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Hey all..

My name is Jacqueline and Im 21 and work in a Nursing Home...

My job is what drives me to help people, its my life...

Im in a long term relationship..

I love watching Will & Grace, Charmed, Just Shoot Me and Bwitched..

I love to read anything by Shakespeare or Sylvia Plath and have just recently read Jordans autobiography.. Very interesting..

I dont like people who lie or cheat but It does happen I suppose..

Best Wishes to all..

Jacqueline

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Why does he watch other females dance and not me?

Q.   can anyone tell me why my guy wont watch me when i dance,yet he will watch another female.im a good mover and get lots of attention off both male and female and compliments,yet my guy has never complimented me. why is this?...

A.   7 February 2007: Heythere anon... I hope I an able to help you with your question.. The only one who can answer your q is your boyfriend.. You should talk to him about your concerns and worries he might be able to put your mind at rest. You should confro... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is overly jealous

Q.   Hi every1. I'm really upset. My boyfriend is the only one for me yet he thinks I'm going to cheat. He says when lads talk to me I flirt back and act like I'm with them but this isn't the case! I'm just being polite! An example: A couple of weeks ago ...

A.   21 September 2006: Hey there I think you should read him what you have just wrote us :) Jacqueline... (read in full...)

Any Ideas to reduce in growing hairs ?

Q.   Hi, Does anyone have any easy treatments for ingrowing hairs ? My man shaves every other day to try and eradicate so many, but just lately hes getting quite a few and no matter what he tries he still gets ingrowing hairs around the neck ...

A.   28 August 2006: Hey there anon.. I think your husband should try some medical advice (GP) on his ingrowing hairs it might not be anything to worry about but it is safer in the medical way.. If everything is A OK in that part it might just be that he has a re... (read in full...)

Any Ideas to reduce in growing hairs ?

Q.   Hi, Does anyone have any easy treatments for ingrowing hairs ? My man shaves every other day to try and eradicate so many, but just lately hes getting quite a few and no matter what he tries he still gets ingrowing hairs around the neck ...

A.   28 August 2006: Hey there anon.. I think your husband should try some medical advice (GP) on his ingrowing hairs it might not be anything to worry about but it is safer in the medical way.. If everything is A OK in that part it might just be that he has a re... (read in full...)

Im always putting others first so as to not feel guilty.. but this is ruining my life!!

Q.   My life seems to revolve around guilt and I have no idea how to handle this emotion. I feel guilty about everything from not bringing in the bin before being asked to do so, to telling my boss I can't work because I have to go out. I constantly put ...

A.   24 August 2006: hey there anon.. I think that you should do something for you for once and get some help.. Please do not be ashamed of getting help its better to be safe that sorry.. Goto your GP you could be suffering from an underlying difficulty from ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose my bf but I have drove him away! Any advice?

Q.   i done want lose my boyfriend but i have drove him away help...

A.   22 August 2006: hey there pet you can PM me if you prefer but in order for me to understand your worrries i would need more information.. Hope your ok Best Wishes Jacqueline... (read in full...)

Should I talk to him or not?

Q.   Was seeing a guy for a week. He said he really wanted to have an exclusive relationship, he was really falling for me, etc. End of the week he calls me to say he is going back to his x-girlfriend. Totally blew me away. A week later he emails me ...

A.   17 July 2006: Hey there anon.. Speak to him about how you felt and how you now feel.. It makes a really big difference. I also think that you should set a few ground rules and the first one ought to be "Dont mess with my feelings" that is eaxactly what th... (read in full...)

Shall I tell him I love him?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I recently met this guy, about a month ago. And I got to know him and he's a nice, decent and funny guy. He said he's never had experience with love before. He also shuns vulgar actions and behaviour from girls and guys as well. An...

A.   17 July 2006: Hey there anon.. I think that you should just explain to him your feelings towards him.. He might be feeling the same.. I mean, what guy keeeps flower petals in a kleenex and dates it??? Not any normal guy only the sensitive of the sensitiv... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and obsessed with sex... How do I stop?

Q.   I'm kind of obsessed with sex right now. I go on porn sites and watch live sex cams. What will i do. I really want to stop it. I'm only 14!!!...

A.   9 July 2006: Hey there anon Its nothing to be ashamed of lol.. I understand at your age it would be a very embarrassing subject but the truth is everyone gets a time in thier life when they are totally obsessed with sex.. I think if you are worrying that muc... (read in full...)

Shes suddenly lost interest, how do I get her interested again ?

Q.   she has started keeping quiet when i call on phone and when i asked her that have lost interest in tooking to me she was very proud to say yes. so how do i gain her interest again and make thing get rolling i love this girl and am very sure i dont ...

A.   21 June 2006: Hey there israel I think you should ask her why she has lost interest in you there must be a valuable reason for her choice and if so I would suggest you find out what it is.. I also think you should give ehr some time she will think more ... (read in full...)

Could my partner of 5 years be getting his pleasure elsewhere!!

Q.   Hi there! I need help with my relationship and need to know if I am being taken for a fool?? My partner of 5 yrs has been logging onto chatrooms looking up personal ads and calling chat lines he also has a large collection of porn on his phon...

A.   19 June 2006: Hey there sally2 I think that you need to speak to your poartner about this as it seeems that you are getting more wound up the more you realise the truth.. It needs to be sorted out and he has some explaining to do.. you should speak to ... (read in full...)

I want her number, but I don't know what to say!

Q.   My crush has left school now and I never had the chance to ask her out or get her mobile number. We went out two years ago for 4 months but I broke up with her after 4 months (I'm so stupid!!!). I love this girl and miss her so badly. I dr...

A.   12 June 2006: Hey there pet I dont think you should worry to much about this thing with this girl as it sounds to me that she already likes you and the hard bit is done.. You should text her and see if she wants to go out just the 2 of you for ice cream an... (read in full...)

Fallen in love with my business mentor/friend! But I don't know how he feels...

Q.   Hey I'm a 19 year old female. Now before you try to picture me, let me just clear up the 19yr old thing. I moved out of my house when I was 17. I have my own apartment and a piece of property that I bought in Mexico as an investment. I have traveled ...

A.   2 June 2006: Hey there pet.. I must say after reading your question I kind of got a feel for the type pf person you are... Hard working, motivated, highly intelligent and very optimistic... I understand that you have lived alot and in so little time as b... (read in full...)

Am I gay, straight, bi? I'm attracted to men, but this woman in the magazine...!

Q.   Sexually related question. I'm majorly confused about my sexuality. I'm turned on by men when I see a hot guy, and it takes a very special kinda woman to catch my eye and when I see my kinda girl I get all excited. Recently I was paging ...

A.   2 June 2006: hey there pet.. I dont think that gay people can just turn like that I think it would be obviously something the individual chooses to do though and time would be of the essence.. The individual would have to be really turned on by someone ... (read in full...)

How can I satisfy my guy better?

Q.   hi, i gave my bf a blow job but i felt like it wasnt satisfying enough. He got me going faster and all that which was fine but then he wanted more of deep throating, and i just couldnt do it. I almost gagged once, and that was a little embarrassing ...

A.   2 June 2006: Hey there anon... I dont think that you should be worrying about this if your partner is happy with the way in which youre relationship is going. You say he doesn't pressure you into doing things that you are unsure about things which is brill... (read in full...)

What are the guidelines for me and my new best friend?

Q.   Last night for the first time me and this girl were talking on a personal level and we really got close to each other, so we decided to be best friends. But my question is this... if we are best friends I will need to see her more. She lives pretty ...

A.   29 May 2006: Hey there anon... I think you should give yourself a break and calm down a bit you are getting all panicky and worried over what this girl will think of you and she already must think that you are a pretty cool guy.. I think that if you had ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend treats me like unwanted object.. What should I do??

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and i already dont know if i can trust him. i only get to see him once or twice a week and when he goes out he never asks me to come, and when i call him the next day he says that he didnt get home until 3 ...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey there pet.. You definately deserve someone better tahn the way this guy is treating you.. Every relationship needs trust honesty and friendship for it to work properly but as Shakespeare once said "The course of True Love never did run smoo... (read in full...)

I think I have feelings for my one night stand, should I tell him ?

Q.   I am 22 and single, and very recently had a 1 night stand with a guy from work, only now I have to see him everyday and I think I might have feelings for him. Should I talk to him???...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey there.. Be confident and go with wendyg! Thats brilliant advice and personal experiences are a great help.. I think tho that if you dont want to do the whole email thingy, you could suggest going for lunch or a drink one day?? Whats t... (read in full...)

Worried about private parts.. Any advice appreciated

Q.   would a female be detered by my penis? it is just under 6 inches erect but i cannot pull the foreskin back. i am afraid that i wont be able to have sex properly but i can still have good orgasms....

A.   28 May 2006: Hey there anon.. I think the only way you would know that is if you do it.. But dont be embarrassed about it, I have heard of alot worse.. Best Wishes Jacqueline... (read in full...)

Parents wont let me see my new guy... Please help??

Q.   im in loove with this fela ive known for half year.he has girlfriend but has now left her for me.we get together on nites out an meet then.we want to become serious and have a relationship.as im only 17 and he is older by a few years i ran it past ...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey there anon.. First of all I must congratulate you for your confidence in speaking with your parents about your decision before you actually went and made it, shows alot of trust that you have with your parents.. They should motivate themselv... (read in full...)

Parents wont let me see my new guy... Please help??

Q.   im in loove with this fela ive known for half year.he has girlfriend but has now left her for me.we get together on nites out an meet then.we want to become serious and have a relationship.as im only 17 and he is older by a few years i ran it past ...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey there anon.. First of all I must congratulate you for your confidence in speaking with your parents about your decision before you actually went and made it, shows alot of trust that you have with your parents.. They should motivate themselv... (read in full...)

I like him better when he's not with me!

Q.   This sounds weird but I'm only attracted to my guy when I'm not with him. What's going on?...

A.   22 May 2006: Hey there anon.. The root of your problem could be that you are not sure of this guy and you only let your true feelings out when you are not with him. This is a normal thing though and you should not feel bad for your actions.. Indivi... (read in full...)

I've been told I should be a model. What do you think?

Q.   Hiya This is probably the wrong forum... but... I'm 13 years old and 5 ft 6. I'm a dress size 8-10 and have size 7 feet. I recently was a bridesmaid at a wedding, and since the wedding photos were published loads of people have told me I should...

A.   17 May 2006: Im glad that you now have that opinion you dont need Donatello Versace or Jean Paul Gaultier to show that you are beautiful.. Primark and Top Shop are just as good!! Im glad that you are sensible enough and a strong wildered person to be abl... (read in full...)

My fiance says lesbians turn him on and I can see that it does...I get hurt over this....

Q.   i need advice im so confused hurt and do feel cheated on in a sense. me and my fiance were cuddled in bed when hes stupid fantasy comes up lesbians. i feel really uncomfortable when he always go on and it puts me off him otha than that hes the best ...

A.   8 May 2006: Hey there anon.. You should not really feel ashamed for having these thoughts of being cheated on, I understand that they are your feelings and everyones feelings count.. I can understand your point about feeling hurt and cheated and used... (read in full...)

Girlfriend is being selfish, Im blaming myself... Whats the best option??

Q.   I need to know if this is just something I need to basically put up with, or if what is happening is out of line. Any constructive advice is really appreciated. At the moment, I'm feeling very hurt and I'm not sure whether I have a right t...

A.   7 May 2006: Hey there... First of all I would like to congratulate you for putting up with your girlfriends sudden change of mood.. You must be a pretty reasonable guy.. I think that when your girlfriend comes back from Miami you both should sit down ... (read in full...)

Love at first sight, Is it possible???

Q.   Is it possible for two persons to fall in love w/ each other even if they haven't meet personally yet?...

A.   7 May 2006: Hey there.. Well Yes and No depends on the circumstances I think... It does happen though and it can last but only if the people involved in the relationship want to make it happen.. Jacqueline ... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling in love with my hot lady-boss... Could she ditch her hubby and go gay?

Q.   Ok, I'm in a tricky situation. There is this woman at work and basically she is gorgeous. Trouble is she is married and she is my boss. Well she is the assistant manager, but that don't make much difference! I'm a female too and I am a lesbian, ...

A.   4 May 2006: Hey there anon.. I think that you should just take this as it comes just now..She was probably just having a normal conversation with you and making you feel comfortable.. If she is amrried and loves her husband then you must try hard to move... (read in full...)

We're meeting this Saturday but I don't know what to say, to make him like me?

Q.   hi, i recently wrote about this boy at army cadets and i liked him and you guys gave me some advice into phoning him, i dint phone him but i txted him and i found out that he liked me, and we are meeting this saturday (may 6th) and i don know w...

A.   3 May 2006: Hey there anon.. You cant make someone like you but you can let them know what you are like... Everyone gets pre nervous date jiggers but I can assure you from personal experience aslong as you keep a converstaion flowing about normal stuff you... (read in full...)

Urine is coming instead of semen, Please help??

Q.   my girlfriend enjoys giving me head, but lately when i feel as though i come i shoot urine into her mouth. it is not intentional, and is about the same volume as my semen. what is happening??...

A.   3 May 2006: Hey there anon Dont freak out when I mention this but if you want to get better then it is definately worth a try.. Maybe you should see a Dr you could have a urine infection and when this happens it doesn't really clear untill it has been dete... (read in full...)

What do you do if you have a friend who's very depressed?

Q.   My friend has suffered with depression for years, and he tends to lean on me a lot because I have been through a similar experience. Sometimes he talks about not wanting to go on anymore. He's on the waiting list for counselling, and medication is ...

A.   3 May 2006: Hey there anon.. You are certainly being a strong individual and a caring friend to listen to him, he is lucky there are people really dont have that liberty... What you are doing for him is perfect he needs that special someone there if... (read in full...)

Looked on MySpace and saw how happy he is with his new girl...

Q.   oh dear. i'm feeling like rubbish coz i went on my exes myspace (for sum reason) and there was a pic of him and his new gf on there and they look so happy, he's written some well sweet stuff about her too. i should be happy for him but it just made ...

A.   2 May 2006: Hey there anon I think you just realised how happy they were and it just really upset you as he was your first love.. It is only natural to feel like that though and I hope that you come over this so you can carry on with your new boyfrien... (read in full...)

I've been told I should be a model. What do you think?

Q.   Hiya This is probably the wrong forum... but... I'm 13 years old and 5 ft 6. I'm a dress size 8-10 and have size 7 feet. I recently was a bridesmaid at a wedding, and since the wedding photos were published loads of people have told me I should...

A.   2 May 2006: Hey there.. You should try it and see what happens, you never know.. Just try and be yourself model agencies look for that more than anything and lots of confidence thrown into your work helps too... Everyone is made different but come toget... (read in full...)

His psychologist's suggestions are making ME feel down now!

Q.   My botfriend is now seeing a psychologist to help with his depression and anxiety. The things that the psychologist tells him to do in order to help his moods makes me upset. For example, the psychologist told him to take pictures of me down because ...

A.   2 May 2006: Hey there anon.. You and your partner will argue more because you are both under a huge amount of stress.. I understand what you are going through though so you are not alone. I think that this is the best time to sit down with your partner and... (read in full...)

Fallen for mates girlfriend, What can I do?

Q.   recently i have started having strong feelings for my mates girlfriend, i know i shouldnt feel like this but i cant help it. she feels the same as me but we dont know what to do, we dont want to hurt anyone. help...

A.   28 April 2006: Hey there I think that its best if you leave this well alone.. You might loose your friend throughout this if you go ahead and anything happens with the both of you... It doesnt matter that you dont want to hurt anyone I understand but t... (read in full...)

Thought I loved the wrong guy, Now I've lost my boyfriend, What should I do?

Q.   I thought i was really in love with this 1 boy when i had a boy friend but my boyfrind finished me today and it made me realise how much i actually loved my boyfriend what should i do?...

A.   27 April 2006: Hey there vixie, You should really talk to your boyfriend and explain to him that you want to try again... Maybe on a friendship basis... Explain to him that you are sorry for not giving him the full attention and that you are really sorry for... (read in full...)

I think I'm taking allergic reactions to my boyfriends cum, What should I do??

Q.   I think I'm having an allergic reaction when I ingest my new man's cum. I've never experienced anything like this, so I'm tempted to believe that it's something about him causing my immune system to react this way. Within 3 hours after ...

A.   25 April 2006: Hey there anon.... I think that you have got taken an allergic reaction to this..I suggest the next time you do this to protect yourself with him wearing condoms... I think that you should explain your discomfort to your partner, he mayb... (read in full...)

Have an eating disorder, How can I overcome this?

Q.   I need to know if my paculiar eating habits are due to some sort of eating disorder. After i broke up with my ex i started only eating three small meals a day (i used to snack all the time). Now i sometimes forget to eat, which is something i never ...

A.   23 April 2006: Hey there anon I know what you are going through I am getting help with an eating disorder just now aswell so I undersatnd how you are feeling.. I think the best thing you need to do is get help from your GP urgently this is a mental helath pr... (read in full...)

Still have feelings for my ex, but he is rubbing my nose in his actions...

Q.   I am freaking out! There's a girl (let's call her Liz) at school who i can't stand but is a friend of a friend so she sometimes hangs out with us. I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend who i broke up with in January, he knows i still like him so t...

A.   23 April 2006: Hey there anon First of all why are you letting this ex boyfriend of yours control you? You definately should not let yourself be lowered to that level of any ex boyfriend... Ex boyfriends are exes for a reason.. They once were something and no... (read in full...)

In love with my ex, Will her rebound guy work out?

Q.   I'm deeply in love with my ex and believe she is the one. She was the one who broke things off and I don't know how she feels about me anymore. She is currently in a relationship ( a rebound that I can't imagine lasting but I'm scared that it ...

A.   23 April 2006: Hey there.. You cant decide your ex girlfriends relationships that would be up to her.. I understand that you are upset that things between the 2 of you did not work out but you should take this as a learning reason... She might not have t... (read in full...)

Embarrased about going about with my mum, What should I do?

Q.   I don't really know how to say this without it sounding stupid, but here goes... My mum and I are really close and she takes me and my little sister to town with her quite a lot. I really enjoy these trips but I get really nervous when I pass oth...

A.   22 April 2006: Hey there pet You shouldnt be embarrassed alot of young girls go out into town with thier mum.. Its the done thing when you get to my age pet, (21) but dont feel embarrassed. When I go into town I always see young girls out with thier grand... (read in full...)

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