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I feel I can help others with my advice as I have sweated blood and guts to pull through all of the problems I have had in my life. I am the true voice of experience. lol
Been there, done that, T-shirt is in the wash because of the blood and guts.
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Why does my bf act so differently now? Is it because I get so jealous?
Q. My bf has totally changed way he acts, now i am always accusing him and getting jealous and the other day he said he doesnt love me as much as used 2. So i dnt give him any space its cos i love him and there is distance. he is always talkin to ...
A. 13 November 2006: The only thing I would suggest is to give him his space. I was in a similar situation where I was being accused of things I hadnt done. I had female friends and was often accused of flirting etc. Constant accusations can really put a person off. I ... (read in full...)
He thinks I am always lying and he's paranoid! Should I break up with him?
Q. I live with my boyfriend, I love him, but I can't be with him anymore. Lately he's been acting crazy. Accussing me of doning terrible things. Whether it's having orgies when he's not home to doing hard drugs with our friends. I can't handel his ...
A. 12 November 2006: I have to agree with pica. It seems like he suffers from a personality disorder. He should speak to his doctor. I would say he was most definitely paranoid.
Paranoid personality disorder is characterized by a distrust of others and a constant... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 10 November 2006: I agree with Martini.
If a 15 year old girl had sex with her 18 year old boyfriend the day before her 16th birthday. How would that be looked at? What about a 16 year old girl having a dirty one nighter in a back alley with an 18 year old who didn... (read in full...)
he said I'm a geek and need to be more chavy. How much should I change about myself?
Q. right im not sure weather this is a relationship question or a fashion question lol. anyway i was talking to this lad and we were arranging to meet..he said "this wolud b easier if you were ma g/f but no offence bt ur such a geek...chav it up a bit ...
A. 10 November 2006: I hate chavs.
Never change for a guy, especially when it's a change for the worse. He sounds like a right balloon. Forget him and find someone who likes you for you. You deserve better.... (read in full...)
Things are getting heated with my driving instructor!
Q. I think my driving instructors coming on 2 me but im not sure.. i told him about me having fone sex and he told me about his blowjobs his had. He was making comments 2 me after i told him i like older men. Well i love it that his flirting with me ...
A. 9 November 2006: I would tell him to gain some clutch control, gear down, then mirror signal manouvre back into the passenger seat.
In all probability hun, he is probably that way with more of his female learners. You should report him and request a new inst... (read in full...)
We broke up in August, she slept with 2 other guys, now she wants me back - did she cheat on me?
Q. My ex-girlfriend has had sex with two (2) men since our break up (August 26th, 2006). She has now contacted me and says that she wants to make things work between us. Should I consider her sex with the other men as cheating? What should I b...
A. 8 November 2006: I have been in the same situation as you and Dr Pete, so I fully understand.
No, she did not cheat as you were mutually seperated anyway. Psychologically though, there lies a problem. If you did get back with her, there would always be upse... (read in full...)
Two lumps on my penis and I have no idea what they are! Any advice?
Q. I have two lumps on my penis, but they are both very very different lumps but I have no idea what they are. One is just near the top, very hard, under the skin but it doesn't feel like it is attached inside, i've had it for about 3 years about 2 ...
A. 7 November 2006: How did it go? Hope everything went ok.... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. I've got a fantastic bf who is lovely and sweet, and we've been together for 2months. But iv fancied a guy for over a year and we kissed a couple times 3months ago, we went on a date but after he kissed me on the cheek and when i asked him about it...
A. 7 November 2006: Your post says a lot about how you really feel. I don't think you love your boyfriend, you hardly mention him in your post.
I feel that your heart is with this other guy and you hope to be with him. If you had the choice between the two, I feel you ... (read in full...)
Why don't the boys want to give me attention anymore? Any advice?
Q. right im quite concerned! i usealy get alot of attention of lads and i always go out and pull, but lately i havnt been gettin as much attention and i have even got off with someone for 2 weeks now!!! thing is i havnt changed anything, i havnt put ...
A. 6 November 2006: Maybe the boys are getting to know your reputation before they get to know you. I think maybe a change of ways is in order here before you find a serious relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm skinny and want to impress this girl. Is it possible to get "six pack' abs in 5 days?
Q. i'm 16. i have a close female friend who is also 16. we go to the same school. i have recently joined the gym as i am tryin to keep fit and help me gain weight. well i have a guest pass and i asked her to come. she accepted and told me she is free ...
A. 3 November 2006: 6 pack in 5 days? no way mate. I was sort of in the same situation as you when I was younger. I used to compete in gymnastics when I was younger and had a 6 pack at the age of 10. I grew to hate it though because girls thought it was freaky. I ... (read in full...)
Do guys hate to give oral sex?
Q. Male readers!! do you hate givin oral sex to a women??...
A. 2 November 2006: Same here, I love doing it to my fiancee, almost as much as she loves to receive it.... (read in full...)
How can I take our relationship to the next level?
Q. What is the best way to initiate intercourse with my gay partner? We've "slept" with each other in the sense that we masturbate each other to climax, and do everything but actual anal intercourse. How can I get started with this?...
A. 2 November 2006: I have retitled this question at the request of its poster
"My question was published at p /
http://www.DearCupid.ORG/question/how-can-i-initiate-sex-with-my-gay.html but my internet provider won't let me view pages with the word "sex" or "ga... (read in full...)
What the heck does nip mean?
Q. i have been dating this boy for ages now and he asked me if i would nip him what do i do when i nip a boy as i have never done it b4 this is really important help!...
A. 1 November 2006: I thought it means to pinch, like on arm. Maybe he wants you to leave a mark on him, sort of like a lovebite, but with added pain.... (read in full...)
When I told him how I felt..all he said was 'he was glad'? What on earth does this mean?
Q. well. i met someone at college he is a really great guy. i told him i liked him and he says he is glad i told him. what does this mean?...
A. 31 October 2006: Seems like he has wondered if you have liked him for a while. You say he is a great guy, this to me signals that he has impressed you in some way. I feel he has been trying hard to gain your affection and you have basically told him it worked. Next ... (read in full...)
What is going on with this boy who bugs me in school? Any ideas?
Q. there is a boy at my school that i never used to know.but after the summer he was in some of my classes.as i was walkin to one class he said what ave we got now and i said the subject but he was already walkin der so he new were to go.and in another ...
A. 31 October 2006: I think he likes you. He seems to do whatever he can to gain your attention. He blames things on you, probably to try to make you laugh. I remember I used to do similar things to try to make the girls like me. This is probably all he is doing. Have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends fantasy is a threesome... With another man!
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I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months. We are madly in love. Last night we were discussing our fantasies and what we would like to try. We both agreed we would try almost anything, except I knew I would never have a threesome because I ...
A. 31 October 2006: I hope this fantasy stays a fantasy. I have seen so many relatioships fail because of these. It is sort of like being in a porno, which is maybe why the fantasy is so widespread.
Personally, I could not handle the the thought of my fiancee with anot... (read in full...)
I'm black..he's white and we are friends! Should I tell him I want to date him?
Q. Ok so I've known this guy for a while and we talk on the phone alomst all day/every day and I've hung out with him with my friends a couple of times. He's always nice to me and we get along great, but I'm afraid he'll never acutally like me the way ...
A. 31 October 2006: There are prejudices and opinions regardless of the relationship. I am in an age gap relationship, so most of the pressures come from the outside, as do the funny looks. She makes me happier than I have ever been, so other peoples opinions don't ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman sheds a tear after the first kiss?
Q. Here's something I've never experienced before...a grown man at that! What does it mean when a woman sheds a tear after the first kiss? This happened to me the other night and it's thrown me completely! Can anyone answer that?...
A. 31 October 2006: She likes you a lot and had probably wanted the kiss to happen for a while. After you kissed, the pent up emotion was finally released. She shed tears of happpiness, so that must say a lot about the type of guy you are.
I wish you the very best of l... (read in full...)
Guys...do any of you think it's funny when a girl is making noises whilst she giving you a blowjob?
Q. Okay this is for all the male readers. I have been seing this guy lately and he's still a virgin. My case is different because I've had sex with three other boyfriends in the past, and have also done other stuff with other guys. Well, when this guy ...
A. 30 October 2006: Everybody expresses emotions in different ways. He is very inexperienced and is getting things done to him he has never had done before. He probably feels rather pleased with himself, hence all the strange facial expressions. He probably has a big ... (read in full...)
My unhappiness over our breakup has caused me to drink a lot!
Q. Two weeks ago I split up with my boyfriend and I still can't stop thinking about him and it's getting me down all the time and I am so unhappy. I recently started drinking as this makes me happy. How can I go about getting over him before I start a ...
A. 30 October 2006: "How can I go about getting over him before I start a real problem off?"
You realise that your health and welfare is much more important than the relationship ever was, so you are strong and ready to move on. We all know too well how difficult brea... (read in full...)
24 year old virgin. What will guys think? I need advice.
Q. im 24 and ive never had sex. how lame is that? what will guys think when i tell them? i pretty much have no experience..i need advice....
A. 30 October 2006: I think you should be proud of yourself. As Yos said, many people your age have had multiple partners by now, no it is a rarity. I wish more girls were like you to be honest.... (read in full...)
They say your "first' is unforgettable..does this mean I could be uncomfortable having sex with someone else?
Q. I've only ever had sex with one person and I chose him specifically because I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. However, we've broken up. I want to be sexually active with someone else, but my ex was the only guy I ever did ...
A. 29 October 2006: Aww babe, I really feel for you. Why did you split up? You seem to really love him still.
It probably doesn't seem like now, but when you meet the right person, all will feel natural. Don't sleep with anybody until you are comfortable though, othe... (read in full...)
How do I tell my online love, that the girl in the photos aren't me?? What should I do?
Q. I've done something kind of stupid which has all blown up in my face. I registered with an online forum just for fun and to kill some time really. I put photos up of a random, gorgeous girl and said it was me. I just thought it was harmless fun at ...
A. 29 October 2006: Aww, he sounds lovely. I really hope things work out for you. Glad we were of help.
Best of luck to you both x... (read in full...)
How do I get people to notice me?
Q. Hey... it's currently half-term at my school, and after half-term I want to go back, and be completely different. At the minute I'm always quite awkward, I'm tall and am always falling over my own feet, everything I say never seems to come out ...
A. 28 October 2006: Don't try too hard, you sound beautiful. Just try to smile wherever you go and you will turn heads. Try to be yourself. People will soon see natural confidence and the attention will come.
If you try too hard, you possible will make mistakes.... (read in full...)
Worried about this long distance relationship--will it work?
Q. Hi, i have known this girl for about 8 months now. We talk most nights and text during the day. Its been established that we really do like eachother just we live too far away. I live near london and she lives near York. My last relationship with a ...
A. 28 October 2006: I am in a long distance realationship. I am in Liverpool, she is in Scotland. We see each other a couple of times per month. It is hard being far apart, but the times spent together are much more special.
We are engaged and our love gets stro... (read in full...)
I've never cum
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 1 year now. She doesn't really like to give me head but she has started to do it more...anyways out of about 10 times I've never cum...what can i tell her to do to make it better? I don't know what to ...
A. 28 October 2006: Only YOU know what YOU like. Every person has their own like and dislikes.
I like eye contact, fast head movement, deepthroat, hard sucking, etc. I enjoy that, but others may hate it.
Try talking to each other and finding out what you BOTH really l... (read in full...)
My little nephew is trying to be like me. I am worried he's trying to grow up to fast? What can I do?
Q. I have a six-year-old nephew, who tries to be on the same page as me. I understand that he wants to feel more grown-up, but there are just some things that he will not be able to do, until he reaches a certain age, and I don't want him to feel ...
A. 28 October 2006: I think he looks up to you, he admires how you handle life and wants to be just like you. My younger cousin used to be the very same, he would copy everything I did and try to act just like me. You are his role model. Just be careful what you do ... (read in full...)
I love her but she is already with someone else!!!
Q. im in love with a girl thats already going out with someone. what should i do? please help...
A. 26 October 2006: If you love her, don't try to interfere with her current relationship. Just let her be happy.
Just be there as a friend, I assume you are friends already.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my online love, that the girl in the photos aren't me?? What should I do?
Q. I've done something kind of stupid which has all blown up in my face. I registered with an online forum just for fun and to kill some time really. I put photos up of a random, gorgeous girl and said it was me. I just thought it was harmless fun at ...
A. 26 October 2006: This will only get harder the longer you leave it. If this man likes you as much as you say, the only real problem could be the lies. This is why it is important to come clean as soon as possible. Relationships need to be built on trust and ... (read in full...)
He wants a relationship with me but I'm not sure! What should I do?
Q. Am 22 yrs and he is 29 yrs. he's a family friend and his mum is a very good friend of my mum. the problem is that he asked me for a relationship, he says he loves me so much and wants to marry me if my parents agree to it. but i don't know what to ...
A. 25 October 2006: He seems a little too forward for my liking. When I first started to read your question, I was going to say you should give him a chance. He is mentioning marriage to a girl he is not even dating, I would steer clear until you have guaged his ... (read in full...)
how do I impress the new girl at work? Any ideas?
Q. Hi, well, at my workplace there has been a new girl around, i have been told she is one of the office girls daughters, and i think she is only a year older than me, if not the same age. Ive taken a bit of a liking to her, even tho ive only seen her ...
A. 25 October 2006: Don't try to impress. Everybody else can waste their time doing that. You just concentrate on being yourself, act natural, casual and friendly. There is nothing wrong with talking to her, but don't make it seem like you are trying it on. Let your ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my online love, that the girl in the photos aren't me?? What should I do?
Q. I've done something kind of stupid which has all blown up in my face. I registered with an online forum just for fun and to kill some time really. I put photos up of a random, gorgeous girl and said it was me. I just thought it was harmless fun at ...
A. 25 October 2006: You need to tell him the truth as soon as you can, maybe even send him this link so he can see how you feel. If he has fallen for YOU, then it should not make that much difference. Many people do what you have done.
Just tell him calmly that you ... (read in full...)
We been married for 15 years and want to spice up marriage with threesome!
Q. dear cupid, my husband and i have been married for 15 years,and we are very secure in our marriage.but we need to spice it up a bit.my question to you is it cheating if we have a threesome? thanks...
A. 25 October 2006: Do you intend this threesome to be a regular thing? Otherwise how can a one off occasion spice up a 15 year marriage?
Personally, the thought of my partner with another guy makes me physically sick and I often have nightmares.
I think this could br... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's 29.. we get along well, should I end it?
Q. As of late, around a month ago I began going out with this guy. Now everything is fine, we get along well, or as well as I've ever gotten on with anyone at the beginning of a relationship. We love each others company and being around each other is ...
A. 25 October 2006: I am 29 and am engaged to a 17 year old. We live in the UK, so completely legal. I love her more than I have ever loved anybody, she fels the same. I hope we can be together for eternity. Age is a number that is only a barrier if you allow it to be. ... (read in full...)
I was wondering if agony aunts get paid?
Q. could you please tell me do agony aunts get paid or is it a service they provide for free,thank you....
A. 25 October 2006: This is a free service, but we get paid in satisfaction. The knowledge that you have made a difference in somebody's life is more valuable than money.... (read in full...)
Do men prefer girls who are easy or are they scared of girls looking for love and stability?
Q. Do men prefer girls who sleep around and are scared of girls looking for sexual and love stability? What is best to get them mental about you? TA...
A. 24 October 2006: I absolutely hate girls who sleep around. I like girls who earn respect and trust, unlike some people I have been with.
I wish all girls were looking for stability instead of an easy lay.
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Can't get past the age difference...
Q. Hello, I am a 27 y/o guy that is in love with a wonderful, truly unique 19 y/o girl. We've been close friends for almost a year (met at work), and we like each other's company a lot. However, anytime I am with her, all I can focus on is the ...
A. 23 October 2006: Been there, done that. People's perceptions are really irritating at first, but this eases in time.
I am 29 and have a 17 year old partner. She is the best thing to have happened to me and fate just seemed to have brought us together.
It does som... (read in full...)
My daughter is involved with a man 36 years older than her!
Q. Hi there, I have a 16-year-old daughter and have recently found out that she is dating a 52-year-old man. She is talking about marriage and children with this man; personally I don't understand why she wants to marry someone so much older than...
A. 20 October 2006: Oh, and to answer your question, sorry.
I agree with the father. This guy obviously makes her happy and she sees a future with him. I would suggest you have a good talk with this man.
Just one question. Do you want your daughter to be happy?... (read in full...)
My daughter is involved with a man 36 years older than her!
Q. Hi there, I have a 16-year-old daughter and have recently found out that she is dating a 52-year-old man. She is talking about marriage and children with this man; personally I don't understand why she wants to marry someone so much older than...
A. 20 October 2006: Why is it that when a 16 year old is in love with a 20 year old, people say its true love, but refuse to accept that love occurs without age consideration?
I have been called all kinds of things because I have a younger partner. I am almost 30, she ... (read in full...)
I am 14 so am I too young to be in love ?
Q. I am 14 am I too young to be in love ?...
A. 20 October 2006: No, I don't think you are too young at all. What makes you think that? Ignore people who say that to you, you know yourself if you love somebody. Don't let anybody tell you how YOU feel.... (read in full...)
How many guys have taken back their girlfriends after finding out they cheated? If you love someone, you wouldn't cheat...right?
Q. pliz help!!! How many guys have taken back their girlfriends after finding out they cheated? my girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago I found out 1 month ago, we are in a long distance relationship. I want her back but I'm battling with my pride, I ...
A. 19 October 2006: I was cheated on numerous times early in our relationship. I suspected and had a private detective friend to find out the truth. I was sent photos and video of her and this guy.
I finished with her and she pleaded for another chance, saying she made... (read in full...)
Two lumps on my penis and I have no idea what they are! Any advice?
Q. I have two lumps on my penis, but they are both very very different lumps but I have no idea what they are. One is just near the top, very hard, under the skin but it doesn't feel like it is attached inside, i've had it for about 3 years about 2 ...
A. 15 October 2006: Everybody gets embarrassed about going to see their GP, I made the mistake of not going earlier, wish I did now.
You really do need to speak to your doctor about this. Even if there were doctors on here, they would probably advise you to speak to y... (read in full...)
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