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I feel I can help others with my advice as I have sweated blood and guts to pull through all of the problems I have had in my life. I am the true voice of experience. lol
Been there, done that, T-shirt is in the wash because of the blood and guts.
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How can I show her that I value our friendship?
Q. what can i do to show my 16year old very close best female friend that i care and value our friendship? lots of idea's or suggestions please!...
A. 8 October 2006: Telling her face to face is a good way to start. Take her places and make sure she always enjoys herself when she is with you. Girls appreciate the small things, so a small gesture or friendship card will make her very happy. Join her in her hobbies ... (read in full...)
How do I break up?
Q. My boyfriend abuses me verbally and phisically. I'm not happ with him because our comunication is aweful. I cannot disscuss ANYTHING with him. We're just too different and we're never going to work out. I know that the best thing is to break up. I ...
A. 8 October 2006: I completely agree with Keeleys excellent answer.
I think any guy who ever hits a girl can never be called a man. He has physically scarred you, but it is the emotional scars that will do the real damage. You NEED to get out of this rela... (read in full...)
How can I ask for this girls number? We seem to really like each other.
Q. Hi all, i need some advice on a girl i really like, were both single both recently come out of relationships and are single now, and we've started talking on msn and we've seen each other a fair few times and spoke and today i met up with her and ...
A. 7 October 2006: No problem mate, just make the best of it.
Best of luck to you both... (read in full...)
I am his back up plan, how can he do this to me? What should I do
Q. Hey, im kinda having a bad time right now.. cuz my bf just recently started likeing his ex again.. and he wanted to go on a break and see wat happends with her.. and if it didnt work out he would come back to me.. and he was saying he would come ...
A. 7 October 2006: Walk away with pride, before he strips it all away from you.
You deserve much better than this loser.
You should always be somebodys Plan A, never settle for second best hun.... (read in full...)
How can I ask for this girls number? We seem to really like each other.
Q. Hi all, i need some advice on a girl i really like, were both single both recently come out of relationships and are single now, and we've started talking on msn and we've seen each other a fair few times and spoke and today i met up with her and ...
A. 7 October 2006: I would just ask her for it when you are on MSN. That's what I done. You should have seen me smile when I got it, lol.
Just ask her outright, I am sure you will smile like I did.
... (read in full...)
I feel like my close friend is trying to make her boyfriend jealous.....of me!!!
Q. why is she doing this? i have a really close female friend who has a boyfriend. i always walk her home about twice a week. i talk to her for an hour durin that time. she's been really upset about her boyfriend. they have had a arguement. she was ...
A. 7 October 2006: I feel she is trying to make her boyfriend see that they do not share the emotional connection with him. She needs to be able to talk to somebody and needs this from her boyfriend. I feel it is as if she is trying to get him to act more like you and ... (read in full...)
My boxfriend can only seem to climax through oral. Why is this?
Q. My boyfriend finds it easy to orgasm and come in my mouth but he cannot do it inside my vagina. I wonder why; could it be that my vagina is too loose or is it some kind of a problem he has?...
A. 7 October 2006: There could be many factors to this. Positions, stresses, relaxation.
I find it easier to climax through oral, some men do.
You should really discuss this with him and talk about other things you can do so that you both get the most out of sex.... (read in full...)
I did things on webcam at the age of 12, now I regret it. How can I forget it?
Q. since i was 12 ive done bad things i used to show boys on cam myself naked, now i really regret it. how can i forget about it? was it illegal? i used to do it cos i was ashamed with my body and they used to say they loved it even tho i was flat c...
A. 7 October 2006: I am glad that you regret it, because some people move on to more extreme forms.
This should really just be put to rest now hun, try to put it out of your mind. It appears to have made you a better person. You now value yourself more, so that can ... (read in full...)
Please help, I cheated on my girl last night, but it was a mistake!! I feel so guilty what should I do!??
Q. Please advise! Last night I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex. We have been together for a couple of months, and due to current circumstances I am living with my ex, which I am trying to change. I have cheated in the past, which I am not prou...
A. 6 October 2006: I feel you are really undecided on who you want. I think you are probably very attracted to both girls, but not in love with any.
You should be honest with your girlfriend and move out of your exes, because there is no way your girlfriend will stay... (read in full...)
Feeling lost and not sure where to go from here, im real sad!
Q. Where to start…. Im feeling rather lost and not sure what to do about my whole situation, im feeling very upset and I guess hurt at times and don’t know how to get this all to where I want.. here goes… I have been with partner 3 years (living to...
A. 6 October 2006: I feel for you, I really do. I am glad that you are understanding of his ways to an extent. The pressures of work and personal problems can put a real dampener on a sex life.
Personally, I think you both need some time away from the stresses of home... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had 32 previous sexual partners
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I am 27 and have been going out with a 26 yr old girl for just over 2 months, and I really like her. She is interesting, attractive, sexy, clever and funny, and I am in love with her. I was planning on telling her this last weekend, but in the ...
A. 6 October 2006: Lucky???????? WTF????... (read in full...)
I argued the case of homosexuality in ethics, now my entire year think I am gay.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 In school it's kind of "evil" to be gay or a gay sympithiser. But In an RE lesson under ethics this boy went on about how homosexuals are sick and wrong ect. So I publicly argued with him over it and now my entire year thinks I'm gay...
A. 6 October 2006: Mate, you deserve an award for the way you reacted. Not that many guys would do what do did. You are a credit to your school.... (read in full...)
What should I tell them about my weaknesses should they ask in an interview ?
Q. I am going for an interview, and the question I dread the most is "what are your weaknesses".. Surely if I tell them "I am always late", etc - they wont touch me with a barge pole!...
A. 5 October 2006: You say you dont really have any, maybe work a little too hard sometimes or maybe try too hard. My weakness is that sometimes I try TOO hard to please.... (read in full...)
I am a shy guy, how do I ask this girl to a school dance?
Q. Hey! I am a shy 17 year old guy and i want to ask this girl to a school dance. how should i approach her and what should i say? we get on fine at school and she seems to be a plesant person....
A. 5 October 2006: I would take a few gulps, slowly count to 3, then you will reach 5 or 10. Walk up to her and ask her.
The problem with being shy is that many girls are attracted to confidence. I am a very shy person myself.
Approach her in the most confiden... (read in full...)
She finished with me out of the blue, then her mum called the police, I was arrested for harrasment, I didnt do anything.. please help!!!!!
Q. My ex girlfriend finished with me out of the blue so i called her but he mum got me arrested for harrasment for leaving 7 missed calls. Now i can't talk to her until she talks to me or i get arrested and i know she wont talk to me. I have done ...
A. 5 October 2006: She has probably gave her mum reason for calling the police. She maybe lied to her mum about the resaons for the break up. Her mum is probably trying to protect her.
If she can be like this with you, then it is best that you try to let go.
Try g... (read in full...)
I got drunk and allowed this other guy to finger me! If the truth comes out I will lose my bf...help!
Q. Okay, I have a boyfriend, but on saturday night i got really drunk and this boy who nearly all my friends fancy, fingered me and i tossed him off. I love my boyfriend more then anything - bit too much. But if the truth comes out i will lose my boy...
A. 5 October 2006: You should be honest with him, otherwise the guilt will eat at you. Then there is the chance somebody else would tell him. I am sure you have more chance of keeping him if you tell him yourself.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
I lost my best friend and my lover 5 months ago due to illness, Im struggling to let go ... its so hard...
Q. I don't need relationship advice, but maby friendship advice. I've lost my best friend 5 months ago due to illness. It was very traumatic for me and still is today. I'm not coping well with him not being around anymore, because we used to be lovers, ...
A. 5 October 2006: I dont think you can let go. You just need to try to live with it and let time make things more bearable.
You need to try to remember the good times and you will soon smile when you think of him. Are you undertaking any counselling at the mome... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and having regular sex with my BF - does that make me a slut?
Q. I love my boyfriend and we have regular sex. I am only fourteen but we have been going out for six months and i adore him. We did most oral sex in the first month and like now its moved on. Am i a slut?...
A. 5 October 2006: No, but you need to be extremely careful... (read in full...)
Is 18 and 29 too large an age gap?
Q. What do you think of an 18 year old female (just turned 18) drinking and whatever else with a 29 year old male? I know she is of legal age for the dating part, but I still don't approve. I personally think an age gap is okay, when you are older, ...
A. 4 October 2006: I think that is ok, I am 29 and engaged to a 17 year old female. I don't care what people think. This is MY life, not theirs. If I cared about what everyone thought, I would be a completely different person now.
If they like each other, go for it. ... (read in full...)
He asked why I was with him, I said because he makes me smile & happy, but that answer wasn't good enough!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. We often joke with each other. However just the other day he asked me why was I with him? I replied because you make me smile and i'm happy around you. To him the answer I gave wasn't a good enough ...
A. 4 October 2006: Yes, he probably wanted to hear that you were in love with him and felt secure. Guys are very sensitive, believe it or not and we love to be shown affection. We like getting told that we are loved and needed, not just that we make you happy and ... (read in full...)
After me and my gf broke up, I feel like my life is falling apart. Please give me some advice.
Q. Hey guys, My life is slowly falling apart, i'm depressed and really don't know what to do from here, hope u guys can give me some advice... I just broke up with my gf of 2 years, im 22, shes 21. She says she lost feelings for me, that her feeling...
A. 4 October 2006: You need to block her phone number or change yours. Then tell her to f**k off and stop trying to take the piss out of your good nature.
You are much better than that.
She is using you and will continue to do so as lons as you allow it.... (read in full...)
Hes a bad kisser, but I really like him, how do I tell him ??
Q. I've been going out with this guy for about a month now, and it started out fine. He's really nice, we get on well and have loads in common. But the problem is, he's a rubbish kisser. It's like he's trying to choke me with his tongue whilst ...
A. 3 October 2006: Tell him you have been reading up on new kissing techniques as you are not happy with the way YOU kiss and would like to kiss him better.
Say you want to practice a new one and ask him to try to copy you. Just let him go with the flow.... (read in full...)
I want to do a 'strip act' for him..but am scared he'll reject me. Do I ask him first if he would like it?
Q. Guys, I need some advice please!!!! I bought some sexy underwear, suspenders etc to try and spice up my sex life with my boyfriend. But how do I go about wearing these?!?! I cant imagine me marching into the bedroom with them on - I would feel rea...
A. 2 October 2006: There are places where you can take poledancing classes, mainly for fitness, but can be used to learn 'tricks' and help you with your confidence.
I am sure when he sees you dressed up for him and sees your intentions, he won't reject you.
Proba... (read in full...)
To Spit or Swallow? What is normal thing to do?
Q. I need help! When people say "Spit or Swallow" when giving head, what is the normal thing to do? Isn't spitting rude, but swallowing pretty disgusting? Help!! xXxXx...
A. 2 October 2006: Ah, that explains that then.
Some people don't spit or swallow. They prefer it on their breasts or elsewhere.
Just do whatever YOU feel comfortable with. You are supposed to enjoy it too.... (read in full...)
He told me that if I had a threesome it would prove I love him!!!!!
Q. Hi Im currently in a relationship with a man of 37 I'm 21 We are engaged and living together 2 years. He has 2 children to a women he was married to ten years, they split up 2 years before we met. I have cheated on him in the past and I deeply r...
A. 2 October 2006: Prove you love him?? What a load of shite!
I will never understand the joy of seeing your partner being rammed by another guy. (I am assuming it was another guy by reading your post).
I agree with the others, he has no respect for you if he even ... (read in full...)
Met a man who is 40 (I'm 22)...should I date him?
Q. Hi I need some advice from someone who can help. A few weeks ago on a night out I met a man who I just clicked with. We talked for hours. Later on I found out he is a lot older than me I am 22 he is 40 but doesnt look it. He has been married bef...
A. 2 October 2006: It doesn't really matter what people think. It is an issue at first, but not really an important one.
I am 29, my partner is 17. I love her more than I have ever loved anybody and she says the same about me.
Age is just a number, age is unimport... (read in full...)
To Spit or Swallow? What is normal thing to do?
Q. I need help! When people say "Spit or Swallow" when giving head, what is the normal thing to do? Isn't spitting rude, but swallowing pretty disgusting? Help!! xXxXx...
A. 2 October 2006: It tastes like what you have been eating
(SO I HEAR TOO, BTW)... (read in full...)
Im confused, does he like, me or was the touching up just because of the moment ?
Q. last night me and 3 of my friends went to my house to watch the grudge, and well obiously it is a scary movie so me and my really good guy friend were like hugging, and cuddling really closely. i would move one of my legs like over his legs, and he ...
A. 1 October 2006: Well, if I liked a girl, I would not let her know I did by attempting to finger her when around friends. I would prefer to have a quiet chat and let her know, rather than just touching her up.... (read in full...)
Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?
Q. Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....
A. 30 September 2006: A sim card is the data chip inside a mobile phone, this is what the phone number is attatched to. ... (read in full...)
Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?
Q. Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....
A. 29 September 2006: You can get a sim card on ebay for £1. Mobile networks do promotions too where they send you free sim cards.
... (read in full...)
I don't want ex, but don't want anyone else to have him either
Q. I have been broken up with my ex for a few years now and we have remained friends. The problem is, I dont want him but I dont want anyone else to have him either. Help. Is this normal? Any advice?...
A. 28 September 2006: Yes it is VERY normal unfortuantely.
THe only thing I can suggest is to try to move on with your own life. I presume it was him that ended the relationship, so you have to move on for the sake of your own happiness.... (read in full...)
Is this mess normal?
Q. is it normal when me and my parnter have sex for is semum to dribbel out of me wen he pulls out of me...
A. 28 September 2006: yes, what cums up, must go down.
Well something like that.... (read in full...)
He told me that it smelled fishy
Q. please, i am 15 and my boyfriend has recently just preformed oral sex on me. i feel very embarrassed to say this, but he told me that it smelled a little like some sort of fish or something. he said he could not go on, and that he would give me a ...
A. 28 September 2006: Tell him his breath smells worse, probably because of all the shit that comes out of his mouth. Say, "your breath smells like fart"
Or tell him your other boyfriends don't mind it.
Either way, dump the insensitive barsteward.... (read in full...)
How can I bring him out of his shell?
Q. I recently started living with a family in the city I have my education in, and I have noticed one of their sons behaving very oddly around me. He seldom looks me in the eye, yet when he does, it's intensely and with a smile on his face. I can have ...
A. 28 September 2006: Awww, all this is so cute.
Are you attracted to him? I know the feeling he probably gets. I get it whenever I see my fiancee.
And burning CD's tut tut.
Oh well, I am just away now to sell some copied DVDs, cya around, lol
Best of luck
xx... (read in full...)
Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you?
Q. Any idea how to find out if your boyfriend is cheating on you??? If he is there's no way on earth he'll admit it, so I want to find a way to know the truth....
A. 28 September 2006: Look at his eyes when you ask him. They show you everything you need to know. See if he can maintain eye contact, listen to his voice, watch his body language.
I can pretty much read a persons thoughts by analysing body language and looking into... (read in full...)
I think my ex still wants me!
Q. I really fancy my ex boyfriend still ,how can i get him to like me back , i see him looking at me . . . i wonder if he thinks what if ? ... like i do ...
A. 27 September 2006: Ask him and see... (read in full...)
My gf gets very physical during sex. Does she expect me to do the same?
Q. Right, I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now. All is good, but, Im a little confused about our sex life. There is a bit of an age gap between us, and to my knowledge women enjoy a romantic passoinate experience in the bedroom, but this ...
A. 27 September 2006: Ask her what she would prefer you to do... (read in full...)
Bf keeps finishing with me over stupid little things. He seems to enjoy hurting me. What can I do?
Q. hiya...... well me n my boyfriend have been 2geva now for 6weeks. n i love him but its asif he dosent want 2 see me because he lives 20mins away n still there is always an excuse not 2 see me. and he finshes me ova stupid little things really ...
A. 26 September 2006: I know a girl in the very same situation. She loves him although he completely disrespects her and she finds it almost impossible to let him go.
To me, he seems to enjoy having a power hold over you. He will continue to treat you in this way for ... (read in full...)
I swallowed, can I get pregnant?
Q. hi rite i have been with my boyfriend ages n recently i sucked him off but i swallowed it can i get pregnant ?...
A. 26 September 2006: This reminds me of a joke I once heard.
A young girl is in sex education and asks her teacher, "Miss, Do babies come from where boys put their willies?". "Yes", says the teacher. The young girl looks absolutely terrified. "When my baby comes, will... (read in full...)
I swallowed, can I get pregnant?
Q. hi rite i have been with my boyfriend ages n recently i sucked him off but i swallowed it can i get pregnant ?...
A. 26 September 2006: No you can't... (read in full...)
It was a no strings sex encounter, the fact I slept with someone doesnt make me a cheat right ??
Q. Before my boyfriend and I actually got together,we basically started with screwing each other.We both barely knew each other and so forth. From what i had assumed we were just messing. I slept with him and slept over his place 2 nights in a row ...
A. 26 September 2006: I totally agree woth lostandalone.
This is all about the guys own self worth. I knew my partner was cheating and got a private detective to keep tabs on her. I got pics of her having sex with another guy on many occasions. I destroyed the pict... (read in full...)
How can I bring him out of his shell?
Q. I recently started living with a family in the city I have my education in, and I have noticed one of their sons behaving very oddly around me. He seldom looks me in the eye, yet when he does, it's intensely and with a smile on his face. I can have ...
A. 26 September 2006: I have a feeling he fancies you.... (read in full...)
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