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I've had my share of relationships. And quite a few odd ones at that. I love to give advice when I have been in a similar situation and feel I can help out some. I feel my most common advice is to COMMUNICATE. A lot of people write in about a partner they have been with for years and ask how to tell their partner such and such. A relationship needs communication. Be open and honest always.
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I regret hanging up on him and now he wont call me. I want him back!
Q. Hey please help. I broke with my boyfriend and we have had our fights. We had a very big one day. We called each other names and that is so not me. He called me after the fight, but of course i hung up on him and i regret it. Now he doesn't call ...
A. 15 May 2008: I don't know the guy so I can't say how he will react. If he doesn't answer the phone then yeah leave a voice mail for him. If he doesn't call back then maybe he needs more time to get over it.... (read in full...)
So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time.
Q. So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time. I want to do something this summer. I've never had a G/F, and I really don't care for one, but i always think it would be nice to have someone sweet te be there in your...
A. 14 May 2008: Saying hi is nice. What made you approach this one particular girl? That is what you say. You esentially tell her why you are approaching HER out of every other woman in that place. You don't have to be creepy about it. Maybe say, Hi, how are you? I ... (read in full...)
I don't have kids yet, but I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom.
Q. I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom. I've been working all my life. I don't have kids yet, but planning to soon. I heard it gets lonely. Should i do it?...
A. 14 May 2008: That is what I used to want to be, just a stay at home mom. My sister was a stay at home mom for 2 years before getting back into the work force. I was told you get very bored and the monotony of it all gets overwhelmingly depressing at times. But ... (read in full...)
I regret hanging up on him and now he wont call me. I want him back!
Q. Hey please help. I broke with my boyfriend and we have had our fights. We had a very big one day. We called each other names and that is so not me. He called me after the fight, but of course i hung up on him and i regret it. Now he doesn't call ...
A. 14 May 2008: Why do you feel you are supposed to be mad? And why can't you let it go? As someone who has messed up quite a bit in her life from getting mad you should trust me- call him. Don't ruin whatever future you could possibly have because of a fight. And ... (read in full...)
It was anonymous, but I feel kinda guilty and scared that he'll know it was me, did I do something awful?
Q. There's this website where you upload pictures (photoblog). A guy I used to be friends with, a long time ago, had written a lot about me, 'cos he was obsessed with me back then. I had written stuff to him there also, because he was a friend of mine, ...
A. 12 May 2008: First off it shouldn't interfere with your personal life. What some loser has written on his page about you should have no affect on you or your boyfriend. It is clear that it was in the past and you have/had no interest in him, end of story. Even ... (read in full...)
So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time.
Q. So here is me. I just sit on my bottom, doing nothing at home most of the time. I want to do something this summer. I've never had a G/F, and I really don't care for one, but i always think it would be nice to have someone sweet te be there in your...
A. 12 May 2008: Get a job. Get a hobby. Join a gym. Volunteer. Go out to malls or book stores or anywhere. Clubs are not the place to look for a sweet, caring person to be in your life. More like a one night stand type place. Or thats what girls assume a guy is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not believe me about the person who harasses me by phone!
Q. ok this is the thing, my ex broke-up with me because he wanted to help a friend and let her stay with him and I freaked. I said if some girl was going to stay with him i was gone! so he broke up with me and lied about it for a month. after i foun...
A. 11 May 2008: The question is why is he choosing this girl over you? He has known her 3 months and is letting her needs come before yours? And believing her over you? Not sure about this one. I couldn't handle that at all. Why not just send the emails to him? And ... (read in full...)
I want to date and gain more experience, when should I lose my virginity? It's stigmatising me!
Q. I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. Without getting into too much history, I've had one boyfriend. We're not together anymore and the furthest physically we ever went was kissing. I'm a fairly sexual person, having read romance novels for most of my l...
A. 11 May 2008: No. You should have sex when you are in love, not just to lose your virginity cause some attractive guy wants you physically. Chances are a lot guys would have sex with you but why would you want that? It isn't something to just get over with, ... (read in full...)
I've trouble finding a boyfriend - what am I doing wrong?
Q. I have the worst trouble finding a boyfriend. I am almost 21 and still single (yeah very pathetic hahaha!) I just want to know what I'm doing wrong. I can be shy but I'm not as shy as I used to be. Is there any fool proof ways to get a guy? And is...
A. 11 May 2008: It is not pathetic. I'm around your age and single. You don't need a boyfriend. You need to be happy with your life and be able to be happy being alone, it is the absolute truth. Being with someone when you are not able to be alone makes you put up ... (read in full...)
I want to trust my new girlfriend, I don't want to get hurt though
Q. I need help in my relationship, because I keep worrying bout getting hurt again and I know my new girlfriend will never hurt me. I want to let her into my heart and break down my walls but how do I do this, please help before its to late we dont ...
A. 11 May 2008: Explain it to her. She will tell you she would never hurt you but just say it isn't easy to let your guard down and it will take time. It isn't like you are doing it on purpose most likely, I wanted to break down my walls for my ex but just couldn't ... (read in full...)
He was acting like a doormat but now things have changed and I feel like a doormat! Why?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. I know things change as you become more comfortable with each other, but it seems he has totally changed! He was the type of boyfriend that if I told him to jump, he would say how high. If ...
A. 11 May 2008: Same thing I went through. My boyfriend was so sweet and would never argue, called me back if I hung up, etc. I broke up with him for a few days, not sure why cause it was over something stupid, probably cause I liked how much he missed me and the ... (read in full...)
I feel sick at the way he behaves
Q. Is it ever ok to be in a relationship with a man who uses and sells drugs? Or torments your daughter with names? Or is signed on at many dating sites with pics you took of him on vaca even though he doesnt log in often? Why do I need valid...
A. 11 May 2008: Good job with leaving him, you have so much strength and whether it matters or not to you, I am very proud! The fact alone that he uses and sells drugs is not a safe environment for your daughter to be in. Ok and that he torments her with ... (read in full...)
Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?
Q. Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...
A. 11 May 2008: I'm not a teenager anymore but still to this day, yepp. At first they are worried about it but once they get comfortable with whoever they are with then they kind of don't worry as much and may let it go. Some girls will always shave/wax because ... (read in full...)
Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?
Q. I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...
A. 11 May 2008: You may get some very mean answers from your post. The only thing I disagree with would be the westerners part. There are bible lovers or whatever you called them EVERYWHERE. I agree with you. I have always wondered why someone would follow and base ... (read in full...)
What sort of things will make a girl "horny"?
Q. My girlfriend claims she's never been "horny" which both kinda slaps me in the face and worries me. Firstly cause, we've done stuff (not sex or oral but stuff) and if none of its made her horny then i dunno what will. Can you help in that asp...
A. 11 May 2008: Ha well I may be the wrong person to ask, many things do for me. Kissing my neck does it. Just making out always does it. Um other things I can keep to myself. So you are saying she has never been horny? Like ever? She is either lying to you, she ... (read in full...)
I know the relationship is really unhealthy but I don't have the strength to leave!
Q. well i dont even really know where to start. me and my bf have been dating for 15 months now. i am currently ending my first year in college, and about to go home in one week. he is still in high school, a senior, and lives back home(i go to college ...
A. 10 May 2008: Yes I have been in this same relationship with this exact guy. Not literally of course. I know it is not what you want to hear but you need to leave him. Truthfully, he doesn't care. He seems immature as well. To be so rude to you when you are sad ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!
Q. please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...
A. 10 May 2008: Tsk tsk. From the sounds of your last post you are giving up ! You are talking to the wrong girls if you say they don't want love and only care about how you pick them up. ... (read in full...)
My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?
Q. hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...
A. 10 May 2008: I love dogs. You said you love animals and dogs. Imagine Lucy playing outside and another neighbor's dog just comes over and attacks her. What would you do? Most likely call the police on it. I understand where you are, my dog did the same thing. ... (read in full...)
Where did I go wrong? Why doesn't he respond?
Q. where did i go wrong? should i give him time or just move on? I recently start dating this guy, we get on really well. I felt that we know each other for sometime. We went for a drink then decide to go back to mine and watch a DVD. I suggeste...
A. 10 May 2008: Move on. He isn't taking your calls and told you you freaked him out basically. Also you did say he wants nothing to do with your apology. Just let it go. Trying to keep talking to him makes you seem desperate and you apologized so you can let it go ... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 10 May 2008: I really doubt this is real so I will give you advice I would never give. Why not be a prostitute yourself? You will not only feed your fetish but you get paid too ! It isn't much different than getting sperm from random guy's condoms, you can get ... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...
A. 10 May 2008: Well he's shallow so don't bother with him anymore. But definitely wax or shave then casually let him see somehow. He will see it is a fixable problem and know he has messed up by leaving you. Make sure you act like you don't care he is flirting ... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 10 May 2008: Why is it you feel ashamed? Is your family very religious or were you brought up that sex is wrong in some way? Maybe sex was never mentioned at all? Well this probably won't help you feel less ashamed but don't hate yourself! It is so so normal. I ... (read in full...)
He's changed, what can I do to get him back to how he was?
Q. Hi, Please help I am deeply crazy about my boyfriend, and i know he cares about me too. However he's very jealous and gets angry very quickly, it's the reason why we have been not together. He always comes back, i know he loves me, but why does he ...
A. 10 May 2008: Ok he has the key signs of an abuser. I know this from experience so trust me. Even if he hasn't done anything yet it will start after a certain period of dating or after marriage, verbal or physical abuse. Being controlling, overly jealous, and ... (read in full...)
Self improvement plan.Will it work? How do I carry it through?
Q. Here's the situation: I’m 16 overwight and painfully shy, especially of girls. I want to lose weight, shyness and get a girlfriend. This summer I plan to do intense exercise, eat more healthily and go to the mall and start talking to random girls. ...
A. 10 May 2008: It is a great plan! However I don't know that I would advise asking random girls out at the mall. Being rejected actually hurts a lot and doesn't really get easier, it would just keep bringing you down. Get to know a girl a bit first before just ... (read in full...)
I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!
Q. hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i ...
A. 5 May 2008: Travel to a few casting calls before just picking up and moving somewhere. They have a lot of them, you just need to look it up online or sometimes in the back pages of magazines. Go to a few and see what they think and if you have what it takes ... (read in full...)
What is the strangest place to have sex?
Q. Sorry for all the questions on here but I enjoy hearing everyone's comments on things, it makes you look at everything so much differently. The world is so diverse it is amazing. But as for my question. Where is the wierdest place any of you...
A. 5 May 2008: Oh wow I have a great one. In the lake just a few yards from his parents... Good times.... (read in full...)
All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!
Q. Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...
A. 5 May 2008: Hmm I haven't checked this in awhile and see quite a few responses and updates! Well to explain myself, you come off as a snob, this was my explanation for people not approaching you. And obviously you are insecure since you have to come on here as ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to reverse his image of the "needy" girl, as I think I may have scared him off!
Q. I met this guy about 4 months ago. He lives 2000 miles away, but was in town for the weekend and we met, but did not hook up. We exchanged numbers and began to get to know each other. I flew to see him twice already, and the last time(about 2 week...
A. 4 May 2008: I have been where you are. Okay, so don't call him. If you must then don't do it often. If he wants to talk to you then he will. I don't know that you scared him off but maybe he doesn't want something serious like you do since he stopped calling so ... (read in full...)
I feel horrible and ugly due to my ex cheating. How can I improve my self esteem?
Q. I know this will be silly- but it is how I feel right now! I found out that my ex-boyfriend cheated on me the whole time we were together. He cheated on all his previous girlfriends as well. I also found a mail he wrote to his friend two years ago ...
A. 3 May 2008: Ok listen, some guys are assholes. Some guys will cheat on anyone, no matter how they look. Halle Barry was cheated on. Uma Thurman was cheated on. Whoever Jude Law was married to (she is gorgeous) was cheated on. Reese Witherspoon as well. It has ... (read in full...)
Is it too soon for a new relationship?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with after 8 years, he was treating me like dirt towards the end when he felt like it. I got talking to this other guy and he seems nice. It is finished with me and my ex just 2 weeks, should i meet up with the other guy?...
A. 3 May 2008: Don't jump into another relationship with this new guy, it is too soon. By all means talk to him and hang out, but don't immediately go into another relationship after you just ended an 8 year one. You need time to heal and make sure this new guy ... (read in full...)
I wrote the girl of my dreams a song. Is it okay that I give it to her?
Q. I wrote the girl of my dreams a song and i plan on giving it to her today. I am really nervous that she is going to think its lame and think i am gay or something. She knows i am writing her one but she doesn't know it is about how great of a ...
A. 3 May 2008: How sweet ! Any girl should love that. Unless maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you. If she doesn't she is a fool and you can call me ;) Good luck !... (read in full...)
My girlfriend called me a freak! Will I ever have sex?
Q. my penis is 10 inches long and when my girl saw it she left me and called me a freak will i ever have sex...
A. 3 May 2008: Why would you want to be with someone who called you a freak? You aren't a freak. Some girl will love you for exactly as you are. And apparently 10in is a great thing! Scares the crap out of me, but if you are in love then it won't matter. Be happy ... (read in full...)
How can I find out a guys email address that I really like?
Q. Hey i have been liking a guy since long now, and i am getting frustrated, and i want to take this to another level. I would like to know if there is any way i can get to know a guys email if i know his name. The university he studies, his state and ...
A. 3 May 2008: I'm not sure about finding his email but what about myspace? Or facebook? Not sure about how popular it is there but here you can find anyone on the site if you know their university or name even, if he is on the site. I'm not sure of a way to just ... (read in full...)
She never says, 'I love you' back to me, am I being paranoid?
Q. This is a quick question. When i tell my gf i love her, she always replies with only "you too". Does she really mean it or am i acting too paranoid?...
A. 3 May 2008: Well has she ever said "i love you too"? Or does she ever say I love you first? This may not be what you want to hear but in my past I always said "you too" when I didn't feel the same and couldn't bring myself to say it. This may not be her case ... (read in full...)
All guys adore me and find me the hottest, but would not approach me...are they totally crazy?!
Q. Well i am 19 years old and i am studying in this highly prestigious university in the United Kingdom. I am the most popular girl in class and my classmates think that i am a stuck up, attitude carrying show off. All this is said behind my back. ...
A. 3 May 2008: Oh wow. This makes me sick. Get over yourself chick. For real, you are the stereotypical rich bimbo who thinks everyone likes her when really they all talk about her. I agree with Brooke 100%. Everyone loves you and is friends with you yet they talk ... (read in full...)
I was so unhappy I thought I had no choice but to split up with him. Should I write him a letter explaining why?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of nearly a year on saturday. I did this because I felt we had been getting more and more distant. He would ignore me and seemed more interested in going to the pub than spending time with me. Just before we split up he ...
A. 3 May 2008: Oh wow if I had known all of that I would have never gave you that advice I did, sorry. I totally agree with what you are saying and am so glad you see it that way. Love yourself first and don't put up with anything less than what you deserve, good ... (read in full...)
I was so unhappy I thought I had no choice but to split up with him. Should I write him a letter explaining why?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of nearly a year on saturday. I did this because I felt we had been getting more and more distant. He would ignore me and seemed more interested in going to the pub than spending time with me. Just before we split up he ...
A. 2 May 2008: Be completely honest with him and share everything you are feeling. Explain why you ended it and what was going on in your head. Don't wait for him to say something to you first because you are the one who ended it, in his mind you want nothing to ... (read in full...)
I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!
Q. My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...
A. 29 April 2008: I may be wrong but I don't feel you were so out of bounds. Most of the time when people blow up like she did was because they were doing something they weren't supposed to be doing and to avoid the blame they switch it around and make it something ... (read in full...)
Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?
Q. Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...
A. 29 April 2008: See I don't want to judge based on how I believe but I guess this is how it is going to come out. I don't feel you should have sex with someone you met online that you do not know. Yes, anytime you pay money for sex is prostitution. I'm not sure it ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to make me jealous? Does he like me? I'm really confused!
Q. I really like a guy in my year at college we are both 18. im not sure if he feels the same i am getting mixed signals, one time he defended me from someone who was about to hurt me and then says "if he had touched you i would have punched him!" then ...
A. 28 April 2008: Sounds like you two are good friends to me. Like the previous poster said, get him alone and find out. Ask if he wants to go out sometime. Maybe if he offers to pay for you then that is your sign. From what you said though I don't think he is ... (read in full...)
How do I give him oral sex without teething him? I also get tired!
Q. How can I give really good blowjob, but not have to be down there for a long period of time? Last time I gave my boyfriend a blowjob it took forever for him to cum, and my teeth accidently kept touching his penis. We've been dating for a two years ...
A. 26 April 2008: There are a few things you could do. Well first of all, my ex always liked a little teeth, not biting of course but a little was ok. When you get tired, lick his penis. Also use your hands. Another alternative is to 69. It switches it up a bit and ... (read in full...)
Why are all these catty bitches getting on my sh*t about my boyfriend? He said we'd get back together!
Q. okay, well my problem is that me and my bf broke up like 2 weeks ago, but thats beside the point. He told me that once he gets school and baseball fixed (we broke up due to him not focusing on school work and feelings did change for us) we are 14.. ...
A. 26 April 2008: It means they are teenage girls. All girls gossip. Most likely there is no truth to it. Why would he say you would get back together if he likes another girl? He would probably just date her... right? Or that's what common sense would tell us. ... (read in full...)
This is the BEST and WORST situation EVER!!
Q. Ok, last year my dad met a woman...She is a really nice woman and I have no problem whatsoever with her. And they moved in with is. She has a daughter 1 year younger than me, and she is pretty much drop dead gorgeous. My dad and her mom are not ...
A. 26 April 2008: It is kind of sweet. You did not grow up with this girl and she is not even technically your step-sister so don't feel bad at all. Explain to your father that you like her a lot to find out what he thinks. Why would he freak out on you? If you think ... (read in full...)
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