't know your Dad so I really can't say weather it would be a good ... (read in full...)

Love letter, good or bad idea?

Q.   There is this guy working at Starbucks who is 18 or 19 years old that I have known for five years and really like. I am interested in starting a relationship with him, so I sent him a letter. Is that a good way to get started with this?...

A.   4 September 2006: Well, anonymous love notes signed "Your secret admirer" are always cute, but just a cut to the chase love letter works as well, that was a good idea. Stuttering over "I like you" face to face then blushing and nearly being sick cause your so ... (read in full...)

Girl on girl

Q.   hiya i think i like my best mate shes a girl so am i and were 12 years old. everyone thinks were lesbians because all our friends think were very touchy. were both straight but ive had my past with girls. she loves boys but she might be hiding she ...

A.   4 September 2006: Well, could you have something together, yes. How to tell her, well I myself would start by asking her if shes ever had a girly crush before, start with Celebs, then maybe move onto talking about girl you both know, then tell her that you think you ... (read in full...)

I'm desperately lonely

Q.   Help. I feel so isolated all of the time. Ok this is a strange issue. But I am a sophmore in college..im 19 and I go to a commuter school. I live alone because it is cheaper on campus and I know no one. Its my second year of school there and I am ...

A.   4 September 2006: You sound like you need, well, a friend. Well can't join clubs, that sucks, what about work? Any co-workers or guys there? You could ask someone out or just invite a girl out for coffee and some girl talk, because you sound like a intelligant, ... (read in full...)

I'm having a great time with a girl who is 19 years younger

Q.   I am 43. I have met a woman that is 24 and we never have a dull moment together. We are becoming closer by the second. It's kind of scary because of the age difference for the both of us, but we just have the greatest time together. It's like ...

A.   4 September 2006: I say good on you and both thumbs up, I have a very strong dis agreeance with anything that say "he's to old for you" all that matters is that you love this women and she loves you, you've just been around on the planet a bit longer. If you both ... (read in full...)

think I'm addicted to chatrooms as my wife caught me texting other women. What should I do?

Q.   Im a 23 year old male who has been married 2 months now and I got caught texting and calling a few girls I met online. What should I do? I would never physically cheat on her but I believe I was addicted to online chat and text messages. Ive never ...

A.   4 September 2006: Well, you messed up, that was stupid and she has the right to be angery, that said. Your bigger problem. Making it up to her. First of all STOP going to the chat rooms right now, she won't trust you in those for a long time. Get used to it. Try ... (read in full...)

Why does my GF resist being touched all of a sudden?

Q.   hi I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years and all of a sudden she won't let me touch her. I can't even kiss her without her sighing. Someone please tell me what I can do. I can't talk to her because I would'nt know how to put it. Please ...

A.   4 September 2006: Hmm, thats odd! Sitting down and asking her what is wrong with cuddles all of a sudden is the smartest move, do't be angry or in her face about it just calm level tones no anger or hurt. Just talk to her. She may be getting slightly boreded out with ... (read in full...)

My period is early, could I be pregnant?

Q.   I am 16 years old and had sex with my bf 7 days ago, a condom was the only form of contraception we used but it came off during sexual intercourse. I am scared now incase i am pregnant, i went to the doctor the next day and got the morning after ...

A.   4 September 2006: Smart move getting the pill! I doubt your pregnant, but it is possible. I suggest going to the Hospital and getting a test done. Go with a friend if you don't want your mom knowing. And your Period coming early is not a sign of being pregnant... (read in full...)

24, a virgin and feeling blue

Q.   Hello i'm 24 years old, i'm a virgin and have neer had a girlfriend. I'm ugly losing my hair and have slighty crooked teeth, i'm in reasonable shape and very strong. I don't have much of a personailty. I don't want to be lonely anymore, there is a ...

A.   4 September 2006: Okay, for starters I don't ever want to here the words "I'm ugly" come out of your mouth again, when we look in the mirror we automatically see the bad things and thats natural, however you NEED to see the good things as well or else you'll end up a ... (read in full...)

Somebody please tell me if he's the one

Q.   I know i am only 17 so i shouldn't be thinking about this but i don't know if i could ever love my boyfriend enough. I have got mixed feelings for him but i think they are just about gone. I think i'm in love actually i'm more towards know i'm in ...

A.   4 September 2006: First of all, your never to young to be in love. There is no numarical age to put on "Old enough to fall in love." When you fall in love you can not plan who it will be where it will be or when it will be. Now, seperating Lust and Infactuation, fr... (read in full...)

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