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I feel I can help others with my advice as I have sweated blood and guts to pull through all of the problems I have had in my life. I am the true voice of experience. lol
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My boyfriend farts alot...Is something wrong with him???
Q. This might sound like I'm weird, but my boyfriend seems to fart alot. I know everyone does and it's a human thing, but sometimes I feel very embarrassed with him doing it in public. My questions is: Is he doing it because he doesn't care what other ...
A. 11 September 2006: "not worry about it sure so long as he doesnt start trying to blame them on you!!!!!!!"
Now thats when the fun really starts!
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I really like her, and she seems to like me but she is going through a split with her husband...
Q. Hi guys, I'd like to know if you think I am doing the right thing or not... So...there is someone i've known for a good while but i've got to know her a lot better this year (since i split from my ex). I've realised the more i know her, the mo...
A. 11 September 2006: I wish you luck, you really do sound like a nice guy. I hope it works out for you both.... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is he just being friendly?
Q. i dont know what to do i dont know how to tell if this guy likes me. when we are on our way to college he will ask me what i have lesson wise and when i open my folder he will lean across my shoulder to look at it. he waves at me from across...
A. 10 September 2006: You say he asked you out, what did you say?
I think he does like you. Next time he asks you, you should reply with something innocent but suggesting. Something like, are you asking me on a date, lol?... (read in full...)
I can't tell him I like him because I don't know how he feels. What should I do?
Q. well i went on holiday and met this boy there called ????? and we were really close mates and then we went to alton towers with the group from the holiday and on the coack back he told me he really liked me and then he left 3 days b4 the holiday ...
A. 10 September 2006: Why dont you change your MSN name to something in relation? Something like, "Love is like an alton towers rollercoaster". This should make him ask about your name and get you on the subject of alton towers. You could say you had a fantastic time ... (read in full...)
Bleeding after sex and worried
Q. I lost my virginity a while ago, and my fiancee and have had sex numerous times, but last night I bled a little after sex. What does this mean?...
A. 10 September 2006: This can be quite normal. If you are worried about anything, you should visit your GP.
This is quite common, but any vaginal bleeding should ideally be checked out.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to use this guy to make babies? Trapping him as a father?
Q. I am a confident, intelligent, and independent 21 year old woman. I work full time, i am also a part-time university student (finishing my degree in 6 months). I own my own car and have recently moved out of my parents house and have had no troub...
A. 10 September 2006: WAKE UP!!!... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 10 September 2006: What attracted you to her in the first place?
I am just curious to know, because you dont seem to be able to see beyond her breasts.
I think it is because of your friends why you feel this way, they have made you doubt your very own feelings... (read in full...)
Never been kissed....what do i do??
Q. hi, My problem is im 15 and have never properly kissed a girl. I reaaly want to but i just cant find the courage to do it incase im rubbish or whatever.. What do i do?...
A. 10 September 2006: Kissing is one of those things that comes natural, just try to go with the flow. Kissing only becomes better with practice, it isn't really something you can learn on your own. Some people practice on their hand, but you only really learn from ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend farts alot...Is something wrong with him???
Q. This might sound like I'm weird, but my boyfriend seems to fart alot. I know everyone does and it's a human thing, but sometimes I feel very embarrassed with him doing it in public. My questions is: Is he doing it because he doesn't care what other ...
A. 10 September 2006: There is nothing wrong with him, he is just being a guy.
Guys enjoy a good fart, nothing like it to clear the air, so to speak.
If you are not on the same level regarding his anal acoustics, then maybe a quiet word will do the trick.
If this f... (read in full...)
My dad has just adjusted to my older bf...but now im pregant!!
Q. I recently wrote in about me and my 27 year old boyfriend. My dad is just coming around to the fact but now im pregnant. What should i do? Please help, any advice welcome. ...
A. 10 September 2006: Oh hun.
You need to sit your dad down and explain to him, please don't try to hide it from him. You have been honest with him so far and he may see it as disrespectful if you try to conceal it.
You say he is coming around to the fact of he age, so ... (read in full...)
I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!
Q. My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...
A. 10 September 2006: Let me get this straight, your boyfriend is an asshole that doesn't fart? He is strange.
Does the asshole do anything other than talk shite?
You should say to him, "How can such an asshole let out so much shite without so much a sniff of a fart?"... (read in full...)
The skid marks on his boxer shorts is turning me off. He says it stings to wipe his bum...what is his problem?
Q. Iv got a slight problem here and i welcome any help that i can get.My partner is a wonderful man and is very good with the kids but i am quickly going off him. He doesn't wipe his bum properly because he has loads of skid marks in his boxers! I am ...
A. 8 September 2006: "And with the wipes there should be no more streaking."
Ooh perish the thought... (read in full...)
How can I show them the "real me"???
Q. I can never be myself around boys at first and then when Im comfortable enough with them to be myself I cant be myself because the other me is totally different and then because Im trying to hide what Im really like I end up destroying the ...
A. 8 September 2006: You just need to try to be natural and not put on an act. Be completely yourself, then there is no need for the other you.
If a guy can't love you for the real you, then he is not worth acting for.... (read in full...)
Shall I stop my pill while my bf is away for 6 months ?
Q. My boyfriend's going away for six months, do you think it's a good idea to stop my pill? (Note: I'm not going to be unfaithful to him)...
A. 8 September 2006: Did your boyfriend ask you to come off the pill while he is away?... (read in full...)
Is his request normal ?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to call out my ex boyfriends name when we are having sex. i find this uncomfortable. is this normal? ...
A. 8 September 2006: In short...NO
I could maybe understand if he wanted you to call out HIS exes name, maybe as some sort of lesbian fantasy.
If he wants you to call out YOUR exes name, maybe he sees you as more of a sex object than a partner. It would not surprise... (read in full...)
My god I'm desperate, my daughter physically beats me
Q. Iam a single mum with a 13 year old daughter who is physically bigger and stronger than me and she has started to hit and bully me. Iam a english size 8 and 5 foot tall and she is 5 foot 8 inches tall a size 24 and 20 stone she totally dwarfs m...
A. 8 September 2006: I believed it up until the paragraph regarding the sex. I have seen cases of a similar nature, until the said paragraph.
I dont believe this to be a true case, so I am not going to give any advice. I would only say to go elsewhere if you wish to m... (read in full...)
I really like her, and she seems to like me but she is going through a split with her husband...
Q. Hi guys, I'd like to know if you think I am doing the right thing or not... So...there is someone i've known for a good while but i've got to know her a lot better this year (since i split from my ex). I've realised the more i know her, the mo...
A. 7 September 2006: Yes, we feel as though you are doing the right thing. Its nice that you have fully explained your intentions. You seem like a nice guy, she sounds like a nice girl and you sound like you will make a nice couple.
I wish you both the very best of luck... (read in full...)
I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!
Q. My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...
A. 7 September 2006: Lol, I hope it sticks to his cheek too.
His face would resemble my avatar... (read in full...)
I passed wind and my boyfriend dumped me!!!
Q. My fella has finished with me because i accidently passed wind!I said i was sorry but he wouldn't listen,he said i was disgusting.I really miss him,what shall i do?...
A. 7 September 2006: OMG, even dead bodies fart.
Is he an alien? I am sure he enjoys a good fart just as much as the rest of us.
It seems as though he was looking for ANY excuse to end it.
Next time you see him, pick your nose and flick it at him.... (read in full...)
I really like her, and she seems to like me but she is going through a split with her husband...
Q. Hi guys, I'd like to know if you think I am doing the right thing or not... So...there is someone i've known for a good while but i've got to know her a lot better this year (since i split from my ex). I've realised the more i know her, the mo...
A. 7 September 2006: I think you are both doing the right thing and am glad you are both taking things slowly. I feel you are going to have a future together.
This relationship is building on a foundation of trust, respect and a genuine friendship, surely that can only... (read in full...)
My man of 3 months told me to have sex with another guy.. I dont get it why doesnt he want sex with me!?
Q. Hi, I'm a 19-year-old girl and I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. We haven't had it for a while now - and said to me "have sex with another guy, but not me...." I don't know why he doesn't want it, he refuses to discuss it with me des...
A. 6 September 2006: There are a lot of guys who get off on this kind of thing, but just be firm with him if you are not willing to do this. I don't understand how someone can watch their partner with another person, even the thought of my fiancee with another guy would ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and like a 13 year old - does that make me a pervert?
Q. Ok guys i really need to know this... I'm 16 and there's this guy i like and i want to ask him out but the only problem is that he's 13 ( he's 14 in about 3 months) is this too much of an age gap???? I'm also worried becasue if i do ask him out will...
A. 6 September 2006: No, I dont think you are a pervert, but I think you need to very careful. I would just try to remain friends for the time being.
How does he feel about you?... (read in full...)
How do I make him understand I want to help him with his fetish??
Q. I'm not sure if anyone here has experienced this situation but I figured it couldn't hurt to ask... I'm 22, my boyfriend of five years is 23. I found out last year that he has a panty fetish. I found two pairs which triggered a huge "Oh my gawd you...
A. 6 September 2006: I think it is more common than is thought, many people have fetishes, yet would prefer to keep them under wraps.
I think you are wonderful for being so understanding about it all. He may feel dirty because of his fetish, which may be why he is unwi... (read in full...)
Should I give up?
Q. Im a teen and a boy who i really love ,my ex boyfriend he has said he still liked me and we kissed and i gave him head but he went out with another girl after it :( and while he was going out with her i did it again. And again when he wasn't with ...
A. 6 September 2006: You know yourself you should give up. He told you he fancied you to shut you up, that is downright pathetic. This guy is clearly using you and will continue to do so for as long as you allow him too.
Gather some pride, tell him to f*** off and walk... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill and we want to try sex with a condom - is it a wise decision?
Q. Should I have sex without two forms of contraception? I'm sixteen and have been in a relationship for 5 months with my boyfriend. We so far have used a condom and I am on the pill but he recently found out that I was on it (I never told him) and ...
A. 5 September 2006: How long have you been on the pill?
The pill is a very good form of contraception, but can be overpowered by certain medications, certain antibiotics for instance. Speak to your GP if you are worried about any medication you are taking.
The s... (read in full...)
I can't find where to put my penis when I try to have sex!
Q. Hi, i'm an 18 year old male and twice I have gone to have sex with a girl. The first time I was very drunk and couldn't find where to put my penis but I put it down to me being drunk. But a few days ago I had a girl over and the scene was perfect ...
A. 5 September 2006: Try giving her a lot of oral pleasure first, this will enable you to have a good look at the target, lol. Dont be afraid to feel your way around, I am sure she will also appreciate this method of learning too.
Have fun, you will soon score the elus... (read in full...)
Is he really getting married or was he lying?
Q. A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ...
A. 5 September 2006: I still do not think he is getting married.
I think he hopes to make you think he is so that you will try anything to stop him, maybe declare your undying love for him.
He seems to be on some sort of power trip, playing mind games and trying t... (read in full...)
Ive been told that Im too well endowed, I fear that I wont have a long term relationship because of it!!
Q. i have just come out of a short term realtionship, and although this may not seem like a big problem to some guys it truely is to me.. every girl i have ever been out with has said that i am too well endowed. i know this is true because i have seen ...
A. 5 September 2006: Lol Ponungalungb
That made me laugh so hard, my pepsi came out my nose... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a much older man. What should I do?
Q. Recently I found out that my 15-year-old daughter is is dating a 46-year-old man. She's not planning to marry him or anything; just dating him. However, the 31-year age gap makes me shiver; I fear that this guy is up to no good. How do I bro...
A. 5 September 2006: I met my fiancee when she was 15, I was 28.
She is now almost 17 and I am nearly 30.
We are engaged now and I love her more than anything. WE remained as friends until she was 16, so I respected her age. Her age is unimportant now, that was not ... (read in full...)
We both have partners, but love each other, trouble is he says hes falling for his GF and I know I dont love my BF, what should I do ?
Q. right this is really confusing. i met a lad at christmas time last year. we've been on and off since then. We had two major big splits. The first one was because he had another girlfriend n didnt tell me n the second was because i had a one nite ...
A. 5 September 2006: If you don't love your boyfriend, then finish with him. It isn't fair stringing him along and using him to fall back on should the new relationship not work out.
This has the potential to get messy and hurt everyone involved, especially your boyf... (read in full...)
My cousins torment me...What should I do???
Q. ive always been close to my two male cousins but ever since i can remember, theyve always abused me. it wasnt as bad when we were little but since we've got older its got worse and im scared of what theyll do next. the weird thing is theyre not ...
A. 5 September 2006: If you read your post as though sombody else has written it, what would you advise?
Deep down, you know you must tell somebody. This will carry on for as long as you let it.
You need to be firm, it may cause family problems, but these will smooth o... (read in full...)
We Kissed - Does my brother's friend like me - or not?
Q. There is a man 3yrs younger than me that has told me that I am a fetish to him and that he could never think of anyone better to be with. We've been through the same old thing him telling me he really likes me etc, etc. He's my brothers mate and ...
A. 5 September 2006: One word comes into my mind.
Player.
You are not going to be happy with this guy, at least not until he matures.... (read in full...)
The 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling is gone with my bf.....but that feeling is there with his best friend!
Q. Ok i'm 16 and my 19 yr old boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now and problems are starting to arise. For one, I no longer want to be intimate...Having sex and kissing just freak me out...It's like everytime we do someting ...
A. 5 September 2006: If the feelings are genuine, then I think you should break up with your boyfriend. It is not fair on him, as he will start to feel strung along. He probably has already noticed your feelings have changed and probably already suspects.
Give it time... (read in full...)
How can you start an office romance?
Q. How to start a office romance in low proflie? My manager is fond of me, he didn't approach me, however, he has been sending me lot of love signals + body languages, I know he is serious. How should I reponse to him, when he looks into my eyes, al...
A. 3 September 2006: A lot of traditional Japanese men prefer the housewife type woman, but not all.
I think you should maybe read up on the Japanes culture, I find it very interesting, as I do with the language.
I speak almost fluent Japanese, (mainly through martial ... (read in full...)
I practice kissing when alone... is this normal and do others do this ?
Q. hi, 1)first question: im 14 and never kissed anyone before :( but at night i always kiss my hand and pretend its the person i fancy. is this normal or is there something wrong wiv me? does everyone do this? 2)second question: will kissing my hand ...
A. 3 September 2006: When I first started to learn to kiss, I used to kiss my hand. I was bad though and eventually received a slap.
I decided it was time to move on to the real thing.
P.S I have received a few slaps since too, lol... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 3 September 2006: Yes, but many guys will say they are 8" plus.
If we did a survey based on answers on 16 - 17 year old, we would have a population of donkeys.
This appears to be the differences between the sexes, women tend to take inches off, whereas men add ... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: It would depend, babe or sexy is good if you are together alone. If you are out with him and his friends, call him Donkey or King Dong.... (read in full...)
I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?
Q. well i had unprotected sex when i was ovulating, about 5 days after i started spotting i took 3 pregnancy test but all are negative, and i'm almost a week late for my period. pregnant? ...
A. 1 September 2006: If you have taken 3 negative tests, then you are extremely unlikely to be pregnant.
I hazard a guess that you are very worried that you are pregnant. Worry can delay a period, so take solace from the fact you had tested negative 3 times. Try to rela... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: I like gettin called God, Boss, Lord, Sir.
Lol, just babe will do for me.... (read in full...)
A death in the family and he is not being supportive?
Q. I have just had a death in the family my 6 year old cousin died of an epileptic fit and i am finding it hard to cope with it and when i ask for support from my partner he just says that i am being stupid whats done is done but this death is really ...
A. 1 September 2006: What an insensitive bastard!
At least you see him in his true light now. If he is not willing to give you emotional support in times of need, how can you possibly hope for a future with this guy?
There are many forms of bereavement counsell... (read in full...)
What is the average penis size?
Q. what is the average penis size?...
A. 1 September 2006: I would guess around 6 inches.
Its not the size of the ocean, but the motion of the waves.... (read in full...)
This older woman at work is copying my style, its awful, how can address this ?
Q. Could somebody please give me some advice on how to handle a situation at work, im 25 years old and have my own sense of style, recently i have noticed as well as many others an older women of about 40 is buying cheap copie of my clothes and wearing ...
A. 31 August 2006: Go to work naked, she will soon stop.... (read in full...)
I love him but he says he will never go out with me!
Q. i love my best friend and he knows but he fools around and teases me because i love him. he says he will never go out with me because im 3 grades lower than him. please help i really love him,...
A. 29 August 2006: Well its not very nice of him to say that to you. My advice would be to just stay friends for a while, dont tell him you love him and try to act like you dont care.... (read in full...)
Is he really getting married or was he lying?
Q. A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ...
A. 29 August 2006: To be honest, I think he is just trying to make you jealous.
When is the wedding date?... (read in full...)
The 'butterflies in my stomach' feeling is gone with my bf.....but that feeling is there with his best friend!
Q. Ok i'm 16 and my 19 yr old boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and a half now and problems are starting to arise. For one, I no longer want to be intimate...Having sex and kissing just freak me out...It's like everytime we do someting ...
A. 29 August 2006: I feel the intimacy feelings have gone because of this friend. You are really attracted to this other guy and no longer see your boyfriend in the same way.
I think you and your boyfriend need to spend some time alone, without the other guy abou... (read in full...)
I practice kissing when alone... is this normal and do others do this ?
Q. hi, 1)first question: im 14 and never kissed anyone before :( but at night i always kiss my hand and pretend its the person i fancy. is this normal or is there something wrong wiv me? does everyone do this? 2)second question: will kissing my hand ...
A. 28 August 2006: The best way to learn to kiss is to kiss, funnily enough.
When somebody does kiss you, try to follow their lead, like in a dance, do what they do. Move mouth slowly and gently, rather than rapid movements and dont tense. Stay as relaxed as poss... (read in full...)
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