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How do I ride my boyfriend, without actually having sex?

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Question - (6 June 2006) 13 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2010)
A female , *een_there writes:

Hi there,

I'm a little unsure of something. Me and my b/f have not have sex but have come very close to it. We have decided to as soon as we get some time alone, but until then I just want to know how to ride/straddle him without inserting his penis? Is that possible, if I keep some underwear on or if he has his boxers or even jeans on?

If he was sitting on the sofa and me sitting on him facing him with my legs either side of him isn't there something I could do? PLLLLZZZZ help, am desperate to fulfil some sexual desire! Many thanx x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010):

Me and my boyfriend do this all the time. We both already agreed not to have sex at all until marriage, so we always keep our clothes on. But anyway, when we are alone, he sits in a chair, and i climb ontop of him. Then we just makeout. My bf absolutely loves this, it drives him insane. Then he starts touching my boobs (over clothes).

I'm alittle scared to start touching his d*** but i will probably start doing it soon (well... i'll touch him over clothes)

The first time we did this, it was my idea. We were alone and he sat down in a chair. I pretty much just grabbed him and straddled him. He was so nervous. Later he admited to having a massive b**** as soon as i sat down. Then when we started making out he had another one.

I hope this helps, because sometimes, you don't need to have sex in order to both be satisfied. :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2007):

you caould have him take his penis out, but just put on some thin pants so you can feel it and so can he, he will want you so bad, trust me

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A male reader, Dr T Ireland +, writes (8 June 2006):

Semen can be a very powerful substance!! be very, very careful! have fun!

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (7 June 2006):

hannieseds agony auntAwesome! So glad I could help! Hope everything works out for you! xxx

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A female reader, been_there +, writes (7 June 2006):

been_there is verified as being by the original poster of the question

been_there agony aunthi

thanx 4 al ur help uv been great! im 17 btw!

and by alone i meant were never alone 4 long enough- like a couple of hours max but we want 2 spend the hole day alone together?

but thanx spesh 2 hannieseds!! great help!!

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A female reader, been_there +, writes (7 June 2006):

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been_there agony aunthi

thanx 4 al ur help uv been great! im 17 btw!

and by alone i meant were never alone 4 long enough- like a couple of hours max but we want 2 spend the hole day alone together?

but thanx spesh 2 hannieseds!! great help!!

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2006):

David Lewis agony auntYou can still do this naked, just dont use penetration.

You say you will have sex when you get time alone.

I am not really understanding this. How would you straddle him if you were not alone?

Just be careful, you sound young.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006):

I would like to give a response but I think I could give a more appropriate response if I knew your age. Do you mind sharing this information?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006):

try giving him some oral, do the 69 position. or if you're so worried about the virgin thing, you could also try anal sex (dont know if thats the same or if it makes a difference for you) buy a vibrator, ummh, masterbate eachother. be creative. i hope this helps.

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (6 June 2006):

hannieseds agony auntHey been_there,

I think it's great that you are going to wait until you are both ready & comfortable! I think it's also great that you are looking for alternatives to actually having sex, so you can please each other in lots of different ways.

Probably best for you to both be in your underwear, that way you will be able to 'feel' each other. Just climb on top, put your knees on either side of his hips. Easy peasy. Just gently grind and rub each other with your hips and also this way you can bend down and kiss him and he can kiss you back!

Just be careful, as you are playing with fire here, so to speak! It is going to be very hard for the both of you not to rip your underwear off if you play around like this with you straddling him!

Have fun, and if you both find the desire too great, then have a condom at arms-length! :o) xxx

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (6 June 2006):

hannieseds agony auntHey been_there,

I think it's great that you are going to wait until you are both ready & comfortable! I think it's also great that you are looking for alternatives to actually having sex, so you can please each other in lots of different ways.

Probably best for you to both be in your underwear, that way you will be able to 'feel' each other. Just climb on top, put your knees on either side of his hips. Easy peasy. Just gently grind and rub each other with your hips and also this way you can bend down and kiss him and he can kiss you back!

Just be careful, as you are playing with fire here, so to speak! It is going to be very hard for the both of you not to rip your underwear off if you play around like this with you straddling him!

Have fun, and if you both find the desire too great, then have a condom at arms-length! :o) xxx

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (6 June 2006):

hannieseds agony auntHey been_there,

I think it's great that you are going to wait until you are both ready & comfortable! I think it's also great that you are looking for alternatives to actually having sex, so you can please each other in lots of different ways.

Probably best for you to both be in your underwear, that way you will be able to 'feel' each other. Just climb on top, put your knees on either side of his hips. Easy peasy. Just gently grind and rub each other with your hips and also this way you can bend down and kiss him and he can kiss you back!

Just be careful, as you are playing with fire here, so to speak! It is going to be very hard for the both of you not to rip your underwear off if you play around like this with you straddling him!

Have fun, and if you both find the desire too great, then have a condom at arms-length! :o) xxx

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A female reader, hannieseds New Zealand +, writes (6 June 2006):

hannieseds agony auntHey been_there,

I think it's great that you are going to wait until you are both ready & comfortable! I think it's also great that you are looking for alternatives to actually having sex, so you can please each other in lots of different ways.

Probably best for you to both be in your underwear, that way you will be able to 'feel' each other. Just climb on top, put your knees on either side of his hips. Easy peasy. Just gently grind and rub each other with your hips and also this way you can bend down and kiss him and he can kiss you back!

Just be careful, as you are playing with fire here, so to speak! It is going to be very hard for the both of you not to rip your underwear off if you play around like this with you straddling him!

Have fun, and if you both find the desire too great, then have a condom at arms-length! :o) xxx

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