My LD fiance may have cancer. What can I do to help?
Q. What can I do? My fiance just told me he might have cancer not sure they are going to be doing more tests after new year, He had been feeling way he does for about 3 month now and hasnt went to see what was the matter. He said didnt want to wait ...
A. 30 December 2006: i am so scared.since he told me all i been doing is crying.
he says this year has been bad and worst ever and also says he hopes he has got cancer and dies.
that make me feel terrible i dont want to lose him.i dont no what i can do.am i bein... (read in full...)
What are the tell tale signs that a guy likes you?
Q. hey hope everyone had a good christmas! what are the tell tale signs a guy likes you? i mean like what does every guy do when they like a girl? have a happy new year! xx...
A. 29 December 2006: they tend to: flirt with you and be all nice and always trying to be with you, they could text you more than normal. they mite sit and stare at you just eye contact.plus there body language,mite start to cuddle you alot, sitting annoying you. ... (read in full...)
My bf hates kids and I think I'm pregnant! How do I tell him?
Q. hello my name is fiona and i think i might be pregnent and i dont know how 2 tell my boyfriend cuz he hates kids and advice...
A. 29 December 2006: well i think you should make sure u are first do testand if you are defantally then sit him down and just tell him thats the best thing to do and if he really loves you then he will listen and accept what has happened just say look i love you so ... (read in full...)
Fallen for this man online--he cheated on me and I need to know..what can I do about this?
Q. i have fallen in love with a man online, and we havent met yet, we have been talking for 7 months now, i feel we really conect well together. recently he cheated on me and had sex with another woman. he asked me back and i told him he gets one ...
A. 29 December 2006: i meet a guy online were ok now talked for about a year and are together now.
you need to be carefull with guys online they mite not be wot they say they are. is this the first time u are going to meet him? if it is then you should talk a good fri... (read in full...)
Ladies...do girls mind it if they know that males masterbate?
Q. hi do girls mind if males masturbate. i do it about 3 times a week but i can't help thinking that girls dont like this....
A. 29 October 2006: it is very normal.i like him doing it.my guy does it.i no loadz girls that like there guys doing it and they like being there and watching i never been there to watch yet.i think it is sexy.
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The masturbation equation
Q. Ladies. do all women masturbate and do you like it when men masturbate?...
A. 11 October 2006: i do it alot but dnt infrount of my partner but has saw me i like it when my partner does it i get really turned on.... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with a 43 year old.
Q. i am 13 i am in love with a 43 year old we are getting on well we have been in a relationship for ten months i have asked him too always be honest with me and he is. to day he told me that he is in love with a woman 50000 miles away but he says ...
A. 9 October 2006: hun, he is 42 and ur only 13. thts too much of an age gap. hun me an my fiance has 14 but 30 years tht alot more hun. i sorta no how u feel hun been there. u need be careful with guys most guys only after one thing hun no offence 2 guys. it sounds... (read in full...)
I cheated on him and we argue more, now. Is it because he doesn't trust me anymore?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship and I've cheated on my bf but have come clean with him. Our relationship didn't start off as long distance and it was when he was here I cheated on him. He says that he has gotten passed it but with him gone now ...
A. 1 October 2006: i am same as you hun i cheated on my bf as well and were back we seem to arguee more now i suppose it make it harder yes but if you love each other you can get through it and work it out hun we sorta have well were gettin there i dont know how to ... (read in full...)
Could he really have moved on in only 6 weeks ? and is there a way I can still get him ?
Q. Hi.. this isn't much of a major problem but more like one of those things, I guess. Anyway, I'm sure this has happened to many girls, but there's this guy I had my eye on ALL year before college closed for the Summer. I was SO mad for him, he's a ...
A. 1 October 2006: i argree with camille he must thought was over good.
every one is diffrent takes people diffrent amounts time get over stuff not everyone is the same hun. i think there still could be a chance between you to i think your never to late if you both... (read in full...)
How can I get through this sad break up ?
Q. How will i get through this sad time? My husband and i have recently split, and im finding it so hard to cope, im finding weekends the worst as i dont want to go out incase i see him or see one of his friends or family. I feel completely cut o...
A. 1 October 2006: i am sorry to hear what you said was very sad.breack ups are hard to get over you do in end though takes alot time so say you will always remember your first love anyway hun my advice to you is try keep your mind of him and try get n with life go ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I want a bf! Is it because I think I'm ugly?
Q. hey guys i really need help im 14 and still single never had a boyfriend before i really want a boyfriend i want someone to hang out with and i want to experience the life with a boyfriend i've never kissed any guy before. When i was in primary My ...
A. 1 October 2006: hun it doesnt mean your ugly just all boys like diffrent girl diffrent types your better to wait for the right guy hun.most young guys are only after one thing and when they got it thats it and even sometimes they tell others brag and add bits on at ... (read in full...)
Scared to let him know how I feel for fear of getting hurt, but I want him to know! What can I do ?
Q. Me and my best friend met a group of lads about 2 months ago. within a week we all felt like we'd known eachother for years. I started seeing one of the lads and im so comfortable round him i feel like i could tell him any thing and he would never ...
A. 1 October 2006: i would tell him how u feel because you never know how he feels about you hun as long your 100% sure how you feel tell him.but should wait alittle longer i would about anouther month or two see if you two are still together then say how you feel.
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My fiancee said it was either he goes or my smoking goes! But I have snuck smokes when he was away. Help me please!
Q. omg i dont no what to do my fiance told me 2 pick between him or fags and i picked him of course cos i love him so much problems is i love fags and he made me promise i wouldnt smock so i did and he away on holiday with his ex and kidz and the day ...
A. 20 September 2006: i have and all my mates smock and are like dont stop for him and that and i brocken promise already... (read in full...)
How can I earn my mums trust, im 14 and not allowed out past 8pm!
Q. I'm 14 and my parents won't let me stay out past 8 o'clock, all my friends are allowed out until 10 and i feel really stupid having to go home so early like a baby and they are all meeting new people and i feel like i have no friends out of school ...
A. 16 September 2006: i ant sure hun but i am used be same when was younger i had be in 8pm even on friday no matter how hard i tryed she never changed... (read in full...)
Will this guy I like know I'm a virgin, when we do it for the first time?
Q. hi i need some advice! im 17 and im a virgin but this lad im seeing doest know i am! i have done sexual things beofre but i have never gone the whole way lol will he know im a virgin when i have sex for the first time???? ...
A. 16 September 2006: first you shouldnt be ashamed i wish i had waited till bit older like your age second he mite not find out depends if you bleed but some guys wouldnt mind just wish had told him befor.he mite notice your like a but confussed not exseperanced and ... (read in full...)
My bf has to marry his ex gf because he got her pregnant. It's tearing me apart!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend early this year, but we have known eachother all our lives. He breaks up with me because he has a moral duty to an ex girlfriend he got pregnant. He now has to marry her. My boyfriend comes from a strict christian...
A. 16 September 2006: well hun i am so sorry but if he marrying her then i dont think so esp if she pregnant.is his ex actually preg not saying that how fair on is she?
you cant really do anything i dont think hun just let him go i no be hard if you love him so much but ... (read in full...)
This boy at school pokes me, bangs into me and teases me in front of his friends. Do you think he likes me??
Q. hi im 15. Would u say my boy mate fancies me cos if he sees me in the corridor he pokes me or bangs into me as a joke and smiles. hes the same age as me. And sometimes when i am sitting down eating my lunch he says to one of his mates "oh if ...
A. 16 September 2006: should next time he pokes you say do you fancy me or something.as people say hiting first sing of love i dont really see how but what somepeople think.
he mite no say he does in frount mates but mite say to you when alone yes i do or something like... (read in full...)
I'm torn...I'm moving to England to be with my guy but not sure if I can my friends and family behind.
Q. Hello guys, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now, been friends for six. A lot of it was long distance because I was going to college in the U.S. and he lives in the UK. I spent a year studying abroad in the UK and lo...
A. 16 September 2006: hun no how you feel in the next year or so i plainin move away from mine to go live with my boyfriend and i no my parents wont like him and wont like me movin away not even hafe an hour away never mind about half a day but i really want to but just ... (read in full...)
How do I really tell if my teacher likes me and if he does..how do we move things forward?
Q. Hi, I am 17 and really like a teacher at my school. he is just turned 23 and and was a student teacher here last year too. We started getting on really well during a school trip at the end of last year but i don't know if he feels the same w...
A. 16 September 2006: i think you should go see or next time askes go or even say to him your stuck should see whats going on.
he can get into trouble yes but you r over 17.
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what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??
Q. hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and ...
A. 16 September 2006: all guys are diffrent, dont let them get you down you will find a guy someday who likes you for you.dont worry yourself... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend fancies his mates girlfriend...
Q. Hi there. Ok then, here's the problem: I am sure that my boyfriend fancies his mate's girlfriend, Rachel (not her real name). I believe so because whenever we're with his mate and Rachel, he acts differently, particularly when he is talking with ...
A. 15 September 2006: hun i think you should just sit him down and ask him and say to him you need to no.you wont look silly and you will be clad whatever the answer is because end of the day you will no and wont be buging you and you getting worried about it also not ... (read in full...)
Sorry to bother but:- Does the same apply to women as men, once a cheat always a cheat ?
Q. Good answers on the male-female cheating question. But I've got one more question sorry to bother. When males cheat its most likely than not they are going to do it again, evean if they luv their spouses. Is it safe to say the same for women. Or ...
A. 15 September 2006: personally i think perople woman or men can change.i used to always cheat i tryed to change and people said i have changed and i ant the person used be for the good.i think if someone cheats and you relise how stupid and dont want be like that and ... (read in full...)
She says I don't tell her how I feel enough...
Q. The person im going out with lets call them S yes im bi we r both girls. Well me and S have been going out for about 2 weeks i got very negative as things are complicated with family and friends and so on. We almost broke up but decided to carry on ...
A. 15 September 2006: well you like herein how she feels i no i like to no how my bf feels we like feel wanted and loved not used.
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He wants me to be like a porn actress and willingly give BJ's..whenever he wants sex!
Q. My boyfriend would love it if I gave hime blow jobs everytime we have sex. I hate giving them as I have tried to explain to him I hate the taste I get in my mouth and refuse to let him come in my mouth (he would love it if I did). We both like ...
A. 15 September 2006: hun you cant be something you ant.you also shouldnt do something you dont want to and ant happy with. and if you dont like something and ur bf loves you he should expect you to or preaser you into doing it.
can exsperament alittle like been said... (read in full...)
He travels alot with work, while hes away I cant focus on life!
Q. Im in a relationship and for work my boyfriend travells a lot. I find it hard when he is away and while he is away suffer form high anxeity. I dont manage to get anything done and loose my appitite. He is not aware that this happens as when he is ...
A. 15 September 2006: hun its totally normal your missing him and wish he was with you 24 7.you must love him alot seems to me that you are madly in love with and are scared of losing him.
i am like this all the time worried about my bf and if he cheating he tells me... (read in full...)
Does every guy really watch porn ?
Q. Is it possible to not watch porn as a guy? My bf told me he's not interested at these things. He admitted he was curious about it when he was 16, but he absolutely shows no interest about it now. I love him very much and I'm lucky that I found so...
A. 15 September 2006: well hun every guy gets to an age in there life were they Are curious its normally at teenage year and like in there 20's most guys grow out of it hun esp when they find a girl they falling for.also mostly single men and not like family men or men ... (read in full...)
Im constantly being compared to the Ex, I cant cope anymore what can I do ?
Q. I am in the early (honeymoon) stages of a relationship and most things are absoluetly fantastic, however one thing really bothers me and despite talking to my partner I seem not to be able to get a common understaning. I am compared regularly to ...
A. 15 September 2006: talk to her about how you feel tell her.
she probally dont no so she cnt help you both need a seriously to have a convercation about this before you both split up.
i sorta no how you feel i always felt lyk my bf was comparing me to his exs and ... (read in full...)
I lied to my girlfriend, I need to gain her trust back! HELP!!
Q. I need help i have lied to my girlfriend on 3 occasions and now she is upset and wants me to say something to reassure her that it wont happen again. I have broken her trust and she needs me to tell what i will do to win back that trust...
A. 15 September 2006: right for a start you need to build the trust back you will need to start from scratch she is just scared you hurt her again.you should talk to her and say your willing build the trust up again and tell her how you feel about her it depends on what ... (read in full...)
I'm sad because he is always away...How can I deal with the lonliness???
Q. Im in my first relationship and My boyfriend works away a lot For periods of time that can range from 7 days to 6 weeks I have very strong feelings for him but as this is all new to me I want him around all the time I am worried of pushing him away ...
A. 13 September 2006: why does he go away my and my boyfriend are long distance we always on phone talkin when can or texting or msn.... (read in full...)
Im falling for my best mate, trouble is im so horrid to him and he puts up with it, but dont think he feels the same, what do I do ?
Q. Where can I start apart from im in love with my best (only) male friend. He knows that im falling in love with him but because he was badly hurt last year does not want a relationship. We have not had sex or kissed properly so that is not a ...
A. 13 September 2006: its normal should talk to him if yoy dont you will never no how he feels start being nicer to him esp if you want to be with him. i think he does like you like said he puts up with it probally because he likes you he probally scared to say something ... (read in full...)
It shocks me that he is no longer in love with his ex-wife
Q. How long does one need to recover from a heart-break relationship? Will it be different between guys and girls? My situations is this. My boyfriend was divorced 1 yr and 3 months before we met. We've been together for 1 year as of now. He was marr...
A. 13 September 2006: hun i dont think your question is stupid.
i no how you feel i am in sorta same place like you i with a guy older than me 14 years he is going through devorce and had got 3 kidz 2 ex wife sorta and 2 with his ex. we been together along time i no he l... (read in full...)
He cheated and said it was because he was young and I didnt pay him enough attention!!!
Q. Me and boyfriend are young i'm 19 and he is 18. We have been together for just over 2 years. We also have an 8 month baby. And i found out since february that he was cheating on me. Reasoning is being young and also the lack of attention i payed to ...
A. 13 September 2006: people make mastacks i done it we all have you should have a really good talk with him.i think he young and not ready to setle down if thats what you want you should find someone else guys do like alot of attention i think lassies do to we all do ... (read in full...)
7 yrs younger - is he just after sex??
Q. This guy I'm seeing is 7 years younger them me How do i know he really wants to be with me for me and not for sex? help...
A. 13 September 2006: hun not all guys are the same just after sex some care not just about themselfs hun just be carefull not have sex with him straight away wait till you to have been together at least 2 month befor having sex with him all i am sayin just be careful ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem interested...Could I be pushing him away???
Q. my fiance seems off with me all the time also doesnt seem interested in me anymore he says he is but i think he is.he always has a go when i get jealous like he talks other lassies on msn and got numbers and when i said something he had a go at me ...
A. 11 September 2006: yes he tell me i am beautiful and loves me and all that. you got point what if i ant good anouth for him. the lassies he talkes 2 r better looking i just dont no what to do i love him more than anything and dont want lose him be lost without him.... (read in full...)
Do women prefer a hairy chest or shaved chest?
Q. what do women prefer, a hairy chest or a shaved chest?...
A. 27 August 2006: i like both really buti prefer hairy chest.my fiance has got a hairy chest i love it lol!... (read in full...)
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