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writes:i have recently lost my virginity and i still bleed after sex. i have had penetrative sex about 3 times now and there is still alot of blood. is there smfin rong with me?
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (19 September 2007):
 hi hun
no there is nothing wrong with you some people dont bleed at all and some people bleed alot. i was like you the first 6 times i had sex i bleed but it eases up and stops. dont worry about it honeslty there is nothing wrong with you at all.
oh and i was embarresed when it kept happing to me but like i said it wil stop and dont be embarrased by it its only natural.
take care hun and cheer up!
xx
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (18 September 2007):
 you're perfectly normal. luckily i never bled during my first few years of being sexually active but some girls i know have continued to bleed all their "sex life". so unless this causes major problems for you, it shuold clear up but if not, don't panic you may just have a weak cirvical opening, but it should get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): Maybe you haven't given yourself time to heal properly down below. I had this problem too and my friend said to me "well if you had a cut on your arm or something, it's not going to get any better if you keep rubbing a penis against it!" Lol I guess that's very true. My advice would be just to leave it a little while before you have sex again, then you should be fine.
xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): No, you are okay. When you lose your virginity, your body instantly has to adjust to the act. Every body is different, and it is completely normal for your body to sort of "freak out" during the first couple of times. Just because you have sex the first time doesn't mean that your body instantly adjusts. Sometimes it takes a while before you are able to get used to it. Don't worry!
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