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I'm Phoebe and I live in the Uk. I'm Single and Love the freedom! I have a bunch of great friends and one heck of a lot of pen pals! I'm fun-loving, sensitive and wish I could stop all this work I'm doing so I could sign in and help everyone!
I love music and I think life is like one big song, the higher you aim and the more harmonies you add the sweeter the melody.
My advice is truthful, and from the heart. I believe everyone has a good person, only some let it show and there are two sides to every story.
I have no problem answering private messages or ones that have already been answered on this site. I would prefer it if no-one had any problems, but hey, you can't have everything!
I have no fancy qualifications, just a big heart and a lot of spare time.
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I want sex but how do I tell my boyfriend...
Q. i am 14 years old and i think i am ready for sex. i have a shy boyfriend who i have dated for about 3 months now, and we barely do anything. i feel left out because the closest of my friends have all had sex; i don't think its fair. i get horny ve...
A. 7 October 2007: Hey,
make sure you are ready. And it's not just your body telling you to.
I know some girls your age who have lost their virginity and regretted it. Make sure, if you are ready you and your boyfriend want to.
You may be ready but he may not be, ... (read in full...)
Can long term friends ever become lovers?
Q. Dear Cupid please tell me I came to the right place. I'm in a situation that I have never been in before. It's verey confusing, but can long term friends ever become lovers?...
A. 7 October 2007: Hey,
your problem is a difficult one but you have been vague with details.
How long have you been friends? Has there ever been any signs that you two could be together? do you both feel the same way? have you ever thought about this before? ... (read in full...)
I don't love my wife, but if we get divorced she can't stay in the country! This is all my fault. What can I do??
Q. First of all, let it be clear that I know I am the only one to blame for my situation and that most women will probably despise me. Nonetheless I want some advice on what I should do. Ok, well im married and live in the UK. My wife is foreign ...
A. 20 February 2007: Hey,
well. I'm not going to have a go, as you'r eporbably already beating yourself up over this....lets see if i can help...
I think first of all you should make sure your wife gets a citizenship as soon as possible then, (i think) she will be ... (read in full...)
I've gone off sex since I had my baby!
Q. Hi i have a 7 month old baby and since having him iv gone off sex im 22 and really worrid about this could you please help me. ...
A. 20 February 2007: Hey,
maybe you've gone off sex because you think you are ready but really, deep down inside somethings' telling you not to because you feel, after having your baby you may fall pregnant again. And, seeing your baby an abortion if you did is now unth... (read in full...)
She finally agreed to go out with me! But how should I interpret this?
Q. I have this friend of which I would like more, I get on very well with her and we often go out with her sister and husband of which are my best friends. I have asked her out a few times over last six months but she is busy or tired. However, this ...
A. 26 January 2007: Hey,
just act natural. Be sweet, be yourself.
She obviously agreed to go out with you for a reason - stick with it and maybe you'll find out why!
Maybe she was nervous before - maybe she was seeing smeone else.....you never know!
Be a gentlema... (read in full...)
Are there definite signs that someone might be gay or bi?
Q. how do you know if you are gay or bisexual?Are there any definite signs?...
A. 4 January 2007: Hey Toriana,
Don't get what all the fuss is about boys? Kissed a female mate just to see what it's like? Have a crush on your sister's best friend? All these are signs that you could be gay. Or you could be 100% straight. Or somewhere in betwe... (read in full...)
Are there definite signs that someone might be gay or bi?
Q. how do you know if you are gay or bisexual?Are there any definite signs?...
A. 4 January 2007: Hey Toriana,
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Period is late, not sure whether condom split! What are the chances of me being pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had sex last week and I am worried as I am 2 days late on my period. we used a condom but I am worried that it split although I didn't hear it. What are my chances of being pregnant?...
A. 2 January 2007: Hey,
I can'r help wondering why, in your problem you don't seem to be thinking, "Why did I do it at such a young age? Why didn't I wait??" But ho-hum, that's life.
The only definate way to be sure if your preganant or not is to take the test! If... (read in full...)
I want to know what a woman wants but am confused! Please help me.
Q. what does a woman really want in a guy? I hear stories that they want a sweet, caring loyal man who they can cuddle up with and will treat them write yet there are woman going out at night getting drunk and looking for sex. So please tell me what a ...
A. 2 January 2007: Hey,
Well, I'm glad you've noticed that each woman wants a different thing in her "Ideal Man"
Your question does cause me to wonder...are you asking this out of pure interest or is there someone you're trying to impress???
Some women are real fan... (read in full...)
He's really popular at school and I like him! How do I let him know my feelings?
Q. ok so theres this guy and hes popular and im not and im too scared to ask him out he kinda talks to me cause he knows my brother but my brothers 17 hes only 14 [same age as me] and im totally in love with him, i cant get him out of my head, i think ...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey,
maybe you could get your brother to invite him round and then maybe your brother could go out or something and leave you anf him there? Then you could talk to him and find out how he feels about you by watching his body language.
I know thi... (read in full...)
Dating tips needed! What should I ask to breaking the ice, when getting to know someone?
Q. Ok, so basically I'm looking for dating advice.. specifically, how to get to know a person? I'm very very shy when I'm around new people on a personal level. I mean, I have no problem chatting it up with people in any other situation, where...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey,
why don't you try asking about thier family?
You've got to feel comfortable with someone to dicuss your family, where you grew up, borthers or sisters, childhood memories, that kind of thing. Then not only are they attracted to you, but know... (read in full...)
When I am dating women, I'm not sure what I am doing wrong? Any advice?
Q. I need some help. I have no problem asking girls out, but I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. For example (I've only been with 2 girls, firs tone was typical high school one which was just holding hands, and I'm 19) the last one lasted a month we ...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey,
it just sounds like you havent met anyone that's right for you yet. Just be kool, be a gentlman, treat your girls with respect and take things at a comfortable pace for both of you.
You'll find someone, you have the whole of your life to ... (read in full...)
He's much older and uglier than I am, and provides her with 'security'. How do I persuade her to date me?
Q. hi. i recently confessed to this girl that i've feelings for her. she said shes confused, dazed and also seems like a dream to her. but the problem is she has a boyfriend already. but she says her boyfriend cannot connect emotionally with her, ...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey,
well, it sounds like this girl is taking the easy road with love. Being with someone she's not happy with but almost definately won't get hurt.
I think you need to talk to her, tell her not to be afraid, love isn't just about being let down... (read in full...)
My friend moved in on a girl I liked. He says he didn't know about us.
Q. hi guys im not sure how i put this question but here goes.i started talkin to this girl ages ago we got to be pretty good freinds then after a while we got more serious . then a m8 of myn that didnt know about me an her started asking questions ...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey Cam,
Well first of all, you have quite a dilema going on here.
I think that if you really liked this girl it probably would have been more sensible to let her explain herself before "throwing her away" like some used rubbish.
You say that thi... (read in full...)
How does one deal with unconsciously saying hurtful things your other?
Q. how to deal with hurtful past incidents? How to deal with unconsciously saying hurtful things your other? How to deal with your other half when they become angry?...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey,
How To Deal With Hurtful Past Incidents:
have a good, long talk to someone you trust about the whole thing. The only way to get it out of your system is to get that nagging feeling away by telling someone about how you feel now and how... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend...but he is gay!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I am in love with my best friend. The problem is that he is gay. He always calls me,texts me and hangs out with me so much which is harder for me to let go of my love for him. What should I do?...
A. 30 December 2006: Hey there,
now - the first typical question is, of course, is it really love? I cannot deny that by your delcaring love for him you must be somewhat attracted to him. I think some of the main reasons you like him so much is that gay men tend to be m... (read in full...)
He's 30-I'm 17. Is the age difference a big factor here? And he does this weird thing with his eyes..what is it?
Q. Well, i am 17 years old. I met a guy at college and we get along really well. I like him alot but he is 30. I sometimes think the way he acts around me that he might like me but im not sure. He smiles alot when he is around me and if he sees me in ...
A. 11 December 2006: hey,
I do think the age difference is a big factor here - I mean, he's old enough to be your dad!!!
You've admitted in your post that your not 100% keen because of this strange eye thing he does and do you really want to get involved with someone ... (read in full...)
I'm very shy and I like this guy! Should I hint to him that I like him? Or should I not do that?
Q. Hey, Im 16 and have recently started full time work. I love it the staff are great and the job is never boring. One member of our staff stands out to me, I really like him. I've had crushes before but this time it feels different, alot stronger. I...
A. 18 November 2006: Hey,
well first off, you don't seem very worried that you may actually...
1.) start a relationship with a work colleague, often not a very good idea as any break ups could be embarrasing and work and social lives are usually wanted to be kept sep... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me insane! Help me!!
Q. ppl i need your help so so much. im at uni, 18 years old, not bad looking. back in may i met the most amazing guy ever!!!!!! i have never ever felt the same about anyone before. he moved to america when we had been together just 3 months. I ...
A. 10 November 2006: Hey,
I think you just fell for him so badley you were just shocked when things ended so suddenly.
Instead of thinking about the things that you miss about him think about what you don't miss about him. The annoying little things he used to do, l... (read in full...)
I'm not a cheater buy my GF thinks I am after she saw I talk to my friends online!
Q. Hello I have relationship about 4 years and before 30 min i broke up because my girlfriend found my messinger online with all my friends. There are some girls but nothing special. I love my girl but she is so jealous she thinks that im a cheater ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
just talk to her, tell her how you really feel about her. You know no-one could ever replace her in your life, so tell her!
Phoebe xxXxx... (read in full...)
My best friend flipped out because I danced with this guy!
Q. If I danced with a guy who asked me then why did my best friend flip out? Right after our dance was over she said "don't tell me u like him." Why wouldn't she let me decide on my own? He really likes another girl but that girl likes another guy so ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
well first off - not to point out the bad in this, but there is a TINY chance your friend could have been jealous. However, now we;ve got that lil detail outta the way, let's think about your problem for a second.
I'd say just check it out... (read in full...)
I keep getting mixed messages from my ex. What should I do?
Q. My bf and I broke up in August and basically had no contact for 2 months..I only saw him once and he only called me once (he ignored all my attempts). Our breakup was primarily because of our distance apart and being busy and dealing w/other non ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
there is only one thing to say to your problem - short and sweet honey. He left you for a reason, move on. He left you, it's his loss. You obviously deserve better!
xxPhoebexx... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends with him! How do I do this?
Q. There is this guy in my art class who I have gotten feelings for. He is athletic, funny, sweet and artistic. We only really talk in that class but I see him in the halls. He is single and so am I. His last gf cheated on him. I wanted to go to ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
I agree with Jadzia 1127. Be friends first, then start hanging out together casually (eg - at a party) then like, meet up somewhere and just hang around the two of you. Really get to know him, he may just fall in love with you. And when you ... (read in full...)
I like this guy I met at a dance, but my friend says he loves someone else! I don't know what to do!
Q. At our school homecoming dance I danced with Adi a guy friend of Paul an aquataince of mine. Adi doesn't go to my school and I had never met him before, but he asked me to dance so why not. My close, friend Natalia is also friends with Paul and ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey,
well first off - not to point out the bad in this, but there is a TINY chance your friend could have been jealous. However, now we;ve got that lil detail outta the way, let's think about your problem for a second. He asked You to dance, He coul... (read in full...)
Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?
Q. i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i ...
A. 25 October 2006: Again, following your follow up (lol) if your friends can't cope with you being happy...what's their problem? If you are happy they should support you, talk to them and find out WHY such a tiny age gap is a problem. Have they ever Tlaked to this ... (read in full...)
My heart hit the floor when I saw my husband's profile on AdultFriendFinder!
Q. I got home from work last night and i was trying to find a wed site i was at the other day, so I went into the "history" part of the computer and found that my husband signed up for adultfriendfinder.com and alt.com, is he thinking about cheating on ...
A. 25 October 2006: Hey,
well, first of all, before anyone can answet his problem, we need to know all the facts. Has he been acting strangely around you? Maybe he was looking on it for a friend? I wouldn't jump to conclusions, that's how fights start. Think of reas... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but I don't think she is that keen!!!
Q. hi im 15 and i really like this girl we see each other regularly and we often kiss but we dont get on well when we go out with each other. i really want ot have sex with her but i dont think she i that keen. Any help please ...
A. 23 October 2006: Hey,
well, first off, you are legally underage to have sex. If she's not that keen, then she probably won't want to have sex anyway. You havent mentoined why you think you don't get on well when you go out with eachother. Are you too simular? Too ... (read in full...)
Since he came back to me he has changed!
Q. My man and I have been together for the last 17 months we have split many times mainly over my drinking but the last time i went on a bender was around 6 wks ago when i found out he posted him and me on a few sexual sites without my knowledge he has ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hey,
first of all, well done about doing something about your drinking and depression. It shows that you know you want to change and become a better, happier person - good for you!
Have you ever thought maybe someone has talked to him or somethin... (read in full...)
They all seem to be trying to split us up...I'm 16 he's 13!
Q. Hey guys im 16 and ive got a bit of a problem. for starters everyone is trying to split me and my boyfriend up because he's 13 and i no that sounds bad but we had a long chat about it and were not going to get too seriouse becasue of the ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hey,
my advice to you would just be to take things really slowly. Does he look you in the eye when he tells you he loves you? If yes, then there's nothing to worry about. If no, then he's probably just nervous, because you're a little older he must... (read in full...)
Wiil the age gap scare this girl away?
Q. i fancy this 14yr old girl. im 16. wen i get to know her more i will ask her out. if she does'nt like me will this scare her away? i mean i'm not sure if she has even thought about me! we only met for 3 hours on a mates birthday so far! but after i ...
A. 22 October 2006: Hey,
no, i don't think it's that much of an age gap. It's two years! My parents are 9 years apart,small age gaps like 2 years hardly make a difference for some couples. I like the idea of a 16 year old boy wanting to get to Know the girl before he a... (read in full...)
How can I show her that I value our friendship?
Q. what can i do to show my 16year old very close best female friend that i care and value our friendship? lots of idea's or suggestions please!...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
I'm sure if you treat her as a proper friend she has not doubts that you value your friendship with her. David Lewis is right, unlike boys girl do notice small things, maybe a friendship card is a good idea, or most girl like those Me-t... (read in full...)
Just found out my Marine BF is being sent to Iraq in 2 days!! I don't know what to do. Please help.
Q. ok here is the deal my boyfriend who I have been with for about a year graduated from the Marines two months ago and said that he signed up for the reserves but they are making him go to Iraq anyway and he leave in 2 DAYS!! I dont really know how I ...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
well first, I would support your boyfriend. It's probably hard for him leaving too. You should be honoured, think about it like this, he's not fighting for the Marines, he's fighting for you - his girl. Feel better?
Act normally around h... (read in full...)
Should I give her space, or try to win her attention back?
Q. I need help... I mean badly. My girlfriend she used to be so into me and she would be like so happy to see me and calls me in the morning to say good morning and now she doesn't do it anymore. She usually smiles alot when I'm around and wants to ...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
a sticky situation. I wouldn't try to win her attention back, not yet anyway. I's tone it down a bit, not stay away from her completely but just give her a little more room. She might be going through something or working through something pers... (read in full...)
Just what happened to our relationship?
Q. My ex and I broke up about a month ago. Things hadn't been good for about 5 months prior to the break-up. I found out he had a myspace account he had been hiding from me and has it set as private so I can't even view it. There were also alot of ...
A. 8 October 2006: Hey,
if he's around other girls, dumped you out of the blue and then can suddenly ditch his commitment ideas I say move on. He obviously can't value you enough to break up with your properly and give a valid reason!I say you take a break from guys... (read in full...)
I have had numerous sexual encounters with a work mate. I would like a relationship, but feel it will end in tears.
Q. I recently worked with this guy at work and thought he was quite good fun but nothing more. Then people kept telling me he fancied me but I thought he was trouble being ten years younger than me and very confident. so I kept him as a mate until on...
A. 7 October 2006: Dear Sharon,
I've learned myself, by personal expierience that work and play shouldn't collide. Maybe this guy gets something out of an older woman playing hard to get with him (that's you acting cool). So when you give in, it's not fun and he loos... (read in full...)
How can I tell this girl that I think I am in love with her?
Q. Hi Im going on a night out with some friends soon and the girl i wanna be with is also going with us. Im gonna make one last attempt to get with her even though i dont know if she wants to be with me. I have told her how i feel about her in the...
A. 7 October 2006: Hey,
no of course it doesn't sound pathetic that you care for somebody and want to be with them. If you want to tell her how you feel you have to know how you feel about her. Are you sure you love her? If the answer to this is yes, we can move forw... (read in full...)
How can I dissuade this boy from moving schools?
Q. please help me there is a boy i really love and he says he likes me to but his best friend is moving schools and she ignored him for a year because she became popular and she never put him on her friends pages on her website and when was wasnt ...
A. 7 October 2006: Hey,
I'm afraid there are two options here:
1.) Let him move, don't do anything and feel really bad about it.
2.) Tell him how you feel.
Now, if you're scared about option 2, option 1 seems most inviting but remember that if u don't tell him t... (read in full...)
I am 12 and my bf is 14. People call him a pervert. What should I do?
Q. im 12 and my boyfriend is 14. he's in year 10 at skwl and im in year 7 at skwl. when ever ppl see us at skwl thay call him a pervert, What shud i do?...
A. 7 October 2006: hey,
you have failed to provide information as to why they call him that. How does he act around you? How does he treat you? If he treats you like dirt then no more said honey, get rid of him! I don't think anyone can answer your problem if we don'... (read in full...)
Scared to let him know how I feel for fear of getting hurt, but I want him to know! What can I do ?
Q. Me and my best friend met a group of lads about 2 months ago. within a week we all felt like we'd known eachother for years. I started seeing one of the lads and im so comfortable round him i feel like i could tell him any thing and he would never ...
A. 1 October 2006: Hey,
I would worry about this problem when you are sure how you feel about him. You say you Think you're falling for him. Let this whole thing play out a bit longer, give it a chance to unfold. When you are sure how you feel, think about tell... (read in full...)
Chatted on MSN for ages, I want to meet up, but we are 2 days away from each other!!
Q. For about 6 months I have been chating to a guy I met online. We have talked on line through msn instant messenger as well as through our phones. I am 17 and he is 19. I have also seen him on web cam so I KNOW he isn't some old pedaphile. We hav...
A. 30 September 2006: Hey,
well - i'm glad I don't have to point out to you the dangers of meeting someone online. And I'm also glad you don't want to sneak off behind your parents' backs. I think the best bet (though not the easiest option) would be to talk to your pare... (read in full...)
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