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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards??
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reader, Emmajane +, writes (24 September 2007):
 I think everyone's given good advice so far. I add my congratulations on enjoying your first time, as I did about the same age as you. Be prepared for it NOT to be quite so good every time, as moods can have a lot to do with it.
Oh, and yes, use condoms AND get the pill to be safe. Condoms can come off or rip during energetic sex!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Congratulations on your first time and actually enjoying it its completely normal to be sore afterwards for a few days because your body isnt used to sex the more you have it the less it will hurt just remeber be safe and dont let anyone push you into it.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (24 September 2007):
 i did in my first time, in fact my first was memorable for the right reasons, i say congratulations! because it is frequent for girls to enjoy their first time!
and yes it is normal to hurt for up to a week afterwards, and it'll probably have the same effect for the second and third time aswel, but the more experince you have, the pain goes away!
not that i condone under-age sex, just always be safe - always use a condom and when a guy says it feels different, they're lying! oh and the pill would be a good idea too (if you're not already on it)
hope i've helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Everyone is different, theres no rule saying you cant climax your first time, its just that most people dont because they dont really know what they are doing, what they like or how to enjoy it.
It is fine to be sore for days afterwards, dont forget to stay safe and by the way, ive just clocked your age and you shouldnt really be doing it anyway. Be extra careful
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