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I feel I can help others with my advice as I have sweated blood and guts to pull through all of the problems I have had in my life. I am the true voice of experience. lol
Been there, done that, T-shirt is in the wash because of the blood and guts.
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Two lumps on my penis and I have no idea what they are! Any advice?
Q. I have two lumps on my penis, but they are both very very different lumps but I have no idea what they are. One is just near the top, very hard, under the skin but it doesn't feel like it is attached inside, i've had it for about 3 years about 2 ...
A. 7 November 2006: How did it go? Hope everything went ok.... (read in full...)
How many guys have taken back their girlfriends after finding out they cheated? If you love someone, you wouldn't cheat...right?
Q. pliz help!!! How many guys have taken back their girlfriends after finding out they cheated? my girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago I found out 1 month ago, we are in a long distance relationship. I want her back but I'm battling with my pride, I ...
A. 19 October 2006: I was cheated on numerous times early in our relationship. I suspected and had a private detective friend to find out the truth. I was sent photos and video of her and this guy.
I finished with her and she pleaded for another chance, saying she made... (read in full...)
Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?
Q. Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?...
A. 19 October 2006: lol, talk about an unexpected 'blow job'... (read in full...)
What should I say, when my bf says I'm beautiful? What's a good response?
Q. how do i respond when my bf says im beautiful? i never know how to respond! i either thank him or smile and giggle! but i never know really what to say back!! i want him to know that i think hes hot, but he doesnt really like that word, and idk how ...
A. 19 October 2006: Just say Thank you and give him a kiss.
I tell my fiancee all the time, but she usually says "I'm not" or "No". All I want is for her to realise how beautiful she is. When she says "Ta" or "thanks", it makes me very happy.... (read in full...)
14 yeasr old and I'm pregnant..what should I do?
Q. im 14 nd ad sex wit ma ex now i think im preganant wat shoudl i do?...
A. 19 October 2006: Ok hun, the first thing you need to do is tell your mum. It is important that you get all the support you can, especially that of your parents. If you are scared to tell your mum alone, maybe you can tell a schoolteacher and they can bring your mum ... (read in full...)
Do I cheat on my wife to get the extra sex that we are not having??
Q. I have been married for over 25 years and I love my wife very much. Our sex life has slowed to maybe a once a week and I am not sure why this has happened. I still have the inclination but she is always too tired. Now for the complication: A woman I ...
A. 18 October 2006: If you are willing to risk throwing away 25 years of your life, go for it.... (read in full...)
My son got a case of cold feet after being with her 10 years now she is due to re-marry and I want to wish her the best!
Q. my son called off his wedding 15months ago after being with his girlfriend for 10 years. A case of cold feet I think. He realised soon afterwards that he had made a mistake but she wouldn't have him back and she is now getting married to someone ...
A. 18 October 2006: I think you are a lovely person for thinking this way.
Just send her a note, saying that although you wish things could have been different, you are happy she has finally found happiness and you wish them both all the luck in the world. Tell her ... (read in full...)
I've realised that the guy I am seeing I only feel for him as a friend what is the best way to deal with this?
Q. I have been seeing a guy in a long distance relationship for approximately 2 months now. However, in the last few weeks I have realised that my feelings for him are for nothing more than a friend, and I need to tell him this. He is a decent and ...
A. 18 October 2006: I think you should tell him how you feel before you visit him. Just tell him that you really value his friendhip and be as honest as you can with him. I know first hand what this is like, so even if the truth hurts, it is better then the deception ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend only ever talks about herself and her life and never bothers to ask me how I am or ever interested in me and my life!!!
Q. Why does my girlfriend talk and talk about herself and her family and her part time job and does not talk about 'us' or me and stuff. When I pick her up after work she just talks and talks about her shift and what she did and its gets too much. S...
A. 18 October 2006: I know how you feel, but she probably does not realise she does this.
My fiancee is the same sometimes, well she was until I told her.
I feel this started early in the relationship and eventually became 'normal habit'.
Just tell her how you feel... (read in full...)
Help me...how do I break up with my current bf to date this other guy I like?
Q. I need help breaking up with my boyfriend? Well im in love with this guy that ive been talking to for about two months now and i have a boyfriend that ive been going out with for 6 months going for 7. I love my boyfriend but i really really lo...
A. 15 October 2006: Never break up with sombody you love to be with somebody you like. Because the person you like will break up with you to be with somebody they love.
Never a truer phrase.... (read in full...)
Two lumps on my penis and I have no idea what they are! Any advice?
Q. I have two lumps on my penis, but they are both very very different lumps but I have no idea what they are. One is just near the top, very hard, under the skin but it doesn't feel like it is attached inside, i've had it for about 3 years about 2 ...
A. 15 October 2006: Everybody gets embarrassed about going to see their GP, I made the mistake of not going earlier, wish I did now.
You really do need to speak to your doctor about this. Even if there were doctors on here, they would probably advise you to speak to y... (read in full...)
I want to buy her a diamond engagement ring but I don't want to pay the prices!!!
Q. I want to buy my GF a diamond engagement ring. I know they are way over priced/marked up at the jewelry stores. Does anyone have any tips on how to haggle to get the best price? Has anyone ever purchased one at a discount site online? What would ...
A. 15 October 2006: Ebay can be very good, but you can try to haggle at jewellery stores, some will try to better other stores prices, so shop around.
Also ask around friends, as they may know somebody who works in a jewellers and may be able get discount for you.... (read in full...)
How do you know when you've found the one?
Q. how do you kno when youve found the 'one'? ...
A. 14 October 2006: You just know. You will understand when you meet him.
You can't think, you can't eat, you can't sleep, you can't concentrate. There is no feeling like it. When it hits you, you will know about it.... (read in full...)
When I fall for a girl I fall bad and get serious...why does this happen to me?
Q. i am a 22 years old guy, and my problem is that i very often get serious with every girl i feel in love.i mean i as soon i get in to a relation i start thinking about marriage and all that stuff.i am presently in love with a girl and i am dam ...
A. 14 October 2006: Simple, you are the type of guy who would prefer to find the right girl and settle down. I am the same as you. I have never been the type of guy to go around having one night stands and casual relationships.
I was 14 when I had my first real girl... (read in full...)
I don't have feelings for him anymore so why did I start crying when we ended?
Q. split up with my long term partner yesterday we agreed to stay friends as we have a son together.see i wanted him to leave because there was never any love or romance and he took me for granted.when he left i starting crying,he wasnt upset and was ...
A. 14 October 2006: Your head tells you that you have no feelings, but your heart tells you differently. I feel this is a case of not knowing what you had until its gone. The feelings are still there subconciously, and will probably remain for a while. You are trying ... (read in full...)
He wants me to strip on cam for him or he will keep pasting my email addy to everyone!!
Q. well this lad added me annd i ended up arguing with him cos he was really racist ((a didnt no him)) and i blocked him, thn all i get is LOADS of ppl adding me, lyk 50 every minute or summit stupid, he's basically put my addy up on a syt, en loads of ...
A. 13 October 2006: Do you know what site he posted your addy on? If you know the answer, you can contact the site and inform them of what has happened. They will remove it and possibly take action against him.
Just dont give in to him, what damage can he actually do o... (read in full...)
He wants me to strip on cam for him or he will keep pasting my email addy to everyone!!
Q. well this lad added me annd i ended up arguing with him cos he was really racist ((a didnt no him)) and i blocked him, thn all i get is LOADS of ppl adding me, lyk 50 every minute or summit stupid, he's basically put my addy up on a syt, en loads of ...
A. 13 October 2006: Change your addy. Report him to the police.
How did he get your new addy?... (read in full...)
My girl cheated, I really love her! Was it really a genuine mistake ?
Q. My girlfriend has cheated on me and I dont know what to do coz I luv her and I cant let go despite what she has done. She says she luvs me and she does not want this to end thats whats confusing me. my question, can one cheat on someone you really ...
A. 13 October 2006: I was cheated on many times early in my relationship with my now fiancee. She realised how selfish she had been and begged for another chance to prove how much she loved me.
I gave her the chance and she is like a totally different person now, she ... (read in full...)
Any ideas what I can give my fiance as a reminder of me?
Q. Me and my fiance are in a long distance relationship. I find it very hard, I miss him like crazy and love him so much but the distance drives me mad. I have got a couple things that remind me of him, this gets me through. I do still miss him t...
A. 13 October 2006: Maybe just a little note saying how much you love him, then he can read it whenever he likes. I am sure he constantly thinks of you anyway, so a visual reminder would be nice.
Maybe you could spray a small teddy with your perfume and give that to h... (read in full...)
How do I get the relationship I want?
Q. I'm really messed up at the moment! A lot of my friends seem to have boyfriends but I've never been at all interested in having one. There's this boy im friends with he's lovely and we have done some stuff together (not sex) but I was at a club an...
A. 13 October 2006: I think this guy is really into you, but I dont think you could ever see him as boyfriend material. He cares about you, so it hurts him to see you kissing guys you don't know.
Yes, I think you should stop doing that because you are sending out a ne... (read in full...)
Why even after masterbating do I still get hard during the night??
Q. Sexual Question. Is it common that if a man masturbates and goes straight to bed that he'll get hard again during the night without wanting to, nor thinking of it? It's happened to me, i'm 22 where i've masturbated, then go to bed and ...
A. 13 October 2006: That's men for you!
Masturbation doesn't really have anything to do with it. We get hard-ons in our sleep, eating dinner, watching TV. Maybe thats just me then, lol.
The worst part is when you wake up to go to the loo and you have got one, just hav... (read in full...)
Do men generally wear engagement rings?
Q. Is it true that men don't usually wear their engagement rings? ...
A. 13 October 2006: I know there are some footballers and other celebrities who wear engagement rings. Maybe this leans more towards the bling culture, rather than the romantic statement it is intended to be.
To answer your question, No, men do not generally wear enga... (read in full...)
She broke my heart but still flirts with me!!
Q. So what do you do when your girlfriend broke your heart, but still flirts with you a lot ...
A. 13 October 2006: How did she break your heart? Did she cheat? How does she flirt?
Without more details, there is not really much I can say.... (read in full...)
It was his idea to stay friends so why isn't he being a friend???
Q. After i had been going out with this guy called (P), mind you i was 19 an he was 29 yrs, he broke up with me but suggested about being friends. I said yes to that. Now after about 2 months, the past month or more he has been ignoring my txt ...
A. 12 October 2006: I feel his new girlfriend is unhappy about the fact that he is still wanting to be friends with his ex. Most of us say we will try to be friends after parting, but actually making a friendship work is another thing completely. How many people would ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to a prostitute. Is this common?
Q. I lost my virginity to a prostitute. Is this common?...
A. 12 October 2006: It is more common than is thought, though not an everyday thing. Some people do it as an easy way to lose it, without the emotional attachment.
It is no susbtitute to giving your virginity to somebody.
I believe you only 'lose' something when it ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to get married again, I've been there twice. What do you think?
Q. I am 48 years old, divorced twice, single since 1990. I have been dating a man for 13 years now, I fell deeply in love with this man from early in the relationship. He is divorced after a 28 year marriage. He and I get along great together and talk ...
A. 10 October 2006: Hun, I think he sounds like a wonderful man. Third time lucky, I feel.
I think you would make a lovely couple, you both know what you want in life and are totally committed to one another.
I say GO FOR IT!!!
Best of luck
(whistles the... (read in full...)
Boyfriend really upsets me with his teasing. Am I taking this too seriously?
Q. I’ve always been led to believe that teasing is one of the ways a guy will show you he likes you, but tonight my boyfriend was teasing me so much I almost ended up in tears. I would have called it borderline bullying. I have been feeling a little ...
A. 10 October 2006: You cant blame his low self esteem for the way he treated you hun, from what I read, I would class it as bullying. He should have realised he had take it too far when he saw you becoming upset. I have suffered with low self esteem since I was a ... (read in full...)
Does this girl fancy me?
Q. This girl likes me and she keeps trying to phone me. She keeps saying to everyone how sexy I am! Does she fancy me?...
A. 10 October 2006: Yes... (read in full...)
What is True Love
Q. My question is short but complex...What is True Love? How do you know you've found it? ...
A. 10 October 2006: True Love is something that you cannot explain, but you will undertsand when you find it.... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my boyfriends uncle. What can I do?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and when i first met his uncle i liked him but have recently jus bin on holiday with them and his uncle came on to me i really really like his uncle but hes married, 30 and has 3 kids i dont know what ...
A. 10 October 2006: Ok, there are going to be a lot of people who will get hurt here. If you really feel that you want to be with someone else, then finish with your boyfriend. This is not fair on him at all. His uncle is acting very immature. His kids will grow up and ... (read in full...)
I like this guy...shall I go for it and ask him out or not?
Q. My friend recently told this guy I like, that I liked him...and first of all I think he was ignoring me. But then he said hi to me and asked my other friend if it was true and then went all quiet...but I slept with a mirror under my pillow ...
A. 10 October 2006: Well if you really like him, I would say ask him.
As for the mirror, did you go to sleep while you were thinking about him?
Just ask him, what have you got to lose?... (read in full...)
I made 'amateur' pics for my man, is this normal?
Q. i trust my man of many many years and we have made some amature home videos, watched them and immediatly deleted them. yesterday we took pictures that he could enjoy while hes on days off or alone at home. i trust that he would never remove them ...
A. 10 October 2006: I agree you must be careful. I would advise against doing it unless you trusted the person 100%. I had pics of my ex, but returned them to her when we split up. I have pics of my fiancee, again I would return them to her if we split up. I just dont ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is best friends with his ex. I can't handle it. I want to be with him, but I just don't trust him with her.
Q. I am a 25 year old female and currently dating a 26 year old man. I care about him very much and we get along very well. The main problem is that he is best-friends with his ex-girlfriend. Although they broke up a year ago, they were intima...
A. 10 October 2006: I think staying friends with an ex can be one of the most difficult things to do. I have gone through some difficult times with my ex and am now engaged to somebody else. My fiancee is always jealous of my ex and thinks I might cheat on her. I never ... (read in full...)
Can somebody give me some 'turn on tips' for my new man?
Q. Would like some input here please. What can a woman do to turn on and impress a man in the bedroom? I am with a new guy and would like some tips please, perhaps from the guys out there - what is it you like? Thanks x...
A. 10 October 2006: I love to be surprised in the bedroom. Be spontaneous, start off slowly in a teasing manner. Then take control.... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with a 43 year old.
Q. i am 13 i am in love with a 43 year old we are getting on well we have been in a relationship for ten months i have asked him too always be honest with me and he is. to day he told me that he is in love with a woman 50000 miles away but he says ...
A. 10 October 2006: Hun, we have all given you our thoughts and understand this may NOT be what you wanted to hear. The police AND your parents should know about this man. If you feel you cannot talk to your parents, then please respond to this message or contact any ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and in love with a 43 year old.
Q. i am 13 i am in love with a 43 year old we are getting on well we have been in a relationship for ten months i have asked him too always be honest with me and he is. to day he told me that he is in love with a woman 50000 miles away but he says ...
A. 9 October 2006: He said he was in love with a woman 50,000 miles away? The earth is almost 25,000 miles in circumference, so she lives twice around the earth does she?
This guy does not love you hun, he is making up stupid excuses not to commit to you. I feel that... (read in full...)
I think the drink is messing with my girlfriends feelings. What can I do?
Q. Hi my girlfriend recentaly went up to hull university we have been together for two years. I visited her for the first time after two weeks since she went up. She said that she felt confused and she didnt want to be in a relationship anymore before ...
A. 9 October 2006: To be honest with you, I don't think the drink is messing with her feelings. I feel she has somebody else on her mind. I think she has met somebody at University and has plans with him, maybe this is why she is drinking much more. You both need to ... (read in full...)
My perfect fiance is verbally abusive. How can I save my relationship?
Q. my fiance is so perfect for me but for one thing. He is verbally abusive. He doesnt seem to realise the impact his words have on me. I dont want to feel an inch high anymore and it is effecting my health,job perfomance and emotional well being. How ...
A. 9 October 2006: Hun, why do you see him as perfect when he treats you so badly?
I feel you should not be in a relationship with this guy, especially as he does not realise the damage he is doing. Have you spoke to him about how you feel?... (read in full...)
A couple of guys have said I am boring, and moan alot! How can I change this as I wasnt aware and now my confidence is totally knocked!!
Q. Hello, I need to know how to talk to men. Im 23 and single and this is because most men that know me think Im dull and boring. They only go out with me because they think Im physically attractive but have no personality. A few men have said this ...
A. 9 October 2006: Appearence is the least important quality I look for. I prefer the company of a woman with personality, sense of humour, likeminded.
I like to be able to talk about shared interests and always have something to talk about. I love to find out new ... (read in full...)
How can I best help my wife after her past rape's ?
Q. My wife feels like she was destroyed by two boys when she was younger. These boys caught her in a room by herself and took advatage of her. One was a brutal rape, but the others where when she was very drunk and she did not want it to happen but the ...
A. 9 October 2006: You are helping her by being so caring and supportive, but I feel she would greatly benefit from professional help. I would suggest you find a good therapist who deals with this type of situation on a regular basis. Talking about it to you shows she ... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty because I have a boyfriend
Q. I feel very guilty because I have dreams with other guys all the time. I feel so guilty because I have a boyfriend. I even had a dream with his brother like two days ago. I know really really deep inside I have kind of a crush on his brother, and I ...
A. 8 October 2006: Don't be guilty for dreaming. In my dreams, I have killed people, slept with cousins, had gay relationships, has sex with exes sister, did all kinds of stuff I would never do in reality.
You can't control your dreams, so don't feel guilty about thin... (read in full...)
How can I show her that I value our friendship?
Q. what can i do to show my 16year old very close best female friend that i care and value our friendship? lots of idea's or suggestions please!...
A. 8 October 2006: Telling her face to face is a good way to start. Take her places and make sure she always enjoys herself when she is with you. Girls appreciate the small things, so a small gesture or friendship card will make her very happy. Join her in her hobbies ... (read in full...)
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