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Do you think I could be a model?
Q. I'm 14 years old and 5ft 7, I've got striking eyes and cupids-bow(or whatever it's called) lips, i've got prominent cheek bones and know how to pose for photographs. I'm often told I could be a model, but I've got a reasonably big nose, VERY VER...
A. 9 December 2006: The thing I always find when I see any models, is they have something really distinct about them, I guess thats what modelling agencies look for, if anything you have the confidence and speak highly of yourself!
I guess you'll never know until yo... (read in full...)
My bf (late 20's) told me he slept with over 100 women..is this an acceptable amout? Should I leave him?
Q. How many women would you say is an acceptable amount to have slept with by the time you are in your late 20's? My new boyfriend has just told me he's slept with over 100 and it's driving me mad! Should I leave him?...
A. 9 December 2006: It doesn't really mater how many really, I guess its all down to personal opinion, judging by your question I think you find this a little unacceptable?
My ex was in his late 20's and he confessed he had slept with over 100 ladies, at fist I a... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to live together? We need to decide this week!!
Q. Hello people, I was wondering if anyone could give some advice on moving in with their partner? I have been seeing my boyfriend for around 4 months and just before we started seeing each other, he had put in an offer on a flat. I have also just ...
A. 27 November 2006: Coming from personal experience...
I moved in with my fella after about 4 months, from my parents to his house. Was hard getting used to living with him and I was still getting to know him....but 2 years down the line, were still together and stil... (read in full...)
What are some good pet names for guys?
Q. anyone got any suggestions as to what to call a guy? he calls me sweet, hot stuff, gorjus! but i dnt like 2 call him hun or babe, cus they sound too girly! i quite like tiger... but other suggestions would b gr8! thanx...
A. 27 November 2006: I call mine... baby, babe, sweedie but he loves Nitty... Not as in nitty nora, but he's called Nick -- Nicky which kinda then got made into -- Nitty :D xx... (read in full...)
We came close to making love. Do you think I'll have another chance and feel like I did that night again?
Q. Hi. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We're in our early twenties and we are very much in love. I'm a virgin, he's not, and he's been wonderful the entire time about not pressuring me into anything im not 100% comfortable with. ...
A. 19 November 2006: You bagged yourself a good guy there babe, total respect to him to be honest.
Coming from his point of view, I can understand how frustrating it is to already be sexually experienced and then meet someone who is not. That's not a bad thing th... (read in full...)
Caught by bf wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?
Q. Help! I did a terrible thing. A friend of mine told me the guy I'm living with has a reputation for being unfaithful. I didn't believe her because he's been nothing but wonderful to me. But my curiousity got the best of me and I created a fake ...
A. 14 November 2006: By the way honey, you didn't do a terrible thing at all! x... (read in full...)
Caught by bf wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?
Q. Help! I did a terrible thing. A friend of mine told me the guy I'm living with has a reputation for being unfaithful. I didn't believe her because he's been nothing but wonderful to me. But my curiousity got the best of me and I created a fake ...
A. 14 November 2006: I seriously think you should go meet him, act like your this person and arrange to meet him when your away....
Look at the shock on his face, explain to him hes a lying cheat and what the hell was he playing at arranging to meet other women. O... (read in full...)
What does 'whiskerbiscuit' mean?
Q. some one called me "whiskerbiscuit" any1 know what this means?...
A. 12 November 2006: Not really a nice thing to be called though babe! xx... (read in full...)
What does 'whiskerbiscuit' mean?
Q. some one called me "whiskerbiscuit" any1 know what this means?...
A. 12 November 2006: I honestly have no clue what one is, but I know my younger sister uses whats called an online 'Urban Dictionary'
I checked it out and came up with these things, not sure if its what you are looking for, but if you've heard it in a sentence... (read in full...)
Things have cooled between us..Should I send him a naughty text?
Q. Hello, I have been seeing a guy a few months and things seem to have cooled a bit. He is away with work for a few days and I was thinking of sending him a naughty text - for example me in my lingerie. Do you think I should and do you think he ...
A. 12 November 2006: I think he would like it, but I talk from a lil bit of experience here, well my mates experience! I would stray away from the picture message but I would go for a naughty text message, my friend once sent a picture message to a lad exactly in your ... (read in full...)
Is losing one's virginity as bad as everyone makes it out to be?
Q. hi im a virgin and i was wondering to all those girls who have lost their virginity, is it as bad and scary as people make out? x...
A. 12 November 2006: No not at all! Mine was really really special!
I guess if there is anything that I am really thankful for, is that my boyfriend wasn't a virgin and he was so supportive of me! We 'planned' it all really, made sure we used the right protection, took... (read in full...)
To look cool, I told my bf lies about my family. Now he wants to meet them!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 14months and it has been difficult due to his previous relationship but he has finally made a commitment to me. However I have told him major lies about where my parents are from and where I grew up which has ...
A. 12 November 2006: Just be honest with him honey, I found out in relationships that to have a stronge one, you need to be honest. If he loves you, he'll forgive you, just explain everything to him and say you were scared about what his first impression of you will ... (read in full...)
I was wondering if agony aunts get paid?
Q. could you please tell me do agony aunts get paid or is it a service they provide for free,thank you....
A. 11 November 2006: Just a wicked feeling that I can help others out, I guess if I have the ability I would help as many people as I could! x... (read in full...)
Do women act oddly when they find out their bf is a virgin?
Q. do women act oddly if their partner tells them they're a virgin like in my case - me?...
A. 11 November 2006: My first partner was a virgin when I first met him, at the time I wasn't, but I can't say I thought any different about him!
If anything I felt that I had to be patient with him, I waited until he was ready and enevr put him down about it, I lo... (read in full...)
Broke my finger when I punched a wall! How am I going to make the volleyball team, now?
Q. hi my b/f and i got into it really bad and i punched the wall and broke my finger volleyball is coming up and if i dont make the team he will break up with me and my mom will be mad at me . what do i do?? ...
A. 11 November 2006: Right... what do you mean 'got into it really bad'
My first guess is you were having sex? Or were you guys arguing?
Another thing doesn't your mum already know that you have broken your finger? Surely you have gone to A&E and got it sorted ou... (read in full...)
coming of age
Q. im 10 years old and want to know when ill get my periods and need infomason about it who can give me some?? ...
A. 9 November 2006: Hey honey,
I would say initially go talk to your mum, she'll tell you everything you need to know about them and also give you some idea when they will start, when she started hers may give you an indication when.
http://www.ne... (read in full...)
I found a a clumpy white discharge in my vagina! Is this normal?
Q. this will sound weird, but i found something in my vagina that was white and kind of like a booger. i dont mean to be gross, but its the only time i've found anything like that, i dont have my period and havent had any other discharges, is this ...
A. 8 November 2006: Think this sounds normal, if it looks slightly like cottage cheese, then go see your doc, you could have thrush, its nothing to worry about though, I've had it before and it clears up in no time with the right medication. Any funny smells, or ... (read in full...)
What is skinny-dipping?
Q. What is skinny dipping as i heard it from my friends...???...
A. 7 November 2006: Its when you get BUTT NAKED and go swimming! I did when I was at a 21st in Newquay at 5am....BIG BIG MISTAKE! I was sooooo cold, but its funny!
Make sure you don't get caught by the police or anything as you could get in trouble, but overall ... (read in full...)
I've not told my fiance about my one night stand! Should I tell her?
Q. Please help! I have been with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 yrs. We got engaged a week ago, but I can't stop thinking about the fact that I have not been entirely honest with her about my past. I had a one night stand with a girl back in college. I a...
A. 7 November 2006: At the end of the day you did NOTHING and have done NOTHING wrong, so ther is NO reason for her to be annoyed or upset with you, if she leaves you because you didn't tell her about you past then I would be amazingly suprised!
You've not lied to ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to please my bf..without having sex?
Q. Is there another way for me to please my boyfriend without actually haveing sex?...
A. 7 November 2006: The first thing I thought of was oral, but then I really thought about it and came up with alsorts!
You could strip for him, get some sexy underwear on, and tease him till he wants to touch you! (Always works with my fella) I think underwea... (read in full...)
I've not told my fiance about my one night stand! Should I tell her?
Q. Please help! I have been with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 yrs. We got engaged a week ago, but I can't stop thinking about the fact that I have not been entirely honest with her about my past. I had a one night stand with a girl back in college. I a...
A. 7 November 2006: By the way, I envy you for your honesty! I would love for my bf to tell me everything about him, not because I am insecure (I am a lilttle) But you guys must have a good relationship xx... (read in full...)
I've not told my fiance about my one night stand! Should I tell her?
Q. Please help! I have been with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 yrs. We got engaged a week ago, but I can't stop thinking about the fact that I have not been entirely honest with her about my past. I had a one night stand with a girl back in college. I a...
A. 7 November 2006: Right so this has been eating you up for like 4 years?
Its obvioulsy causing you some hassle, I don't see why she should be annoyed at you as this happened before you two got together plus you have never cheated on her, so I don't see what the... (read in full...)
Is a size 16...too fat?
Q. whats your opinion..is uk size 16 to big/fat?...
A. 5 November 2006: No way will he think your huge, honestly I will give anything to have a pair of hips and boobs!
Just get talking to this lad you like first, wear something which makes you feel good, this will boost you self esteem, if its meant to be he'll be... (read in full...)
How can I tell my dad that my bf is 28? I am only 18!
Q. i am 18 and my boyfriend is 28. i know it is a large difference but im so in love, he is everything i want in a partner but the problem is my father is going to be so angry when i tell him. we have been together 2 months now, but i know my father ...
A. 5 November 2006: I'm 19, my boyfriend of 2 years is 38 (mental age of about 15 though)
My Pops, is super cool with it, you know why? It's because, my dad knows he loves me, looks after me, would do anything for me and most of all protect me, if he does everythi... (read in full...)
Is a size 16...too fat?
Q. whats your opinion..is uk size 16 to big/fat?...
A. 5 November 2006: No way, I am a size 8/10 and I'd do anything to put on a few more pounds, maybe then I would grow a decent rack! Why are you concerned about this anyway? xx... (read in full...)
How do I start talking to my friends again when I havent spoken to them for months?
Q. How do I start talking to my friends again when I havent spoken to them for months? Ive been working so hard over the past few months and only saw my closest friends at the weekends. Then the other day I was going through my phonebook and re...
A. 4 November 2006: Easy! Try sending them a harmless text saying that you hope they're good and ask them what they've been up to...
Once you have the conversation going ask them if they want to meet up for a coffee or a drink out somewhere, you know just to catch up... (read in full...)
The boys tell me I am ugly! What can I do to make myself pretty?
Q. dear cupid i am 14 years old and quite shy all the boys say im ugly and take the mik out of me because of what i look like it really upsets me i dont know what to do to make myself pretty im not as ugly as they say but i cant get a boyfriend all my ...
A. 4 November 2006: Hey Nat babes....
You beautiful, no matter what anyone says, ignore these jealous boys and hold you head up high! You knly fourteen, so don't be worrying about boyfriends, you have plenty of time to do that in later life! Enjoy being fourteen... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time getting rid of threadworms...any advice?
Q. I don't know if this is the right place for this.. but.... I get threadworms at least twice a month, I tried taking the pills to stop them, but that involved telling my mum, who made a big deal about it. Has anyone got any tips for me to stop k...
A. 3 November 2006: I have not heard much about them nor know anyone who suffers from them, but I do know what they are. To refresh my memory and get a lil bit more info on your situatuion I did a lil google'n!
http://www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/23068841/
I think... (read in full...)
I'm 34 and don't know how to tell this girl I like her!
Q. There's this girl whom I work with. I'm kinda sweet on her and I think the feeling may be mutual. She is always way more friendly to me than most. Always laughs at my jokes. Sometimes I detect she's a little nearvous around me in a cute way. She...
A. 3 November 2006: No way are you too old for that!
My fella was 34 when he asked me out and I could tell he was absolutley shitting himself! (excuse my french)
I was doing what this girl is doing, laughing at his stupid jokes, being ultra flirty and I am ... (read in full...)
I told my BF a big secret - was it a mistake?
Q. In a relationship 5 yr only 20 now. I kept a secret for 2 years from my boyfriend and I couldnt keep it any longer so I told him. It was not my fault what happened I never wanted it to happen, it involved another lad nothing like it has ever ...
A. 2 November 2006: Honesty is the best policy in my books....
It was eating you up inside, so yeah I think you did the right thing, plus you should be honest with him. I guess you have to deal with the concequences now.
I think you did the right thing though xx... (read in full...)
How can I open up to this girl and tell her I like her? I'm going to see her again soon!
Q. i have been invited toa evenin out wid my mates. im 16. i fancy her cousin who is 14 n is also comin. da gurl i fancy i only met on my mates bday 4 bout 3hours n i say hi or smile 2her wen she walks by in skul.we will be bowlin n eatin. i really ...
A. 2 November 2006: Just be yourself, don't make up any chat up lines or anything, you may find some girls think they are silly!
You seem nice, and not the sort who just comes onto a girl straight away, keep in mind though you've only like known her for about 3 ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to commit?
Q. okay i'm giving up on this guy. We've been together for about 3 weeks now and we were closed to having sex. I would love to have sex with him but when I asked him about being boyfriend and girlfriend he said yeah,someday, I hope. I can't get turned ...
A. 2 November 2006: I think you should play hard to get for a while. I kinda get the same impression as you and agree when you feel that he may be using you slightly.
I think you must understand though from his point of view, 3 weeks is not really a long time, so... (read in full...)
What makes a guy think a girl is pretty???
Q. Hi there. I was just wondering what boys condsider to be "pretty" in a girl. Are some girls prettier than others if they have.. blonde hair, blue eyes, straight teeth , clear skin, are thin- or whatever? What makes them pretty? Do boys care if you ...
A. 1 November 2006: My spelling and grammar in that reply was terrible, for that I apologise x... (read in full...)
What makes a guy think a girl is pretty???
Q. Hi there. I was just wondering what boys condsider to be "pretty" in a girl. Are some girls prettier than others if they have.. blonde hair, blue eyes, straight teeth , clear skin, are thin- or whatever? What makes them pretty? Do boys care if you ...
A. 1 November 2006: This is down to personal choice with everyone...
For instance, my mate finds this lad who she works with drop dead gorgeous, yet I don'y think he's attractove just one bit! Some guys like slim girls, some like heavier girls, is all down to thier... (read in full...)
What the heck does nip mean?
Q. i have been dating this boy for ages now and he asked me if i would nip him what do i do when i nip a boy as i have never done it b4 this is really important help!...
A. 1 November 2006: I've never heard of this, I asked my younger sister who seems to be more 'with it' when it comes to slang, but even she said she doesn't know!
Maybe you should jokingly ask him what the heck he is on about!? xx... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl ......
Q. Ladies. what does it mean when a girl smiles at you and sits next to you even if there are other seats...
A. 1 November 2006: It means she likes you! And she wants you to talk to her, she's set the scene by parking her butt next to you, so talk to her, ask her how she is etc etc! xx... (read in full...)
Do I tell her I am a virgin and if so..how do I tell her?
Q. Hi im a male 19 years old and never had sex, im am with this girl now who I really like alot and shes 22. she has told me that even though i am younger than her she would still like to be with me. and i know she has had a few different partners and ...
A. 31 October 2006: Being a virgin if nothing to be ashamed of! There is so much hype now a days about sex that if you are one apparently your 'different'.
Honestly I think there is nothing wrong with and I doubt this girl will, she seems to like you so I don't se... (read in full...)
24 year old virgin. What will guys think? I need advice.
Q. im 24 and ive never had sex. how lame is that? what will guys think when i tell them? i pretty much have no experience..i need advice....
A. 30 October 2006: lamw = lame
Sorry typo! xx... (read in full...)
24 year old virgin. What will guys think? I need advice.
Q. im 24 and ive never had sex. how lame is that? what will guys think when i tell them? i pretty much have no experience..i need advice....
A. 30 October 2006: That's not lamw at all honey!
I agree with Yos...Personally I think its much lamer to have had 20 sexual partners by age 24 that to have had none.
plus I think there would be a lot of people out there who wished they had it back and made thier f... (read in full...)
I have nowhere to go and no money yet my partner is violent I don't know what to do!!!!
Q. hi i feel stupid doing this but need to tell someone, im living with a woman who i met about ten year ago she has 3 children ,ever since i met her she has been voilent towards me just last night she attact me with a knife and smashed a plate over my ...
A. 22 October 2006: I really feel for you right now, It's a shame really as people tend to think when we talk about Domestic Violence its always results in a woman getting beat up. We need to realise this is not always the case.
I have never been in your situatio... (read in full...)
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