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writes: I like this guy who is just fantastic. Really nice and smart and funny and sweet.Anyway, I'm not really sure if he likes me but in the past few weeks he has made a lot of effort to see me and speak to me.He is a mate but recently he has been texting me almost daily and emailing me and calling me but he always has some reason to do so - soemthing to check with me or ask me.I asked him if he wanted to come with me to my friend's (he knows my friend vaguely) birthday drinks and he said no, he was busy and had an early start the next day. But then he texts me again a short time later telling me that he hopes I have a good time at my friend's drinks.I don't get him, he is always finding reasons to talk to me but then he has the opportunity to go out with me and he says no.I just don't know if these reasons are legitimate reasons to see me or he is finding reasons to talk to me. Very confused and hard for me to make a move when I don't know if these attempts are legit or not?
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reader, sibaan +, writes (9 June 2006):
 sounds to me like this guy is a bit shy...ask him some where where itll just be you and him and then who knows. kiss him and see what he does.you have to take chances to achieve in life...
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (9 June 2006):
 It seems like he is trying to find excuses to contact you, which indicates to me that he is interested in you.
If he did have an early start, then it is a genuine reason not to go for a few drinks.
How many opportunities has he had to go out with you?
Do you think he knows how you feel about him?
He may feel attracted to you but scared to make a move in case you are only seeking friendship.
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